Virgos have 2 types of love interests -- True or False?
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by libraman20 on Saturday, May 12, 2018 and has 27 replies.
Type #1: The "fixer upper". The Virgo wants to fix this person (often a Cancer), and take care of them. They want to feel needed and they know that this person will need them. They can have the upperhand/control in this relationship, and thus they won't lose control of their feelings, meaning they won't get too much anxiety from it.
Type #2: The long-term "check-all-the-boxes" interest. Virgos have so many requirements and are usually okay alone, but every now and then they'll meet someone who checks all the boxes their long list. This person scares them, because they feel more vulnerable than they would be in a relationship with Type #1. Their feelings start to escape their control, which is a Virgo's worst fear, and they tend to act erratically in the rare case they meet this person.
Would you agree? If you are a Virgo, how do you act with each type?
Type #2: The long-term "check-all-the-boxes" interest. Virgos have so many requirements and are usually okay alone, but every now and then they'll meet someone who checks all the boxes their long list. This person scares them, because they feel more vulnerable than they would be in a relationship with Type #1. Their feelings start to escape their control, which is a Virgo's worst fear, and they tend to act erratically in the rare case they meet this person.
Would you agree? If you are a Virgo, how do you act with each type?
Question..
does virgo men fight for #1 0r 2 if she break up with him?
does virgo men fight for #1 0r 2 if she break up with him?
Posted by libraman20lol @ often a cancer.. shade much
Type #1: The "fixer upper". The Virgo wants to fix this person (often a Cancer), and take care of them. They want to feel needed and they know that this person will need them. They can have the upperhand/control in this relationship, and thus they won't lose control of their feelings, meaning they won't get too much anxiety from it.
Type #2: The long-term "check-all-the-boxes" interest. Virgos have so many requirements and are usually okay alone, but every now and then they'll meet someone who checks all the boxes their long list. This person scares them, because they feel more vulnerable than they would be in a relationship with Type #1. Their feelings start to escape their control, which is a Virgo's worst fear, and they tend to act erratically in the rare case they meet this person.
Would you agree? If you are a Virgo, how do you act with each type?
Posted by DeleterNerdPosted by Yodi
Question..
does virgo men fight for #1 0r 2 if she break up with him?
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soooooooo is that a no? 🤣🤣
Posted by tiziani
Those are generally called Type A and Type B relationships by psych and sociology types.
They apply to everyone at different times in their life IMO.
true and I aint got the time to fix a mfer anymore
I feel personally attacked
Posted by tizianilol I feel you.Posted by YodiPosted by tiziani
Those are generally called Type A and Type B relationships by psych and sociology types.
They apply to everyone at different times in their life IMO.
true and I aint got the time to fix a mfer anymore
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I might go back to Type B fixer uppers in a mid life crisis.click to expand
me too.. I'll go back when I'm ready to become a suga momma in about 30 years 😅
Type 1: I tend to get negative. I hate if a grown man makes me act as his mom 🤢
sure I’ll give advice and be helpful but I’m not your mom
Type 2: I don’t know how to act. For all of the self improving and self aware I am of everything I do, I feel like I can finally let go and be a normal human being that makes mistakes and laughs and giggles and cries and loves.
Erratic behavior is common when I deal with this type. I’ve said it before but Virgo if not aware can fall into our Pisces axis and see our lovers w/ rose colored glasses, causing us to lose control and submit.
Completely submitting ourselves to someone is dangerous and can subject us to being controlled and used.
I would love to believe I can trust myself to someone completely but Idk if I can
sure I’ll give advice and be helpful but I’m not your mom
Type 2: I don’t know how to act. For all of the self improving and self aware I am of everything I do, I feel like I can finally let go and be a normal human being that makes mistakes and laughs and giggles and cries and loves.
Erratic behavior is common when I deal with this type. I’ve said it before but Virgo if not aware can fall into our Pisces axis and see our lovers w/ rose colored glasses, causing us to lose control and submit.
Completely submitting ourselves to someone is dangerous and can subject us to being controlled and used.
I would love to believe I can trust myself to someone completely but Idk if I can
Type 2s slip into type 1s then you dun fucked up and just want to go home.
Posted by Toti
Virgos are very picky when it comes to choosing a partner. Once they choose them, it's usually the wrong person.
😔
Posted by TotiUnfortunately.
Virgos are very picky when it comes to choosing a partner. Once they choose them, it's usually the wrong person.
