Virgo women
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How often do you confess love first...curious considering how everyone says that the virgin is all shy..
not shy, can express my feelings if that's what I want. but not without any signs of interest from him. in fact he should have been the one to show interest first. it would be tough for me to be the initiator. he has to give a sign for me to muster the courage to bring it up. hmm.. though signs n lights do not guarantee a positive response hehe. I could be blamed of misreading the signals haha. but bottomline is I am not shy to confess if I don't think it is one sided.
Ladies, where are you respective Mars placed...if you don't mind sharing. Both sign and house please.
Posted by memyself
not shy, can express my feelings if that's what I want. but not without any signs of interest from him. in fact he should have been the one to show interest first. it would be tough for me to be the initiator. he has to give a sign for me to muster the courage to bring it up. hmm.. though signs n lights do not guarantee a positive response hehe. I could be blamed of misreading the signals haha. but bottomline is I am not shy to confess if I don't think it is one sided.
How do you gauge the signs if you have to confess first...
Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
Never.
Annddd why not?
Posted by TheMoodyVulcanPosted by incandescentcancerPosted by TheMoodyVulcan
Never.
Annddd why not?
Honestly, a deeply rooted fear of rejection that flies in the face of my control freak tendencies.
Virgo Mars, House VIIclick to expand
Mars the aggressor in the house of romantic partnerships.....and yet fear...interesting contradiction.
Would you atleast hint at interest and let the other come to you? Or will there only be deathly silence
Posted by virgojusticePosted by TheMoodyVulcan
Never.
Yeah, never I told someone I loved him once but I was drunk at the time
I did love him though just never said it I showed it.
Maybe its different for other virgos I don't know.click to expand
And he never told you? So you let it go eventhough you loved him??? :O
Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
7th house Sun also conjuncts Mars. I have no problem whatsoever pursuing. Any party that has my interest will have no doubt about that. It's just when it comes to emotional expressions such as "confessing love" where I go a little daft.
Being turned down for a date, or even more intimate things, isn't too bad. But if I were to develop genuine affections for a person like love, if that were to be rejected I would be personally crushed.
Perhaps "confessing love" is too strong. Would you go ahead and tell them, "hey I am interested in you" or throw them a hint of some sort.
I am just trying to get behind the psyche of rejection. I have just sort of figured out what makes the crab hang back in romantic matters. The crab wants to give their partner the perfect home, environment...perfect everything as a homage of love to their partner. The crab thinks that's the only way to prove their worthy...daft crabs, don't know how to build together..
So I am trying to figure out the angle with the virgins
they're*
Once in my life (recently) and I'm pushing 40 years old. I will never do it again.
Posted by incandescentcancer
How often do you confess love first... the virgin is all shy..
Never!
I fear rejection.
Mars in Sagitarrius, House II (Taurus)
I do believe once ...I honestly cant remember, probably a sign that it didn't turn out good lol
Leo mars in the 9th house
Leo mars in the 9th house
Posted by incandescentcancer
Ladies, where are you respective Mars placed...if you don't mind sharing. Both sign and house please.
Mars in Gemini, II house.
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by memyself
not shy, can express my feelings if that's what I want. but not without any signs of interest from him. in fact he should have been the one to show interest first. it would be tough for me to be the initiator. he has to give a sign for me to muster the courage to bring it up. hmm.. though signs n lights do not guarantee a positive response hehe. I could be blamed of misreading the signals haha. but bottomline is I am not shy to confess if I don't think it is one sided.
How do you gauge the signs if you have to confess first...click to expand
small small actions on his part: showing care by making personal observations and comments, paying attention, giving compliments. there are just some things that a person says or does that give you a hint that he is interested. if this happens and i feel the same way about that person, but he does not explicitly say anything over time (important as i will give things time), i might then, not outright confess my feelings, but express in words what i think (virgo haha) i am feeling.
Posted by memyself
small small actions on his part: showing care by making personal observations and comments, paying attention, giving compliments. there are just some things that a person says or does that give you a hint that he is interested. if this happens and i feel the same way about that person, but he does not explicitly say anything over time (important as i will give things time), i might then, not outright confess my feelings, but express in words what i think (virgo haha) i am feeling.
