What does it mean when...

A virgal friend gets bluntly stuck into you about something you're doing wrong and begs you to please change your life priorities for your own benefit... I've been told if a virgo doesn't give a rat's butt, they won't offer anything and that if they criticise and become bossy and beg you to change something, that it's a sign that they care about you...

Yay? Nay? I'm just a bit taken by it because she's never been so "harsh" (and I use that term loosely because she was still very gentle about it... but was the "harshest" thing she's ever said to me) and yet at the same time, she's never asked me to do anything for her...

virgos only care about you for their own gain because they know you'll repay them later

If she has never told you what to do before, and is now practically begging you to do something that she deems is in your best interest .... then the prudent move at this point would be to take a look at where she's pointing, rather than coming in here to say she's stuck in her head.


But, you're a Gemini ... so we all know you can't look at yourself.

Posted by P-Angel
If she has never told you what to do before, and is now practically begging you to do something that she deems is in your best interest .... then the prudent move at this point would be to take a look at where she's pointing, rather than coming in here to say she's stuck in her head.


But, you're a Gemini ... so we all know you can't look at yourself.

Excuse me P-Angel!?

I AM looking at where she's pointing and I AM taking steps to rectify my situation, I was merely asking a question as I was curious as to why this may have come about. Not once did I say, make out or assume she's "stuck in her head". Why is it that whenever you post something on this site you manage to take it WAY out of context and start a fucking conflict with someone? All I ever see is people having a shot at you because you're fucking out of line. Go shove your pigheaded assumptions up your arse sideways where they fucking belong.

Yes I'm a Gemini, and I AM capable of looking at myself and my behaviour. I am the FIRST to criticise myself for my mistakes and my faults.

Seriously, fuck you and your fucking attitude P-Angel.

Posted by Layna

Posted by SapphireGem
it's a sign that they care about you...

You answered your own question? 🙂

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Thankyou Layna, that's all I needed 🙂

so all you needed, was what you already said?

dumb much?

Is this the same Virgo chick you wrote before? I remember she stated she wanted only friendship. And we care a lot about our friends

She cares about you and thinks you'll be better off if u change. Either that or she's criticizing harshly because she needs a good excuse to get out of the relationship.

Ask her if she's really happy with you and don't change for anyone. She'll just have to deal with it. If she can't. Leave!!