when Virgo comes up again

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by Antero on Monday, January 8, 2018 and has 10 replies.
I had a very short relationship with Virgo. it's about 6 months and he didn't want to continue the relationship as he was not ready. since that we didn't have contact for a year. I had a relationship with another man and we are planning for getting engage this weekend. last week it was awkward. my becoming fiancee was at my place and suddenly my ex Virgo standing infront of my door and I was shock when I open the door and said to him what are you doing here. and my becoming fiancee came to me and I said to Virgo this is my husband. than he have a nice evening and he walked away. can anyone explain why he comes back without callig me first. and it makes my man angry and he thinks i am having affair.
LOL

@Roosagicorn... yeah.. my becoming fiancee asked me to text Virgo that I didn't want to see him anymore and even he spoke to Virgo and to me him never come back. but it's hurt my fiancee. he can't sleep that night and so afraid I will.choose him at the end. and I don't know if he can trust me that I didn't have any contact. it's crazy just show up at my place without calling me first . @Ixion,.yeah it's not complicated but what Virgo did it's hurt my becoming fiancee as he didn't believe what I said that I didn't have any contact
@Roosagicorn... yeah.. my becoming fiancee asked me to text Virgo that I didn't want to see him anymore and even he spoke to Virgo and to me him never come back. but it's hurt my fiancee. he can't sleep that night and so afraid I will.choose him at the end. and I don't know if he can trust me that I didn't have any contact. it's crazy just show up at my place without calling me first . @Ixion,.yeah it's not complicated but what Virgo did it's hurt my becoming fiancee as he didn't believe what I said that I didn't have any contact
@OP Sounds like you've moved on and are happy. I know your probably curious but it's best to let it go before you get yourself too caught up in it and it eats away at that happiness.

@Weeds and @Ixion - I am curious about this though, have you ever been in a similar situation.? I get the 'I'm not ready for a relationship' part and the 'I've worked on myself and now I am ready for a relationship' but what then? Do you go through a catalogue of your ex's and decide which ones still have potential? Is there always one that you are keeping on hold in your head for the time when you are ready? Why not just move on and meet someone new and start fresh once you are ready?
😂😂😂😂 I deleted my post with mistake.
@Roosagicorn... that's what I hope that my fiancee will believe me. @Toti.. if all Virgo are like that.. lucky me I'm not virgo😀😀😀 it's a shame.
Posted by WildatHeart
@OP Sounds like you've moved on and are happy. I know your probably curious but it's best to let it go before you get yourself too caught up in it and it eats away at that happiness.

@Weeds and @Ixion - I am curious about this though, have you ever been in a similar situation.? I get the 'I'm not ready for a relationship' part and the 'I've worked on myself and now I am ready for a relationship' but what then? Do you go through a catalogue of your ex's and decide which ones still have potential? Is there always one that you are keeping on hold in your head for the time when you are ready? Why not just move on and meet someone new and start fresh once you are ready?
Lol no catalog.

I've never left to work on myself.. it has always been them having insecurities/commitment issues..

There is one I check on from time to time

She has a Venus Square Uranus so it doesn't matter if she is in a relationship at the time I check up on her cause it never lasts long and doesn't go no where.

Sometimes she needs to be picked up dust off and encouraged.

I think regarding moving on.. it's hard to start fresh when you put so much work into the last one. You can get into a slump and detoured.

Building up sand castles only to watch them fall.

Posted by TurquoiseArrow
I've always enjoyed the crazy of just showing up out of nowhere.


Same.😂

I was just thinking how exciting that was. I love situations such as that. Its invigorating
Posted by Antero
@Roosagicorn... that's what I hope that my fiancee will believe me. @Toti.. if all Virgo are like that.. lucky me I'm not virgo😀😀😀 it's a shame.
Are you sure you want to marry someone who doubts you?