.. OF UNDERSTANDING SOMEONE LIKE YOUR VIRGO IF YOUR VIRGO DOESN'T EVEN KNOW HOW TO UNDERSTAND AND ACCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE?
.. WHY ARE THE GIRLS HERE WASTING THEIR TIME OVER THEIR VIRGUYS WHEN THEIR VIRGUYS DOESN'T EVEN CARE TO KNOW HOW THEY FEEL?
.. IT'S A WASTE OF TIME. YOU ONLY FIGHT FOR A LOVE THAT IS RECIPROCAL AND THAT IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR.
.. I AGREE THAT LOVE SHOULD NOT BE CONTROLLED FOR PURE LOVE NEVER ENDS. IT SHOULD ONLY BE DEMONSTRATED WITHOUT TOO MUCH THINKING -- FINDING FAULT, GETTING BORED, BEING SCARED, CONFUSING, AND ALL THOSE NEGATIVE THINGS THAT MOST VIRGUYS DO 'CUZ THE EMOTIONS SHOULD BE EMBRACED OUT IN THE OPEN AND SHOULD NOT BE PUT TO TEST.
.. YOU CAN NEVER TEST LOVE 'CUZ THE MOMENT YOU TEST IT THEN IT IS NOT LOVE AT ALL.
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Mar 18, 2006Comments: 2 · Posts: 23862 · Topics: 499
OOOO dear, sounds like you are upset. Well, most virguys have problems in the emotive department. But they are really emotional men. The killer is for them to actually be expressive.
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
"WHY ARE THE GIRLS HERE WASTING THEIR TIME OVER THEIR VIRGUYS WHEN THEIR VIRGUYS DOESN'T EVEN CARE TO KNOW HOW THEY FEEL"
I can't really say for the rest of the girls who have a Virgo partner. I can only say for mine . . . and he absolutely, definitely cares about my feelings. In fact, he puts my feelings and needs before his own.
My time with him is NOT wasted, from my perspective . . . On The Contrary, it's cherished.
.. IF VIRGO SIGN IS THE SMARTEST OF ALL THESE SIGNS THEN WHY CAN'T YOU GUYS FIGURE OUT YOUR OWN SELF.
.. YOU GUYS DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT YOU WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP AND YOU ARE NOT EVEN PEACE WITH YOUR OWN SELF. YOU GUYS ARE LOST IN YOUR OWN BODY. YOU CREATE YOUR OWN MONSTER THAT MAKE THINGS COMPLICATED INSTEAD OF JUST LIVING LIFE AS IT IS AND ENJOYING THE GOODNESS OF IT. MAY IT BE BAD OR GOOD.
.. LEARN TO ACCEPT WHO YOU ARE FIRST, THEN YOUR PARTNERS WILL FOLLOW. STOP BLAMING OTHER PEOPLE FOR YOUR OWN MISTAKES AND FOR YOUR ENDLESS FINDING-FAULTS. NOBODY IS PERFECT. NEITHER DO YOU.
.. SO WHAT'S THE POINT OF ARGUING WITH YOUR MIND AND HEART?
.. I AM NOT UPSET AT ALL. I CAN'T SEE THE LOGIC WHY PEOPLE MAKE THINGS COMPLICATED FOR US. IT'S LIKE HAMMERING YOUR OWN HEAD.
.. THAT'S SO SICK.
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Mar 18, 2006Comments: 2 · Posts: 23862 · Topics: 499
LOL, what sign are you ?
I agree, arguing with your mind and heart doesn't make any sense to me either but I'm a cappy 
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Apr 22, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 979 · Topics: 41
Most Virgos do understand, they don't always feel comfortable expressing. The mind knows and the heart feels, they just don't always agree on the best way to show it, if they ever do show it.
.. POOR THING. THEY'LL END UP BEING A LOSER. NO FAITH AT ALL -- WITH THEMSELVES AND WITH THEIR PARTNERS.
.. LOVE SHOULD NEVER BE PUT TO TEST. LOVE YOUR SELF AND EVERYTHING WILL FOLLOW BUT THAT DOESN'T MEAN "EGO, AND BE OVER CONTROLLING". IF THEY KNEW THAT THEY HAVE A PROBLEM WITH EXPRESSING THEIR FEELINGS THEN WHY NOT DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT? THEY JUST DON'T WANT TO GROW UP BECAUSE THEY'RE OPEN FOR OTHER OPTIONS. THEIR MINDS ARE BUSY THINKING OF A SMOOOOOTH ESCAPE.
