haylz124
@haylz124
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What reaction do you think I will get from a virgo man?
Ha I didn't know what tree trunk meant guess I do now since the forum automatically changed it ha
Posted by TotiDid he message you to tell you he got engaged? Or just vanished and you found out on your own?
Same happened to me. He was so kind to let me know that he got engaged. Good luck!
Posted by TurquoiseArrowHe deserves nothing good from me ?
It is virgo season.....you get him a gift?
What was your reaction when he called you his girl and told you that you were amazing?
Posted by TotiOh god why bother texting? something wrong there you're lucky to be away!Posted by haylz124Posted by TotiDid he message you to tell you he got engaged? Or just vanished and you found out on your own?
Same happened to me. He was so kind to let me know that he got engaged. Good luck!
He vanished for 8 weeks and sent me a text that he got engaged.
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Posted by WildatHeartHe was a bit drunk at the time I told him it was sweet but didn't take it too seriously. I didn't want to bring it up again incase I scared him off.
What was your reaction when he called you his girl and told you that you were amazing?
Posted by IxionI still haven't replied I hate messaging people when I have strong emotions! He's been messaging "if you're not feeling it just tell me" why? Cos you showed me the same courtesy? Lol
Your text message should be fine as far as what you are getting at...the tone may be problematic if he is big on tone.
I don't want to come across angry or upset, problematic as you say I might just leave it with a simple "it's over" if he can't guess why that's his problem lol
Posted by IxionI don't want to come off as harsh see his gran who helped raise him has been sick and he seems to vanish in her periods of recovery. He knows the exact number of days we go without speaking, stuff like that even I don't remember. Could he be vanishing because of her? And just not want to tell me this? is that something a virgo would do?Posted by haylz124I mean I can't disagree with the logic there.Posted by IxionI still haven't replied I hate messaging people when I have strong emotions! He's been messaging "if you're not feeling it just tell me" why? Cos you showed me the same courtesy? Lol
Your text message should be fine as far as what you are getting at...the tone may be problematic if he is big on tone.
I don't want to come across angry or upset, problematic as you say I might just leave it with a simple "it's over" if he can't guess why that's his problem lol
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Posted by IxionPosted by haylz124I am a very virgoey virgo...I don't find that I disappear but I do realize that I have had different expectations on when and how often a person needs to check in with their partner while in a relationship.....it happens because my past partners and I while able to get along on the big issues had some smaller things that needed to be corrected to make things functional...Posted by IxionI don't want to come off as harsh see his gran who helped raise him has been sick and he seems to vanish in her periods of recovery. He knows the exact number of days we go without speaking, stuff like that even I don't remember. Could he be vanishing because of her? And just not want to tell me this? is that something a virgo would do?Posted by haylz124I mean I can't disagree with the logic there.Posted by IxionI still haven't replied I hate messaging people when I have strong emotions! He's been messaging "if you're not feeling it just tell me" why? Cos you showed me the same courtesy? Lol
Your text message should be fine as far as what you are getting at...the tone may be problematic if he is big on tone.
I don't want to come across angry or upset, problematic as you say I might just leave it with a simple "it's over" if he can't guess why that's his problem lol
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Thanking you, you have been most helpful
Disappearing isn't usually my thing, either, but I do tend to give what I'm given. And I do keep track of things so that I don't walk away feeling like a fool.
For example, there's this one girl that I met online about a year ago. She lives over an hour away and we've never met in person, but we hit it off quickly and I thought things were going well.
But then several months ago she stopped replying as much. I would send her a message and she would reply a few hours later with something like "hey"; I would reply back, and that would be the end of it. So I stopped sending her messages.
Now, she'll send me a message every week or two, and every time I get one I'm surprised. I reply immediately almost every time and try to chat, but it always ends with me sending the last message. So then I'm always waiting for her to reply: I sent the last message, so I'm not sending another one.
