What happens when a Virgo man feel that he is betrayed. Does he go back to the old relation ship and give it a second chance?
They come back. They always do. Virgo's are not very strong which is why they are so judgemental and vindictive.
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Feb 15, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 9826 · Topics: 354
You the nail on the head Febpisces27.
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 13612 · Topics: 756
Mature Virgo male is very forgiving..
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Wow, I guess Virgos are a hard nut to crack then and hold grudges. I'm just guessing as I don't have much experience with Virgos at all.
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Jan 18, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 13612 · Topics: 756
Forgiveness is for (perfect being)?
Think about it my man..
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As I said many times before... forget and forgive.
Is it useful to carry around the baggage of hate and disappointments..??
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15-20 years later.. you'll find what I meant today
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thank you..
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Dy,
"But, if I ever "write you off" as UNTRUSTWORTHY - well, odds are, you'll NEVER get back in the Circle Of Trust!"
Could you give some insight into this? Just curious.
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Dy,
I can't wait. Looking forward to the answer. I know you'll be able to get it done within a 1000.
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It is utter stupdity for a person to forgive those who you hold in contempt. It is a sign of weakness, and it gives people permission to keep stepping all over you.
You forgive them for there weakness and realize they will never be anything more. Just don't talk to them again. People will only step on you if you let them.
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Virgo101,
Well put. I wonder if Virgo males and Virgo gals think alike. Maybe they do or maybe they don't.
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Good to know. I was just wondering. Seems like all the Virgos on the forum have the ability to tell it like it is, especially Branh and Dy which I really do admire.
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I certainly don't think like Virgo101.
Glad to know it. You remind me a twisted Scrooge.
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Dy,
Okay, now I get it. I'm just wondering about something. Are you still there?
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Lol?. Virgo 101..
How old are you .. if I may ask..??
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Forget and forgiveness is something that comes from PURE power driven by selflessness.
And very few human will achieving this..
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American Idol you say? American Idol is huge here in Norway also.
Anyway, I posted my question but I got a small response from you regarding does a Virgo never fall in love again once they are burnt when they think they've found the one who doesn't want them back. The Virgo guy in my case, his ex is a Virgo girl and he dumped her. Then a few months later he wanted to get back with her and she said no thanks. Is that normal for a Virgo to not go back and for another Virgo to want to rekindle something?
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Mystical..
are you made in Norway..??
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Qbone,
Well, yes, I live in Norway also. God 17. mai til deg. Gratulerer s? mye med dagen ogs?.
Okay, I shouldn't write Norwegian.
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Dy,
Thanks very much for your honest opinion. The Virgo guy has said once she has made up her mind she sticks to it because she didn't want to get hurt by him. Are Virgo girls that stubborn when they make up their mind?
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"Is that normal for a Virgo to not go back and for another Virgo to want to rekindle something?"
If they are like me.. They're most probably burn the bridges..
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Wow. Burnt their bridges, you say. Are Virgo girls that stubborn that they won't go back to someone even if they loved them (I assume the Virgo girl loved the Virgo guy in my case)?
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Gratulerer med dagen.
Fortsatt ha a fin dag og kos deg mye?
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Qbone,
Tusen takk og i like m?te. Det er s? rart ? skrive norsk her. Du m? kose deg ogs?. H?per det blir fint v?r i hele Norge p? selve dagen.
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S? klart min dame? det blir og fest er fest.. (no matter what) kos deg min dame, glad i deg og ser deg senere..
God nat og sove godt..
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Du m? ogs? ha en riktig god natt eller det som er igjen av det. Det er allerede snart morgen. Gleder meg veldig mye.
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jeg bot i drammen.. hvor er du fra??
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bor*
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Bor i Haugesund.
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love it..
jeg var mange ganger i Haugesund.. (film festival)??.
og fortsta jobber med det som (kino teknikker)..
hehe
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fortsatt* damn key board..
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Ja, det er Filmfestival her i august. Da er det masse film og alt mulig. Vi har ogs? Sildajazzen og da er det ogs? litt av hvert som skjer. August er ganske travelt her i haugesund.
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Herlig ? vite om dag.. lykke til min dame med ditt jomfru man
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deg*... (forbanna forseint) n?.. s? beklager "typos"
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Sov godt og god natt
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Vel, det er ikke s? enkelt ang?ende han i det hele tatt. Mye arbeid og mye usikkerhet. Han er maskinist og er p? sj?en n?. Han har en eks som han har problemer med ? komme seg over. Jeg gj?re mitt beste for ? v?re hans venn, men han er mye opp og ned. Noen ganger er han blid og andre ganger er han sure. Jeg f?r han til ? le litt og det er bra. Jeg vet aldri n?r jeg skal h?re fra han. Han sier jeg skal h?re fra han om ikke s? lenge, men jeg vet ikke om han mener det han sier eller ikke.
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Sov godt og god natt.
Go back to a relationship? Never, but that doesn't mean I won't forgive. Forgiveness being simply letting the anger go and moving on. It just isn't practical to waste emotional energy on someone who doesn't care about you.
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String..
Thank you for the broad explanations..
Without forgiveness our life means nothing..(But carry around the luggage of hate and disappointments).
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Last year I was in my ex wedding ceremonies?. 
Am I weak???
Exactly stringsattached. I guess maybe I should have added that Virgo's can be bitter. So ladies, if you want your Virgo back, he'll come back but may I suggest bolting your door shut and moving far far away. LOL
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Alden Nowlan
"The day the child realizes that all adults are imperfect, he becomes an adolescent; the day he forgives them, he becomes an adult; the day he forgives himself, he becomes wise."
A x
Forgive IS sexy. Holding grudges is so immature
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Will a Virguy feel betrayed if they dumped you because the didn't feel good enough to be with you and you started dating someone else months later because they shut you out?
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Forgive and forget.
Depends on situation. If a person genuinely wasn't aware about his/her mistake then it's forgivable and forgetable. If a person did something half unaware then it's forgivable but not forgetable. If a person did something plain out like an ass then it's neither forgivable nor forgetable.
So, both forgiving and forgetting can be either dump or stupid and wise.
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Wow I was impressed by what I've written.
I saved it in my comp. lol.