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This topic was created in the Virgo forum by scorpio24 on Sunday, April 28, 2013 and has 125 replies.
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okay my last post didnt work for some reason.
OKAY, so i decided to stop being in denial with myself and to just accept this break up and accept that we just arent meant to be together. I went and saw him last night and decided to be mature, calm and collected, before i went inside to talk to him i promised myself i was just going to be honest with myself even though its hard. i sat down and i did most of the talking to begin with. the first thing i said was "so, i think this breakup is defiantly for the best and its the right thing to do" he looked at me and had nothing to say. i think he was expecting me to be like "lets try again la la la" we went upstairs to talk cause his house mate was going to be home soon. we were laying on the bed and spoke for 3 hours. this is not normal for us, we havent had such a deep and meaningful conversation in probably a year (but we did for the first half) i cried a bit, but not as much as him. this stunned me cause he's usually a robot and never expresses any emotion. I said a couple of times "do u agree this is for the best?" and he just didn't say anything then he said "it's hard for me cause I'm not sure if I'm doing the right thing, I'm not sure if breaking up with u is the right thing" I then calmly said "well its not really fair for me. I can't sit around and wait any longer, for once I have decided to be honest with myself and realize that I am important too and need to put myself first for once, I have been living my life the last few months based around u, all my decisions are based around you and I have been in constant anxiety and stress and i can't do that anymore I must be kind to myself" he is usually a robot so I was shocked when he started crying, and quite a bit.
he shows no emotion ever usually so this was good. I said to him that being vulnerable and opening up to someone who loves u is healthy and he said its hardfor him to do that cause he's been so badly burnt in the past, I told him I agree that's hard but it's time to learn and grow from it. I told him that life gives u obstacles which we have to over come I said if he doesn't overcome them then mark my words, this or something similar will happen again in the future and keep happening until you learn from it and take a different approach. We were cuddling quite a bit and it felt so nice I honesty hadn't felt that way in like a year, because it was soooo powerful and meaningful. I didn't say anything though but he was the one to say:
OKAY, so i decided to stop being in denial with myself and to just accept this break up and accept that we just arent meant to be together. I went and saw him last night and decided to be mature, calm and collected, before i went inside to talk to him i promised myself i was just going to be honest with myself even though its hard. i sat down and i did most of the talking to begin with. the first thing i said was "so, i think this breakup is defiantly for the best and its the right thing to do" he looked at me and had nothing to say. i think he was expecting me to be like "lets try again la la la" we went upstairs to talk cause his house mate was going to be home soon. we were laying on the bed and spoke for 3 hours. this is not normal for us, we havent had such a deep and meaningful conversation in probably a year (but we did for the first half) i cried a bit, but not as much as him. this stunned me cause he's usually a robot and never expresses any emotion. I said a couple of times "do u agree this is for the best?" and he just didn't say anything then he said "it's hard for me cause I'm not sure if I'm doing the right thing, I'm not sure if breaking up with u is the right thing" I then calmly said "well its not really fair for me. I can't sit around and wait any longer, for once I have decided to be honest with myself and realize that I am important too and need to put myself first for once, I have been living my life the last few months based around u, all my decisions are based around you and I have been in constant anxiety and stress and i can't do that anymore I must be kind to myself" he is usually a robot so I was shocked when he started crying, and quite a bit.