Very very interesting approach...
I am flabbergasted to know that virgos would let love go by rather than confess...that's not something I anticipated with your sense of logic....hmmmm.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
I do believe once ...I honestly cant remember, probably a sign that it didn't turn out good lol
Leo mars in the 9th house
Why the hell would a Leo Mars feel too shy to express....I am really confused...lol
Posted by virgosagscorpioPosted by incandescentcancer
How often do you confess love first... the virgin is all shy..
Never!
I fear rejection.
Mars in Sagitarrius, House II (Taurus)
click to expand
There...you're a fire mars too...what's up with all the fiery mars signs fearing rejection, this doesn't make astro sense. Do you have anything conjunct that Mars?
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by virgosagscorpioPosted by incandescentcancer
How often do you confess love first... the virgin is all shy..
Never!
I fear rejection.
Mars in Sagitarrius, House II (Taurus)
There...you're a fire mars too...what's up with all the fiery mars signs fearing rejection, this doesn't make astro sense. Do you have anything conjunct that Mars?click to expand
Sun sextile mars (Angelina Jolie has this)
Mars conjunct Uranus (both in sagitarrius)
My placement is a strong one, a go-getter personality
MAYBE I haven't met the guy that will make me do the first move!
it's hard to find a excellent man nowadays
Posted by virgosagscorpio
Sun sextile mars (Angelina Jolie has this)
Mars conjunct Uranus (both in sagitarrius)
My placement is a strong one, a go-getter personality
MAYBE I haven't met the guy that will make me do the first move!
it's hard to find a excellent man nowadays
You aren't looking in the right places
Posted by CluelessCancer
I'm going to get awkward and territorial, IC, are you looking to get close to a marble? Really sweety, do you really want to be feel ice blocks everytime you attempt to give s hug? Hmmmm I'm just concerned. "flutters eyelashes"
hahahahahha...this was honestly just astro curiosity, I am not chasing anyone.
But to answer your question, I am an old fashioned guy, I think it's upto any man to bring a woman alive in your hands. If she is like marble, you ain't doing it right
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by LostinmyMind11
I do believe once ...I honestly cant remember, probably a sign that it didn't turn out good lol
Leo mars in the 9th house
Why the hell would a Leo Mars feel too shy to express....I am really confused...lolclick to expand
Hahahaha...probably because of some aspects in my chart wont let me
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by LostinmyMind11
I do believe once ...I honestly cant remember, probably a sign that it didn't turn out good lol
Leo mars in the 9th house
Why the hell would a Leo Mars feel too shy to express....I am really confused...lol
Hahahaha...probably because of some aspects in my chart wont let meclick to expand
Hmmmm....the only inhibitor I can think of is a relationship between your Mars and Saturn. Are they conjunct, square or in opposition?
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by virgosagscorpio
Sun sextile mars (Angelina Jolie has this)
Mars conjunct Uranus (both in sagitarrius)
My placement is a strong one, a go-getter personality
MAYBE I haven't met the guy that will make me do the first move!
it's hard to find a excellent man nowadays
You aren't looking in the right placesclick to expand
So tell me, where will I look for that man that will make me burn like fire?
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by LostinmyMind11
I do believe once ...I honestly cant remember, probably a sign that it didn't turn out good lol
Leo mars in the 9th house
Why the hell would a Leo Mars feel too shy to express....I am really confused...lol
Hahahaha...probably because of some aspects in my chart wont let me
Hmmmm....the only inhibitor I can think of is a relationship between your Mars and Saturn. Are they conjunct, square or in opposition?click to expand
I only have...
Moon Conjunction Mars
Mercury SemiSquare Mars
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by memyself
small small actions on his part: showing care by making personal observations and comments, paying attention, giving compliments. there are just some things that a person says or does that give you a hint that he is interested. if this happens and i feel the same way about that person, but he does not explicitly say anything over time (important as i will give things time), i might then, not outright confess my feelings, but express in words what i think (virgo haha) i am feeling.
