Virgos ! what do you look for in a WIFE !

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by saweetz1988 on Sunday, May 12, 2013 and has 8 replies.
Be yourself at all times, but I guess thats why we love Taurus in the first place Winking
Other than that I cant think of any qualities that Taurus women dont have which as a Virgo I would look for..
Probably be less stubborn, thats it Tongue
Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Be yourself at all times, but I guess thats why we love Taurus in the first place Winking
Other than that I cant think of any qualities that Taurus women dont have which as a Virgo I would look for..
Probably be less stubborn, thats it Tongue


I assume you are a virgo male ?
smile you are right I'm always MYSELF and never would try to change who i am for him ! ..so he never tries to criticise or pick on any faults if he finds any ! he keeps it quite cause i know i will not tolerate that ! haha ! I asked him if i am stubborn and he said i'm not that stubborn ! i could be though ..! and yes he always win me over ..somehow he just has his OWN WAY !
an example if this is sometimes i leave my toothpaste in my bathroom tub for example and thats when he's like ! where's your toothpaste ! it doesn't belong there..etc ! Do those things bother you as much ? I'm a very neat person in generally ! probably more of a neat freak than he is but there are little things i might not SEE as well as VIRGO"S special eyes !!!
Posted by CluelessCancer
Do you really want to be with someone who'll flip out over the location of toothpaste for the rest of your life?


!! of course not and no he DOESN"T flip out ! he wouldn't dare to but YES he does notice those little things ! VIRGO EYES !! !
but there are certain things I totally ignore and not realising that they are things he may be putting them down onto his analysing list !

I don't change for a man ! i'm just curious ! the difference between us when it comes to cleaning up and stuff is !
I DO IT FAST AND QUICK but yet efficiently ! where he does it SLOWWWWWWWWWWW ...sorting little things too bits ! Like sorting out his book shelfs...put everything onto his bed then slowly sorting out his stuff ! and he knows he annoys the crap out of me cause i just like to get things DONE where he slowly makes it perfect.... like 3 hours :S
if we do get married...i don't know how the clothing bits going to go down ! we probably need 2 different wardrobes where he organises his own cloths and i have my own ! cause my wardrobe is NOT neat AT ALL !
i hope i'm making sense here and if i had to fold his cloths too ( which he knows i probably wont because i dont fold ) i will probably think twice about marrying him because i hating folding cloths !
in saying that i know these are tiny details that he doesn't even care but i know they are annoy him in the long run.
Posted by CluelessCancer
You know how they have bedrooms with master bathroom with two sinks, they truly need to just go ahead and have two separate bedrooms connected by a door for married couples, like they do the old days.
I would love to nullify your concerns cause i think they are so meaningless, yet you are right, people fight over these types of things and that leads to divorce.
why don't you ask him? why don't you talk to him about it?


we have mentioned those little things before. It was to because of my ex (aires) who was very dominant and expected his wife to do everything.. He asked me to get back with him so what i said to him was " you remember i dont fold cloths " and he said " yes you are right !! " so he gave up on the idea ! how ridiculous is that ?
I asked my virgo if that matters to him and he said NO ! IN saying that he may not be telling me the truth because he might sound pretty stupid if he says" look those are little details i like to ignore but i can't " He knows how i made it clear to him that its pretty ridiculous that my ex gave up an idea of marrying me because i dont fold cloths so my virgo may refuse to admit it :S
I know those will be little things we will fight about and I think we need two different wardrobes ! he does his own stuff and i do my own ! i'm pretty careless when it comes to my things so maybe a cancer female may suit him more in that sense ! as she will be willing to compromise a little and is probably NEater than I am !!
he was seeing this cancer female of 1 month and already she helped him with his clothing ! helped him hang up washing etc.. and i was telling him there was no way on earth i would touch his cloths unless you are my husband !! ( STUBBORN TAURUS ) I am...smile

Posted by VirgoFlirt
"""he was seeing this cancer female of 1 month and already she helped him with his clothing ! helped him hang up washing etc.. and i was telling him there was no way on earth i would touch his cloths unless you are my husband !! ( STUBBORN"""
If you can't touch his cloths now or wash them why would he want to marry you, that is if yall are living together?
Ohh, toothpaste does not belong in the shower or the bath / garden tub either.


I have to clarify that we DO NOT LIVE together ! if we were to live together then of course i will compromise and fix up his cloths and everything else if needs be !
the cancer girl went to his house and helped him do the washing etc.

TOothpaste ! ? ! I brush my teeth in the shower and he starts to do the same now HAHA so yes occasionally i will find his toothpaste in his shower ! smile
Posted by RomancingA
Tooth paste belongs behind the mirror cupboard or at the very least in a cubby organizer inside a basket...

I have separate cups for holding my toothbrush behind the mirror as well as tooth paste.....on separate sides than my virgo haha.....even seperate towels...all my doing.
Some things just should be a certain way...


I do have those mini cup basket thing but i brush my teeth in the shower so occasionally it stays there .
separate towels ? I understand separate sides but separate towels? now thats something ! Tongue are you a virgo too ?
Posted by RomancingA
I wash my face often......behind my ears etc. I like having clean skin. The hand towels get thrown in the wash daily with the bath towels and kitchen towels. Im hygenic!!
Nothing annoys me more than touching a soggy towel and knowing someone else dried their hands there :-/ ick
Im an Aries Taurus....

Lots of Virgo experience and have been with the same one for yearsssss!
He likes my routines and cleanliness and finds comfort in it.
No complaints!


my virgo doesn't clean his towel often at all ..maybe once every two weeks !!
Posted by saweetz1988
My virgo is in a process of MAKING up his mind whether or not he wants to marry me...or have a long term serious relationship with me !



Posted by saweetz1988
if we do get married ...
... i will probably think twice about marrying him because i hating folding cloths !



Posted by saweetz1988
... my ex (aires) who was very dominant and expected his wife to do everything ..
He asked me to get back with him so what i said to him was " you remember i dont fold cloths " and he said " yes you are right !! " so he gave up on the idea ! how ridiculous is that ?
... my ex gave up an idea of marrying me because i dont fold cloths ...

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You're either English or 12 years old.
Appears as though you have no convictions ... just needy desperation in being accepted as worthy by a man and I find that to be utterly disgusting.
It's the 21st Century for christs sake .... at what point is England going catch up and start treating people equally because it's fucking disgraceful to sit here and watch a woman put all her self worth into a title ... a title in which puts her eagerly in a position of servitude according to his wishes.
I'd wager that you have no clue what I'm saying and whole heartedly believe that you should strive to be approved by him as worthy wife material.

::: shakes head :::