Virgo's why are you attracted to Aries?

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by FieryAries9108 on Tuesday, December 10, 2013 and has 44 replies.
I'm curious as to why Virgo's like/are attracted to Aries? because to me it just seems like oil and water getting together, it may be due to my heavy piscean influence buy I never can get anywhere with Virgo I always seem to hit a wall with them and it is just so frustrating especially because all I seem to attract in Virgo, I seriously feel that difference in our planet Aries (mars) and Virgo (mercury).
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Trust me. We're not.
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Yes, we have a magnetic pull to Aries (women) and Aries women seem to have a soft spot for us too.
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I love Aries men and women. I have plenty of friends both genders and my boyfriend is one. Might be my Aries moon/mars that makes me more fiery than a grounded Virgo.
I enjoy their spontaneity and honest attitude...even their temper tantrums because they're only temporary. They don't hold grudges and their optimist outlook on life and security in themselves taught me a great deal. My Aries friends in return appreciate out detail oriented ways and our attentive and caring side...but they could do without the nagging.
I could see a Virgo Man Aries Woman pair working out older in life...Aries Women in my opinion need constant attention and affection..moreso than Aries Men and I don't think young Virgo guys can provide that. Nevertheless from what I've heard, sex is always a blast.
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I have to wonder if it has something to do with the inconjunction between the signs. While I can't say that I've ever felt particularly attracted to Aries suns I do have a soft spot for the moons, which my own fire placements probably have something to do with. Aquarius though, the other inconjunct sign to Virgo... they give me warm fuzzy feelings.
Typically it is said that quincunx signs have little to nothing in common so while Pisces is Virgo's axis opposite of the zodiac, similarities remain between us which are not as present in the signs on either side. It may just be a case of opposites attracting.
Moon sign could also be playing a part to some extent.
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hell no
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i can't stand aries, seriously
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I love me some Aries....I get along with both genders. I've just always had this good rapport with them...maybe cause I have a lot of fire in my chart ...idk
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it all depends on the whole chart...for example: imagine an aries sun and an aries mars. They can't stand each other
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they remind me of myself except they seem more naturally optimistic
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Posted by ALFA
it all depends on the whole chart...for example: imagine an aries sun and an aries mars. They can't stand each other


Not true.
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hmm interesting, I don't dislike Virgo's they just cause me so much stress when all I want is to achieve middle ground with them yet it seems nothing I do can please them (Virgo women) so what qualities do you Virgo's appreciate most about Aries, I have begun to realize you may like our bluntness in some cases but not if it's directed at you.
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Posted by FieryAries9108
I'm curious as to why Virgo's like/are attracted to Aries? because to me it just seems like oil and water getting together, it may be due to my heavy piscean influence buy I never can get anywhere with Virgo I always seem to hit a wall with them and it is just so frustrating especially because all I seem to attract in Virgo, I seriously feel that difference in our planet Aries (mars) and Virgo (mercury).


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Aries men tend to be more impatient and sarcastic but yes I do often like Aries women Aries is the 8th House (of sex) from Virgo so I think that this is something to do with it. The straightforward nature of Aries women ia a refreshing thing.
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Posted by virgodog58
Aries men tend to be more impatient and sarcastic but yes I do often like Aries women Aries is the 8th House (of sex) from Virgo so I think that this is something to do with it. The straightforward nature of Aries women ia a refreshing thing.


I never thought of it that way but that must have something to do with it.
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Posted by virg_goki
they have that look that is just asking you to do naughty things to them


lol I'm guilty of this mischievous look.
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OMG! i am an aries woman. I got virgo moon and rising, I am not aware of any virgo that i was interested in, or friendship with, nobody close, to my knowledge, but this virgo guy, i can't help but be next to him, its like I have no control of myself or my emotions, there is a strong pull between us. I have never in my life had such a attraction too.. its unlogical, its unethical, lol. I want him all the while, to see his smile, make him smile, hug him, hear his voice.. its treetrunking sickening this want. but i love it!!
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by HungVirgo
they remind me of myself except they seem more naturally optimistic


That's a lie. Aries are very self aware and mostly considerate of other people, yes they got their tantrums and childlike behavior, but in general they're true people (no sneakiness bs))
My Leo placements favors aries.
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That is the truth I also am a second decan Aries so I have a good amount of leo influence =)
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Posted by raerae2one8
OMG! i am an aries woman. I got virgo moon and rising, I am not aware of any virgo that i was interested in, or friendship with, nobody close, to my knowledge, but this virgo guy, i can't help but be next to him, its like I have no control of myself or my emotions, there is a strong pull between us. I have never in my life had such a attraction too.. its unlogical, its unethical, lol. I want him all the while, to see his smile, make him smile, hug him, hear his voice.. its treetrunking sickening this want. but i love it!!


