virgoooooo/ cancer
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by hotmumma on Wednesday, October 19, 2011 and has 9 replies.
Okii so I have been talking to a Virgo for about a month now and he seems really nice and sweet and has sucked me in with his sweet talk lol........ but i think he is starting to play games or testing me some how. Was just wondering what you guys think of this and could give any advice.
Over the past few days he will call me yea and we talk for a little then says he will call me back in 5 and he doesn't? He has done this like 4 times now, and i feel like he was wanting me to give a reaction to it, but i didn't until today when i was getting really annoyed by it. I sent him a MSG "why don't you call back when you say, and like if you going to play games or fuck with my head pls don't bother to call me cause i cbf with it all"..... Have i made a mistake by writing that MSG as he never replied. Its weird tho cause when we talk his all nice and sweet and it like he wants me to be in love with him even only after 1 month and he keeps trying to make me jealous telling me their are girls at work who have a crush on him... But i havnt let him know it like gets to me or whatever........ But ye did i stuff it by msg?? and does it sound like he was playing with me??
Over the past few days he will call me yea and we talk for a little then says he will call me back in 5 and he doesn't? He has done this like 4 times now, and i feel like he was wanting me to give a reaction to it, but i didn't until today when i was getting really annoyed by it. I sent him a MSG "why don't you call back when you say, and like if you going to play games or fuck with my head pls don't bother to call me cause i cbf with it all"..... Have i made a mistake by writing that MSG as he never replied. Its weird tho cause when we talk his all nice and sweet and it like he wants me to be in love with him even only after 1 month and he keeps trying to make me jealous telling me their are girls at work who have a crush on him... But i havnt let him know it like gets to me or whatever........ But ye did i stuff it by msg?? and does it sound like he was playing with me??
It sure would make life easier if people actually "got" each other.
This is his way of getting off the phone without saying .. "I don't want to talk any more right now" ... because that would ultimately hurt your feelings. So, instead, he has a little thing he says to get off the phone.
But, instead of you actually getting this after 4 times ... because you want more of him, your emotions refuse to let you think about peronality patterns and nuances. If you didn't like him, you would have likely gotten it right away.
It seems that once a woman has feelings for a guy ... all rational mind and logic she once had flies out of the window.
Perhaps, after the 400th time he does it .. the light might go off in your head that he wants off the phone, and uses this little method of accomplishing it without having to be outright rude?
Or maybe not, since you are a female with feelings for him .. perhaps you wont' be able to get anything except for your own feelings that tell you to pounce on every little word or action, just to make absolutely positively sure that he realizes you are desperate to have him know you are emotional.
This is his way of getting off the phone without saying .. "I don't want to talk any more right now" ... because that would ultimately hurt your feelings. So, instead, he has a little thing he says to get off the phone.
But, instead of you actually getting this after 4 times ... because you want more of him, your emotions refuse to let you think about peronality patterns and nuances. If you didn't like him, you would have likely gotten it right away.
It seems that once a woman has feelings for a guy ... all rational mind and logic she once had flies out of the window.
Perhaps, after the 400th time he does it .. the light might go off in your head that he wants off the phone, and uses this little method of accomplishing it without having to be outright rude?
Or maybe not, since you are a female with feelings for him .. perhaps you wont' be able to get anything except for your own feelings that tell you to pounce on every little word or action, just to make absolutely positively sure that he realizes you are desperate to have him know you are emotional.
Agree. Its his way of nicely ending the conversation. And while I'm not into 'games' I am into playing it cool and you should NEVER let him know that you care that he got off the phone or didn't call you back, even if you do b/c there's nothing wrong w/ him doing it. As a matter of fact, you should excuse yourself from the phone conversation FIRST once in a while.
Hate to say it but whether it was a test or not you didn't do yourself any favors sending that msg. If he was talking all that love & jealousy crap in the first place he was probably playing you anyway so he deserved it to backfire (before you put out!). I'd forget about this one and move on. Sounds like b.s. to me.
Hate to say it but whether it was a test or not you didn't do yourself any favors sending that msg. If he was talking all that love & jealousy crap in the first place he was probably playing you anyway so he deserved it to backfire (before you put out!). I'd forget about this one and move on. Sounds like b.s. to me.
lol just because im a cancer doesn't mean i have gone all emotional over him... i have not given any sign of my emotions or anything to him except for this msg that i sent and its only been a month, i don't fall that quickly... I had a feeling he wanted a reaction out of me actually i know this and he got it by me sending that msg which is probably not the reaction he was after but oh well i guess this will test himmmm whether he was serious about all the crap he said... anyways he hasn't wrote back yet so just see what happens...
When you start off confronting a guy with why, you come off sounding like a whiner. Why didn't you do this? Why did you do that. What is this the third degree? You should have rephrased your words a bit. "I really enjoy our phone conversations together so when you say you'd call me back, I'd appreciate it if you'd keep your word". Strike 1, he already knows you're emotional by that message, after knowing him for only a month. That's why he didn't answer. Don't let him see you sweat.
Real Talk truuu yer i didn't know how to write the msg, should have wrote something like that truuu.. asking why is this habit i got from my ex scorpio :/ lol
anywho would it be bad if i contact him or should i just leave it and wait.. Im feeling like telling him like why i sent that msg and like how ive been like head fukd and hurt in the past and im scared to fall for him if we kept talking... should I or just leave it? i dunooo i hate this dating thing :/
anywho would it be bad if i contact him or should i just leave it and wait.. Im feeling like telling him like why i sent that msg and like how ive been like head fukd and hurt in the past and im scared to fall for him if we kept talking... should I or just leave it? i dunooo i hate this dating thing :/
Maybe if you'd stop saying "like" after every other word....
J/K!!! No I don't believe you should contact him. Just wait & see what happens. Give it some time.
J/K!!! No I don't believe you should contact him. Just wait & see what happens. Give it some time.
loloolool i didn't even notice i wrote it so many times lol
okayy tru i'm just going to leave it see what happens
okayy tru i'm just going to leave it see what happens
well he called me back and is like sorry nah i wouldn't do that or whatever... then the ass hole did it again he goes ill call you when i get home and he never did... lol what a dick. i aint answering his calls ever again.
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