Virguy is driving me crazy
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by unschuldslamm on Monday, January 29, 2007 and has 14 replies.
I?ve been talking with this guy for almost an year? the first time I went to a bar with my friends I saw him kissing with a girl ( what a lucky person I am). He told me he had another girl too, nothing serious cause he is a ?no commitment? guy.
He says he shouldn?t have told me about his girls cause that would make me feel different about him, think different?
I don?t know what to think? when I asked him if he had a friend for me to talk with, he eliminated me from msn and a few weeks later told me that he wanted me to introduce him to one of my best friends. During a few conversations he told me:
-(twice) that he felt jealous because I was going to have a date with another guy
-everything would be different if I were more talkative, if I, if I, if I?
-I appeared in his life in a strange way
-that he wanted to know if I had feelings for him? but why? Because he doesn?t want to hurt me? and then he adds: what do you want from me?
-He wouldn?t talk with my friend if I didn?t want to? besides I know my friend added him to her contact list but he has blocked her? previous to the ?tell me about you feelings? conversation?
-he wasn?t the easy type (no, I?ve realized that?)
-it?s my fault because I?m sooo shy? But he never looks into my eyes, and I have this horrible feeling that he runs away from me?
If I only knew he wants sth with me? I would ask him out, or at least I?d try to? but I feel I?m pampering his ego, and that he?s playing with me, and will do nothing about it? it?s so annoying?
He?s driving me crazy? if I disappear he will probably send me an email asking me for information about exam dates and so on? and he lives 4 blocks away from University!!! (well if he disappears I usually do the same? )
He says he shouldn?t have told me about his girls cause that would make me feel different about him, think different?
I don?t know what to think? when I asked him if he had a friend for me to talk with, he eliminated me from msn and a few weeks later told me that he wanted me to introduce him to one of my best friends. During a few conversations he told me:
-(twice) that he felt jealous because I was going to have a date with another guy
-everything would be different if I were more talkative, if I, if I, if I?
-I appeared in his life in a strange way
-that he wanted to know if I had feelings for him? but why? Because he doesn?t want to hurt me? and then he adds: what do you want from me?
-He wouldn?t talk with my friend if I didn?t want to? besides I know my friend added him to her contact list but he has blocked her? previous to the ?tell me about you feelings? conversation?
-he wasn?t the easy type (no, I?ve realized that?)
-it?s my fault because I?m sooo shy? But he never looks into my eyes, and I have this horrible feeling that he runs away from me?
If I only knew he wants sth with me? I would ask him out, or at least I?d try to? but I feel I?m pampering his ego, and that he?s playing with me, and will do nothing about it? it?s so annoying?
He?s driving me crazy? if I disappear he will probably send me an email asking me for information about exam dates and so on? and he lives 4 blocks away from University!!! (well if he disappears I usually do the same? )
Run away. Very fast.
He's not someone you even want in your life. He's immature and showing signs of using you. Irregardless of his sign.
Words AND actions are important. His actions fail badly.
Sadly, my sense this guy will only bring you pain.
Watch yourself, ok?
He's not someone you even want in your life. He's immature and showing signs of using you. Irregardless of his sign.
Words AND actions are important. His actions fail badly.
Sadly, my sense this guy will only bring you pain.
Watch yourself, ok?
thank you all for your answers! 
When I decided to approach him 4 years ago, I did it because from the outside he seemed to be a quiet person... now I think he is more like Johnny Bravo...
I don?t like no commitment guys, and I think he knows I won?t be part of his harem.
well, maybe my approach was a little bit scary... at least for him... I searched for his email and added him to my msn contact list, and told him
my name, everything... well, he was pissed off... and wasn?t talking to me... until one day when he appeared telling me he wasn?t angry anymore... :S
Now, we?ve been talking on friendly terms for an year... and here goes what I?ve written above...
Anyway, I think I?ll move on... I don?t like no commitment guys... what I found really annoying is the time I?ve spent on him... and getting nothing from him...
But I understand this is useless...
