lol...ok I know i"m going to get it. The guy I have been flirting with the virgo guy for months and months and months...well today I finally got the girly balls to give him my number. Low and behold he was at the coffee counter behind me and i watched him grab his coffee with a big fat frigen wedding band. Who the hell flirts like he was when your married. Ok I know..it could have been all in my head, but it wasn't in my head when he stared at me as I walked away many times..if he is married.....THEN WHAT WAS HE FRIGGEN STARING AT????
mine is a flirter..he boaders on Leo..he is a scorpio rising..
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
I remember you .... you're the one who made a thread saying that he's into you because he looks at you.
And I commented about how it's all in your head, because you want him to like you, so you believe that just because he looked at you, it means he wants you.
you said you only visit the grocery store about once a month, and every time he looks at you.
I told you, you were delusional in thinking that just because a man looks you that it means he likes you.
But, of course, you were in denial because that's what people do who can't accept the truth.
Now, we find out I was right all along .... he's doesn't want you, he wants his wife, that's why he showed you he is married, which is a non-verbal way of him saying ... "leave me the fuck alone"
lol
hey Pee angel, your right and I was wrong. Now do you feel better? I think that you are a very lonely soul, extremely bitter human being that lacks that class, compassion and basic human kindness. Seriously, i know you don't care about what you say. And since I don't really know you, your meaningless and do mean meaningless babble is really funny. At first I was like irritated, but after reading your posts on others thread, you are pretty funny. When we are hear expressing our souls to the board, you have to jump in and talk sh*t. Nobody in your "real" life can probably stand you. Thats why you have to come and hide behind your computer and talk the sh*t that you wish you could to someone in real person. YOu can talk all th crap you want about people lettint their minds wander fallin in love..etc. Thats living you idiot. That is what nakes people stronger, uh hello...I can go on and explain basic human psychoogy to dry bunny like you...but then again I know you don't care. That is what life has done to YOU. bitter and used up....yea I made a mistake, I can admit it, and move on...
pee angel,..negative nitwit..lol
what I meant was that ok her assessment was valid and mine was too, in regards to her... Thatis what I meant. I understand I misread this man's intentions, stare or whatever. I already admitted that. I don't have a problem with aaying I was wrong and let my imagination get to me, and I do feel like an idiot..lol. I'm human. And to be honest, these boards are supposed to be for support, not to defend yourself against being upset if someone attacks you, really now. Bye.
what I meant was that ok her assessment was valid and mine was too, in regards to her... Thatis what I meant. I understand I misread this man's intentions, stare or whatever. I already admitted that. I don't have a problem with aaying I was wrong and let my imagination get to me, and I do feel like an idiot..lol. I'm human. And to be honest, these boards are supposed to be for support, not to defend yourself against being upset if someone attacks you, really now. Bye. and I would like to say there were certain nuances that i picked up on that he was interested, maybe with just playing cuz he knew he was married, but you can't know what it was\100% because you were not there.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
Alright, I'll put it here then.
Speak publicly or stfu
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from ariescuspbaby1212 sent on 12/20/2012 at 10:36:04 AM
you thrive on hurting people. this can't be something new for you. Is this why you are such a shitty human being? yOU HAVE TO assert youself in the most masculine, un educated way just so that you get some shine. Its because nobody likes you, likes WHO YOU ARE..and here you are on a computer site preying on people who need help.... I have never been so clear on anything before. Denial is a mother, so is karma, but then again, I think YOUARE living your karnma,...YIKES
Aries,
I posted the other day and got a similar brow beating from that cancer cunt believing that we should all go through life doing what he would do instead of stumbling along making our own mistakes.
He'd be a total fucker to be married to.
PM me and I'll give you a friendlier site to visit.
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Jul 09, 2010Comments: 4 · Posts: 1112 · Topics: 21
You know ariescuspbaby1212,
Don't let some posters bother you. Seriously, we all fantasize and it's often about someone we can't have; whether we realized that at the time or not. It's human nature to believe someone who stares at you on numerous occasions is either attracted to you or at the very least, intrigued. Actually I experienced this with a man who I knew fairly well, but understood he was married. I was single at the time, and although it would have been nice to see if a relationship could have developed between us; I dropped my thoughts about him fairly quickly.
Nothing is worse than getting hung up on someone you can't have.
Honestly, having feelings is being human. You don't have to defend how you feel to anyone. Your feelings are yours just as someone else's has their own personal experiences etc.
You seem like a smart young lady, so I'm sure you'll live and learn from this. In fact I'll bet you'll be laughing about it in the near future. Chalk it up to gaining more experience reading people and knowing how to react.
I've always believed that respect is earned. You don't earn respect on a message board or in life by constantly finding fault in others and always coming across as infallible. People who practice this type of behavior are insecure. It's much easier to attempt to cut someone down than have to work on building yourself up. I have no problem admitting I have my share of weaknesses and sometimes lack judgement. It's what you gain from that in the long run that makes you who you are.
All the best with your endeavor to meet that guy who isn't married and you can really connect with.
Merry Christmas!