what the hell

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by ariescuspbaby1212 on Wednesday, December 19, 2012 and has 25 replies.
lol...ok I know i"m going to get it. The guy I have been flirting with the virgo guy for months and months and months...well today I finally got the girly balls to give him my number. Low and behold he was at the coffee counter behind me and i watched him grab his coffee with a big fat frigen wedding band. Who the hell flirts like he was when your married. Ok I know..it could have been all in my head, but it wasn't in my head when he stared at me as I walked away many times..if he is married.....THEN WHAT WAS HE FRIGGEN STARING AT????
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mine is a flirter..he boaders on Leo..he is a scorpio rising..
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Posted by ariescuspbaby1212
lol...ok I know i"m going to get it. The guy I have been flirting with the virgo guy for months and months and months...well today I finally got the girly balls to give him my number. Low and behold he was at the coffee counter behind me and i watched him grab his coffee with a big fat frigen wedding band. Who the hell flirts like he was when your married. Ok I know..it could have been all in my head, but it wasn't in my head when he stared at me as I walked away many times..if he is married.....THEN WHAT WAS HE FRIGGEN STARING AT????


Who said he was flirting, besides you? You built a fantasy up of this man in your head for a whole year and injected your own feelings onto his behaviours and proceeded to even get hurt feelings, you even attributed a sun sign to him. IF he was staring at you it was either because he was looking at your vital bits in appreciation or he got that you were flirting with him and he enjoyed himself with a good old ego stroke. BTW Men stare... a lot - I read an interesting article recently regarding men and their peripheral vision, seemingly it isn't as good as womens so they look straight at what it is has caught their attention rather than from the sides smile Don't know if its true, must investigate.
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Posted by ariescuspbaby1212
lol...ok I know i"m going to get it. The guy I have been flirting with the virgo guy for months and months and months...well today I finally got the girly balls to give him my number. Low and behold he was at the coffee counter behind me and i watched him grab his coffee with a big fat frigen wedding band. Who the hell flirts like he was when your married. Ok I know..it could have been all in my head, but it wasn't in my head when he stared at me as I walked away many times..if he is married.....THEN WHAT WAS HE FRIGGEN STARING AT????


Who said he was flirting, besides you? You built a fantasy up of this man in your head for a whole year and injected your own feelings onto his behaviours and proceeded to even get hurt feelings, you even attributed a sun sign to him. IF he was staring at you it was either because he was looking at your vital bits in appreciation or he got that you were flirting with him and he enjoyed himself with a good old ego stroke. BTW Men stare... a lot - I read an interesting article recently regarding men and their peripheral vision, seemingly it isn't as good as womens so they look straight at what it is has caught their attention rather than from the sides smile Don't know if its true, must investigate.
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yea I know, i have to stop dreaming so much, its the mercury in pisces I think. I feel like an idiot. I don't care what anyone says though, if he didn't want me to think he was interested it would have been nice for him not to stare at me like he did, it isn't rocket science to know if your leading someone on or not thoug...oh well.. I'll get over it and back to my old self though...
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I remember you .... you're the one who made a thread saying that he's into you because he looks at you.
And I commented about how it's all in your head, because you want him to like you, so you believe that just because he looked at you, it means he wants you.
you said you only visit the grocery store about once a month, and every time he looks at you.
I told you, you were delusional in thinking that just because a man looks you that it means he likes you.
But, of course, you were in denial because that's what people do who can't accept the truth.

Now, we find out I was right all along .... he's doesn't want you, he wants his wife, that's why he showed you he is married, which is a non-verbal way of him saying ... "leave me the fuck alone"

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http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/virgo/NEED-VIRGO-MAN-INSIGHT-3541427.asp