Very very interesting approach...
I am flabbergasted to know that virgos would let love go by rather than confess...that's not something I anticipated with your sense of logic....hmmmm.click to expand
no no, you don't get it. what i am trying to say is if i was sure the feelings were mutual, but he did not do anything about it, i would not hesitate to approach and bring up the subject and say what/how i feel (which means i will try not to let love go by). but after my expressing if he did not confess to feeling the same way about me, there really is no choice than to let go, isn't it? but even then i will have hope and keep communication open and still express from time to time, only because i thought there was a connection there. but there is only so much you can do single handed. if you then start getting the feeling that only you have those feelings, and he does not, or has his reasons for not pursuing, then you move on.
and i may be wrong, but it is okay for a man to keep pushing/pursuing a woman and not give up. but if a woman starts doing those same things, she comes across as petty, needy, and pushes the man away even more. so how would you suggest a virgo woman go about not letting love go by, when the man is not making any moves?
Posted by memyselfPosted by incandescentcancerPosted by memyself
small small actions on his part: showing care by making personal observations and comments, paying attention, giving compliments. there are just some things that a person says or does that give you a hint that he is interested. if this happens and i feel the same way about that person, but he does not explicitly say anything over time (important as i will give things time), i might then, not outright confess my feelings, but express in words what i think (virgo haha) i am feeling.
Very very interesting approach...
I am flabbergasted to know that virgos would let love go by rather than confess...that's not something I anticipated with your sense of logic....hmmmm.
no no, you don't get it. what i am trying to say is if i was sure the feelings were mutual, but he did not do anything about it, i would not hesitate to approach and bring up the subject and say what/how i feel (which means i will try not to let love go by). but after my expressing if he did not confess to feeling the same way about me, there really is no choice than to let go, isn't it? but even then i will have hope and keep communication open and still express from time to time, only because i thought there was a connection there. but there is only so much you can do single handed. if you then start getting the feeling that only you have those feelings, and he does not, or has his reasons for not pursuing, then you move on.
and i may be wrong, but it is okay for a man to keep pushing/pursuing a woman and not give up. but if a woman starts doing those same things, she comes across as petty, needy, and pushes the man away even more. so how would you suggest a virgo woman go about not letting love go by, when the man is not making any moves?click to expand
^^ i mean that's how she is preceived by a man for being persistent
Posted by memyself
no no, you don't get it. what i am trying to say is if i was sure the feelings were mutual, but he did not do anything about it, i would not hesitate to approach and bring up the subject and say what/how i feel (which means i will try not to let love go by). but after my expressing if he did not confess to feeling the same way about me, there really is no choice than to let go, isn't it? but even then i will have hope and keep communication open and still express from time to time, only because i thought there was a connection there. but there is only so much you can do single handed. if you then start getting the feeling that only you have those feelings, and he does not, or has his reasons for not pursuing, then you move on.
and i may be wrong, but it is okay for a man to keep pushing/pursuing a woman and not give up. but if a woman starts doing those same things, she comes across as petty, needy, and pushes the man away even more. so how would you suggest a virgo woman go about not letting love go by, when the man is not making any moves?
Yeah,I see what you mean there. In general if a guy is not following up on an expression of interest from a lady, it has a lot to do with his persona circumstances. His inability to offer what he thinks he should to bring value to the relationship. But that's a tough one, I can see how the lady may not be able to do anything....
Posted by LostinmyMind11
I only have...
Moon Conjunction Mars
Mercury SemiSquare Mars
It must have something to do with the moon or the state of the moon in your natal (waning?)
Posted by virgosagscorpio
So tell me, where will I look for that man that will make me burn like fire?
I didn't say I had the answer
.Chemistry is usually sudden, it could be strange things....tilt of the head...
Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
I don't know if this will help anything, but to contribute towards your astro curiosity:
Sun Conjunction Mars
Moon Sextile Mars
Mars Square Saturn
Mars Square Midheaven
Mercury Semisextile Mars
Mars Sesquiquadrate Jupiter
Mars Square Uranus
There, Mars Square Saturn....that's tough. One part of you wants to leap into something and the other stops you, you freeze sometimes, don't you?