When she messages me, it's clear that she thinks I should have been messaging her all along and that I'M the one that's disappeared. But in reality, I'm waiting for her to reply and act like she's interested. She wants me to do all the chasing, but I don't want to feel stupid by chasing a girl that's not interested.
The problem here is a breakdown in communication. I'm waiting on her, she's waiting on me, and we're both irritated by it.
The guy you're talking about messages you, so he's still thinking about you and is concerned about the relationship. My advice is, if you want to salvage the relationship then have an honest and friendly conversation about your expectations.
Or, if you want to break up, then go ahead blow up at him; it won't fix anything and you'll leave him feeling bad about himself while his gran is dying, but he'll definitely get the hint that you're done with him.
For example, there's this one girl that I met online about a year ago. She lives over an hour away and we've never met in person, but we hit it off quickly and I thought things were going well.
But then several months ago she stopped replying as much. I would send her a message and she would reply a few hours later with something like "hey"; I would reply back, and that would be the end of it. So I stopped sending her messages.
Now, she'll send me a message every week or two, and every time I get one I'm surprised. I reply immediately almost every time and try to chat, but it always ends with me sending the last message. So then I'm always waiting for her to reply: I sent the last message, so I'm not sending another one.
When she messages me, it's clear that she thinks I should have been messaging her all along and that I'M the one that's disappeared. But in reality, I'm waiting for her to reply and act like she's interested. She wants me to do all the chasing, but I don't want to feel stupid by chasing a girl that's not interested.
The problem here is a breakdown in communication. I'm waiting on her, she's waiting on me, and we're both irritated by it.
The guy you're talking about messages you, so he's still thinking about you and is concerned about the relationship. My advice is, if you want to salvage the relationship then have an honest and friendly conversation about your expectations.
Or, if you want to break up, then go ahead blow up at him; it won't fix anything and you'll leave him feeling bad about himself while his gran is dying, but he'll definitely get the hint that you're done with him.
Posted by haylz124then just ghost him - that's what he did to you right ? give him a taste of his own medicine but better yet, just forget him, don't answer and hope he just fades permanently into the sunset ...Posted by IxionI still haven't replied I hate messaging people when I have strong emotions! He's been messaging "if you're not feeling it just tell me" why? Cos you showed me the same courtesy? Lol
Your text message should be fine as far as what you are getting at...the tone may be problematic if he is big on tone.
I don't want to come across angry or upset, problematic as you say I might just leave it with a simple "it's over" if he can't guess why that's his problem lol
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Posted by haylz124virgo or not, it isn't normal and one doesn't deserve to be treated that wayPosted by IxionI don't want to come off as harsh see his gran who helped raise him has been sick and he seems to vanish in her periods of recovery. He knows the exact number of days we go without speaking, stuff like that even I don't remember. Could he be vanishing because of her? And just not want to tell me this? is that something a virgo would do?Posted by haylz124I mean I can't disagree with the logic there.Posted by IxionI still haven't replied I hate messaging people when I have strong emotions! He's been messaging "if you're not feeling it just tell me" why? Cos you showed me the same courtesy? Lol
Your text message should be fine as far as what you are getting at...the tone may be problematic if he is big on tone.
I don't want to come across angry or upset, problematic as you say I might just leave it with a simple "it's over" if he can't guess why that's his problem lol
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Posted by csdude55I would agree with this however, my past is riddled with domestic abuse and pretty nasty people so I don't chase people. He knows this however, I broke my rule usually i'm really stubborn and do not go out of my way to chase or contact people first but I liked him and I know i'm a little harsh so I did it I contacted him! The last 2 contacts were initiated by me! and yes it killed me to do this but i realised i need to change as I am very cold and hard. It was definitely his turn
Disappearing isn't usually my thing, either, but I do tend to give what I'm given. And I do keep track of things so that I don't walk away feeling like a fool.
For example, there's this one girl that I met online about a year ago. She lives over an hour away and we've never met in person, but we hit it off quickly and I thought things were going well.