Here it is right here ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ ... where you were already told that this is all in your head.
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hey Pee angel, your right and I was wrong. Now do you feel better? I think that you are a very lonely soul, extremely bitter human being that lacks that class, compassion and basic human kindness. Seriously, i know you don't care about what you say. And since I don't really know you, your meaningless and do mean meaningless babble is really funny. At first I was like irritated, but after reading your posts on others thread, you are pretty funny. When we are hear expressing our souls to the board, you have to jump in and talk sh*t. Nobody in your "real" life can probably stand you. Thats why you have to come and hide behind your computer and talk the sh*t that you wish you could to someone in real person. YOu can talk all th crap you want about people lettint their minds wander fallin in love..etc. Thats living you idiot. That is what nakes people stronger, uh hello...I can go on and explain basic human psychoogy to dry bunny like you...but then again I know you don't care. That is what life has done to YOU. bitter and used up....yea I made a mistake, I can admit it, and move on...
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pee angel,..negative nitwit..lol
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Posted by ariescuspbaby1212
hey Pee angel, your right and I was wrong. Now do you feel better? I think that you are a very lonely soul, extremely bitter human being that lacks that class, compassion and basic human kindness. Seriously, i know you don't care about what you say. And since I don't really know you, your meaningless and do mean meaningless babble is really funny. At first I was like irritated, but after reading your posts on others thread, you are pretty funny. When we are hear expressing our souls to the board, you have to jump in and talk sh*t. Nobody in your "real" life can probably stand you. Thats why you have to come and hide behind your computer and talk the sh*t that you wish you could to someone in real person. YOu can talk all th crap you want about people lettint their minds wander fallin in love..etc. Thats living you idiot. That is what nakes people stronger, uh hello...I can go on and explain basic human psychoogy to dry bunny like you...but then again I know you don't care. That is what life has done to YOU. bitter and used up....yea I made a mistake, I can admit it, and move on...


Perhaps you should analyze your own behaviour and actions instead of having a crazy meltdown at P-Angel. It's irrelevant whether she is polite or not.
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Posted by Lenore0908
That's so funny! I read somewhere that married men grow cajones and sometimes flirt MORE than when they were single, because there is less risk of rejection.
But if he was single, he wouldn't have the confidence to approach you.
He wants to see if he can pull you!
Guys are funny smile


hey thats true, thanks for the intelligent comment
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Posted by incandescentcancer
Posted by ariescuspbaby1212
hey Pee angel, your right and I was wrong. Now do you feel better? I think that you are a very lonely soul, extremely bitter human being that lacks that class, compassion and basic human kindness. Seriously, i know you don't care about what you say. And since I don't really know you, your meaningless and do mean meaningless babble is really funny. At first I was like irritated, but after reading your posts on others thread, you are pretty funny. When we are hear expressing our souls to the board, you have to jump in and talk sh*t. Nobody in your "real" life can probably stand you. Thats why you have to come and hide behind your computer and talk the sh*t that you wish you could to someone in real person. YOu can talk all th crap you want about people lettint their minds wander fallin in love..etc. Thats living you idiot. That is what nakes people stronger, uh hello...I can go on and explain basic human psychoogy to dry bunny like you...but then again I know you don't care. That is what life has done to YOU. bitter and used up....yea I made a mistake, I can admit it, and move on...


Perhaps you should analyze your own behaviour and actions instead of having a crazy meltdown at P-Angel. It's irrelevant whether she is polite or not.
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yea i am analyzing thanks..and the crazy meltdown felt just fine thank you...lol
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Posted by ariescuspbaby1212
hey Pee angel, your right and I was wrong. Now do you feel better? I think that you are a very lonely soul, extremely bitter human being that lacks that class, compassion and basic human kindness. Seriously, i know you don't care about what you say. And since I don't really know you, your meaningless and do mean meaningless babble is really funny. At first I was like irritated, but after reading your posts on others thread, you are pretty funny. When we are hear expressing our souls to the board, you have to jump in and talk sh*t. Nobody in your "real" life can probably stand you. Thats why you have to come and hide behind your computer and talk the sh*t that you wish you could to someone in real person. YOu can talk all th crap you want about people lettint their minds wander fallin in love..etc. Thats living you idiot. That is what nakes people stronger, uh hello...I can go on and explain basic human psychoogy to dry bunny like you...but then again I know you don't care. That is what life has done to YOU. bitter and used up....yea I made a mistake, I can admit it, and move on...


Perhaps you should analyze your own behaviour and actions instead of having a crazy meltdown at P-Angel. It's irrelevant whether she is polite or not.
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and...I do have to say this. I'm communicating to her in her own style . We teach people how to treat us. All of her commnets have a sadistic satire to it. So if I was nice...i doubt she would get it. If you think I'm having a meltdow. what do you call it when she goes off on people who just have an open heart and want constuctive and an empathetic ear. That is why we are here. Again, SHE TOUCHES PEOPLE WITH HER DARKNESS.. not her light..*************** Thats a human problem, not an internet site communication problem love.
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Posted by ariescuspbaby1212
and...I do have to say this. I'm communicating to her in her own style . We teach people how to treat us. All of her commnets have a sadistic satire to it. So if I was nice...i doubt she would get it. If you think I'm having a meltdow. what do you call it when she goes off on people who just have an open heart and want constuctive and an empathetic ear. That is why we are here. Again, SHE TOUCHES PEOPLE WITH HER DARKNESS.. not her light..*************** Thats a human problem, not an internet site communication problem love.