Posted by memyselfPosted by incandescentcancer
Ladies, where are you respective Mars placed...if you don't mind sharing. Both sign and house please.
Mars in Gemini, II house.click to expand
@incandescentcancer, i am curious now. what does my mars and house placement say about me?
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by LostinmyMind11
I only have...
Moon Conjunction Mars
Mercury SemiSquare Mars
It must have something to do with the moon or the state of the moon in your natal (waning?)click to expand
I do believe it was Waning Crescent moon
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by LostinmyMind11
I only have...
Moon Conjunction Mars
Mercury SemiSquare Mars
It must have something to do with the moon or the state of the moon in your natal (waning?)
I do believe it was Waning Crescent moonclick to expand
according to this site...http://www.moongiant.com/birthday_moon/
the moon was in cancer during my bday
...maybe thats why I love cancers lolPosted by CluelessCancer
I'm going to get awkward and territorial, IC, are you looking to get close to a marble? Really sweety, do you really want to be feel ice blocks everytime you attempt to give s hug? Hmmmm I'm just concerned. "flutters eyelashes"
i don't know about other virgos CC, but i am a hopeless romantic. i love all the lovey dovey stuff and am very sensitive and emotional. i don't know why virgos get labeled as cold. also i don't know if it is my virgo sun or other placements influencing my romantic side.
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by LostinmyMind11
I only have...
Moon Conjunction Mars
Mercury SemiSquare Mars
It must have something to do with the moon or the state of the moon in your natal (waning?)
I do believe it was Waning Crescent moon
according to this site...http://www.moongiant.com/birthday_moon/
the moon was in cancer during my bdayclick to expand
how can that be...if I have a Leo moon..im confused lol
Posted by memyself
@incandescentcancer, i am curious now. what does my mars and house placement say about me?
Verbally strong, probably capable of violent communication verging on abusive (not as in swearing) if you're angered sufficiently. I expect you to be a good speaker, energized in speech by martian energy. People are likely to buy whatever you tell them.
MiG in the second house...hmmm...do you draw up several plans to make money? You should be good at that, it will never be just one plan....
Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
I'm thinking that's where I'm okay with the pursuit just to turn around and become a committment phobe.
I could have guessed that. I think you also have moments when you want to do something physically or say something and then you restrain yourself. You probably torment yourself on something you should have done or said post facto.
Posted by memyselfPosted by CluelessCancer
I'm going to get awkward and territorial, IC, are you looking to get close to a marble? Really sweety, do you really want to be feel ice blocks everytime you attempt to give s hug? Hmmmm I'm just concerned. "flutters eyelashes"
i don't know about other virgos CC, but i am a hopeless romantic. i love all the lovey dovey stuff and am very sensitive and emotional. i don't know why virgos get labeled as cold. also i don't know if it is my virgo sun or other placements influencing my romantic side.click to expand
I tend to agree with you. This whole tarnishing an entire sun sign as something or other is foolish. i am nothing like most Cancers are "supposed" to be. I am sure there are plenty of romantic virgos who love kindness, warmth and some flowers
Posted by LostinmyMind11
according to this site...http://www.moongiant.com/birthday_moon/
the moon was in cancer during my bday
If your moon was in Cancer that explains absolutely everything. If there is one placement whose fear of rejection is even more pathological than sun in Cancer, that would be the moon in Cancer....lol. The Moon after all controls over our emotions and inner feelings, Mars only acts.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
according to this site...http://www.moongiant.com/birthday_moon/
the moon was in cancer during my bday
how can that be...if I have a Leo moon..im confused lol
It just means that at the moment of your birth, the moon had moved to Leo.
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by virgosagscorpio
So tell me, where will I look for that man that will make me burn like fire?
I didn't say I had the answer
Chemistry is usually sudden, it could be strange things....tilt of the head...click to expand
Hahahahaha! I know the culprit in my chart, it's my moon conjunct Uranus
Not that I'm afraid of commitment only that I take full responsibility when I'm in a relationship
and the fact that I don't want to be cage in and compromise my freedom loving spirit.
