Virgo Women Scorpio Guy

I am a Virgo girl, 22 years. I am sort of beginning to have a crush on this scorpio guy. I was in a relationship for the last 3 years, but I broke up with my bf because we had no future and things were not working out. I did not break up because of the scorpio guy but he was sort of flirting with me before the relationship ended. After breakup I told him that I need some time to get over it and he was fine with it. He kept on texting me a lot ... despite being busy. Once we met and he took all initiatives to meet me alone and talk to me in person. He made me feel special ... and I did get that 'scorpio stare'. We like used to talk a lot, and I had this feeling that he liked me, and because he was really sweet I started falling for him.

Now its been a month and he is ignoring me. He tells me he is busy. I find it hard to believe ... because he always used to make time for me despite being busy. This is crazy because I am falling for him more and more because he is ignoring me ... I find it hard to focus on other things ... I always end up thinking about him. It is hard to believe because guys generally do not do this to me, I mean I am hardly ignored by anyone. He replies to my messages in 2-3 words and really late. He has stopped texting me. I text him sporadically(once in 2-3 days), and he has apologized for not being able to talk to me because he has been busy. However I get a feeling that he has time for all the useless things in life ... and how can he be busy doing the same things so much so that he says I can't think of anything else. This guy kind of liked me in d beginning and that is what made me fall for him. Now I am confused ... should I move on ... should I wait - shall I keep texting him or shall I stop texting him.

Thanks for your help.

Posted by VirgoRagini
This is crazy because I am falling for him more and more because he is ignoring me ...

No clue what he's on about but you should address this ^^^ because it is crazy.

Falling for someone who is ignoring you is crazy, unless they are just busy and you are imagining this slight against you.

yea exactly falling for someone who is ignoring me is crazy ... but it feels like a mind game ... n i dnt knw what to do ... do scorpios do things like this on purpose ?

He isn't doing anything to you.

You are operating off the scenario that he's into you and playing games.

I married one (not anymore) and dated several. You'll want to move on. Best dating advice I ever got was "next bus arrives in 30 minutes", lol, and that came from my mother, hahaha. It's true though. Don't go wasting your time on someone who ignores you or isn't invested in you. When the right one comes along you won't be ignored. We Virgo's tend to over think things, especially when beginning a new relationship, and that can lead to trouble such as what your describing. When I was your age I did this too. Now that I'm older I realize what a waste of time that is. If a man is truly interested in you then they won't play games. You have to have patience when dating. Don't move so fast, relax, let them come to you. Find someone who you can be best friends with, someone who loves who you are, and takes the good with the bad. The good ones are hard to find and when a good one does come along you'll know. But don't waste your emotions on someone who isn't invested in you.

Hope my thoughts/advice helps you.

Yea it does help .. I am sure the right person shall be interested in me ..
Thanks a lot dear 🙂

I don't know how you can be in a relationship for three years and want to jump into another after a breakup. The Scorp probably is thinking that too..and by no means wants to be a rebound.