Would you do it?

I have to ask this question for all you straight men out there (non-European).

If your woman wanted to watch you and another man have sex and she really wanted you to do it . . would you?

A straight female will do another woman for her man.

So, howz abouts you's guys? I know, you have to think about it first, take your time, lol, we'll wait.

No.

A woman doing another woman is not mandatory. I can live without it too. (in case she wants to even it)

"I'd be asking why does she want to have sex with another man in the first place."

Thanks for answering, Branh, but, that's not what I meant.

She wants to WATCH the two men together, not do both men herself. There's something erotic about a woman watching her man do this . . just as, it's hot for a man to watch his woman do another female.

So, no-way, huh? And, I DO think European men WOULD do this for his girl . . they're open-minded about such stuff.

I guess I was suppose to be born in England, or Scotland, or summit because that would just be the most thrilling and arousing turn-on ever.

No. If you're 100% hetrosexual, it'd be almost impossible. Kinsey had a scale of 0 - 6 wherein 0 would total Hetrosexual and 6 total Homosexual. He considered himself a 3, meaning equally attracted to male or female. So it would depend on where a guy was on the scale.

I see, so let me get this right . . when men talk about wanting two women . . they DON'T mean their gf or wife, however, if it's just some thing you're shagging with no emotional attachment, then, it would be cool to watch?

"Even if a guy slept with another man, he'd constantly question his sexuality, and he'lll be so confused it is highly unlikely he'll be sexually functional again."

Sorry, but, I don't agree with that. Perhaps, some men might question their sexuality, but, not many and I doubt he'd be confused or tramatized. There's a difference between fantasy and real life and I'm sure that most adults have a pretty grasp on that.

So, Branh and Haffo say, no-way in hell. Anyone else?

Guys just aren't as hot as women, we're all about pleasure, hell yeah !!!!!!

"P-Angel" A straight female will do another woman for her man.

Not if she was 100% Hetrosexual. And there's a good chance that even if she was slightly Bi-sexual, she still wouldn't do it.

I rather think a mate would run the risk of losing their mate who suggested such a thing.

I know I asked my old Cancer GF if she'd try swinging once, and she was so pissed, she wouldn't talk to me for over a week.

"No. If you're 100% hetrosexual, it'd be almost impossible"

What I don't comprehend here, FC . . is why is it that women can do this and not men. It is possible for a straight woman to do another female just for the benefit and pleasure of her man, and remain straight in her desires.

Why is it impossible for men, yet, possible for women?

I think it's a social stigma, your afraid because of what someone might say . . heaven forbide.

It is possible. Probably 90% of my straight female friends has done something with another woman . . only with her man and for him . . . yet, never outside of his desire to watch this because she's STRAIGHT.

Only to the men is this an issue . . it's our society. Me thinks moving to England will set my fantasies free.

So, three responses and all three say, NOPE !!!!!!!

>when men talk about wanting two women . . they DON'T mean their gf or wife,

Depends. I personally only want to be with one woman at a time. And watching two gals is NOT a turn on for me. If watching a video, I prefer to watch a man and a woman because I can fantisize that "I" am the man in the video, and what he's doing, I am actually doing to the gal.

No way it would ever happen. This is a sick question.

>What I don't comprehend here, FC . . is why is it that women can do this and not men.

Ok... here's a good answer for ya. When two females have sex, it's all kissing and fondling. No more.

But guys? Guys need to get ERECTIONS, LOL. SO....

If someone held a gun to my head and forced ME... I could kiss a guy, fondle him... but couldn't get it up to save my life.

How do I know this? If you know what USENET is or was... I think Google runs the Newsgroups now... There is every sort of porn on there imagineable and all free. All ya gotta do is look at the different types there and see what turns you on. Homo stuff does NOT turn me on. Doesn't make me sick, or angry.... just does NOTHING for me, LOL.

"When two females have sex, it's all kissing and fondling. No more."

Don't carry that to the bank. Women go all the way when they've got another woman in the bed, for their man's pleasure.

Porn is nothing . . that's for ugly people.

lol

I don't believe in sharing my partner with anything/one..