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Apr 22, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 979 · Topics: 41
It's not only Virgos. It's just fear. Fear reinforces all your beliefs about what will go wrong, and no one wants to bear the costs that. Fear supports your reason for not moving forward or not going after what you want, because deep down most of us feel we can't have or deserve what we want. Love will test us all personally, it tests us not to be allowed to be defeated by it. Love's power is tremendous! If you've ever encounter a powerful person you are either awed by them or afraid them. It's the AWE of Love we sometimes run from.
.. DUH?! HOW CAN IT BE LOVE IF IT'S FILLED WITH AWE -- FEAR & WONDER?
.. LOVE WAS MADE TO BE PURE, SIMPLE, GENUINE AND REAL. IT DOESN'T COMPLICATE/CONFUSE THINGS, FOR THE TRUE SENSE OF IT IS TO GIVE NEVER ENDING LOVE -- SACRIFICE AND SELF-GIVING. IT'S A WONDERFUL FEELING THAT IS TO BE SHARED AND GIVEN AWAY AND "NOT" SUPPRESSED!
.. THEY THINK OF EMOTIONS AS SOMETHING THAT IS SO NEGATIVE AND NOT TO BE TALKED ABOUT BECAUSE THEIR MINDS ARE TOO BUSY THINKING.
.. THEY ARE NOT LOVING AT ALL, THEY ARE JUST THINKING. WHAT THE MIND SAYS IS NOT ALWAYS RIGHT AND WHAT THE HEART SAYS IS NOT ALWAYS RIGHT-- THESE ARE BOTH THE SAME, SO WHAT'S THE POINT?
.. BEING HUMAN DOESN'T MEAN YOU HAVE TO HOLD BACK WITH YOUR FEELINGS BECAUSE YOU FEAR AND YOU HAVE NO FAITH WITH YOURSELF AT ALL THAT YOU CAN'T BE HAPPY. THAT YOU DON'T DESERVE TO BE LOVED.
.. THEY BECOME SO OVERLY CRITICAL THAT THEY THINK OF A POSITIVE THING AS A NEGATIVE THING. THERE'S NO COMMON GROUND AT ALL. THEY EASILY GET CONFUSED, THEY WANT TO BE SAFE -- PLAY SAFE, THEY WERE BORN TO BE "MUTABLE".
.. I DON'T THINK IT GOES OUT TO ALL VIRGOS OUT THERE, BECAUSE THIS HAPPENS TO OTHER PEOPLE OF THE OTHER ZODIACS AS WELL. WHO INVENTED THIS BOARD?!?!
.. STOP ASTROLOGY, STOP PLAYING THE BLAME GAME AND CREATE AND LIVE THE LIFE YOU WANT FOR YOURSELVES!
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Apr 13, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 44084 · Topics: 685
"WHY ARE THE GIRLS HERE WASTING THEIR TIME OVER THEIR VIRGUYS"
"IT'S A WASTE OF TIME"
I have that same question, unknown. If, in your belief, Virgo's are such a waste of time, why is it 6 days later from original post and you're still here talking about something that you believe is a waste of your time?
Aren't you in fact, wasting your time in here dealing with talking to these Virgo's?
Doesn't make sense, luv.
.. HOW CAN YOU BE SURE IF I'M CURRENTLY INVOLVED WITH A VIRGO? HAVE YOU GAINED ALL THE FACTS? I DON'T THINK I AM WASTING MY TIME 'CUZ I DON'T GET ANYTHING FROM WHAT I READ ON THIS BOARD ANYWAY. FULL OF CRAP, FULL OF NEGATIVITY!
.. VIRGOS ARE NOT THE SMARTEST OF ALL THE SIGNS!!! DUH?!? THEY ARE NOT MIGHTY AND POWERFUL AS WELL!
.. I AM HERE TO LET EVERYONE KNOW HOW SICK ASTROLOGY IS AND HOW IT RUINS ONES SPIRIT! FOR THE WHO MADE UP THIS BOARD, IS THE MOST EGOTISTICAL BEING IN THE WORLD. BEING ABLE TO GENERALIZE ALL PEOPLE THROUGH STARS AND THEIR ZODIAC SIGNS? HOW NARROW-MINDED. HOW SICK.
.. GOOD BYE, KIDZ! AND THANKS FOR YOUR TIME READING MY POST! TATA!