But then several months ago she stopped replying as much. I would send her a message and she would reply a few hours later with something like "hey"; I would reply back, and that would be the end of it. So I stopped sending her messages.
Now, she'll send me a message every week or two, and every time I get one I'm surprised. I reply immediately almost every time and try to chat, but it always ends with me sending the last message. So then I'm always waiting for her to reply: I sent the last message, so I'm not sending another one.
When she messages me, it's clear that she thinks I should have been messaging her all along and that I'M the one that's disappeared. But in reality, I'm waiting for her to reply and act like she's interested. She wants me to do all the chasing, but I don't want to feel stupid by chasing a girl that's not interested.
The problem here is a breakdown in communication. I'm waiting on her, she's waiting on me, and we're both irritated by it.
The guy you're talking about messages you, so he's still thinking about you and is concerned about the relationship. My advice is, if you want to salvage the relationship then have an honest and friendly conversation about your expectations.
Or, if you want to break up, then go ahead blow up at him; it won't fix anything and you'll leave him feeling bad about himself while his gran is dying, but he'll definitely get the hint that you're done with him.
Posted by tctaMy point exactly he says you're tough you can handle this stuff and yeah on the surface I can in reality i'm a chocolate M&M crunchy on the outside and soft on the inside and regardless of how I seem to handle stuff inside I don't but if i could handle it I don't deserve it!!!Posted by haylz124virgo or not, it isn't normal and one doesn't deserve to be treated that wayPosted by IxionI don't want to come off as harsh see his gran who helped raise him has been sick and he seems to vanish in her periods of recovery. He knows the exact number of days we go without speaking, stuff like that even I don't remember. Could he be vanishing because of her? And just not want to tell me this? is that something a virgo would do?Posted by haylz124I mean I can't disagree with the logic there.Posted by IxionI still haven't replied I hate messaging people when I have strong emotions! He's been messaging "if you're not feeling it just tell me" why? Cos you showed me the same courtesy? Lol
Your text message should be fine as far as what you are getting at...the tone may be problematic if he is big on tone.
I don't want to come across angry or upset, problematic as you say I might just leave it with a simple "it's over" if he can't guess why that's his problem lol
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Posted by EddieVanJoviWYM?Posted by haylz124Damn, he's good at getting attention.
it's been a friggin month since he called me "his girl" and told me I was amazing only for him to vanish into the background
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Posted by EddieVanJoviWhat do you mean lolPosted by haylz124What?Posted by EddieVanJoviWYM?Posted by haylz124Damn, he's good at getting attention.
it's been a friggin month since he called me "his girl" and told me I was amazing only for him to vanish into the background
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Posted by haylz124tell him you don't want to have to handle it even if you can - azz wipe - no you don't and for him to say that proves that he's not being upfront cause he's trying to put this on you - if there was a good reason he can't communicate with you for month then ante up - if not, what game is he playing and what is the real deal - come clean and be real or get the f lost - ain't nobody got time for that - no, I don't need someone stuck up my azz 24/7 but not communicating for an entire month - sumptin upPosted by tctaMy point exactly he says you're tough you can handle this stuff and yeah on the surface I can in reality i'm a chocolate M&M crunchy on the outside and soft on the inside and regardless of how I seem to handle stuff inside I don't but if i could handle it I don't deserve it!!!Posted by haylz124virgo or not, it isn't normal and one doesn't deserve to be treated that wayPosted by IxionI don't want to come off as harsh see his gran who helped raise him has been sick and he seems to vanish in her periods of recovery. He knows the exact number of days we go without speaking, stuff like that even I don't remember. Could he be vanishing because of her? And just not want to tell me this? is that something a virgo would do?Posted by haylz124I mean I can't disagree with the logic there.Posted by IxionI still haven't replied I hate messaging people when I have strong emotions! He's been messaging "if you're not feeling it just tell me" why? Cos you showed me the same courtesy? Lol
Your text message should be fine as far as what you are getting at...the tone may be problematic if he is big on tone.