Lmao u know when u meet someone and break all of the rules you’ve set in place for urself and dating and allow that person into ur life and to consume u bc u think thats love and they become a part of u and then they change and break ur heart, leaving u to beg for them back even tho u shouldn’t bc they’re in the wrong but u love them and they repeat the horrible patterns so ur left to pick up the pieces and then build a huge wall around urself
Bc same #JustVirgoTings
Bc same #JustVirgoTings
N u think of them as the sun moon and stars haha u become v affectionate lmao and u just want to take care of them until they ask u to stop and even then u wanna continue and they break the heck outta ur heart 😽
I love it
I love it
Posted by The_Mad_H8RThat limb u’ve gone out on is correct 👌🏽Posted by Sunsetvirgo
Lmao u know when u meet someone and break all of the rules you’ve set in place for urself and dating and allow that person into ur life and to consume u bc u think thats love and they become a part of u and then they change and break ur heart, leaving u to beg for them back even tho u shouldn’t bc they’re in the wrong but u love them and they repeat the horrible patterns so ur left to pick up the pieces and then build a huge wall around urself
Bc same #JustVirgoTings
Imma go out on a limb here and say this is personal experience? click to expandclick to expand
Is'nt this everyone...regardless of sign?
Posted by TotiIt can be, yes.Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by Toti
Virgos are very picky when it comes to choosing a partner. Once they choose them, it's usually the wrong person.
Unfortunately.
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So, my observation is right😢? click to expandclick to expand
Hopefully there are some virgals who has entrusted themselves to the RIGHT person
Posted by The_Mad_H8RMaybe. But it’s more of a general wall around myself.Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by Sunsetvirgo
Lmao u know when u meet someone and break all of the rules you’ve set in place for urself and dating and allow that person into ur life and to consume u bc u think thats love and they become a part of u and then they change and break ur heart, leaving u to beg for them back even tho u shouldn’t bc they’re in the wrong but u love them and they repeat the horrible patterns so ur left to pick up the pieces and then build a huge wall around urself
Bc same #JustVirgoTings
Imma go out on a limb here and say this is personal experience? click to expand
That limb u’ve gone out on is correct 👌🏽 click to expand
Maybe you're building walls around the wrong people? click to expandclick to expand
I’ve definetely realized that I can’t shut everyone out and expect to find my Prince Charming, but it has my nerves on end giving someone else control after I’ve been hurt before.
But I also want to give my partner control bc I trust and love them.
It’s a never ending cycle, ya feel?
Posted by exsqueezemeOnly if the chanclas are cute 😡
They’re cheating swines that steal your chanclas in the night
Posted by TotiI’m not a cheater 😇Posted by exsqueezeme
They’re cheating swines that steal your chanclas in the night
So many people is complaining about Virgos. The ones I have around me aren't faithful, but I hoped to hear a story where virgo wasn't a cheater at least once. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by AwesomeyooPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by exsqueezeme
They’re cheating swines that steal your chanclas in the night
Only if the chanclas are cute 😡 click to expand
why do you have to steal them only in the night? lol click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
Bc I’m only stealing chanclas if they light up
😤
Posted by The_Mad_H8RI agree but I’m moody tho so yesterday I was like “omg ofc I’ll find my mans and even if I don’t, I still love myself *heart* ” and today I’m ☹️😔Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by The_Mad_H8RPosted by Sunsetvirgo
Lmao u know when u meet someone and break all of the rules you’ve set in place for urself and dating and allow that person into ur life and to consume u bc u think thats love and they become a part of u and then they change and break ur heart, leaving u to beg for them back even tho u shouldn’t bc they’re in the wrong but u love them and they repeat the horrible patterns so ur left to pick up the pieces and then build a huge wall around urself
Bc same #JustVirgoTings
Imma go out on a limb here and say this is personal experience? click to expand
That limb u’ve gone out on is correct 👌🏽 click to expand
Maybe you're building walls around the wrong people? click to expand
Maybe. But it’s more of a general walk around myself.
I’ve definetely realized that I can’t shut everyone out and expect to find my Prince Charming, but it has my nerves on end giving someone else control after I’ve been hurt before.
But I also want to give my partner control bc I trust and love them.
It’s a never ending cycle, ya feel?
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Okay. As a fellow earth sign I see nothing wrong with being optimistically guarded... being pessimisticlly gaurded leaves you unhappy. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by AwesomeyooPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by AwesomeyooPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by exsqueezeme
They’re cheating swines that steal your chanclas in the night
Only if the chanclas are cute 😡 click to expand
why do you have to steal them only in the night? lol click to expandclick to expand
Bc I’m only stealing chanclas if they light up
😤 click to expand
Virgos are very very subtle and perfect while stealing the chanclas ....lol click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
Hmm my gif won’t work 😡 but you’re right 😽
Posted by Awesomeyoo1. Become a cheating swinePosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by AwesomeyooPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by AwesomeyooPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by exsqueezeme
They’re cheating swines that steal your chanclas in the night
Only if the chanclas are cute 😡 click to expand
why do you have to steal them only in the night? lol click to expandclick to expand
Bc I’m only stealing chanclas if they light up
😤 click to expand
Virgos are very very subtle and perfect while stealing the chanclas ....lol click to expandclick to expand
Hmm my gif won’t work 😡 but you’re right 😽 click to expand
Will you teach me how to steal chanclas? LOL
Since they are on sale we both can have a pair to ourselves. click to expandclick to expand
2. Pick a night, preferably the night of the anniversary u had with the person u cheated on
3. Find ur ex’s light up chanclas
4. Steal them and put them on so u can see where ur going bc it’s dark lmao obvi
I’m waiting for the chanclas.