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Jul 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 3318 · Topics: 123
Negativity huh?...Well not everything YOU WANNA HEAR COMES IN A PRETTY PACKAGE whomever you are, you told me you were an adult, and you cannot even deal with that simple reality; you WILL get told things you don't like, but what type of 'COWARD' ducks on another board, to avoid a 'real virgo' and what it's all about????....negativiy huh; you are definitely one to talk acessing my board in the name of your 'emotional self-righteousness' and 'melodramas'; now you're an zodiac rascist, and a hypocrit!! lol!! wow, an known, you are really racking up on the social points!!
*takes shot with basketball only to miss at the buzzer*
As a Virgo An Known, I was willing to see your side, and was willing to see how valid it was, becuase you are a HUMAN; REGARDLESS OF WHETHER YOU WE'RE MAD OR NOT, I WOULD'VE LISTENED; DON'T THINK FOR A DAMNED SECOND YOU CAN COME TO MY BOARD, THEN SHOUT, AND WAIL, AND CRY CROCODILE TEARS, AND NOT EVEN GIVE SO MUCH AS AN EXPLANATION INTO WHY YOU DISLIKE VIRGOS, AND LEAVE; ALTHOUGH I DIDN'T AGREE WITH YOUR BASHING MY SIGN, THEN FLEEING TO ANOTHER BOARD, BECUASE YOU GOT 'TIRED' AS YOU SAY, I WANTED TO KNOW 'WHY' YOU FELT THAT WAY, IN HOPES THAT 'THIS' VIRGO WOULD HAVE TAUGHT YOU THAT, ONE, ISN'T ALL; I AM DIFFERENT, AND AS A 'HUMAN' DESERVE TO A CHANCE TO EXPRESS MYSELF, AND HEAR OTHERS; THAT WAS A DISCUSSION ON 'WHY' VIRGOS LIKED FREEDOM; NOT WHAT VIRGOS DID TO AN KNOWN....But since I brought it up, dya mind sharing with me WHY you hate me, and my sign since you are an adult???; you didn't explain ANYTHING; what good is talking if it doesn't MEAN ANYTHING????.....I don't know WHY you behave in such a close-minded manner, but to let a person CONTROL you like, that, and to let them ruin future relationships for you, and a person of the winged-virgins sign, is FOOLISH!! You being whatever sign you are WILL NOT ruin any chance of happiness I may find with someone of your sign, becuase I KNOW THAT THERE IS STILL GOOD IN THAT 'WHOLE' SIGN......I COULDN'T REJECT SOMEONE BECUASE THE TOLD ME SOMETHING I DIDN'T WANNA HEAR.....and if you still are behaving that way, you tell based on your own actions that you still don't wanna grow; if you do, the write back to me...I have been called by many a person, 'out of the ordinary Virgo'.....don't ya think that is becuase, I DON'T LISTEN TO CONVENTIONS???? A PERSON WHO LIKES FREEDOM HAS THEIR OWN UNIQUE WAY OF PRECIEVING, AND DOSEN'T RELY ON ANOTHERS POINT OF VIEW, TO MAKE THEM WHOLE.....I pity you; sad....
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Jul 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 3318 · Topics: 123
I think you WANT a Virgo, but they're just put off by your foolishness, and probably left you lonesome and what I said roused some emotion in you; listen here; I AM NOT THE ONE WHO HURT YOU!! HOW DARE YOU TAKE YOU BLIND FURY OUT ON THE ONE WHOM ONLY AIMED TO HELP YOU I WAS EXPLAINING OUR, NO, MY BEHAVIORS SO YOU WOULDN'T HAVE TO BE ANGRY!!!!!! AND YOU EXPLODE ON ME!??!?!? YOU GOT NERVE WHOM EVER YOU ARE; EMOTIONS AREN'T FOOLISH, BECUASE THEY ARE WHAT MAKE LIFE WORTH LIVING FOR; WITHOUT FEELINGS, YOUR LIFE WOULD BE DULL, YOUR SPEECH WOULD BE TACITURN, AND LACKING INSPIRATION; BUT I ASSURE YOU, YOU'RE TALK, AND 'CONDEMNMENT OF A SIGN' IS!!! I personally as a VIRGO, don't really care to entertain folk, that are closed minded, or unwilling to discuss something; If you want a Virgo, then ask them UPFRONT; "wtf do you guys want?!?!?" I mean, you made A WHOLE BOARD BASED ON SOMETHING YOU SAID YOU YOURSELF WERE THROUGH WITH, OR HATEFUL OF; AND STILL TO BE HATEFUL IS TO BE PASSIONATE, SO I DON'T THINK YOUR DONE WITH US YET, AND IF YOU ARE, WHEN I COME BACK TO THIS POST, MINE SHOULDN'T BE ANSWERED BY AN KNOWN; IF IT IS, YOU ARE A HYPOCRIT, WHOM HASN'T REALIZED IT, AND THAT YOU ARE JUST ANGRY; TELL YA WHAT, WHEN YOU GET THROUGH WITH THIS SILLY TEMPER-TANTRUM OF YOURS, WRITE BACK UNTILL THEN DON'T BOTHER....AND THIS IS FREEEEEE SPACE, SO I CAN CONTINUE TO WRITE; NOT TO HURT YOU, BECUASE I LET THE 'TRULY STUPID' GO....YOU QUALIFY RIGHT NOW BECUASE YOU ARE UNWILLING TO GROW, AND ARE BLINDED BY YOUR FEELINGS; YOU USE LIFE'S GIFT TO DETRIMENT....FOOLISH....