I don't want to come across angry or upset, problematic as you say I might just leave it with a simple "it's over" if he can't guess why that's his problem lol
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Posted by tctaYes totally agree I'm not the type of person that wants a good morning text everyday if that happens I just end up staring at my phone thinking why the hell would you send that? I told him the last time I saw him once a month was cool with me for seeing each other cos we're both just too busy, well I am. And as for texting all day every day I don't have the patience or time just a Hi if and when you wanna talk is cool, meaning like once a week or something. I'm not asking for too much and regardless of whats going on in his life if he still has time to go out with his friends every W/E he has time for me once a month Dam i feel so needy and this aqua just aint used to that lolPosted by haylz124tell him you don't want to have to handle it even if you can - azz wipe - no you don't and for him to say that proves that he's not being upfront cause he's trying to put this on you - if there was a good reason he can't communicate with you for month then ante up - if not, what game is he playing and what is the real deal - come clean and be real or get the f lost - ain't nobody got time for that - no, I don't need someone stuck up my azz 24/7 but not communicating for an entire month - sumptin upPosted by tctaMy point exactly he says you're tough you can handle this stuff and yeah on the surface I can in reality i'm a chocolate M&M crunchy on the outside and soft on the inside and regardless of how I seem to handle stuff inside I don't but if i could handle it I don't deserve it!!!Posted by haylz124virgo or not, it isn't normal and one doesn't deserve to be treated that wayPosted by IxionI don't want to come off as harsh see his gran who helped raise him has been sick and he seems to vanish in her periods of recovery. He knows the exact number of days we go without speaking, stuff like that even I don't remember. Could he be vanishing because of her? And just not want to tell me this? is that something a virgo would do?Posted by haylz124I mean I can't disagree with the logic there.Posted by IxionI still haven't replied I hate messaging people when I have strong emotions! He's been messaging "if you're not feeling it just tell me" why? Cos you showed me the same courtesy? Lol
Your text message should be fine as far as what you are getting at...the tone may be problematic if he is big on tone.
I don't want to come across angry or upset, problematic as you say I might just leave it with a simple "it's over" if he can't guess why that's his problem lol
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Posted by EddieVanJoviPosted by haylz124He liked the attention you gave him.Posted by EddieVanJoviWhat do you mean lolPosted by haylz124What?Posted by EddieVanJoviWYM?Posted by haylz124Damn, he's good at getting attention.
it's been a friggin month since he called me "his girl" and told me I was amazing only for him to vanish into the background
He is, obviously, experiencing mental health problems.
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That's what I thought it's him not me!
Posted by haylz124ok so you alluded to the fact that you don't need that much and now you are wanting more - then just tell him and see what happens - then if he doesn't hold up on his end, you are free to resume driving until you find a new lanePosted by tctaYes totally agree I'm not the type of person that wants a good morning text everyday if that happens I just end up staring at my phone thinking why the hell would you send that? I told him the last time I saw him once a month was cool with me for seeing each other cos we're both just too busy, well I am. And as for texting all day every day I don't have the patience or time just a Hi if and when you wanna talk is cool, meaning like once a week or something. I'm not asking for too much and regardless of whats going on in his life if he still has time to go out with his friends every W/E he has time for me once a month Dam i feel so needy and this aqua just aint used to that lolPosted by haylz124tell him you don't want to have to handle it even if you can - azz wipe - no you don't and for him to say that proves that he's not being upfront cause he's trying to put this on you - if there was a good reason he can't communicate with you for month then ante up - if not, what game is he playing and what is the real deal - come clean and be real or get the f lost - ain't nobody got time for that - no, I don't need someone stuck up my azz 24/7 but not communicating for an entire month - sumptin upPosted by tctaMy point exactly he says you're tough you can handle this stuff and yeah on the surface I can in reality i'm a chocolate M&M crunchy on the outside and soft on the inside and regardless of how I seem to handle stuff inside I don't but if i could handle it I don't deserve it!!!Posted by haylz124virgo or not, it isn't normal and one doesn't deserve to be treated that wayPosted by IxionI don't want to come off as harsh see his gran who helped raise him has been sick and he seems to vanish in her periods of recovery. He knows the exact number of days we go without speaking, stuff like that even I don't remember. Could he be vanishing because of her? And just not want to tell me this? is that something a virgo would do?Posted by haylz124I mean I can't disagree with the logic there.Posted by IxionI still haven't replied I hate messaging people when I have strong emotions! He's been messaging "if you're not feeling it just tell me" why? Cos you showed me the same courtesy? Lol
Your text message should be fine as far as what you are getting at...the tone may be problematic if he is big on tone.