The point is however she communicates it, her assessment was valid. Worry about the message forget the messenger. Are you going to blow up on everyone in real life who might be rude to you? The moment you focus on the messenger you're wasting time.
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Posted by incandescentcancer
Posted by ariescuspbaby1212
and...I do have to say this. I'm communicating to her in her own style . We teach people how to treat us. All of her commnets have a sadistic satire to it. So if I was nice...i doubt she would get it. If you think I'm having a meltdow. what do you call it when she goes off on people who just have an open heart and want constuctive and an empathetic ear. That is why we are here. Again, SHE TOUCHES PEOPLE WITH HER DARKNESS.. not her light..*************** Thats a human problem, not an internet site communication problem love.


The point is however she communicates it, her assessment was valid. Worry about the message forget the messenger. Are you going to blow up on everyone in real life who might be rude to you? The moment you focus on the messenger you're wasting time.
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Im emotional..you should understand this..if your a cancer..lol. What can I say, i'ma lotta things love, and yes emotional and crazy, but I"m also alot of wonderful things...its all a part of my magic sweetheart..lol
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Posted by incandescentcancer
Posted by ariescuspbaby1212
and...I do have to say this. I'm communicating to her in her own style . We teach people how to treat us. All of her commnets have a sadistic satire to it. So if I was nice...i doubt she would get it. If you think I'm having a meltdow. what do you call it when she goes off on people who just have an open heart and want constuctive and an empathetic ear. That is why we are here. Again, SHE TOUCHES PEOPLE WITH HER DARKNESS.. not her light..*************** Thats a human problem, not an internet site communication problem love.


The point is however she communicates it, her assessment was valid. Worry about the message forget the messenger. Are you going to blow up on everyone in real life who might be rude to you? The moment you focus on the messenger you're wasting time.


Im emotional..you should understand this..if your a cancer..lol. What can I say, i'ma lotta things love, and yes emotional and crazy, but I"m also alot of wonderful things...its all a part of my magic sweetheart..lol
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**and..sure her assessment was correct. But so was mine.... It is what is...
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Posted by incandescentcancer
Posted by ariescuspbaby1212
and...I do have to say this. I'm communicating to her in her own style . We teach people how to treat us. All of her commnets have a sadistic satire to it. So if I was nice...i doubt she would get it. If you think I'm having a meltdow. what do you call it when she goes off on people who just have an open heart and want constuctive and an empathetic ear. That is why we are here. Again, SHE TOUCHES PEOPLE WITH HER DARKNESS.. not her light..*************** Thats a human problem, not an internet site communication problem love.


The point is however she communicates it, her assessment was valid. Worry about the message forget the messenger. Are you going to blow up on everyone in real life who might be rude to you? The moment you focus on the messenger you're wasting time.
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Ok..well my assesment is really valid as well.love, all i'm saying is that there is a way of talking to people. And as far as just focusing on the message, not the messenger, I can say the same for you..smile. My message is clear. Don't focus on how I deliver then. Youare doing the same thing you told me not to do to her. All i'm saying is that people get the energy you put out. All it takes is a smile and compassion that can really help and change the world. This silly conversation about someone who maybe cares but just lacks the tact is I guess what its about....she is hurting people more than helping, and that is just wrong. How can you defend that?
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Posted by ariescuspbaby1212
Ok..well my assesment is really valid as well.love, all i'm saying is that there is a way of talking to people. And as far as just focusing on the message, not the messenger, I can say the same for you..smile. My message is clear. Don't focus on how I deliver then. Youare doing the same thing you told me not to do to her. All i'm saying is that people get the energy you put out. All it takes is a smile and compassion that can really help and change the world. This silly conversation about someone who maybe cares but just lacks the tact is I guess what its about....she is hurting people more than helping, and that is just wrong. How can you defend that?


