whats up with this VIRGO GUY??

wow!!!...its crazy cause im a taurus and im dealing with a virgo which is very stressful and confusing..when i first met him he was sooooo nice and charming...he took me out to eat.. clubbing..it was fun..this all happened in two days..i stayed two nights at his place..we kissed in bed and he gave me oral sex...but i can tell that he really wanted sex but i refused soo...to help the situation..i went to sleep o the couch...the next morning he was sooo upset..he said i disrespected him by going to sleep on the couch..later on that day we went to lucnh.. came back watched some football..then we had a small arguement...he said that i didnt appreciate the things he was doing for me..and soo i went in his face looked him in his eye and said i really do appreciate everything you are doing for me..he was really happy about that..but then later he kept on touching on my ass every chance he got..while i was using the bathroom he begged me to show him my vagina which i did..lol..smh....so then later on that day we were supposed to go watch the mayweather boxing match at his freind house..thats what he told me then he suddenly he changed his mind and said that he would like to stay home today beacause sometimes he likes being home..then he was telling me that i need to open up more..and that i needed to stop pushing him away..he was just a lil too clingy and i needed some space to breath..plus my heart was broken soo many times that i kinda didnt fully open up..and another reason was it was only two days...how can i open up that fast?? smh....so later on he was wathching tv then i told him how bored i was...HE SNAPPED!!!..he said (U KNOW WHAT THATS IT I HAD ENOUGH!IM TAKING U HOME!!).. i was soo shocked i was silent..he stays in miami..i stay in west palm ..florida..so thats about 1 hour drive...i was silent almost the whole way home!..then i tryed to talk to him..he said that (YOU DIDNT REALIZE U HAD A GOOD GUY).. and i said (YES I DID..BUT I COULDNT FULLY OPEN UP TO U IN TWO DAYS I NEED MORE TIME..BUT I REALLY DO LIKE U)...then he said(MAYBE NEXT TIME WHEN U MEET SOMEONE ELSE U WILL REALIZE U HAVE A GOOD GUY).. i was soo hurt and sad that i started crying..then he said(WHY ARE U CRYING?? I SHOULD BE THE ONE CRYING) i was crying beacause i know im a good girl i wouldnt try to use or hurt anyone...he dropped me off..and i would call and text him no answer..the only text was (LEAVE ME ALONE)..a whole month went by then i finally reached me on facebook..

he finnaly reached me on facebook as if nothing ever happened and told me he wanted to hangout with me..so we did on the way to his house..i told him why was he soo upset..he said because he felt that i was trying to play him...but i no i shouldnt of...BUT WE HAD SEX TWO TIMES THAT NIGHT..i stayed the night he took me home the next morning ..now he is acting all distant..he texts but not as much as he used to ..i really like him...i want the old him back...i feel he thinks i was trying to use him....but i wasnt...WAHT DO U THINK—?

TaurusLove88,Yes Virgo and Taurus go good together because we understand each other.But to get to a bigger bond bond you have to get to know a person more.Two days is not enough to know what is real about the situation.You got to give relationships time.I believe that you are a good girl,but you have to learn to be a smart girl as well.There is nothing wrong with wanting sex because you are young and ready to go,but are you interested in a little more with a guy?

I know you asked about a Virgo male but part of this is about you too.I know Taurus gals love to wrap themselves around their men,so I get all the time together.When people come on here and talk about the distant thing that the Virgos do,these people have had a little bit longer history with their mate,a couple of months of being in a relationship,that when Virgos feels comfortable with you and you feel comfortable with us,we sort of slide you into out life ,so like in those spinning order racks in a restaraunt ,we'll get to you.We stopped our lives to get you into our world but then our world keeps on spinning and we get to you when we can.

Honestly TaurusLove88,do you know him at all?Do you know him wel enough to know when he has been lying or hiding something from you?Do you know him well enough to know Virgo traits from being a man triats?Do you know his sexual history?Do you know where his tongue has been?Have you met his family?Do you know if he has children?Married ?divorced?On a temporary break?A break because he is out in the club with the fellas break?Do you know his goals?Do you know where he was raised?Do you know what he does for a livng?Have you met his friends?You don't have to answer any of these questions here,you have to answer them for yourself.You will find out what you mean to him as to how much you know about him.I doubt if he will answer these now,if you can't even raise him on texts.

TaurusLove88,what kind of MAN,yells at you?Do you want to be yelled at?Do you think you deserved to be yelled at?Okay,so you watched the game with him,do you know what other things he likes to do?Besides sex?Did he ask some questions of you?Was he interested in what you had to say?And not just what you showed him?Any stranger off the street can show him a v-jay,be a good girl,not a cheap girl.