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Jul 18, 2006Comments: 1 · Posts: 660 · Topics: 42
Stringsattached, You may be right, but if this is him then this must be the nicer side of brahn.
virgoexalted: "As a Virgo An Known, I was willing to see your side, and was willing to see how valid it was, becuase you are a HUMAN"
No, this guy is full of hardcore ignorance that believes in only what runs through is twisted mind musters up. He has no side, if he truly hates the whole zodiac thing, he wouldn't be here arguing with us about it. He is only here for attention, to stir up trouble so he can get off on people and their anger over the internet. I say just ignore em and he'll go away. Arguing with someone who doesn't want to understand the truth is only going to show how foolish you really are.
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Jul 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 3318 · Topics: 123
I will ask AGAIN....what sign are you, and don't give any talk like 'oh, i don't have to answer that, because i don't like YOU.....you...you VIRGO!!!!' Aw, c'mon!!!! I never thought that a day would come when a person could use the zodiac to justify, and condemn, and completly BYPASS THE 'GETTING TO KNOW YOU PROCESS'.... Well I guess if you think like that than you are probably better off.....being ALL alone on your own...you think you can just write someone off becuase of their ZODIAC SIGN!?!?!?!? AND TURN DOWN THE WORLD, BECUASE YOU WERE HURT ONCE BY SOMEONE, AND THEN ALONG COMES 'THE ONE' AND YOU LET THEM GO, BECUASE THEY'RE A 'VIRGO'?????? I don't buy the adult crap you state....full of crap....and NOT TO MENTION NEGATIVITY; YOU CAME TO ME FAULT-FINDING WITH ME 'CLASSIFYING ME' AS A 'VIRGO, THE MOST INTELLIGENT SIGN OF THE ZODIAC'.....IF A PERSON COULD RELY ON ZODIAC ALONE TO GET ALL OF A PERSON'S INTELLECT, THAN TELL ME O, WISE ONE, WHY DO WE TAKE 'INTELLIGENT QUOUTIENT' TESTS!?!?!? LOL!!!. FIRST...NOT AS A PERSON I ACCEPTED AT FIRST ANYTHING YOU STATE TO ME, BUT WHEN YOU 'CLASSIFY' ME AS SOMETHING YOU'D LIKE TO USE FOR A SCRATCHING POST, YOU'D BETTER BELIEVE THERE'S GONNA BE HELL TO PAY....AND IF YOU GOT CLAWS, YOU BETTER KNOW HOW TO SCRATCH...now, if you have anything you'd like to discuss or hell even argue, BUT WITH ME....do so! Just for future reference, do go swinging a sword, and expecting people to duck, becuase that 'one' could be in the crowd who's got your number....careful!!.
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Jul 11, 2006Comments: 0 · Posts: 3318 · Topics: 123
I only entertain this 'ignorance' (at BEST is what it could be called)BigD56, becuase I want to know the reason, as to why this person feels this way; I can already accept the fact they are angry, but at LEAST have a damned explanation; stirring up trouble is fine, but to have no reason, event if it is at the expense of another is dumb....and if that is the reason, THEN SPEAK UP!!!! I figured this was all a joke from the start, but if not get serious, and speak up then!!!
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Jul 18, 2006Comments: 1 · Posts: 660 · Topics: 42
Stringsattached: "If you ain't testin' love, YOU AIN'T A VIRGO, plain and simple!"
I think that's what he's trying to say...he hates the fact that he's a virgo, so he's going to do whatever it takes to degrade and cause problems for other virgos that he soo much despises.