he shows no emotion ever usually so this was good. I said to him that being vulnerable and opening up to someone who loves u is healthy and he said its hardfor him to do that cause he's been so badly burnt in the past, I told him I agree that's hard but it's time to learn and grow from it. I told him that life gives u obstacles which we have to over come I said if he doesn't overcome them then mark my words, this or something similar will happen again in the future and keep happening until you learn from it and take a different approach. We were cuddling quite a bit and it felt so nice I honesty hadn't felt that way in like a year, because it was soooo powerful and meaningful. I didn't say anything though but he was the one to say:that he could feel that he could feel something and hasnt felt like this while hugging me in so long. (basically, love feelings were coming back) THEN.. something in my head clicked, and I said "its because you have been blocking out LOVE this whole time" We were staring eachother in the eyes and I said "love literally makes the world go around, and you have been blocking it out. I think it's why it came to this because I was the one trying and trying to let these type of feelings flow naturally but there was no point because you were blocking out love and not letting it in" he started crying even more and said "I feel disgusting!!!" I actually felt really bad at this point and was being even more nice, I said "don't worry, you just need to learn from it and grow from it, that's what life is about" we hugged for a fair while and I said "everyone comes into our lives for a reason, once you realize what that reason is you should grab it and take that opportunity to better yourself." The way he was looking at me he knew everything I was saying was right where usually he would just be like "yeah yeah that's it" all sarcastically and try to be right all the time. But this time he was just being so honest and open and it was good. As he was hugging me he seamed annoyed with himself at one point and was crying and I said what's wrong and he said "I don't want to sound like a head fuck but I feel love right now" Something we haven't felt in ages and then we were both crying and it was so sad and nice at the same time. This next part is gonna sound so lame but then we were just staring at eachother and he said "I have this really strong desire now to make love to u" I said "Im not sure that's a good idea" he said "it defiently wouldn't be sex" we ended up doing it and seriously it was like something from a movie we were just staring into eachother and it was overwhelming and I haven't felt that connected to him in sooooo long, it was intense. After we just hugged for a while and I began crying and then he said "you are such a beautiful person" and It was nice and we were sad then he said I want to read your letter now (it was similar to the one i was going to send to him but alot more nicer) so I said okay, so I gave it to him and he read it and he really started to cry when he read the last page which said:
Although I don??t believe we are good for each other at this stage in our life, maybe someday it might work out again. If you love someone set them free, if they come back to you they they are yours to keep, if they don??t they never were. I hope we can be friends, but it??s time for me to set myself free. I have learnt a lot from you over the past 2 years and I look up to you in many ways. I am sorry that we didn??t work out, I wish we did, but it is what it is. You will always have a special place in my heart, and this is something I have never told any of my previous boyfriends. I hope one day you will find all the joys this life can bring. I love you"
He started crying and we hugged some more, he said he wants to write me a letter too because he wasnt able to fully express himself in person. I then left, and he sent me this text message: "Whatever happens i will always love you. You are a great person! I have a lot to think of huh, i will write u a letter, i think it will be the best way i can convey to u what i feel etc. im so glad you seam ok about this and the thoughts are mutual. So many feelings going through my head right now, its overwhelming Night xx"
I wrote back "ok no rush take your time
I really hope u take on board my advice, you have so much potential and i care about u so much. i hope ur okay and im so glad we were finally able to express ourselves a bit its what we both need and its healthy"
He then sent me this one first thing in the morning "
He started crying and we hugged some more, he said he wants to write me a letter too because he wasnt able to fully express himself in person. I then left, and he sent me this text message: "Whatever happens i will always love you. You are a great person! I have a lot to think of huh, i will write u a letter, i think it will be the best way i can convey to u what i feel etc. im so glad you seam ok about this and the thoughts are mutual. So many feelings going through my head right now, its overwhelming Night xx"
I wrote back "ok no rush take your time
I really hope u take on board my advice, you have so much potential and i care about u so much. i hope ur okay and im so glad we were finally able to express ourselves a bit its what we both need and its healthy" He then sent me this one first thing in the morning "
Posted by RomancingA
This is a pretty epic breakup.....anyone else who is going to read: make sure you have a cup of tea to go with it.
You guys are so young....all I have to say is although the sex brought you closer, it wasnt wise.....dont confuse sex for intimacy. He said numerous times he didnt know if it was right, he haad nothing to say when you kept prying and prying toget him to say he should agree it was for the best etc which can only mean he didn't want to lead you on but ended up doing so anyway.
I hope you stop being selfish and trying to make this guy suffer for wanting to end it. The emotional strings your pulling will only end in you getting hurt again, and not him due to his emotional wall being up.. im asssuming hes good at it since you consider him a robot.
I dont know why you needed to prolong the break off talk. It shows you have no inner strength. I know you went into it with a mature thought but you let the upper hand get to you. You abused your love....you allowed him to cry....
Hope you figure it out and just let him go. Poor fella.
He was the one who wanted the talk, it took me 3 days to agree to it.
Posted by scorpio24
okay my last post didnt work for some reason.
