Vixxx!!!!

Posted by msmarilynmanson
#waives hi! oh sorry that wasnt for me lol. well waiving hi anyway.

Posted by RealTalk
*waves* You're back!!! How are you?

Posted by LostinmyMind11
Hi VV
Glad you are back...hopefully for a little while at least

Posted by Layna
Whereeeee?!
Missed you VV.

Posted by VirgoVixxxen

Posted by LostinmyMind11
Hi VV
Glad you are back...hopefully for a little while at least

Hi LIMM!
Nice to see you're still around. How's it doing???

How's the crabcake? Haven't filled that big pot with water, dashed in some beer, and turned that knob to the right yet have ya?

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Posted by RealTalk
*waves* You're back!!! How are you?

HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEYYYYYYY RT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How are you??? Missed you!!!!
We all have to catch up!
How are things with the Gem???

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Posted by VullcanLazz
*waves*Hey RT!It's VL,Whatzzz Up !

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
Hi VV
Glad you are back...hopefully for a little while at least

Hi LIMM!
Nice to see you're still around. How's it doing???

How's the crabcake? Haven't filled that big pot with water, dashed in some beer, and turned that knob to the right yet have ya?

Even if I wanted to leave...dxp would suck me back in...so I figure its best not to even fight it lol
Hahaha nope....that ship has sailed with me and the crab. We still hang out a lot but nahhh it just never was/is going anywhere...so I gave up and now hes friend zoned lol.
Sounds like you've been busy on the career front...good for you! hope all is well and stick around for a while ..would ya?! Now all we need is CLC and virgo world would be complete again

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*waves*Hey RT!It's VL,Whatzzz Up !

And you're back tooooooooooooo!!!! Missed you guys! How's everything?

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

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Posted by LostinmyMind11
Hi VV
Glad you are back...hopefully for a little while at least

Hi LIMM!
Nice to see you're still around. How's it doing???

How's the crabcake? Haven't filled that big pot with water, dashed in some beer, and turned that knob to the right yet have ya?

Even if I wanted to leave...dxp would suck me back in...so I figure its best not to even fight it lol
Hahaha nope....that ship has sailed with me and the crab. We still hang out a lot but nahhh it just never was/is going anywhere...so I gave up and now hes friend zoned lol.
Sounds like you've been busy on the career front...good for you! hope all is well and stick around for a while ..would ya?! Now all we need is CLC and virgo world would be complete again

Well, at least you can still maintain a friendship. Are you seeing anyone else at the moment or have interest elsewhere?
I missed talking to you guys!

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Posted by VirgoVixxxen

Posted by LostinmyMind11
Hi VV
Glad you are back...hopefully for a little while at least

Hi LIMM!
Nice to see you're still around. How's it doing???

How's the crabcake? Haven't filled that big pot with water, dashed in some beer, and turned that knob to the right yet have ya?

Even if I wanted to leave...dxp would suck me back in...so I figure its best not to even fight it lol
Hahaha nope....that ship has sailed with me and the crab. We still hang out a lot but nahhh it just never was/is going anywhere...so I gave up and now hes friend zoned lol.
Sounds like you've been busy on the career front...good for you! hope all is well and stick around for a while ..would ya?! Now all we need is CLC and virgo world would be complete again

Well, at least you can still maintain a friendship. Are you seeing anyone else at the moment or have interest elsewhere?
I missed talking to you guys!

nope...I guess it will happen when its meant too. What about you?

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

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Posted by VirgoVixxxen

Posted by LostinmyMind11
Hi VV
Glad you are back...hopefully for a little while at least

Hi LIMM!
Nice to see you're still around. How's it doing???

How's the crabcake? Haven't filled that big pot with water, dashed in some beer, and turned that knob to the right yet have ya?

Even if I wanted to leave...dxp would suck me back in...so I figure its best not to even fight it lol
Hahaha nope....that ship has sailed with me and the crab. We still hang out a lot but nahhh it just never was/is going anywhere...so I gave up and now hes friend zoned lol.
Sounds like you've been busy on the career front...good for you! hope all is well and stick around for a while ..would ya?! Now all we need is CLC and virgo world would be complete again

Well, at least you can still maintain a friendship. Are you seeing anyone else at the moment or have interest elsewhere?
I missed talking to you guys!

nope...I guess it will happen when its meant too. What about you?

Then we've got something in common. No relationships for me right now. Just focusing on career goals.
There is a Pisces that I recently met at work that keeps texting me under the guise of just being my "friend", but I'm not interested. With him I keep it light. He's like a little brother.
Is the crab seeing anyone else?