I don't want to come across angry or upset, problematic as you say I might just leave it with a simple "it's over" if he can't guess why that's his problem lol
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Posted by tctaI haven't seen him for 6 weeks-ish or heard from him in around a month it's not wanting more than I asked for it's just wanting what I asked for! When I laid these terms down he sounded cool and said that worked for him but then doesn't follow them. In truth i'm not sure what I want but I know i'm not capable of moving in with him for a long time or committing further. Yes i'd be loyal and not touch another human and see him as "my man" but i aren't looking at a future with him I tend to live in the moment. I'm pretty much a spade is a spade type of girl and say exactly how I feel.Posted by haylz124ok so you alluded to the fact that you don't need that much and now you are wanting more - then just tell him and see what happens - then if he doesn't hold up on his end, you are free to resume driving until you find a new lanePosted by tctaYes totally agree I'm not the type of person that wants a good morning text everyday if that happens I just end up staring at my phone thinking why the hell would you send that? I told him the last time I saw him once a month was cool with me for seeing each other cos we're both just too busy, well I am. And as for texting all day every day I don't have the patience or time just a Hi if and when you wanna talk is cool, meaning like once a week or something. I'm not asking for too much and regardless of whats going on in his life if he still has time to go out with his friends every W/E he has time for me once a month Dam i feel so needy and this aqua just aint used to that lolPosted by haylz124tell him you don't want to have to handle it even if you can - azz wipe - no you don't and for him to say that proves that he's not being upfront cause he's trying to put this on you - if there was a good reason he can't communicate with you for month then ante up - if not, what game is he playing and what is the real deal - come clean and be real or get the f lost - ain't nobody got time for that - no, I don't need someone stuck up my azz 24/7 but not communicating for an entire month - sumptin upPosted by tctaMy point exactly he says you're tough you can handle this stuff and yeah on the surface I can in reality i'm a chocolate M&M crunchy on the outside and soft on the inside and regardless of how I seem to handle stuff inside I don't but if i could handle it I don't deserve it!!!Posted by haylz124virgo or not, it isn't normal and one doesn't deserve to be treated that wayPosted by IxionI don't want to come off as harsh see his gran who helped raise him has been sick and he seems to vanish in her periods of recovery. He knows the exact number of days we go without speaking, stuff like that even I don't remember. Could he be vanishing because of her? And just not want to tell me this? is that something a virgo would do?Posted by haylz124I mean I can't disagree with the logic there.Posted by IxionI still haven't replied I hate messaging people when I have strong emotions! He's been messaging "if you're not feeling it just tell me" why? Cos you showed me the same courtesy? Lol
Your text message should be fine as far as what you are getting at...the tone may be problematic if he is big on tone.
I don't want to come across angry or upset, problematic as you say I might just leave it with a simple "it's over" if he can't guess why that's his problem lol
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Yes totally agree I'm not the type of person that wants a good morning text everyday if that happens I just end up staring at my phone thinking why the hell would you send that? I told him the last time I saw him once a month was cool with me for seeing each other cos we're both just too busy, well I am. And as for texting all day every day I don't have the patience or time just a Hi if and when you wanna talk is cool, meaning like once a week or something. I'm not asking for too much and regardless of whats going on in his life if he still has time to go out with his friends every W/E he has time for me once a month Dam i feel so needy and this aqua just aint used to that lolYou're an Aquarius? I've never felt like these were a good match for a Virgo, maybe because of this.