OKAY, so i decided to stop being in denial with myself and to just accept this break up and accept that we just arent meant to be together. I went and saw him last night and decided to be mature, calm and collected, before i went inside to talk to him i promised myself i was just going to be honest with myself even though its hard. i sat down and i did most of the talking to begin with. the first thing i said was "so, i think this breakup is defiantly for the best and its the right thing to do" he looked at me and had nothing to say. i think he was expecting me to be like "lets try again la la la" we went upstairs to talk cause his house mate was going to be home soon. we were laying on the bed and spoke for 3 hours. this is not normal for us, we havent had such a deep and meaningful conversation in probably a year (but we did for the first half) i cried a bit, but not as much as him. this stunned me cause he's usually a robot and never expresses any emotion. I said a couple of times "do u agree this is for the best?" and he just didn't say anything then he said "it's hard for me cause I'm not sure if I'm doing the right thing, I'm not sure if breaking up with u is the right thing" I then calmly said "well its not really fair for me. I can't sit around and wait any longer, for once I have decided to be honest with myself and realize that I am important too and need to put myself first for once, I have been living my life the last few months based around u, all my decisions are based around you and I have been in constant anxiety and stress and i can't do that anymore I must be kind to myself" he is usually a robot so I was shocked when he started crying, and quite a bit.
To be honest, i know in my heart our talk was the right thing to do, it all happened as it should have so no one's opinions matter to me. but post them if you feel the need but i stand by my word.
Posted by scorpio24
that he could feel that he could feel something and hasnt felt like this while hugging me in so long. (basically, love feelings were coming back) THEN.. something in my head clicked, and I said "its because you have been blocking out LOVE this whole time" We were staring eachother in the eyes and I said "love literally makes the world go around, and you have been blocking it out. I think it's why it came to this because I was the one trying and trying to let these type of feelings flow naturally but there was no point because you were blocking out love and not letting it in" he started crying even more and said "I feel disgusting!!!" I actually felt really bad at this point and was being even more nice, I said "don't worry, you just need to learn from it and grow from it, that's what life is about" we hugged for a fair while and I said "everyone comes into our lives for a reason, once you realize what that reason is you should grab it and take that opportunity to better yourself." The way he was looking at me he knew everything I was saying was right where usually he would just be like "yeah yeah that's it" all sarcastically and try to be right all the time. But this time he was just being so honest and open and it was good. As he was hugging me he seamed annoyed with himself at one point and was crying and I said what's wrong and he said "I don't want to sound like a head fuck but I feel love right now" Something we haven't felt in ages and then we were both crying and it was so sad and nice at the same time. This next part is gonna sound so lame but then we were just staring at eachother and he said "I have this really strong desire now to make love to u" I said "Im not sure that's a good idea" he said "it defiently wouldn't be sex" we ended up doing it and seriously it was like something from a movie we were just staring into eachother and it was overwhelming and I haven't felt that connected to him in sooooo long, it was intense. After we just hugged for a while and I began crying and then he said "you are such a beautiful person" and It was nice and we were sad then he said I want to read your letter now (it was similar to the one i was going to send to him but alot more nicer) so I said okay, so I gave it to him and he read it and he really started to cry when he read the last page which said:
Posted by scorpio24
Although I don??t believe we are good for each other at this stage in our life, maybe someday it might work out again. If you love someone set them free, if they come back to you they they are yours to keep, if they don??t they never were. I hope we can be friends, but it??s time for me to set myself free. I have learnt a lot from you over the past 2 years and I look up to you in many ways. I am sorry that we didn??t work out, I wish we did, but it is what it is. You will always have a special place in my heart, and this is something I have never told any of my previous boyfriends. I hope one day you will find all the joys this life can bring. I love you"
He started crying and we hugged some more, he said he wants to write me a letter too because he wasnt able to fully express himself in person. I then left, and he sent me this text message: "Whatever happens i will always love you. You are a great person! I have a lot to think of huh, i will write u a letter, i think it will be the best way i can convey to u what i feel etc. im so glad you seam ok about this and the thoughts are mutual. So many feelings going through my head right now, its overwhelming Night xx"
I wrote back "ok no rush take your time
He then sent me this one first thing in the morning "
Just in case you hide your posts...so others can read them.
Soooo...are you just going to be friends with benefits now?
Nice for Virgo...but not so nice for a Scorpio, I think.
Nice for Virgo...but not so nice for a Scorpio, I think.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
Just in case you hide your posts...so others can read them.
LOL!
i have not read the original post fully, but whatever brings you closure, is good for you.
Posted by memyselfPosted by LostinmyMind11
Just in case you hide your posts...so others can read them.
LOL!click to expand
i blocked lostinmymind so i cant see her posts now
thank fuck.Posted by Wynter
Soooo...are you just going to be friends with benefits now?
