My Vir guy & I have been together almost 1 year this July.
I recently had surgery & had many complications, in & out of ER, tons of pain, etc.
He has virtually disappeared. No e mails, no phone calls, nothing.
I've been too sick to really worry about it, but this is the 4th day w/no contact & we've never gone more than 2 days without contact in the last year.
Is it he doesn't care, or it scares him that I'm ill? Or is it that I am not lavishing all the attention on him like normal & he doesn't want to deal with my problems?
We've been close in the last year so it's not like we don't know each other.
Help, please? I am getting disturbed by it & don't feel I should be the 1 to make contact now. He should be contacting me to see if I am ok!!
Thanks
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If the person I loved was in and out of the ER, I would want to be there all the time. I would want to be right be their side as much as I could so they know someone cares and all that.
That being said, I wouldn't be able to. It would kill me to see them that sick and in that much pain.
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Aug 16, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 553 · Topics: 17
Maybe he could not stand seeing you like that and being helpless to do anything about it.