The way I'm reading this, you set rules because you're too busy for a big commitment, and it sounds like he's obeying those rules. But now you've changed your mind, and you're mad because he hasn't figured it out yet. That doesn't seem fair to me at all.
I don't blame you for wanting more than talking once a month, but you told him that's what you wanted, right? I feel like I'm missing something here.
Personally, I DO like to wake up to "good morning" messages from my girl and for her to show that she's excited to talk to me... a relationship like you've described would have bored me after a few days of being ignored, and after a month of no contact I'll probably have already moved on to someone else.
Posted by csdude55The good morning texts are just too tedious for me! I just dont get the whole text once a dayYes totally agree I'm not the type of person that wants a good morning text everyday if that happens I just end up staring at my phone thinking why the hell would you send that? I told him the last time I saw him once a month was cool with me for seeing each other cos we're both just too busy, well I am. And as for texting all day every day I don't have the patience or time just a Hi if and when you wanna talk is cool, meaning like once a week or something. I'm not asking for too much and regardless of whats going on in his life if he still has time to go out with his friends every W/E he has time for me once a month Dam i feel so needy and this aqua just aint used to that lolYou're an Aquarius? I've never felt like these were a good match for a Virgo, maybe because of this.
The way I'm reading this, you set rules because you're too busy for a big commitment, and it sounds like he's obeying those rules. But now you've changed your mind, and you're mad because he hasn't figured it out yet. That doesn't seem fair to me at all.
I don't blame you for wanting more than talking once a month, but you told him that's what you wanted, right? I feel like I'm missing something here.
Personally, I DO like to wake up to "good morning" messages from my girl and for her to show that she's excited to talk to me... a relationship like you've described would have bored me after a few days of being ignored, and after a month of no contact I'll probably have already moved on to someone else.click to expand
The virgo aqua match can actually be quite successful but it's just not working in this case. I dunno he never initiated daily texts I just don't think you get me I'm an aqua I'm chilled very chilled if he text yeah cool I'll text back no matter if it's a good morning text I don't play games I don't say stuff I don't mean I'm blunt I'm honest I say what I want when I want and I couldn't give 2 flying tree trunks what anyone says I'll accept with open arms any contact and always have. Basically I'm the straightest person you'll have ever met! He was the one that pulled back after vanishing for the 4th time it had been 2 months between seeing each other then.... so after vanishing so much I basically said whatever you need to vanish that's cool and in my mind it is (it's because I'm overly chilled) but I would like to see you once a month atleast what's wrong with that? And how's he following the rules? Anyways Iv decided, it's his birthdays Saturday I'm just going to send a HB message I'm not going to let his behaviour go to heart but I won't tolerate his fajizzle either! I don't want to text rant or shout at him that's not my style
Posted by TurquoiseArrowI think you missed the point he's not here in personPosted by haylz124If you are going to tell him that, have the decency to do it in person. If your just looking for a reaction out of him, thats a very bad thing to want for.
I'm sick to my back teeth of his vanishing acts and I'm done and have been for a while now! So I got the random hello message from him it's been a friggin month since he called me "his girl" and told me I was amazing only for him to vanish into the background and yeah I'm pissed off, seriously pissed off!!
This isn't the first time he's poofed off the face of the earth no it's the bloody 5th wouldn't mind but it's the 5th time and we've barely gotten into a relationship!! Sorry I'm angry as you can tell so I pre wrote a message I'm seriously considering sending his flakey ass!
"I'm a person too and I deserve respect so unless you can come up with a pretty good reason why you keep fucking off I suggest you jog on for good"
What do you think? I doubt I'm going to calm down enough to send anything else and the more I don't respond to his messages the more he messages
The things you have said here in your post...you should tell him those things.
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Posted by TurquoiseArrowNot even here in text or in call lolPosted by haylz124If you are going to tell him that, have the decency to do it in person. If your just looking for a reaction out of him, thats a very bad thing to want for.