Nice for Virgo...but not so nice for a Scorpio, I think.
no it was a once off thing. wont happen again, it just felt right at the time and it was
Posted by scorpio24Posted by memyselfPosted by LostinmyMind11
Just in case you hide your posts...so others can read them.
LOL!
i blocked lostinmymind so i cant see her posts nowclick to expand
Hahahahahaha.
You're welcome
Posted by CluelessCancer
Lmao this shit was epic! all those tears. Gad it almost makes me attempt with the x Virgo but I'll need tear drops cause no way as hell I'm crying.
It definetly wasn't the reaction I was expecting, he hasn't been this open in a year. I honestly feel so much better now, even though we aren't together I feel at peace and I feel like so much weight has been lifted off my shoulders. It's amazing how much difference honesty and acceptance can make!
And I genuinely wish him happiness now, I see more clearly. My crown chakra is open haha
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At least you guys were able to find closure with your relationship. Some people never do.
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by scorpio24Posted by memyselfPosted by LostinmyMind11
Just in case you hide your posts...so others can read them.
LOL!
i blocked lostinmymind so i cant see her posts now
Hahahahahaha.
You're welcomeclick to expand
y are you so mean?
Posted by libra08Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by scorpio24Posted by memyselfPosted by LostinmyMind11
Just in case you hide your posts...so others can read them.
LOL!
i blocked lostinmymind so i cant see her posts now
Hahahahahaha.
You're welcome
y are you so mean?click to expand
Because she obviously has nothing better to do with her life then to come on dxpnet and be a bitch. Maybe it makes her feel better lol
Posted by libra08Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by scorpio24Posted by memyselfPosted by LostinmyMind11
Just in case you hide your posts...so others can read them.
LOL!
i blocked lostinmymind so i cant see her posts now
Hahahahahaha.
You're welcome
y are you so mean?click to expand
How am I being mean exactly? Its not like she cant delete the thread. lol
She couldnt handle truth...thats why she blocked me. Her calling me a fuck, get fucked, youre a bitch etc...when in all reality..I havent said one ignorant thing to her besides what she didnt want to hear...shows that despite what she wants us to believe that ...all in a couple days she matured and grown...is hardly the case. Sad but true! So if you would like to call me mean, bitch etc...go ahead cause I will not lose any sleep over it.
Posted by scorpio24Posted by libra08Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by scorpio24Posted by memyselfPosted by LostinmyMind11
Just in case you hide your posts...so others can read them.
LOL!
i blocked lostinmymind so i cant see her posts now
Hahahahahaha.
You're welcome
y are you so mean?
Because she obviously has nothing better to do with her life then to come on dxpnet and be a bitch. Maybe it makes her feel better lolclick to expand
Yeah ok lol...dont flatter yourself there sweet heart
Posted by IntriguedScorpPosted by libra08Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by scorpio24Posted by memyselfPosted by LostinmyMind11
Just in case you hide your posts...so others can read them.
LOL!
i blocked lostinmymind so i cant see her posts now
Hahahahahaha.
You're welcome
y are you so mean?
That's what I want to know? Its almost like she is fixated on being mean. There is nothing in what the OP said that is so horrible. Why act like it? None of my business...*shrugs*click to expand
When people come here and want to manipulate and play head games with someone...im going to call them out on it...plain and simple!
and there is nothing of what I said that is so horrible lol
Posted by IntriguedScorpPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by IntriguedScorpPosted by libra08Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by scorpio24Posted by memyselfPosted by LostinmyMind11
Just in case you hide your posts...so others can read them.
LOL!
i blocked lostinmymind so i cant see her posts now
Hahahahahaha.
You're welcome
y are you so mean?
That's what I want to know? Its almost like she is fixated on being mean. There is nothing in what the OP said that is so horrible. Why act like it? None of my business...*shrugs*
When people come here and want to manipulate and play head games with someone...im going to call them out on it...plain and simple!
and there is nothing of what I said that is so horrible lol
Some could argue that you are being just as manipulative, but like I said it's none of my business.click to expand
Are you just reaching now? cause that makes no sense lol
Posted by IntriguedScorp
I'm not reaching. You appear to be on some sort of power trip over the OP and quoting her appears to be done to give the impression that what she has said is somehow questionable. Ergo, you are trying to manipulate opinion. Just an observation. Don't take it personally. lol
Hahaha power trip...you are reaching lol. She likes to hide her posts...I just made sure she cant. Isnt any different than anyone else around here...I didnt question anything...I gave my honest opinion on what I read. again isnt any different than anyone else. Just because I didnt coddle her and tell her everything is gonna be alright...Im being a mean person lol
Posted by tiziani
It's not actually what you've said in so many words in previous threads, LIMM, but it's the way you've revelled in someone else's misfortune and misery. I know you will say you don't care etc. etc. and you're right, everyone is entitled to their opinion.