Honestly,I don't think that he is good enough for you,Virgo or not.I think you can do better than him.He should be begging at your feet.I think that you have been hurt so many times befor

e is that you expect a relationship to happen right away.You just met the guy.Everyone wants love,everyone needs human contact.But if this is your pattern;attract him,meet him,get with him and expect things to keep going and they don't,you got to look a little deeper into you ,not them.If you are serious,you'll attract serious,if you just want to play,you'll attract players.Be honest with yourself,what do you want?And do you think that you will get it?With these types of guys?
A relationship doesn't happen in 48 or 72 hours.You have to build it.You didn't build your wardrobe of clothes in 72 hours ,you can't expect the same thing in other areas of your life.

Get mad if you want to,but this is about what you are showing the world.You are showing that you will take scraps and try to make it a four course meal.You don't deserve scraps.Not the ones your are getting from this guy or any guy.A nice guy doesn't tell you he's a nice guy,a nice guy shows you he's a nice guy.So what,it's not the amount of guys you attract,it's the quality of the guys you attract.Don't look back,look forward.

Don't text him,let them come to you,waiting for your good stuff,is what guys dream of.Tease them and they won't respond,don't rush to them,try on another.Slow dowwn.Let them chase you some.This Virgo knows how you feel about him,let him wonder about you!If not try another guy.Yeah sure bad boys have been around the block,so they know what to do,but with a good boy you two can fun getting around the block togeher,plus you'll know where his tongue has been.You deserve to be treated better than waiting on his fb to even have him make any type of contact with you.You deserve to be happy and not putting yourself on hold for what—?

You didn't do anything wrong that night in the car.If you knew him better,you'd know if this is how he handles everything by being a baby and not talking to you like an adult.Or if this was a rare moment for him.Suppose you met the love of your life and it happed to be a friend or one of these guys that you broke up with,what do you think that they would tell the new guy?Ask some guys you,to talk about the women they've been with.Ask about what makes the difference bewtwee the long term ones vs a quickie.I just want to grab you by the shoulders and tell you you don't have to be treated this way by anybody!His looks aren't everything!Be good to yourself.And the good men will come.Good luck

I know somethings...he is a dj in miami..he is the only child..he is from ohi..he was engaged once..in ohio..i met one of his freind when we went to the club..he talked about his mom and dad to me..he told me what he went through in life....while we was in the club he whispered in my ear that he liked me....it honestly felt like we knew each other for awhile..oh and he is a dj teacher at scratch miami academy.....i really do like him..

I am utterly shocked that women like this exist. Sorry, TL88. No hard feelings. I just had trouble believing what I was reading and not concluding that this was totally fabricated for mere entertainment purposes. Are you over 18, btw?

Guy meets you, takes you to dinner, gives you oral, (Whaaaaaaat?? Sounds like you "opened up" PLENTY to me!), grabs at your butt like you're some kinda meat machine, pressures you for sex, accuses you of disreespett'n him, insists you owe it to him to drop your drawers and open up to him as "deeply" as he dares to "know" you (which, lemme tell ya, was all of about 6 inches worth), ballistically drops you off at your doorstep b/c he's so tightly wound that you won't give him sex since he's out a whole fifty bucks or so for feeding you all weekend or whatever, tells you he's a great guy and you lost your chance at greatness, verbally chastises you for daring to inconvenience him with all your inconsideration (just because you wouldn't hump him), consequently dumps you clean, hits you up on FB a month later, and YOU ACTUALLY GO TO BED WITH HIM?!? Shame on you!!! It's crazy behavior like this that is helping to create the narcissistic, non-committal, shallow, uni-dimensional, power-hungry, exploitative, so-called "men" on today's market that see women as one thing and one thing only: a sex object to serve as their gateway to pleasure! And you enablers have got the gall to complain? Now he's all distant and you wanna know why. One word, TL. 'Cause he's a freakin' PRICK, that's why!

Per your comments: "its crazy cause im a taurus and im dealing with a virgo which is very stressful and confusing..when i first met him he was sooooo nice and charming...he took me out to eat.. clubbing..it was fun..this all happened in two days..i stayed two nights at his place..we kissed in bed and he gave me oral sex."
There's nothing confusing to it. You met a two-dollar player who wanted nothing more than sex out of you, he turns on the charm and charisma b/c that's what he's good at (and you only helped reinforce this habit of his for the next Clueless Woman he decides to play), and the deal is done. You ain't nothin' but a bent, tarnished trophy in his cabinet right about now, and he's off fishing for a fresh meal. This is not a relationship, and you'd be utterly mindless to pursue one with him. Mindless is about 5 notches below clueless, fwiw.

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I don't usually come on so strong to newcomers, but dang if this didn't pinch a nerve! Actually, it lit a fire. I'd like to knock out good ol' Romeo with a 2 x 4 and send you to the School for Clueless Women.

By the way, welcome to DXP.
Again, no hard feelings. Just sayin??.