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Posted by VirgoVixxxen
OMG! You guys are a hoot! Still doing the freeze-out thing?! You two need to be spanked!
And yes, he was RUDE, RUDE, RUDE for that and now that I think about it, he needs to be spanked and slapped! LOL!

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Posted by VirgoVixxxen
OMG! You guys are a hoot! Still doing the freeze-out thing?! You two need to be spanked!
And yes, he was RUDE, RUDE, RUDE for that and now that I think about it, he needs to be spanked and slapped! LOL!

Oh I was pissed...he tried to give me a hug and I didnt acknowledge him...so he basically hugged my back lol. and I havent spoke with him since. Dont beg me to tell you something and open up and then turn on the mother fucking TV. hes lucky I didnt junk punch him then turn icy cold lol
its a matter of time before we talk again...but im making a statement damn it lol

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by VirgoVixxxen
OMG! You guys are a hoot! Still doing the freeze-out thing?! You two need to be spanked!
And yes, he was RUDE, RUDE, RUDE for that and now that I think about it, he needs to be spanked and slapped! LOL!

Oh I was pissed...he tried to give me a hug and I didnt acknowledge him...so he basically hugged my back lol. and I havent spoke with him since. Dont beg me to tell you something and open up and then turn on the mother fucking TV. hes lucky I didnt junk punch him then turn icy cold lol
its a matter of time before we talk again...but im making a statement damn it lol

Lol...
I spoke my ex up!!!! I'm gonna get you Vixxx!!! He sends me 8 random texts, & calls me. Ya know what I did right? IGNORED. He texts me again this morning, ignore again. He needs to feel it this time, I mean REALLY feel it. I never ignored him no longer than 2 or 3 days, but I'm ignoring him totally.
A part of me wants to contact him sooner, but that's when logic over emotion comes into play. Fuck my heart, that ho' gets me in trouble...lol. I'm kicking it with my brain until further notice, she knows the right thing to do...

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Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by RealTalk
Hahaha...he just called me again. IGNORE. This feels REALLY good!

Now what happens if you do that to a VIRGO? I mean how long is too long? Curious.

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Posted by VullcanLazz
Hey RT!Still fighting the retrograde affects,arrgghh!

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Posted by RealTalk
Hahaha...he just called me again. IGNORE. This feels REALLY good!

Now what happens if you do that to a VIRGO? I mean how long is too long? Curious.

He's still a MAN. Don't you know attraction builds when someone ignores you? Meaning for the person being ignored, they start to obsess. IGNORE HIM!!!! He's probably used to you always responding to him or whatever & he's used to having his way, so surprise that ass! IGNORE, IGNORE, & IGNORE SOME MORE! It's going to drive him mad. I promise.

I have used this method, but it doesn't change his behavior towards me, of course when I pull this he is more insistent on wanting to see me or using emotive words...but long term..stuck with the same issues ..why I guess I don't even bother ...solves nothing..but I'll try it again if he bothers to call...I haven't talked to him since Saturday. This is the most time we have not talked to one another. I have a feeling we aren't going to talk to one another soon.
He's attempting to get out of my life. and I'm saying bye. Don't let the door hit you. I mean I will not call him. I rather walk on hot coals.

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Posted by VirgoVixxxen
OMG! You guys are a hoot! Still doing the freeze-out thing?! You two need to be spanked!
And yes, he was RUDE, RUDE, RUDE for that and now that I think about it, he needs to be spanked and slapped! LOL!

Oh I was pissed...he tried to give me a hug and I didnt acknowledge him...so he basically hugged my back lol. and I havent spoke with him since. Dont beg me to tell you something and open up and then turn on the mother fucking TV. hes lucky I didnt junk punch him then turn icy cold lol
its a matter of time before we talk again...but im making a statement damn it lol

Lol...
I spoke my ex up!!!! I'm gonna get you Vixxx!!! He sends me 8 random texts, & calls me. Ya know what I did right? IGNORED. He texts me again this morning, ignore again. He needs to feel it this time, I mean REALLY feel it. I never ignored him no longer than 2 or 3 days, but I'm ignoring him totally.
A part of me wants to contact him sooner, but that's when logic over emotion comes into play. Fuck my heart, that ho' gets me in trouble...lol. I'm kicking it with my brain until further notice, she knows the right thing to do...

Rt ...you crack my shit up! Yeah I'm wanting to say sorry to my friend...but fuck that shit...he was an ass and he kinda deserves the freeze out. Play around with me...you get owned son! Hahaha i think I'm so tough smh at myself lol

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Posted by VirgoVixxxen
OMG! You guys are a hoot! Still doing the freeze-out thing?! You two need to be spanked!
And yes, he was RUDE, RUDE, RUDE for that and now that I think about it, he needs to be spanked and slapped! LOL!