So before I give in in a relationship/attraction I will usually weigh the pros and con
I'd rather not make a move if I feel I cannot give 100% of me, if that make sense?!
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by LostinmyMind11
according to this site...http://www.moongiant.com/birthday_moon/
the moon was in cancer during my bday
how can that be...if I have a Leo moon..im confused lolclick to expand
It just means that at the moment of your birth, the moon had moved to Leo.
I gotcha and when I say I gotcha..it means im still confused hahaha
Posted by LostinmyMind11
I gotcha and when I say I gotcha..it means im still confused hahaha
The moon traverses a sign in about 55-57 hours, that obviously doesn't coincide with whole days. So part of a day the moon could have been in one sign and the other part in another. That website probably tells you the sign in which moon spent most of the day.
Posted by virgosagscorpio
Hahahahaha! I know the culprit in my chart, it's my moon conjunct Uranus
Not that I'm afraid of commitment only that I take full responsibility when I'm in a relationship
and the fact that I don't want to be cage in and compromise my freedom loving spirit.
So before I give in in a relationship/attraction I will usually weigh the pros and con
I'd rather not make a move if I feel I cannot give 100% of me, if that make sense?!
Interesting....look at it in another way, every time you weigh the merits of a proposal and reject it you lose out on an emotional experience. Obviously I don't mean dating idiots and douchebags, just the ones where you overthink the long term prospects of the relationship. The universe is alive and conscious, it's through our physical body and self that it gains new experiences. There is a little bit of the universe in all of us which eventually rejoins the wider consciousness. Everytime we deny an experience, both us and the universe is poorer for it.
<@>
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by memyselfPosted by CluelessCancer
I'm going to get awkward and territorial, IC, are you looking to get close to a marble? Really sweety, do you really want to be feel ice blocks everytime you attempt to give s hug? Hmmmm I'm just concerned. "flutters eyelashes"
i don't know about other virgos CC, but i am a hopeless romantic. i love all the lovey dovey stuff and am very sensitive and emotional. i don't know why virgos get labeled as cold. also i don't know if it is my virgo sun or other placements influencing my romantic side.
I tend to agree with you. This whole tarnishing an entire sun sign as something or other is foolish. i am nothing like most Cancers are "supposed" to be. I am sure there are plenty of romantic virgos who love kindness, warmth and some flowersclick to expand
it's all in the little things.
Posted by TheMoodyVulcan
I could have guessed that. I think you also have moments when you want to do something physically or say something and then you restrain yourself. You probably torment yourself on something you should have done or said post facto.
Nailed it.
Some good news on this point...since this is a mutual aspect, saturn can't dominate Mars. Secondly, as you age, you will become more self assured and the Saturnine grip on mars will be released. Saturn is the planet of maturity and age (the lord of time / Kronos)...so its effects are evident as you grow older. Saturn wants you to take mature and decisive action hence the restraint on mars which loosens up with age as you get self assured.click to expand
Posted by virgosagscorpio
U kissing the ass of the Virgos?
Seriously, I tend to attract Caps and air people like gems and my latest conquer now is an Aqua
I think Aqua are the sweetest lmao! Oh my! the way they kiss is one of the kind!!!
*flirty eyelash flatter*
Lady, I am a lion, I don't kiss ass
....I have some good aqua friends, nice guys with an absolute potty sense of humour. I suppose he makes you blush immensely with the dirty jokes (not really a virgo thing is it)
.Posted by memyself
it's all in the little things.
Undoubtedly...best way to show affection is by being attentive and acting at the right moments. Could be a simple thing like making coffee when your partner is down and out..
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by LostinmyMind11
I gotcha and when I say I gotcha..it means im still confused hahaha
The moon traverses a sign in about 55-57 hours, that obviously doesn't coincide with whole days. So part of a day the moon could have been in one sign and the other part in another. That website probably tells you the sign in which moon spent most of the day.click to expand
Ahh that makes more sense then...thank you for explaining it
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