But the way you've gone about it is actually like you're emotionally invested in this relationship and haven't actually been objective at all. Decidedly un-Virgo in many respects.
Get off your high horse lol I swear you come into every thread and try to be a hero...its annoying.
^^^ I guess because I am being honest...Im mean again lol
you people are something else...you will condone someones bad behavior and coddle them. Its not helping them...but I guess you cant see that either!
and I havent been objective? hahaha. Im sorry I can only go by what she wants to give us...how can anyone be objective when its one sided? again get off your high horse!
Posted by tiziani
I come into most of Scorpio24's threads that I see because I like reading what she has to say.
There's really no way you're being honest. You're not the only one that has tried to point out Scorpio24's weaknesses, and some have been brutally honest like P-Angel. But there's a big difference between even those posts and yours where you take it upon yourself to actually revel in her misfortune. I'm clearly not the only one to notice.
Justify it however which way you want it.
No you go into everyones thread and try to be a hero..not just hers.
How exactly am I reveling in her misfortune again...you guys seem to throw this around and I have yet to see where you think im reveling? or manipulating? And how are my posts any different than the others? hahaha wow!
I havent gave my opinion on this thread...all I did was quote it and Im being mean. hahahaha
I laughed because she blocked me...again Im being mean....seriously thanks for the laugh guys!
I laughed because she blocked me...again Im being mean....seriously thanks for the laugh guys!
Posted by tiziani
I think you're being a little dramatic, don't you think? I didn't have to come in here and wear a cape to point out what's pretty obvious to more than a few people. It's just an observation. Choose to do what you want with it. Most likely, ignore it and continue to blow it out of proportion rather than simply be honest about whatever is bothering you with this person's story.
First off...coddlers flock in groups
second...the bold print...SHE WANTED TO MANIPULATE AND PLAY HEAD GAMES WITH HIM!
If she didnt want to do that...my whole "attitude" would have different..which you can clearly see in the many other threads Ive giving my opinion on...so again keep reaching!
Here..is this better?
"op Im sorry your tactics to manipulate and play head games with your bf didnt work out...better luck next time"
"op Im sorry your tactics to manipulate and play head games with your bf didnt work out...better luck next time
"Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by IntriguedScorp
I'm not reaching. You appear to be on some sort of power trip over the OP and quoting her appears to be done to give the impression that what she has said is somehow questionable. Ergo, you are trying to manipulate opinion. Just an observation. Don't take it personally. lol
Hahaha power trip...you are reaching lol. She likes to hide her posts...I just made sure she cant. Isnt any different than anyone else around here...I didnt question anything...I gave my honest opinion on what I read. again isnt any different than anyone else. Just because I didnt coddle her and tell her everything is gonna be alright...Im being a mean person lolclick to expand
Ok you're 29, she's 21. If you a really this bothered by her posts, why read them? Or why bother to even comment? Like, don't you have anything better to do. If you don't have anything good to say, don't say it. Maybe the poor girl has no one else to talk to so she comes and vents it out here. Who cares. Leave her be.
*are
Posted by kindleberryPosted by LostinmyMind11Posted by IntriguedScorp
I'm not reaching. You appear to be on some sort of power trip over the OP and quoting her appears to be done to give the impression that what she has said is somehow questionable. Ergo, you are trying to manipulate opinion. Just an observation. Don't take it personally. lol
Hahaha power trip...you are reaching lol. She likes to hide her posts...I just made sure she cant. Isnt any different than anyone else around here...I didnt question anything...I gave my honest opinion on what I read. again isnt any different than anyone else. Just because I didnt coddle her and tell her everything is gonna be alright...Im being a mean person lol
Ok you're 29, she's 21. If you a really this bothered by her posts, why read them? Or why bother to even comment? Like, don't you have anything better to do. If you don't have anything good to say, don't say it. Maybe the poor girl has no one else to talk to so she comes and vents it out here. Who cares. Leave her be.click to expand
Yeah Ive been her age before...I know how it is thank you. I can read and reply to any thread I want too..again thank you. If her or anyone for that matter is wanting to vent then they better be ready to hear some truth...aint any different than out in the real world. If you or anyone else would have came here and said the same things she did..I would have said the same things to you. This is not personal against her...this is just one of the 100s of ops that will come thru here and say the exact same things...I again I will tell them all the same as well!
