B1984
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when a Virgo Man says it's over— Help please!
Sorry i'm Cancer starsign and my boyfriend (or not) is Virgo starsign.
Yeah chill out with the drama. Thats why you ladies have GF's, so you can rant to them and just watch football with us.
Men today have it made, don't they ??
They have total control .... alls they have to do is give the suggestion that they aren't happy, or want a break ... and the female practically breaks her fucking neck sucking up to him.
You could try strapping a tray to the top of your head, while you kneel down beside of him, so he has a place to put his beer down. You should be naked too, just in case he might decide to want sex with you. And everytime he looks at you, you should open your mouth real wide, to make sure he realizes that you are ready to blow him ..... if he wants, whatever he wants.
While you're there, I'm sure you could be doing something else for him .... like shinning his shoes, or darning his socks, you could be peeling potatoes also, so that when you have to run to the kitchen to fix a meal for him, you'd have that done so you could get his food to him faster ..... whatever he wants ... just be at his beck and call.
Because you are a woman, and heaven forbid you should actually have some dignity, and decide your relationship terms for yourself.
They have total control .... alls they have to do is give the suggestion that they aren't happy, or want a break ... and the female practically breaks her fucking neck sucking up to him.
You could try strapping a tray to the top of your head, while you kneel down beside of him, so he has a place to put his beer down. You should be naked too, just in case he might decide to want sex with you. And everytime he looks at you, you should open your mouth real wide, to make sure he realizes that you are ready to blow him ..... if he wants, whatever he wants.
While you're there, I'm sure you could be doing something else for him .... like shinning his shoes, or darning his socks, you could be peeling potatoes also, so that when you have to run to the kitchen to fix a meal for him, you'd have that done so you could get his food to him faster ..... whatever he wants ... just be at his beck and call.
Because you are a woman, and heaven forbid you should actually have some dignity, and decide your relationship terms for yourself.
Let me guess .... you're English
To me, it sounds like it's over.
You guys should clear the air and be nice to each other, but that doesn't mean things are immediately better or that you've worked stuff out. It does however, lend the opportunity for such advancement...but when someone with typical Virgo personality traits (calculating, painstaking, sacrificing) says it's over- then they've usually stewed over it for some time. Sounds like he reached his breaking point and wants to move on. The past arguments has shown him that while living with you- he will become tired overworked and have to argue. So you will have to either prove him wrong by not giving him reason to think this way or let him move on. Either way, he does need to sort out his own desires at this point.
Living with someone is never problem free, so I wish you luck! 🙂
You guys should clear the air and be nice to each other, but that doesn't mean things are immediately better or that you've worked stuff out. It does however, lend the opportunity for such advancement...but when someone with typical Virgo personality traits (calculating, painstaking, sacrificing) says it's over- then they've usually stewed over it for some time. Sounds like he reached his breaking point and wants to move on. The past arguments has shown him that while living with you- he will become tired overworked and have to argue. So you will have to either prove him wrong by not giving him reason to think this way or let him move on. Either way, he does need to sort out his own desires at this point.
Living with someone is never problem free, so I wish you luck! 🙂
Posted by wgamador2Posted by P-Angel
Let me guess .... you're English
Damn, i need to find me an English woman.click to expand
THANK GOD for once us English have been recognised for our multi tasking skills 🙂 Dam we're good
Thanks for all your replies. We're still in the same flat and he hasn't mentioned what we're doing regarding our flat and we have a holiday book in 3 weeks time.
He just talks to me like nothings hurting him and that his made his mind up. I don't think there's anyway I can change his mind. Was only days before our argument the he told me he loved me. I don't get how his just ended it. He can't love me that much.
I'm being nice and laid back and trying not to cry etc.
He just talks to me like nothings hurting him and that his made his mind up. I don't think there's anyway I can change his mind. Was only days before our argument the he told me he loved me. I don't get how his just ended it. He can't love me that much.
I'm being nice and laid back and trying not to cry etc.
Posted by PecheressePosted by P-Angel
Men today have it made, don't they ??
They have total control .... alls they have to do is give the suggestion that they aren't happy, or want a break ... and the female practically breaks her fucking neck sucking up to him.
You could try strapping a tray to the top of your head, while you kneel down beside of him, so he has a place to put his beer down. You should be naked too, just in case he might decide to want sex with you. And everytime he looks at you, you should open your mouth real wide, to make sure he realizes that you are ready to blow him ..... if he wants, whatever he wants.
While you're there, I'm sure you could be doing something else for him .... like shinning his shoes, or darning his socks, you could be peeling potatoes also, so that when you have to run to the kitchen to fix a meal for him, you'd have that done so you could get his food to him faster ..... whatever he wants ... just be at his beck and call.
Because you are a woman, and heaven forbid you should actually have some dignity, and decide your relationship terms for yourself.
hahaha so cynical.click to expand
Cynical or not, it's true.
You were living before this guy came along and you will do just fine without him. Now pick yourself up off the floor and work on loving yourself. When you truly love yourself and are secure with who you are, you realize that what other people think of you doesnt matter. People dont respect you when they know that can make you or break you with the things they say or do to you. Go workout, hang out with friends who sincerely care about you, get manicures and pedicures, get a new hobby, enrich your life is some type of way.
"If I lived on the words they fed me I would starve". India Arie
"If I lived on the words they fed me I would starve". India Arie
🙂
Thank you Pech! But I think misquoted, it's actually "If I ate all the lies they fed me, I'd starve" but you know what I mean. We should never give another person the power/burden of being responsible for our own happiness. And I'm all for letting go of people who want to be free, matter how much it pains me. Like PA said it's called dignity.
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