Virgo woman and Taurus man
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by sheztina on Wednesday, July 3, 2013 and has 15 replies.
Hi does anyone have any advice, I am a virgo woman in love with a taurus man. This is the first man I've gotten close to in over 5 years.We have to keep it secret because he is my moms carer.But his laid back attitude and silences drive me insane and of course I analyse everything! Any other virgos dated a taurus?
Firstly, thank you for you feedback! I will answer your question, then if you dont mind ask a few myself? He is my moms end of life carer, so what happens after that I dont know, which is why I am trying(but failing hopelessly,lol) to take it steady.So as a taurus,interested in someone are these good signs...A slight wink, a secret touch, saying you miss,want,need me.Keeping your goatee as I said I loved it! You see I know he is married to his job and he does work very long hours, 12 days in a row from morning till late at night, only have 2 days off which he spends with his daughter.So do I just be patient and wait for him to make all the moves? You cannot imagine how much I appreciate you taking the time to reply 
sorry one last thing, besides patience, silence whats the 1 thing that makes a taurus think you could be the one?
Thank you so much for your insight, I know I just need to be me, but the times I dont see him or hear off him kills me, but you have taught me to just sit back and enjoy the ride. Thank you so much for your words x
Hey Op I'm a Virgo woman dating a Taurus male and from my experience RomancingA's advice is pretty on point. I'm pretty quiet myself being a Virgo with moon/asc in Taurus and I find that my bull and I have the best silent time together and it's NEVER uncomfortable silence. Sometime it feels like we're communicating telepathically so there's no need for actual words. (weird I know) But for example we'll be riding silently in the car and I might think man I want to touch him or even I'm hungry and he always responds to whatever I'm thinking as if he's reading my mind and vice versa. I think the silence we can share is a welcome relief from our hectic lives...sometimes if feels good just to be silent with someone.
You might also consider that the health of your mother provides some hesitation on his part. I know it would make me tread lightly with a new partner, knowing that that person has the health of a parent to be concerned about. I wouldn't want to distract that person from the more important issue going on in their life.
Strong, silent, slow, chivalrous, work-a-holics describes Taurus men to the T! BUT they make noticeable space in their life for you as things progress, you just have to pay attention and be patient...if it's worth it to you.
You might also consider that the health of your mother provides some hesitation on his part. I know it would make me tread lightly with a new partner, knowing that that person has the health of a parent to be concerned about. I wouldn't want to distract that person from the more important issue going on in their life.
Strong, silent, slow, chivalrous, work-a-holics describes Taurus men to the T! BUT they make noticeable space in their life for you as things progress, you just have to pay attention and be patient...if it's worth it to you.
Posted by RomancingA
we also really enjoy the little moments like having a cup of tea with you in the kitchen....listening to you talk about the day.
This is so funny that you said this... my bull and I have a morning mint tea ritual. Even when we're apart we have mint tea on the phone together. He's Taurus sun/Aries Venus...craziness
Posted by RomancingA
Wow....I'm Aries/Taurus Cusp with Aries venus........craziness indeed.
I would say that the tea is pretty much almost a daily ritual as well. Talking about our day in the kitchen is mandatory though. It's like the "meeting place"....and I truly enjoy those little moments.
Like......how when I set down in the family room with some coffee or tea to read in the morning after he's left....I see folded pages in National Geographic or whatever other magazine is on the coffee table. He tags pages of articles he knows I'm interested in.....that really makes me melt lol.
Nerdy...I know.
That's almost creepy...for like the first few months we dated when he came over we'd spend hours in the kitchen just talking (and making out). I used to wonder if he hated my living room decor because he'd never go in there. I swear we only recently started hanging out in other rooms in my house and we STILL spend hours in the kitchen talking... WTF it that! I don't know much about Aries, I guess I should do some research. How do like dating a Virgo? Sometimes I fear I might be too boring (quiet and without drama) and nice (I tend to dote) for his Aries Venus. But I guess my insanity balances that out...lol
I do the same for my bull; like I'll save articles or point out items that I know he's super interested in and he always replies See this is why I love you so much... so cute
Looks like I need to start drinking tea or coffee!lol.Thank you both
Thanks for all the comments! I have decided to be go with the flow and see what he decides. I suppose I'm trying to be less analytical and more breezy!lol.I just hope he's worth it in the end!
Good luck OP! The bulls are really worth all the fuss and there's just something about a bull and a virgo together that just feels natural. Imo of course!
@RomancingA you sound just like my bull. Its quite eerie :-)
@RomancingA you sound just like my bull. Its quite eerie :-)
So I agreed to be breezy and now havent seen or heard off him since Monday! I have text him everyday (I made a promise to him that I would,after having a pissed off day a few weeks ago I didnt text him and found out he'd had a bad asthma attack)but I havent today as the gremlins are beginning to win and I cant understand why he hasnt even sent one text! Please advise me before I crack up!!
I know I have to stop being such a virgo!lol I am trying. I have given in and sent him a text but after thinking it through I know he had ALOT of crap going on the beginning of the week and that makes him shut down. As you can imagine, being a carer he cant let his personal life interfere with work, so his alone time is the only time he has to dwell.So I have been being me,(there for him) but will now leave him alone the weekend to see what happens next. I am glad to say I have only text once a day and its been short but sweet so havent voiced any of my concerns, as I've learnt in the past until you know whats really going on in someones life dont assume anything!
I can give you advice on being friends with them but my recent attempt at a relationship with one was a trainwreck, and I have tons of patience. My advice, be a doormat and indulge behavior that is clearly in violation because they are too stubborn or insecure to admit wrong when confronted.
/paintingwithbroadstrokes
/paintingwithbroadstrokes
Posted by RomancingAPosted by HungVirgo
I can give you advice on being friends with them but my recent attempt at a relationship with one was a trainwreck, and I have tons of patience. My advice, be a doormat and indulge behavior that is clearly in violation because they are too stubborn or insecure to admit wrong when confronted.
/paintingwithbroadstrokes
You'd do it again I can bet money on it.....click to expand
Lol Im Actually waiting on her to come back around now. i can't have a failure in my loss column
Posted by RomancingAPosted by HungVirgoPosted by RomancingAPosted by HungVirgo
I can give you advice on being friends with them but my recent attempt at a relationship with one was a trainwreck, and I have tons of patience. My advice, be a doormat and indulge behavior that is clearly in violation because they are too stubborn or insecure to admit wrong when confronted.
/paintingwithbroadstrokes
You'd do it again I can bet money on it.....
Lol Im Actually waiting on her to come back around now. i can't have a failure in my loss column
THATS LIES....lol you just want to angry fuk her to get it out of your system....click to expand
lol Thats a more blunt and also more accurate way of putting it
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