How was your assessment valid...lol, the guy was married and was probably just returning your stare...lol. You're angry with P-Angel and I am just pointing out how thoughtless that is. I am not defending her nor am I attacking you. I understand you're hurt but if you don't confront what happened honestly you're doomed to do it again. I am saying this with the best of intention not to hurt you, what do I gain by that??
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what I meant was that ok her assessment was valid and mine was too, in regards to her... Thatis what I meant. I understand I misread this man's intentions, stare or whatever. I already admitted that. I don't have a problem with aaying I was wrong and let my imagination get to me, and I do feel like an idiot..lol. I'm human. And to be honest, these boards are supposed to be for support, not to defend yourself against being upset if someone attacks you, really now. Bye.
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what I meant was that ok her assessment was valid and mine was too, in regards to her... Thatis what I meant. I understand I misread this man's intentions, stare or whatever. I already admitted that. I don't have a problem with aaying I was wrong and let my imagination get to me, and I do feel like an idiot..lol. I'm human. And to be honest, these boards are supposed to be for support, not to defend yourself against being upset if someone attacks you, really now. Bye. and I would like to say there were certain nuances that i picked up on that he was interested, maybe with just playing cuz he knew he was married, but you can't know what it was\100% because you were not there.
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Posted by ariescuspbaby1212
what I meant was that ok her assessment was valid and mine was too, in regards to her... Thatis what I meant. I understand I misread this man's intentions, stare or whatever. I already admitted that. I don't have a problem with aaying I was wrong and let my imagination get to me, and I do feel like an idiot..lol. I'm human. And to be honest, these boards are supposed to be for support, not to defend yourself against being upset if someone attacks you, really now. Bye. and I would like to say there were certain nuances that i picked up on that he was interested, maybe with just playing cuz he knew he was married, but you can't know what it was\100% because you were not there.


Try to relax, your emotions are overcoming you. I can and do understand that. Believe me I am not trying to attack you in anyway at all, you're under attack from your own strong emotions. Feel it and allow it to pass. good luck!
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Alright, I'll put it here then.
Speak publicly or stfu
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from ariescuspbaby1212 sent on 12/20/2012 at 10:36:04 AM

you thrive on hurting people. this can't be something new for you. Is this why you are such a shitty human being? yOU HAVE TO assert youself in the most masculine, un educated way just so that you get some shine. Its because nobody likes you, likes WHO YOU ARE..and here you are on a computer site preying on people who need help.... I have never been so clear on anything before. Denial is a mother, so is karma, but then again, I think YOUARE living your karnma,...YIKES
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Aries,
I posted the other day and got a similar brow beating from that cancer cunt believing that we should all go through life doing what he would do instead of stumbling along making our own mistakes.
He'd be a total fucker to be married to.
PM me and I'll give you a friendlier site to visit.
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Posted by immaculate virgoan
Aries,
I posted the other day and got a similar brow beating from that cancer cunt believing that we should all go through life doing what he would do instead of stumbling along making our own mistakes.
PM me and I'll give you a friendlier site to visit.



Absolutely right, a cunt who wants to be a mistress helping a girl with an imaginary lover...LMAO. The one eyed leading the blind....LOL!
Posted by immaculate virgoan
He'd be a total fucker to be married to.
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your mama said the same thing about your daddy, look how well they did....lolololol
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Posted by incandescentcancer
Posted by immaculate virgoan
Aries,
I posted the other day and got a similar brow beating from that cancer cunt believing that we should all go through life doing what he would do instead of stumbling along making our own mistakes.
PM me and I'll give you a friendlier site to visit.



Absolutely right, a cunt who wants to be a mistress helping a girl with an imaginary lover...LMAO. The one eyed leading the blind....LOL!
Posted by immaculate virgoan
He'd be a total fucker to be married to.


your mama said the same thing about your daddy, look how well they did....lolololol
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incandescentcancer...
YOu want to appear all yoda zen like with fluid thougts, you just lost all your credibility grasshopper. The End. "snap" .
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You know ariescuspbaby1212,
Don't let some posters bother you. Seriously, we all fantasize and it's often about someone we can't have; whether we realized that at the time or not. It's human nature to believe someone who stares at you on numerous occasions is either attracted to you or at the very least, intrigued. Actually I experienced this with a man who I knew fairly well, but understood he was married. I was single at the time, and although it would have been nice to see if a relationship could have developed between us; I dropped my thoughts about him fairly quickly.
Nothing is worse than getting hung up on someone you can't have.
Honestly, having feelings is being human. You don't have to defend how you feel to anyone. Your feelings are yours just as someone else's has their own personal experiences etc.
You seem like a smart young lady, so I'm sure you'll live and learn from this. In fact I'll bet you'll be laughing about it in the near future. Chalk it up to gaining more experience reading people and knowing how to react.
I've always believed that respect is earned. You don't earn respect on a message board or in life by constantly finding fault in others and always coming across as infallible. People who practice this type of behavior are insecure. It's much easier to attempt to cut someone down than have to work on building yourself up. I have no problem admitting I have my share of weaknesses and sometimes lack judgement. It's what you gain from that in the long run that makes you who you are.
All the best with your endeavor to meet that guy who isn't married and you can really connect with.
Merry Christmas!
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