Alright, so many, many men like anal penetration, so long as it's a woman doing it. What's up with that? What the hell is the difference? But, that's not confusing?

Society that is based around religion tells us that this is forbidden behaviour. If our society had no opinion on it and even condoned it . . would you still be confused? Who's confusing you?

"There are more women entertaining the option of bisexualism, mainly because of gripes they have with the male sex."

Maybe . . but, I just think it would be red hot. Such a big turn-on that it would take all night and the next day to gratify me. And, it would have nothing to do with gripes about male sex . . I WANT to see the male sex in action.

American men are disappointing . . they're such prudes.

Hmmm...P-Angel - I wonder if this is a Pisces thang—? reason being is, I know of a female Pisces and she has expressed the same desire as you - wanting to watch two men together. Not my thing but...whatever floats your boat I say. She shared this with her Aries boyfriend and me thinks she actually did acheive her intention. 😉

By the way, she also said the fantasy of her desire was better than the real thing.

"I am not religious, and I don't think most men's comments here are coming from a religious motive either"

What I meant was, religion dictates our society, Brandon.

There is no such thing as a closet, so, nobody can be in one. It's just a label so society can point a finger at you and call you this, or, that. Our society doesn't want to accept that people are human oriented and not gender orientated . . so, they've manipulated us into believing that if you feel something they have labelled as "taboo", then you MUST be a homo. That's insane. Sexual life and living outside of the bedroom doesn't have to be the same thing. Society would make you believe, which it has because you have stated as much, that if you fantasize about the same gender, then you MUST NOW change your whole life . . bullshit.

I have a friend who has sex with her dog, but, she ain't announcing it to world because her sexual desires has nothing to do with her family, her job or anything else. Besides, I saw a special on TV and have done research and have found an astounishing amount of men, living in the down-low. Why is that?

"I doubt very much you like the idea of having a homosexual husband or boyfriend"

Label, just a label . . if my man wanted to have sex with another man, I would still just see him as a man. Men are men, people are people . . . I don't see the benefit in putting labels on people . .

Anyway, I truly believe that this is just an American thing, "I think you fail to understand that most men are not going to have sex with another man ever". We do all kinds of damage to ourselves by putting labels on all kinds of people.

Yes, Freebird . . an Aries man is always the way to go. They will do whatever it takes to please their females . . they are the 10's . . no question.

Perhaps, it is a Pisces thing . . don't know for sure . . only that it's hot.

aw come on guys...stop being so prude

Women will do it . . every woman I know would do it.

In fact, I know several and thier still married. Thier marriage isn't damaged in any way because they comprehend that this is just sexual fantasy . . it's not their emotional relationship.

This is something, isn't it? The men being prude's and the women being open-minded. Perhaps all you single guys might get laid more often if you'd come down off your religious based principals.

"We're not being Prudes, we're being Straight with you!"

lol, straight prudes

right, and the fact that you're being straight means that you are genuinely prude. 😛

I think I'll refrain from typing what ran through my mind upon reading that statement. 😛

Chykun—— Moi? Non, monsieur.

Forgive me for not wanting to come across as a nasty pervert. Besides, I was taught to respect my elders. 😉

I have some fun finger paints, Dyr . . . we can always paint a cherry on the top of his head. You'd never know . . really, because the only thing you'll see is the big delicious cherry . . yeah, Dyr will eat so long as there's a cherry on top, lol

In fact, I have mushroom color paint too . . why, didn't I hear you say that you were a vegatarian or somthing . . mushrooms ARE vegatables, you know. And well, that would seem more appropriate . . you know !!!!!!!!

oh mah gawd!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

teeeeehehehehehehehe guffaw

did i mention you're killing me?

However, mushrooms are fungi

but as they are edible for vegetarians, maybe yours'll turn str8z into a fun guy

He said that he is what he eats, with a cherry on top and we can make it look like a cherry . . I'm sure of it.

Man on man?

...

*binges on alcohol*

let the images stop!!!