I?ll let him know I?m mad at him for all this... >
It?s a waste of time! he says confusing things and then it?s me who?s understanding everything wrong...
When I decided to approach him 4 years ago, I did it because from the outside he seemed to be a quiet person... now I think he is more like Johnny Bravo...
I don?t like no commitment guys, and I think he knows I won?t be part of his harem.
well, maybe my approach was a little bit scary... at least for him... I searched for his email and added him to my msn contact list, and told him
my name, everything... well, he was pissed off... and wasn?t talking to me... until one day when he appeared telling me he wasn?t angry anymore... :S
Now, we?ve been talking on friendly terms for an year... and here goes what I?ve written above...
Anyway, I think I?ll move on... I don?t like no commitment guys... what I found really annoying is the time I?ve spent on him... and getting nothing from him...
But I understand this is useless...
I?ll let him know I?m mad at him for all this... >
It?s a waste of time! he says confusing things and then it?s me who?s understanding everything wrong...thank you all for your answers!
When I decided to approach him 4 years ago, I did it because from the outside he seemed to be a quiet person... now I think he is more like Johnny Bravo...
I don?t like no commitment guys, and I think he knows I won?t be part of his harem.
well, maybe my approach was a little bit scary... at least for him... I searched for his email and added him to my msn contact list, and told him
my name, everything... well, he was pissed off... and wasn?t talking to me... until one day when he appeared telling me he wasn?t angry anymore... :S
Now, we?ve been talking on friendly terms for an year... and here goes what I?ve written above...
Anyway, I think I?ll move on... I don?t like no commitment guys... what I found really annoying is the time I?ve spent on him... and getting nothing from him...
But I understand this is useless...
I?ll let him know I?m mad at him for all this... > It?s a waste of time! he says confusing things and then it?s me who?s understanding everything wrong...
When I decided to approach him 4 years ago, I did it because from the outside he seemed to be a quiet person... now I think he is more like Johnny Bravo...
I don?t like no commitment guys, and I think he knows I won?t be part of his harem.
well, maybe my approach was a little bit scary... at least for him... I searched for his email and added him to my msn contact list, and told him
my name, everything... well, he was pissed off... and wasn?t talking to me... until one day when he appeared telling me he wasn?t angry anymore... :S
Now, we?ve been talking on friendly terms for an year... and here goes what I?ve written above...
Anyway, I think I?ll move on... I don?t like no commitment guys... what I found really annoying is the time I?ve spent on him... and getting nothing from him...
But I understand this is useless...
I?ll let him know I?m mad at him for all this... >
It?s a waste of time! he says confusing things and then it?s me who?s understanding everything wrong..."step back,,, no need to explain... let the things hang... virgo are nice when are at a distance..."
hahaha... i find that true.
hahaha... i find that true.
Sounds alot like a virgo I know.
They'll act like they don't want you but get all jealous if you're with someone else.
I can't stand them any more, it was cute for only the first couple of months...
Damn virgos, no wonder there are so many threads on them, they're such mind f*cks but I'm not going to start a rant on them because I just can't be bothered. I say good riddance.
But bitterness aside, I heard you have to be really patient with virgos, and you may have to wait long time to be with them. You seem to like him and he seems to like you, but who knows when it comes to virgo. I think he'll come around...in a lifetime, so if you're willing to wait for him do, it'll probably be worth it in the end.
Good luck with that, I think you'll need it.
They'll act like they don't want you but get all jealous if you're with someone else.
I can't stand them any more, it was cute for only the first couple of months...
Damn virgos, no wonder there are so many threads on them, they're such mind f*cks but I'm not going to start a rant on them because I just can't be bothered. I say good riddance.
But bitterness aside, I heard you have to be really patient with virgos, and you may have to wait long time to be with them. You seem to like him and he seems to like you, but who knows when it comes to virgo. I think he'll come around...in a lifetime, so if you're willing to wait for him do, it'll probably be worth it in the end.
Good luck with that, I think you'll need it.
