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Sep 29, 2016Comments: 0 · Posts: 181 · Topics: 27
Title says it all.
Also, would it best to send it once they’re not so emotionally charged or?
Opinions/suggestions/advice please.
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Jun 18, 2019Comments: 14 · Posts: 560 · Topics: 6
I've learned that with Virgo's, it doesnt matter what you say or do to apologize. They'll never forget. They may let it slide eventually but they'll never forget. Especially if you're romantically involved. Co-workers, friends or your child might be more chill about it tho. They just never forget.
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Depends on what you did, my mood and how close we are. I'm probably one of the few that tend to forgive more than I should...I blame my leo bits on that. People make mistakes but don't get it twisted...do that mistake again and you're dead to me. If something huge...then you're dead to me. We really do never forget tho lol.
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include pics of angels helping children as you recount their good deeds, and maybe quote some of the lyrics from "The Wind Beneath My Wings" by Bette Midler...
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Jan 22, 2016Comments: 1153 · Posts: 4982 · Topics: 13
I would include a 50% discount voucher on detergents and personal hygiene products. If you wanna wipe the slate clean - that's usually a good start. 😉👌
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"You were right. I should have listened to you. I was wrong. I shouldn't have done that. I'll let you put it in my ass next time."
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Sep 29, 2016Comments: 0 · Posts: 181 · Topics: 27
I’ve actually drafted one out and it is super lengthy and I do genuinely mean everything I have mentioned in the letter. I guess I’m a bit worried as to how it might come across to her.
I fvcked up. I impulsively left the relationship after a bad argument. That doesn’t sound that bad (I guess?) but considering that I packed my ish, stayed at a motel for a few nights and told her that I’m going to fly back home a month early than the date we both had planned on, it left her in a mess. We were living together in the country she‘s originally from. I did come back to the apartment and stayed with her the last 2 nights cause she asked me to but since I’ve been back home - I’ve had to deal with a very nasty side of her.
I’ve already apologised but I wanted to send an apology letter that explained my behaviour. And maybe my behaviour can’t be justified but our relationship had truly become unhealthy.
Focus on convincing them that you did not mean to upset them. The intentions kind of matter to us, we accept that people make mistakes and if we clearly see that you had no ill will we can forgive even if what you did or said ended up hurting us. Also, give them a bit of space to cool off first, they will be a lot more open to forgiveness if they've calmed down. Good luck!