Oh I was pissed...he tried to give me a hug and I didnt acknowledge him...so he basically hugged my back lol. and I havent spoke with him since. Dont beg me to tell you something and open up and then turn on the mother fucking TV. hes lucky I didnt junk punch him then turn icy cold lol
its a matter of time before we talk again...but im making a statement damn it lol

Lol...
I spoke my ex up!!!! I'm gonna get you Vixxx!!! He sends me 8 random texts, & calls me. Ya know what I did right? IGNORED. He texts me again this morning, ignore again. He needs to feel it this time, I mean REALLY feel it. I never ignored him no longer than 2 or 3 days, but I'm ignoring him totally.
A part of me wants to contact him sooner, but that's when logic over emotion comes into play. Fuck my heart, that ho' gets me in trouble...lol. I'm kicking it with my brain until further notice, she knows the right thing to do...

Rt ...you crack my shit up! Yeah I'm wanting to say sorry to my friend...but fuck that shit...he was an ass and he kinda deserves the freeze out. Play around with me...you get owned son! Hahaha i think I'm so tough smh at myself lol

Lol @ you got owned son, haha. Teach his ass a lesson. That's exactly what I'm doing because he needs to know I'm not the same woman I was when I was with him. I'm like yeah, didn't expect that didja?

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I'm gonna keep doing what I'm doing, fuck what she's talking about. She's not serious because you're SHOWING him that it's ok for him to disrespect you. He will respond to no contact/ignoring because now you're taking ACTION & now he will start thinking...

So we talked for two hours last night (ya stupid me instead of ignoring his call, i picked up), he called saying im sick did you curse me, i guess he wanted sympathy. Anyways we talked about science, politics, religion, blah blah ..than he goes do you want ME to stop Calling you..and I was like WTF...LET me CREATE THE BOUNDARIES for myself..it's like he has all the POWER. SMH. I really am Pathetic. It's disgusting.
So i was like well what's the point of talking anymore. So I told him until you want to tell me what happened in January to make you not want to be in this relationship, cause I know something occurred, than yes I want you to STOP calling me.
Ended it that way. I mean for him to even say do you want me to stop calling you, this guy...lmao he is soooooooooo DONE!
pig.

if i was a guy, someone bringing up the past all the time would be annoying and would push me away. why not just enjoy the moment with him cc?

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Posted by VirgoVixxxen
OMG! You guys are a hoot! Still doing the freeze-out thing?! You two need to be spanked!
And yes, he was RUDE, RUDE, RUDE for that and now that I think about it, he needs to be spanked and slapped! LOL!

Oh I was pissed...he tried to give me a hug and I didnt acknowledge him...so he basically hugged my back lol. and I havent spoke with him since. Dont beg me to tell you something and open up and then turn on the mother fucking TV. hes lucky I didnt junk punch him then turn icy cold lol
its a matter of time before we talk again...but im making a statement damn it lol

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Posted by RealTalk
Hahaha...he just called me again. IGNORE. This feels REALLY good!

Posted by VirgoVixxxen

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by VirgoVixxxen
OMG! You guys are a hoot! Still doing the freeze-out thing?! You two need to be spanked!
And yes, he was RUDE, RUDE, RUDE for that and now that I think about it, he needs to be spanked and slapped! LOL!

Oh I was pissed...he tried to give me a hug and I didnt acknowledge him...so he basically hugged my back lol. and I havent spoke with him since. Dont beg me to tell you something and open up and then turn on the mother fucking TV. hes lucky I didnt junk punch him then turn icy cold lol
its a matter of time before we talk again...but im making a statement damn it lol

lol, you two are like an old married couple. He's so comfortable with you he may not even realize that some of the things he does is offensive. I'm all for a good freeze-out but make sure you're also conveying your feelings in words. You should call him on it as much as possible. He may not like it, may think you're a nag, but too bad because he can either shape-up or ship-out.

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Posted by virgoking
That leo moon making you very dramatic

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by LostinmyMind11
He probably was seeing what your reaction was gonna be and of course it was the same *dramatic* Like I said you need to chill out. If you are anything like you are here with your post in real life...hes probably emotionally exhausted from you. I know I would be and I dont even know you. I can only imagine...

Stop clouding my judgment.,he wasn't looking at my reaction, he was very calm when he said that, he wanted to help me move on...it's simple.
I thought Virgo's were very analytical and calculating and didn't like to hurt people's feelings. This was his way of easing things for me because I have told him several times, we can't talk to one another, it just keeps me at an emotional state i don't want to be.
So finally he said Do you want me to stop calling you. That's his way of being nice to me.
I'll take it.