then why not go for it? if your both single nothing should be stopping you.
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we are just taking it slow.we were together at beginning of summer, then things went wrong, other people got in the way, but all summer, up until now, we talked, flirted. I couldn't get over him. I knew that he still had feelings too, could feel it, and now this past week, we started spending time together again, I am like a magnet to him. I tried to explain to him this feeling, because, for me, it is so different. I couldn't let go of him,7 months since we first got together. i just couldnt give up. i am so glad i didnt, hope this is the right time for us.
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Posted by raerae2one8
we are just taking it slow.we were together at beginning of summer, then things went wrong, other people got in the way, but all summer, up until now, we talked, flirted. I couldn't get over him. I knew that he still had feelings too, could feel it, and now this past week, we started spending time together again, I am like a magnet to him. I tried to explain to him this feeling, because, for me, it is so different. I couldn't let go of him,7 months since we first got together. i just couldnt give up. i am so glad i didnt, hope this is the right time for us.



I wish you the best of luck! be patient also I know how you feel =)
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by HungVirgo
they remind me of myself except they seem more naturally optimistic


That's a lie. Aries are very self aware and mostly considerate of other people, yes they got their tantrums and childlike behavior, but in general they're true people (no sneakiness bs))
My Leo placements favors aries.
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Shut up.
My mars and moon is in aries.
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Leos are selfish and inconsiderate unless it benefits themselves. see how you randomly inserted yourself and your bs into a thread that was completely unrelated? Leo
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Aries man currently dating a Virgo man. My mom is an Aries woman currently dating a Virgo woman. Yes we have a "modern family". My mom has been with the Virgo for 10+ years so i had a lot of practice observing. I am your carbon copy Aries.
Basically it appears at least in my opinion to work like this:
Aries are generally very self aware and therefore we edit the way we carry ourselves at a young age and eventually grow into a well dressed, articulate, confident force to be reckoned with. The Virgo notices how well we speak and carry ourselves and become curious. We lure them in. Aries becomes infatuated with an attractive Virgo and the Virgo keeps going hot and cold driving the Aries nuts but for a while it keeps the Aries very itnerested. If the Virgo is eventually able to let go of all doubt and give himself/herself fully to the Aries and commit, the pair works.
We value the careful Virgo and learn patience from them. We must learn to hold back and create the illusion of the Virgo being in control, our egos may be fragile but it ends there. We can be cold as ice. Virgos are truly sensitive under their tough outer shell. They remind me of tortoises. Old and wise with a hard outer shell but so fragile on the inside. I love my Virgo (though I admit I fall into my Aries spontaneous ways sometimes and want to just end it all together.)
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it is just sooo hard to hold back. I want to be like that, let him think of me as a mystery..lol.. just don't happen that way. i can't. daymn. its definetly something.
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Posted by aressupreme
Aries man currently dating a Virgo man. My mom is an Aries woman currently dating a Virgo woman. Yes we have a "modern family". My mom has been with the Virgo for 10+ years so i had a lot of practice observing. I am your carbon copy Aries.
Basically it appears at least in my opinion to work like this:
Aries are generally very self aware and therefore we edit the way we carry ourselves at a young age and eventually grow into a well dressed, articulate, confident force to be reckoned with. The Virgo notices how well we speak and carry ourselves and become curious. We lure them in. Aries becomes infatuated with an attractive Virgo and the Virgo keeps going hot and cold driving the Aries nuts but for a while it keeps the Aries very itnerested. If the Virgo is eventually able to let go of all doubt and give himself/herself fully to the Aries and commit, the pair works.
We value the careful Virgo and learn patience from them. We must learn to hold back and create the illusion of the Virgo being in control, our egos may be fragile but it ends there. We can be cold as ice. Virgos are truly sensitive under their tough outer shell. They remind me of tortoises. Old and wise with a hard outer shell but so fragile on the inside. I love my Virgo (though I admit I fall
into my Aries spontaneous ways sometimes and want to just end it all together.)


So basically Aries get infatuated with attractive people. That's all there is to it.
The holding back sounds like manipulation to me.
Thank God not all Aries are the same.
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It seems for most Aries...they can't even get past their ego to acknowledge the other person in the relationship.
Then they bitch and moan about not get the desired results from people
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Posted by Damnata
It seems for most Aries...they can't even get past their ego to acknowledge the other person in the relationship.
Then they bitch and moan about not get the desired results from people


Eh... you haven't actually gotten to know an Aries ever;it's apparent. What you just said is essentially what my babe said when we first met then decided to give it a shot anyways. This was roughly a year ago. Yes we have gargantuan egos but much like Virgos, we would quickly give the shirt off of our backs in freezing cold weather to a stranger in need. Also, when I say "holding back", I mean holding back our strikingly cold "insights" when we feel slighted at the least. You look for the bad in and people and will find the bad in people. Every single sign has good in them. Just kidding us Aries are fucking awful hahahahaha.
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aressupreme..my life is filled with Aries. My bf is one.
I wasn't referencing your ego in terms of your kindness.
Just from how you post about him, in a different topic where you thought you've some kind of power to break your heart if he doesn't comply to your expectations of a relationship...that's ego tripping.
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Oh, then in that case, you're are with all certainty correct. Ego tripping is embedded in my DNA though I outright admit it and am very self aware.
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With that said i caught myself and brought myself back down to Earth and said "stfu and listen to yourself dumb dumb".
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Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by HungVirgo
Posted by CluelessCancer
Posted by HungVirgo
they remind me of myself except they seem more naturally optimistic


That's a lie. Aries are very self aware and mostly considerate of other people, yes they got their tantrums and childlike behavior, but in general they're true people (no sneakiness bs))
My Leo placements favors aries.