I'm sick to my back teeth of his vanishing acts and I'm done and have been for a while now! So I got the random hello message from him it's been a friggin month since he called me "his girl" and told me I was amazing only for him to vanish into the background and yeah I'm pissed off, seriously pissed off!!
This isn't the first time he's poofed off the face of the earth no it's the bloody 5th wouldn't mind but it's the 5th time and we've barely gotten into a relationship!! Sorry I'm angry as you can tell so I pre wrote a message I'm seriously considering sending his flakey ass!
"I'm a person too and I deserve respect so unless you can come up with a pretty good reason why you keep fucking off I suggest you jog on for good"
What do you think? I doubt I'm going to calm down enough to send anything else and the more I don't respond to his messages the more he messages
The things you have said here in your post...you should tell him those things.
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Posted by TurquoiseArrowPosted by haylz124Ok....so you show up on his doorstep. Problem solved. Be a woman of action....be assured that will get his attention.Posted by TurquoiseArrowI think you missed the point he's not here in personPosted by haylz124If you are going to tell him that, have the decency to do it in person. If your just looking for a reaction out of him, thats a very bad thing to want for.
I'm sick to my back teeth of his vanishing acts and I'm done and have been for a while now! So I got the random hello message from him it's been a friggin month since he called me "his girl" and told me I was amazing only for him to vanish into the background and yeah I'm pissed off, seriously pissed off!!
This isn't the first time he's poofed off the face of the earth no it's the bloody 5th wouldn't mind but it's the 5th time and we've barely gotten into a relationship!! Sorry I'm angry as you can tell so I pre wrote a message I'm seriously considering sending his flakey ass!
"I'm a person too and I deserve respect so unless you can come up with a pretty good reason why you keep fucking off I suggest you jog on for good"
What do you think? I doubt I'm going to calm down enough to send anything else and the more I don't respond to his messages the more he messages
The things you have said here in your post...you should tell him those things.
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I actually considered that tonight but Iv had too much vodka to drive do you think that would work? With a virgo?
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and if he has never initiated daily texts to you like your saying....just forget about him.
a virgo that want text, email, etc., is not interested.
This is what Iv always told myself if he wants to go above and beyond he would contact me
His grandma is sick? For all you know he's been dealing with her illness. Maybe she passed away and he's been mourning/making arrangements for the body.
If you are for sure done with him then by all means send the message. But as you don't know the circumstances of his disappearance you may be burning a bridge unnecessarily.
If it's me I'm confronting him on this face to face to gauge his sincerity. Then I'm making it clear that I expect more regular communication if we continue on with the relationship.
If you are for sure done with him then by all means send the message. But as you don't know the circumstances of his disappearance you may be burning a bridge unnecessarily.
If it's me I'm confronting him on this face to face to gauge his sincerity. Then I'm making it clear that I expect more regular communication if we continue on with the relationship.
Posted by LadyNeptuneThis is why I haven't sent it his gran raised him up along with his mum cos his dad walked out I don't want to go in all guns blazing if that's happened. If it's true and he has such a deep connection to his family that he can't text a girl then that's totally cool I just dunno what to send him ATM I don't think it's the worst and I think she'll recover. Obvs I'm not happy with how things have been dealt with and I'm a little annoyed with him there's no reason he can't send a text or be honest I'd understand and wait but he hasn't!
His grandma is sick? For all you know he's been dealing with her illness. Maybe she passed away and he's been mourning/making arrangements for the body.
If you are for sure done with him then by all means send the message. But as you don't know the circumstances of his disappearance you may be burning a bridge unnecessarily.
If it's me I'm confronting him on this face to face to gauge his sincerity. Then I'm making it clear that I expect more regular communication if we continue on with the relationship.