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Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by VirgoVixxxen
OMG! You guys are a hoot! Still doing the freeze-out thing?! You two need to be spanked!
And yes, he was RUDE, RUDE, RUDE for that and now that I think about it, he needs to be spanked and slapped! LOL!

Oh I was pissed...he tried to give me a hug and I didnt acknowledge him...so he basically hugged my back lol. and I havent spoke with him since. Dont beg me to tell you something and open up and then turn on the mother fucking TV. hes lucky I didnt junk punch him then turn icy cold lol
its a matter of time before we talk again...but im making a statement damn it lol

lol, you two are like an old married couple. He's so comfortable with you he may not even realize that some of the things he does is offensive. I'm all for a good freeze-out but make sure you're also conveying your feelings in words. You should call him on it as much as possible. He may not like it, may think you're a nag, but too bad because he can either shape-up or ship-out.

Hahaha yeah we really are...smh Apparently we still havent learned a damn thing...doing circles lol. Oh I did call him out on it..as I was giving him the death stare lol. I even told him I was already in a mood (due to work) and its probably best that you dont come up...he did anyway and fri night...we went out to eat and sat in silence. In all fairness he did say "Ill come up and if you want we can just sit there and stare at the wall in silence together"... hahaha we are something else.

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He probably was seeing what your reaction was gonna be and of course it was the same *dramatic* Like I said you need to chill out. If you are anything like you are here with your post in real life...hes probably emotionally exhausted from you. I know I would be and I dont even know you. I can only imagine...

Stop clouding my judgment.,he wasn't looking at my reaction, he was very calm when he said that, he wanted to help me move on...it's simple.
I thought Virgo's were very analytical and calculating and didn't like to hurt people's feelings. This was his way of easing things for me because I have told him several times, we can't talk to one another, it just keeps me at an emotional state i don't want to be.
So finally he said Do you want me to stop calling you. That's his way of being nice to me.
I'll take it.

^^^ emotionally draining and game player. You must like all this...cause you put up with it. You say "oh im done"...blah blah blah...but yet you are constantly talking about him. Bad mouthing him, putting him down because he doesnt do what you want...I think its time to look in the mirror...I dont think hes the problem...you are!

I never said he was the problem nor do I bad mouth him. I only talk about our relationship. He isn't into me, doesn't mean I am bad mouthing him, it just means he isn't into me.
I am constantly talking bout him, cause he makes me throw up, he makes me have bowel movements, he makes me cry. I haven't had this happen to me in a very long time. It's love. I can't help myself. I love him.

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Posted by CluelessCancer
*twiddles thumbs* where is REAL TALK when you need her. Don't VIRGOS say what they mean. If a guy says "Do you want me to stop calling"...and you reply "Well what are we doing, talking, and about what" and he goes "well we can talk about politics"...that's his way of telling you he doesn't want to hurt you any longer and wants to help you feel better about the situation...that all he see's you as a "FRIEND" who he can talk "politics" with....
i mean its like giving me crumbs...i don't need crumbs. I dont' want crumbs. I want everything.

d to grab my stuff and run over to the Vixx thread. *Waves to RT *

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Posted by virgodreamz
Hey VV
I think I was traveling at that time I went to East Africa it was beautiful!
You've been missing too. What have you been up to?

Whoa what part of East Africa?

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Posted by virgodreamz
Hey VV
I think I was traveling at that time I went to East Africa it was beautiful!
You've been missing too. What have you been up to?

I could imagine!
Where exactly did you go in EA?
Sounds like you had a great experience...

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@CC&VV I was in Kenya and loved it!
@VV hope you will be around. Sounds like you've been working hard - Typical Virgirl fashion! I read somewhere that we don't settle knowing that number one is an option.

Posted by virgodreamz
Yay I decided to grab my stuff and run over to the Vixx thread. *Waves to RT *

Posted by CluelessCancer

Posted by virgodreamz
Hey VV
I think I was traveling at that time I went to East Africa it was beautiful!
You've been missing too. What have you been up to?

Whoa what part of East Africa?

Posted by VirgoVixxxen

Posted by virgodreamz
Hey VV
I think I was traveling at that time I went to East Africa it was beautiful!
You've been missing too. What have you been up to?

I could imagine!
Where exactly did you go in EA?
Sounds like you had a great experience...

@CC&VV I was in Kenya and loved it!
@VV hope you will be around. Sounds like you've been working hard - Typical Virgirl fashion! I read somewhere that we don't settle knowing that number one is an option.

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