Shut up.
My mars and moon is in aries.


Damn you all of sudden got a tad bit more interesting. My lioness says hello to your Ram.
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woman please, if I wanted you I could have you without much hassle.
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Posted by Zander256
Trust me. We're not.


This. Sowwy!
I find aries men extremely annoying and most of them have the brain of a fruitfly. The women are annoying as fuck. I didnt read the first post so dont take offense if you happen to be an Aries. This is just what I think of them from my experience.
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Im a Virgo with Aries rising, I get along with Aries quite well
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I enjoy the company of Aries people and admire their audacity.

The only thing that I have to adjust myself to is a fire energized person in competition.
Leos in particular can be big, sore losers and whiners and make you feel bad for winning.
Sagittarians will just want rematches until they win.
If you aren't friends with Arians they will, while laughing, send messages over the network about how much you suck dick even though he lost the match and then proceed to block you so you can't reply.
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Posted by Amandus
I enjoy the company of Aries people and admire their audacity.

The only thing that I have to adjust myself to is a fire energized person in competition.
Leos in particular can be big, sore losers and whiners and make you feel bad for winning.
Sagittarians will just want rematches until they win.
If you aren't friends with Arians they will, while laughing, send messages over the network about how much you suck dick even though he lost the match and then proceed to block you so you can't reply.



My leo cousin does the first one, will almost kick you out of his house if you beat him in a game.
And I definitely am infamous for doing the last one. I feel like if I've already lost the battle, I'm at the least going to win the war.
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If I lose to you I'm going to talk more shit about how I'm better than you than I would've if I had actually won. People sit there flabbergasted and I'm enjoying myself tremendously. Thats how you turn a L into a W
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Posted by Peanutbutter
Posted by Zander256
Trust me. We're not.


This. Sowwy!
I find aries men extremely annoying and most of them have the brain of a fruitfly. The women are annoying as fuck. I didnt read the first post so dont take offense if you happen to be an Aries. This is just what I think of them from my experience.
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Simmer down son. You need to look deeper than our arrogant bold exterior. I have yet to meet a dim Aries. Attributing a faltering mental capacity to an Aries male is like attributing self-worth to a Virgo. Just saying. PA-DOW!!!
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The OP makes this thread because he still didn't get whatever advice he wanted in his last 10000 threads about a Virgo chick in his class.
His ego couldn't handle it so instead of saying point blank "I don't know what to make of you people but I keep posting threads to find out" he says we get along like oil and water. As for virgos being all he attracted..he could care less about that, but he goes out of his way to analyze this girl's actions because he's attracted to her.
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Only ever met 1 Aries girl I did'nt like.
Too hot, too upfront to not like
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OMG Cajunspirit I haven't seen you in forever!!
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Haha, I had not imagined anyone would actually notice me.
Tongue
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Posted by FieryAries9108
hmm interesting, I don't dislike Virgo's they just cause me so much stress when all I want is to achieve middle ground with them yet it seems nothing I do can please them (Virgo women) so what qualities do you Virgo's appreciate most about Aries, I have begun to realize you may like our bluntness in some cases but not if it's directed at you.

This is spot on. I see this with my 2 closest girlfriends, an aries and virgo girl lol. Usually they gravitate towards me versus either of my 2 aries girlfriends.
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Posted by virg_goki
damnit cajun!! you're back!!!
How've you been???


Got screwed over after 2 years with another Sag.
Wordly women just are not for me.
Good otherwise, getting healthier thank God.
How you folks on the Virgo board been?
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Posted by LilyTree

@CajunSpirit When you say "wordly" do you mean superficial and "worldly"? May I ask, did you end it or did she?
If you two don't mind, would you kindly read my thread "I'm not a good person. Trust me." I would appreciate your input and comments in addition to the insight I've already received. No pressure.
And welcome back CajunSpirit. I must confess that I didn't notice your absence. But it's not in anyway a reflection on you or my attitude towards you; I just haven't been here in a long time myself.


She is narcissistic, hypocritical, dishonest, selfish. Turns out she values wearing high heels and dressing up to go to fancy restaurants. Not cooking at home, expanding her knowledge of the world and quiet time in simple places.
She left me for another man and lied to me even though I caught her red handed. I broke my rules for her and believed her lies all the way to 3 months later, to find out I was right all along.
I'll give your post a read.
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