Posted by haylz124Don't show up uninvited to his house. That's psycho gf territory.Posted by TurquoiseArrowPosted by haylz124Ok....so you show up on his doorstep. Problem solved. Be a woman of action....be assured that will get his attention.Posted by TurquoiseArrowI think you missed the point he's not here in personPosted by haylz124If you are going to tell him that, have the decency to do it in person. If your just looking for a reaction out of him, thats a very bad thing to want for.
I'm sick to my back teeth of his vanishing acts and I'm done and have been for a while now! So I got the random hello message from him it's been a friggin month since he called me "his girl" and told me I was amazing only for him to vanish into the background and yeah I'm pissed off, seriously pissed off!!
This isn't the first time he's poofed off the face of the earth no it's the bloody 5th wouldn't mind but it's the 5th time and we've barely gotten into a relationship!! Sorry I'm angry as you can tell so I pre wrote a message I'm seriously considering sending his flakey ass!
"I'm a person too and I deserve respect so unless you can come up with a pretty good reason why you keep fucking off I suggest you jog on for good"
What do you think? I doubt I'm going to calm down enough to send anything else and the more I don't respond to his messages the more he messages
The things you have said here in your post...you should tell him those things.
I actually considered that tonight but Iv had too much vodka to drive do you think that would work? With a virgo?
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Ask him to meet with you. If he doesn't make the effort then that's a sign to walk away.
Posted by LadyNeptuneI'm waaaay away from psycho territoryPosted by haylz124Don't show up uninvited to his house. That's psycho gf territory.Posted by TurquoiseArrowPosted by haylz124Ok....so you show up on his doorstep. Problem solved. Be a woman of action....be assured that will get his attention.Posted by TurquoiseArrowI think you missed the point he's not here in personPosted by haylz124If you are going to tell him that, have the decency to do it in person. If your just looking for a reaction out of him, thats a very bad thing to want for.
I'm sick to my back teeth of his vanishing acts and I'm done and have been for a while now! So I got the random hello message from him it's been a friggin month since he called me "his girl" and told me I was amazing only for him to vanish into the background and yeah I'm pissed off, seriously pissed off!!
This isn't the first time he's poofed off the face of the earth no it's the bloody 5th wouldn't mind but it's the 5th time and we've barely gotten into a relationship!! Sorry I'm angry as you can tell so I pre wrote a message I'm seriously considering sending his flakey ass!
"I'm a person too and I deserve respect so unless you can come up with a pretty good reason why you keep fucking off I suggest you jog on for good"
What do you think? I doubt I'm going to calm down enough to send anything else and the more I don't respond to his messages the more he messages
The things you have said here in your post...you should tell him those things.
I actually considered that tonight but Iv had too much vodka to drive do you think that would work? With a virgo?
Ask him to meet with you. If he doesn't make the effort then that's a sign to walk away.click to expand
I'm gunna be reasonable if he's not interested I'm blocking and it's done! I'm not going on like this forever
He lives with his mum I did consider it to have a fun night but.... he's too strict on work which he'll have tomorrow so will want to get to bed early
That's what I mean I accommodate ppls feelings but not even send a text idk what to do I like him I even broke my stubborn ways to try make it work idk what to do
That's what I mean I accommodate ppls feelings but not even send a text idk what to do I like him I even broke my stubborn ways to try make it work idk what to do
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yea and i would wait when your not drunk......
i hate women that are alchoholics.
I'm not an alchy lol
Posted by haylz124It's not just him, it's you too. If you don't like his behaviour don't put up with it. The power is in your hand, you can choose to stay in this pseudo relationship and just keep complaining about his disappearing act. Or you can tell him you don't like his disappearing act and if he chooses to keep it up then it's best to let him go and found someone who treats you the way you want to be treated.Posted by EddieVanJoviPosted by haylz124He liked the attention you gave him.Posted by EddieVanJoviWhat do you mean lolPosted by haylz124What?Posted by EddieVanJoviWYM?Posted by haylz124Damn, he's good at getting attention.
it's been a friggin month since he called me "his girl" and told me I was amazing only for him to vanish into the background
He is, obviously, experiencing mental health problems.
That's what I thought it's him not me!
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