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by tiziani
I think you're being a little dramatic, don't you think? I didn't have to come in here and wear a cape to point out what's pretty obvious to more than a few people. It's just an observation. Choose to do what you want with it. Most likely, ignore it and continue to blow it out of proportion rather than simply be honest about whatever is bothering you with this person's story.
First off...coddlers flock in groups
second...the bold print...SHE WANTED TO MANIPULATE AND PLAY HEAD GAMES WITH HIM!
If she didnt want to do that...my whole "attitude" would have different..which you can clearly see in the many other threads Ive giving my opinion on...so again keep reaching!click to expand
know you know how shes feeling with the coddlers comment you gave...
besides she block ffs how can you call out her manipulation... when you get blocked then your comment is not useful to the op anymore because she cant read it. in the surface with you posting and quoting her for nothjng would just paint you like a troll/cyber bully.
the op is young and in love... havent youve been love before and done crazy things after a breakup? if youll answer no then at least let someone in this world savor the experience of being in love. this dxp not your OWN website .....calling someone you do it constructively not be destructive.
the girl is already down and youre just kicking and punching her while shes knocked out.
Posted by libra08Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by tiziani
I think you're being a little dramatic, don't you think? I didn't have to come in here and wear a cape to point out what's pretty obvious to more than a few people. It's just an observation. Choose to do what you want with it. Most likely, ignore it and continue to blow it out of proportion rather than simply be honest about whatever is bothering you with this person's story.
First off...coddlers flock in groups
second...the bold print...SHE WANTED TO MANIPULATE AND PLAY HEAD GAMES WITH HIM!
If she didnt want to do that...my whole "attitude" would have different..which you can clearly see in the many other threads Ive giving my opinion on...so again keep reaching!
know you know how shes feeling with the coddlers comment you gave...
besides she block ffs how can you call out her manipulation... when you get blocked then your comment is not useful to the op anymore because she cant read it. in the surface with you posting and quoting her for nothjng would just paint you like a troll/cyber bully.
the op is young and in love... havent youve been love before and done crazy things after a breakup? if youll answer no then at least let someone in this world savor the experience of being in love. this dxp not your OWN website .....calling someone you do it constructively not be destructive.
the girl is already down and youre just kicking and punching her while shes knocked out.click to expand
If you havent noticed...im replying to everyone else...I replied once to her to laugh about her blocking me (which im pretty sure can still be read when logged out). I didnt say one word about this thread...I have been talking about the many other threads that Ive commented on. Oh Ive done plenty of stupid things when I was her age...so I know and I know what she was trying to pull...if someone would have told me the same thing...maybe I wouldnt have done majority of the dumb things I did...thank you for your concern.
Again with the cyber bullying...your just throwing that out there to get to me (which its not) and clearly have no idea what it entails and frankly its rude to the millions of people that do get cyber bullied everyday! She likes to hi
she likes to hide her posts...specially the one where he responded about her being over emotional (exactly the way he felt that I was trying to tell her)...she apparently doesnt want anyone to see that...so she can cont to try and being a victim...and shes not...but you all fall for it...congrats!
and coddling someone is being constructive? wow I really hope you never give out advice here or in RL. Being honest and telling it like it is...is more constructive for someone than being like "awww poor baby, its ok, hes a loser or totally wrong"
Posted by LostinmyMind11
and coddling someone is being constructive? wow I really hope you never give out advice here or in RL. Being honest and telling it like it is...is more constructive for someone than being like "awww poor baby, its ok, hes a loser or totally wrong"
i thought youre not loosing sleep over someone calling you out on something?
youre getting defensive.
you dont care right?
so get out of her thread or STFU
Posted by libra08Posted by LostinmyMind11
and coddling someone is being constructive? wow I really hope you never give out advice here or in RL. Being honest and telling it like it is...is more constructive for someone than being like "awww poor baby, its ok, hes a loser or totally wrong"
i thought youre not loosing sleep over someone calling you out on something?
youre getting defensive.
you dont care right?
so get out of her thread or STFUclick to expand
I love how people just pick and choose what to quote instead of what Ive said as a whole...just to simply attack me and make me look like a bag guy....hahahaha
How exactly am I being defensive?? what you quoted doesnt really imply that I have become defensive lol. Im going to stand up for myself...I have every right too. But stating that I have become defensive...when I havent is just ridiculous lol
really and Im the one being a bitch when youre telling me to stfu...and then put a smiley to imply that youre being nice about it...hahaha nice try.
