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Nov 25, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 162 · Topics: 17
Tonight was one of the weirdest and toughest night of my life.
I was about to send an email to virguy today, telling him that I liked him. Then, I talked to a friend and he told me that virguy and his ex-girlfriend were back together starting in february. (they have a long-distance relationship) What a shock that was. I was wondering how worse things could get. Here is how they got worse:
I had organized a dinner at a restaurant for tonight, and although after hearing the news about virguy I was reluctant to go, I had to go, since I was the organizer.
After 5 minutes we arrive at the restaurant, virguy walks in. Guess who is next to him? His girlfriend!!!! He sees me, we're both in shock. They come to our table and they say hi very quickly and then leave for their table.
Can you possibly imagine how I felt? Wow! That was a lot of pain. I was lucky to have my best friends with me but still I had to look happy because a lot of people at our table had no idea what was going on.
I was looking for closure, now I have it. But it has been a very tough one. I wish life was a little nicer to me...
And what are the chances????? The same night, the same restaurant, the same time. All on the day I heard the news for the first time and had absolutely no time to digest things...
This is my last post on DXP. I would like to thank everyone for their time and responses for the last 6 months or so. I cannot stay here because everything here reminds me of him. Even my user name!!!
I just wanted to share this story. Stuff like this happen in real life apparently. I had always thought they were exaggerating things in soap operas and/or sitcoms. LOL!
Wish everyone the best of luck...
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 13612 · Topics: 756
Life is full of surprises in every possible corner, loss of one experience is to gain another one, and this will pass too no matter how painful and difficult it might be.
I wish you good luck and happy life?
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
You know, as much as this hurts you right now, Scopiogoat is right .. a fast hard punch is better than slow torture. Actually, this probably isn't the time and place, but, I really admire the fact that you have the strength and were able to put on a happy face and entertain your guests. That kind of fortitude is impressive, FFV .. it shows just what kind of stuff you're made of ..
Secretly, my evil side is hoping that he saw just how marvelous you managed and was envious as hell ..
After you've gotten yourself back to the place where you're comfortable, come back. Change your name to something fun and spirited .. this isn't goodbye, it's "later".
** HUGS **
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Nov 05, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 201 · Topics: 21
scopiogoat: It usually work like that. When you are really ready to get a closure, the universe helps to get you one.
I totally agree with you. This has happened to me on several occasions throughout my life. It is true that the universe is always working on our behalf and we should have trust on that the things will eventually turn out for the best. You know what that means FFV? There is something wonderful coming up for you. Somethng so big and amazing that you will have no pain left, in fact, you'll be happy that it did not work out with him. Just be patienet and maintain your trust. And let us know when it happens!
love4ever/xxx