I've been romantically linked with two Capricorns males (not at the same time), who both happen to be born on the same day, January 10th.
I thought Capricorn was supposed to be the ideal match for Virgo, but I've gotten SO incredibly irritated by both of them, they both wanted to talk constantly and it drives me crazy. Secondly, I didn't particularly enjoy having sex with the first one and now this second one, I can't even imagine the thought of having sex with.
Why is this?! I don't understand it... although maybe it has something to do with the fact I don't think I'm over a Scorpio who broke my heart. if we're such a perfect match, why do I get so annoyed around them after a while?
I think confirmation bias is not helping. I had the same sort of thing cloud my judgement, virg woman finds out I'm a cap, goes on about the perfect match thing. She was super quiet and reserved, and I was was interested. Probably made me open up a bit more than I normally do, because virgs seem rather, aloof... Confirmation bias tricked me into thinking a relationship with her would be great, so better pursue it right?
Either way I asked to take her out to get to know her, to find out more about that person who was always closed off. Shot me down, but later on we ended up hanging out at a get together. I got to know her more, and as she finally opened up and rambled on, I caught myself thinking, "wow this person is a nightmare"...
Bottom line is, its not always a good idea to get caught up in signs when it comes to this kinda thing. Shoot you say you are "romantically linked", but couldn't imagine bedding down with one of them? What other signal do you need that isn't going to work?
Oh and most importantly, get over the fact someone broke your heart. Not worth dwelling over, and both men and women don't wanna date someone with victim mentality. Like if someone who says, "my exes screwed me over," they are always going to be waiting for that next guy to do the same, and that's gonna wear on your relationship.