Hi,crudemood! I am new to this so bare with me. I am a virgo woman who has been seeing a virgo guy for a little over 2 years.I am having some difficulty understanding what he is saying at times because he appears to double talk.We always got along until recently because of some things that are happening in his life and he tends to avoid negative things and i tend to want to address things and try to solve them. He acts as if they will eventually go away. Could you tell me what you know about Virgo men?
Scorpiogoat,it sounds like you are talking about the virgo guy i have been involved with. I thought he was so different and really trusted him. He did the push pull thing and yet would always tell me that if I stopped seeing him,he would be the one loosing out. He finally showed his emotional side to me two weeks ago and since then he has distance himself from me.I have not heard from him in a week,he won't return my call or email and i am so confused by it. I won't call or email him any more. I feel really disrespected and don't understand how you can tell someone you have deep feelings for them and then disappear.
Thanks for your input,virgogotme! Being a virgo woman,I always say what I mean but i also back it up with actions.I really do feel disrespected by his ignoring the fact that I was upset because i have always been there for him and not to even acknowledge that I am hurt and confused is kind of selfish. Even if he responded to my email with only a few words that would be better then nothing even if the words were what I didn't want to hear! How do you know so much about the virgo man?
Tanya:hahahahahhaahah.. runnnn for your life, he's a player.. trust me, some virgo's are not yet grown, as to any other signs also.. but hey who am i to tell you anything? i'm suppose to keep quiet.
tanya, lol....I throw myself into the fire of you women scorned; whatdaya wanna know bout Virguys?
virgotme.....he does.....THAT'S why he probably dissappeared....I do that sometimes as well; being buffeted with emotions that are strong mess with us; guys in general I'd like to think, but I'll remain under you microscope; Emotions are ok, but we don't like to feel so soft, and emtional; we are deep feeling guys (or at least I am) but knowing that you could just choose (just becuase the sky is gray) go away....it's hard for virguys to pour their emtions out, and then just be rejected.....we have to emotionally detatch before you make that move to move out.....I suppose well, I lack faith in my abilities to tie you ladies down at times; typically I am very windy in my flirtation style ; I blow hot, and cold, but I like to keep it on 'friend status' until I KNOW I can't do without you being in my personal space....which can be hard becuase I'm so detatched...
.......but YOUR feelings matter to me as well....It's like we give up on the relationship BEFORE it even starts....! Wow! lol 
silliness....
silliness....He has been going through some tuff times because of his parents illnesses,trying to get custody of his children,work responsibilities,etc. Each time something came up he would call me to confide in me about what was going on.He has told me many times that I make him feel good inside,he likes the type of loving,caring woman I am,he trust me with anything.The night that he came over to tell me he didn't want me seeing anyone else , he told me that when his mother opened her Christmas card from me and started to cry because of what I wrote in it and when he read it he knew his mother was crying for a good reason and he felt I had done something special.He told me that he wanted to start doing more things together and if I left he would be the looser not me!He has always been in such control of his emotions and yet this night even his body language was different. I was actually convinced he was serious.
What did you mean when you said he did respond a little bit because he has yet responded to my call or my email.Its been nothing!!
What did you mean when you said he did respond a little bit because he has yet responded to my call or my email.Its been nothing!!
He e-mailed me yesterday asking for studying tips... I answered his mail... and sent him an sms telling him I did so...
The day after...
when I returned home I was surprised to see he didn?t reply!!!! >(
A few days before...
He?s made me confess what I felt for him...and then he told me he wanted to know because he didn?t want to hurt me... and apologized... apologized!!! I wasn?t expecting that... no, he?s is definitely driving me insane!
and then he sends mails and never replies mines... it?s like an insult, cause he knows what I feel for him...
The day after...
when I returned home I was surprised to see he didn?t reply!!!! >(
A few days before...
He?s made me confess what I felt for him...and then he told me he wanted to know because he didn?t want to hurt me... and apologized... apologized!!! I wasn?t expecting that... no, he?s is definitely driving me insane!
and then he sends mails and never replies mines... it?s like an insult, cause he knows what I feel for him...
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