Virgo w/ Cancer/Gemini?

hey, if she can be intelligent, funny, and has high hopes, and goals then why not?. I'm not biased! 😛

also I like a woman who harbors no ill-will, and is honest. Fair play is a must as well becuase I don't like underhanded sneaky people.

Geminifox, I am hearing from many people that we and Virgos are not a good match at all, and since I am falling for one and I am seriously thinking for a long time relationship with him, this scares me. I felt from the very beginning that we are very close in terms of our way of looking at things. It's like, he is incredibly speaking of my mind. His whole personality, the things he cares and values, are like a dream come true for me. I could never have thought that I would meet someone like him. He has all the things I want in a guy. We got along very well so far. But today, we were having a conversation in a group and I felt like I made him upset. I was talking a lot and keep cutting him in mid sentence, even though I immediately realized what I was doing and apologized, I felt that he was thinking like "What the hell?.." I am always a bit excited and agressive in heated discussions, so it was just my nature. But this might have scared him. And scaring him scared me. I know I am more reserved and observant than many Geminis, maybe because I was born towards the end of the sign, people tell me all the time that I can not be a Gemini. I am extremely emotional, attached to my past and my home, I am very orderly and tedious, I watch my spending and save a lot, I am extremely loyal as well and I like to do lists, plan & analyze things. I have never checked out my risings etc., I don't know how to, but I feel that I can be a better match to my Virgo than a regular Gemini. On the other hand, whenever my Gemini-self surfaces, I get scared that it may not work.