What Would Push A Virgo to Cheat?
This topic was created in the Virgo forum by ari3sfire on Saturday, August 17, 2013 and has 13 replies.
I'm curious if you guys have known any Virgos to cheat. I've always thought they epitomized loyalty and fidelity.
When the partner lets the Virgo down, isn't connected or supporting. This takes time. Usually the other partner has been barely dialing it in for awhile.. Virgo exit plans are usually already in the mix.
The human species is NOT suppose to be monogamous ... over time, mostly due to the god delusion, people have been programmed to believe that there is only ONE person to whom they are suppose to have a relationship with.
As people go through life, they find out that there are numerous people to whom they care enough for to develop a relationship with ..... which renders them confused because they were led to believe that they could only love ONE person.
What would lead a Virgo to cheat, is the same as what would lead any person to cheat = the right, as a human being, to experience life with many people, at many levels.
btw .... cheating is impossible, if we lived in our natural form.
Yes. Our love???not limited to the romantic kind???isn't meant to shared with just one person all the time. Our love is to be shared, to create an experience of which we are free to move on from and find new when it is "finished". Not to say that marriage should be erased and polyamory be practiced and encouraged because it is wholly possible for that experience to last or happen again and again until our deaths and thats the whole ideal of marriage. And I believe in that.
But as it is now we live in a world where just giving someone the time of day can be viewed as infidelity and the sense of obligation to stay within our relationships???however bad or unsatisfactory it is???is strong despite wanting something better for ourselves. And so we cheat.
But as it is now we live in a world where just giving someone the time of day can be viewed as infidelity and the sense of obligation to stay within our relationships???however bad or unsatisfactory it is???is strong despite wanting something better for ourselves. And so we cheat.
Why cheat? Just leaaaaaaave.
Boredom or bad sex
I knew a male virgo who cheated on his wife years ago. I saw him walk out of the bar i was at and escort her to his hotel room. It floored me at the time because i thought he was devoted husband and family man.
I often wondered why on that particular evening he did what he did because I truly thought it was out of character for him. I heard a few years later from several mutual friends that he and his wife had a baby boy. So I assumed he wasn't getting enough attention from her as she was obviously healing so he sought attention elsewhere.
Makes me wonder if this was a pattern for him or just a one time ordeal. I'm amazed that they are still together. I know his wife would have killed him had she known. Wouldn't be surprised if she eventually found out. Would have loved to have been a fly on the wall during that conversation.
I often wondered why on that particular evening he did what he did because I truly thought it was out of character for him. I heard a few years later from several mutual friends that he and his wife had a baby boy. So I assumed he wasn't getting enough attention from her as she was obviously healing so he sought attention elsewhere.
Makes me wonder if this was a pattern for him or just a one time ordeal. I'm amazed that they are still together. I know his wife would have killed him had she known. Wouldn't be surprised if she eventually found out. Would have loved to have been a fly on the wall during that conversation.
I agree "Boredom or bad sex" - would do it for me.
A chronic lack of TLC might lead me to cheat.
constantly step on our feelings and i think Virgo guys are out the door.
Posted by virgojusticePosted by P-Angel
btw .... cheating is impossible, if we lived in our natural form.
I believe this.click to expand
Me too
Posted by miamivirgo
constantly step on our feelings and i think Virgo guys are out the door.
That's pretty unfair though, don't you think? ... considering that Virgos are notorious for stepping on their partners feelings due to believing they reserve the right to not HAVE to be sensitive to your feelings.
So, how can a Virgo then justify that they have right to have their feelings cared for?
They can't .. there's no justification.
One could sift through the Virgo forum one afternoon and find dozens of threads started by Virgos claiming and taking pride in the fact that they don't have to express nor accept emotions, or emotional responses, or provide any emotional support ......
... then Virgos then claim that if others don't take that kind of care of your feelings ... then you bail?
That's so fucked up.
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