Posted by AwesomeyooYou mean a typically *extraordinary Virgo 😡Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by AwesomeyooPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by AwesomeyooPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by AwesomeyooPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by exsqueezeme
They’re cheating swines that steal your chanclas in the night
Only if the chanclas are cute 😡 click to expand
why do you have to steal them only in the night? lol click to expandclick to expand
Bc I’m only stealing chanclas if they light up
😤 click to expand
Virgos are very very subtle and perfect while stealing the chanclas ....lol click to expandclick to expand
Hmm my gif won’t work 😡 but you’re right 😽 click to expand
Will you teach me how to steal chanclas? LOL
Since they are on sale we both can have a pair to ourselves. click to expand
1. Become a cheating swine
2. Pick a night, preferably the night of the anniversary u had with the person u cheated on
3. Find ur ex’s light up chanclas
4. Steal them and put them on so u can see where ur going bc it’s dark lmao obvi
I’m waiting for the chanclas. click to expand
ROFL you are a typical virgo. That is really smart. I just had mental stimulations. click to expandclick to expand
Posted by AwesomeyooOnly if the chanclas light up. But who wants regular chanclas 🤢🤢Posted by SunsetvirgoPosted by AwesomeyooPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by AwesomeyooPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by AwesomeyooPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by AwesomeyooPosted by SunsetvirgoPosted by exsqueezeme
They’re cheating swines that steal your chanclas in the night
Only if the chanclas are cute 😡 click to expand
why do you have to steal them only in the night? lol click to expandclick to expand
Bc I’m only stealing chanclas if they light up
😤 click to expand
Virgos are very very subtle and perfect while stealing the chanclas ....lol click to expandclick to expand
Hmm my gif won’t work 😡 but you’re right 😽 click to expand
Will you teach me how to steal chanclas? LOL
Since they are on sale we both can have a pair to ourselves. click to expand
1. Become a cheating swine
2. Pick a night, preferably the night of the anniversary u had with the person u cheated on
3. Find ur ex’s light up chanclas
4. Steal them and put them on so u can see where ur going bc it’s dark lmao obvi
I’m waiting for the chanclas. click to expand
ROFL you are a typical virgo. That is really smart. I just had mental stimulations. click to expand
You mean a typically *extraordinary Virgo 😡 click to expand
Yeah lol .
Now I wanna steal someone's chanclas sooo bad... just for the thrill of it..
ohhh buttertt... but i have to wait until its dark, right? click to expandclick to expand
Posted by libraman20False. There's also the one that treats us like shit.
Type #1: The "fixer upper". The Virgo wants to fix this person (often a Cancer), and take care of them. They want to feel needed and they know that this person will need them. They can have the upperhand/control in this relationship, and thus they won't lose control of their feelings, meaning they won't get too much anxiety from it.
Type #2: The long-term "check-all-the-boxes" interest. Virgos have so many requirements and are usually okay alone, but every now and then they'll meet someone who checks all the boxes their long list. This person scares them, because they feel more vulnerable than they would be in a relationship with Type #1. Their feelings start to escape their control, which is a Virgo's worst fear, and they tend to act erratically in the rare case they meet this person.
Would you agree? If you are a Virgo, how do you act with each type?
Posted by AndalusiaI feel like type 1 and 2 eventually come to treating us like shit...Posted by libraman20
Type #1: The "fixer upper". The Virgo wants to fix this person (often a Cancer), and take care of them. They want to feel needed and they know that this person will need them. They can have the upperhand/control in this relationship, and thus they won't lose control of their feelings, meaning they won't get too much anxiety from it.
Type #2: The long-term "check-all-the-boxes" interest. Virgos have so many requirements and are usually okay alone, but every now and then they'll meet someone who checks all the boxes their long list. This person scares them, because they feel more vulnerable than they would be in a relationship with Type #1. Their feelings start to escape their control, which is a Virgo's worst fear, and they tend to act erratically in the rare case they meet this person.
Would you agree? If you are a Virgo, how do you act with each type?
False. There's also the one that treats us like butter. click to expandclick to expand
Type 1 out of resentment
Type 2 bc we trusted them and gave them too much power.
And like all humans, the overwhelming power someone has when another human being gives themselves to them can lead to greed
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