And what did you call me out again...I must have missed that part. Can you refresh my memory? cause its not clear in anything that you have written!
Everyone has a right to speak .... what looks to me is that everyone likes this Scorpio, so therefore, anything anyone has to say that isn't what they want to hear gets attacks.
I find that interesting. This isn't about the OP not wanting to hear ... the others, who like her, can't handle what they don't want to hear .... curious
LIMM said very little to the Scorpio, the rest of the time she has been addressing all the others who attacked her because they are biased, and don't want to hear anything other than what they want.
interestng .....
In reality, there's no way that this relationship has been spiralling downwards this utterly horrid, then one day, the Scorpio grew up emotionally, and all was suddenly fixed ..... when a relationship is that bad, it takes work, not majic to mend and heal.
This Scorpio is obviously being deceptive, and LIMM has a right to believe what she considers the truth. A Virgo is repelled by dishonesty, and you can read this in any book .. so why is anyone in here upset because a Virgo is holding true to herself in not liking dishonesty?
So, LIMM doesn't agree with you, not the Scorpio, I'm talking the rest of you .... if any of you haven't noticed yet, and I have noticed .... she is one person, while the rest of you are multiple people, and YOU all are the ones bullying her, based on nothing except that she has a different opinion than you do.
I guarantee you, LIMM isn't the only person who thought the exact same thing when they read this thread ... she's just the only one who said anything.
I find that interesting. This isn't about the OP not wanting to hear ... the others, who like her, can't handle what they don't want to hear .... curious
LIMM said very little to the Scorpio, the rest of the time she has been addressing all the others who attacked her because they are biased, and don't want to hear anything other than what they want.
interestng .....
In reality, there's no way that this relationship has been spiralling downwards this utterly horrid, then one day, the Scorpio grew up emotionally, and all was suddenly fixed ..... when a relationship is that bad, it takes work, not majic to mend and heal.
This Scorpio is obviously being deceptive, and LIMM has a right to believe what she considers the truth. A Virgo is repelled by dishonesty, and you can read this in any book .. so why is anyone in here upset because a Virgo is holding true to herself in not liking dishonesty?
So, LIMM doesn't agree with you, not the Scorpio, I'm talking the rest of you .... if any of you haven't noticed yet, and I have noticed .... she is one person, while the rest of you are multiple people, and YOU all are the ones bullying her, based on nothing except that she has a different opinion than you do.
I guarantee you, LIMM isn't the only person who thought the exact same thing when they read this thread ... she's just the only one who said anything.
Thank you P-Angel...I appreciate that!
Posted by P-Angel
Everyone has a right to speak .... what looks to me is that everyone likes this Scorpio, so therefore, anything anyone has to say that isn't what they want to hear gets attacks.
I find that interesting. This isn't about the OP not wanting to hear ... the others, who like her, can't handle what they don't want to hear .... curious
LIMM said very little to the Scorpio, the rest of the time she has been addressing all the others who attacked her because they are biased, and don't want to hear anything other than what they want.
interestng .....
In reality, there's no way that this relationship has been spiralling downwards this utterly horrid, then one day, the Scorpio grew up emotionally, and all was suddenly fixed ..... when a relationship is that bad, it takes work, not majic to mend and heal.
This Scorpio is obviously being deceptive, and LIMM has a right to believe what she considers the truth. A Virgo is repelled by dishonesty, and you can read this in any book .. so why is anyone in here upset because a Virgo is holding true to herself in not liking dishonesty?
So, LIMM doesn't agree with you, not the Scorpio, I'm talking the rest of you .... if any of you haven't noticed yet, and I have noticed .... she is one person, while the rest of you are multiple people, and YOU all are the ones bullying her, based on nothing except that she has a different opinion than you do.
I guarantee you, LIMM isn't the only person who thought the exact same thing when they read this thread ... she's just the only one who said anything.
I know everyone has right to say something..but there is something of using that right in a wrong way.... LIMM may have the right to say to the op but we slso have the right to say that LIMM is way too much in commenting with the ops situation. If LIMM thinks the op is tiring well I also I find LIMM tiring too because shes just prolonging the thread by having derailing fights and comments like this.
like cmon 21 vs 29. ease off.