I'm from S.F. and just watching men hold hands made me want to shower... well depending on how close they were to me lol

"just watching men hold hands made me want to shower... well depending on how close they were to me"

Oh, I see . . so, so long as they were far away, you'd just feel like needing a shower. But, if they were close . . well then, is what you're meaning, it's time to get down and dirty?

That's the closeness I'm talking about.

And hey, "Peanut", can I watch?

haha well that was random

The Village People? Whyever would you choose them?

(just kidding)

Branh, are you uncomfortable with this topic?

lol, if you really sit back and look at everybody . . you can't help but laugh at all our different personalities.

There's Branh and his serious sense of being humorless.
Aprilbaby ready for us all to clap hands and sing.
Me, well, would a twisted pervert be too mild to say.
You, just laughing your ass off at us.
Dyr, still analyzing his penis to see how a cherry would look.
Peanut trying to figure out if I insulted his dick size, or was just kidding.

Where a bunch, I can tell ya.

lmgdmfAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you should revise the us to me because you, my dear, are the only one who really gets me going

But to answer the question my crabby would NEVER do that. Now I'm very curious to see his reaction if I asked him that... muah ha hahaha >=D

He's not a homophobe but definitely does not like gay jokes... his tolerance is very low when it comes to that. His friends would hang out with this gay guy, loud OBVIOUS gay lol And he was cool with him, is cool with him... but this gay guy is NASTY and blunt about what he likes sexually. He's always hitting on his friends and I suspect is attracted to my bf.

The other guys can take mr.gays nasty insinuations by making fun of him and cussing him out from time to time. And although he can put anyone down in shame with his blunt, funny and quick remarks... my crabby gets FIRED UP when he gets too graphic around him. He's cool with gay ppl but he doesn't like them trying to push this stuff down everyone elses throats and certainly NOT HIS. Last time this guy made flirty remarks towards him, he laughed for a little bit and then put him in his place...

I had never seen a gay guy so offended. I myself felt bad, he looked like he was gonna cry because he couldn't understand why my crabby could take a womans flirting and not a gay mans flirting LOL He straight out told him not to direct himself towards him in that way EVER... that he was cool as a friend and they could talk as friends but that gay activities were NOT normal and he didn't wanna hear that shit! That was so hilarious! Think he was offended because he likes my bf... which explains his rolling his eyes at me ha hahaha ha ha

We're a nice close-minded, judgmental couple... awesome! lol

lol, I guess you don't have dick size then, hehehehehe

"Oh, I see . . so, so long as they were far away, you'd just feel like needing a shower. But, if they were close . . well then, is what you're meaning, it's time to get down and dirty?"

-- lol down and dirty? nooooooooooo lol I find that gross. I'm a chic by the way. And just so you don't think that I'm painfully prudish, you can watch me and my a hundred percent heterosexual bf get 'down and dirty'... well if it doesn't bore you heheheheeehe

right!

I thought you were male, oooops . . sorry.

Somebody's hero is Richard Gere !!!!!!! Ahhhhhh, that's so sweet. Hey, isn't he a Virgo?

Why are you in Dyrstr8z? I've been meaning to ask you that for a while now.

Did your gerbil die?

Why? Lack of oxygen?

>Alright, so many, many men like anal penetration, so long as it's a woman doing it. What's up with that? What the hell is the difference? But, that's not confusing?

Again, I think it's gotta boil down to who is Bi-Sexual to some degree or other. And that likely is a factor on if a guy likes anal penetration or not.

I actually tried it once, with a dildo to see if it would enhance masturbation when my first wife was ill and I wasn't getting any sex with her. It did nothing for me at all. I actually LOST my hardon when it was in me and couldn't get hard again, LOL. It was distracting, it was just weird.

"No, the Gerbil didn't die, but if Deb has her way, the rabbit will...

NOW you see why I'm in Dire Straits!"

OMG, are you serious? But, you two just moved in together not long ago. Isn't that kind of rushing things just a tad?

It's better if it's done by your girl the first couple times, while she's down there exploring . . that way, it stays up because she's makes sure it does. Once you get used to it, it's great. Every man I know loves it.