Posted by LostinmyMind11
And what did you call me out again...I must have missed that part. Can you refresh my memory? cause its not clear in anything that you have written!
of being mean
Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by libra08Posted by LostinmyMind11
and coddling someone is being constructive? wow I really hope you never give out advice here or in RL. Being honest and telling it like it is...is more constructive for someone than being like "awww poor baby, its ok, hes a loser or totally wrong"
i thought youre not loosing sleep over someone calling you out on something?
youre getting defensive.
you dont care right?
so get out of her thread or STFU
I love how people just pick and choose what to quote instead of what Ive said as a whole...just to simply attack me and make me look like a bag guy....hahahaha
How exactly am I being defensive?? what you quoted doesnt really imply that I have become defensive lol. Im going to stand up for myself...I have every right too. But stating that I have become defensive...when I havent is just ridiculous lol
really and Im the one being a bitch when youre telling me to stfu...and then put a smiley to imply that youre being nice about it...hahaha nice try.click to expand
ok fine if youre think youre not defensive then youre not.. and I don't think youre a bag guy
Posted by libra08Posted by P-Angel
Everyone has a right to speak .... what looks to me is that everyone likes this Scorpio, so therefore, anything anyone has to say that isn't what they want to hear gets attacks.
I find that interesting. This isn't about the OP not wanting to hear ... the others, who like her, can't handle what they don't want to hear .... curious
LIMM said very little to the Scorpio, the rest of the time she has been addressing all the others who attacked her because they are biased, and don't want to hear anything other than what they want.
interestng .....
In reality, there's no way that this relationship has been spiralling downwards this utterly horrid, then one day, the Scorpio grew up emotionally, and all was suddenly fixed ..... when a relationship is that bad, it takes work, not majic to mend and heal.
This Scorpio is obviously being deceptive, and LIMM has a right to believe what she considers the truth. A Virgo is repelled by dishonesty, and you can read this in any book .. so why is anyone in here upset because a Virgo is holding true to herself in not liking dishonesty?
So, LIMM doesn't agree with you, not the Scorpio, I'm talking the rest of you .... if any of you haven't noticed yet, and I have noticed .... she is one person, while the rest of you are multiple people, and YOU all are the ones bullying her, based on nothing except that she has a different opinion than you do.
I guarantee you, LIMM isn't the only person who thought the exact same thing when they read this thread ... she's just the only one who said anything.
I know everyone has right to say something..but there is something of using that right in a wrong way.... LIMM may have the right to say to the op but we slso have the right to say that LIMM is way too much in commenting with the ops situation. If LIMM thinks the op is tiring well I also I find LIMM tiring too because shes just prolonging the thread by having derailing fights and comments like this.
like cmon 21 vs 29. ease off.click to expand
Again ...and this is the last time im going to say this...I havent said anything to her about this thread, so how am I wayyy into too much of commenting?. If im tiring then why are you commenting? and youre not prolonging it too? hahaha laughable!
Posted by libra08Posted by LostinmyMind11
And what did you call me out again...I must have missed that part. Can you refresh my memory? cause its not clear in anything that you have written!
of being meanclick to expand
Thats not calling me out on anything..lol you think im being mean...doesnt mean that I am
Posted by libra08Posted by LostinmyMind11Posted by libra08Posted by LostinmyMind11
and coddling someone is being constructive? wow I really hope you never give out advice here or in RL. Being honest and telling it like it is...is more constructive for someone than being like "awww poor baby, its ok, hes a loser or totally wrong"
i thought youre not loosing sleep over someone calling you out on something?
youre getting defensive.
you dont care right?
so get out of her thread or STFU
I love how people just pick and choose what to quote instead of what Ive said as a whole...just to simply attack me and make me look like a bag guy....hahahaha
How exactly am I being defensive?? what you quoted doesnt really imply that I have become defensive lol. Im going to stand up for myself...I have every right too. But stating that I have become defensive...when I havent is just ridiculous lol
really and Im the one being a bitch when youre telling me to stfu...and then put a smiley to imply that youre being nice about it...hahaha nice try.
ok fine if youre think youre not defensive then youre not.. and I don't think youre a bag guyclick to expand
Youre right Im not a "bag" guy but youre trying to make me out like the "bad" guy!
ugh typos lol
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