Yes, Virgo girls do pull the Houdini act too...

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My Gemini friend a girl is upset with me because I don't call her anymore. I've been so busy lately getting my life in order I just can't be around them
Until I pull myself together. She have gotten so clingy texting me " I love you, your my bestie " at 2 in the morning and now she's upset because I didn't call her back.
We've been besties for over 10 yrs now. Everytime we get into a argument about not talking to each other too often anymore, she brings up our first yr of college
When I didnt talk to her for a whole yr, because I needed my space, she still on it, it's in the past, move on. And now I keep disappearing more often lately she's getting upset, even thou we are both besties
With an Aquarius girl who finds her clingy behavior wierd lol she think she might have a crush on me, saying there's a les sexual tension between us because we are always flirting like regular gfs who are best friend do nothing serious, bcuz we are both straight and she has a bf. she always want to chill now a days.
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I dare say its rather down to your poor control on that slightly selfish/self-serving moon in Aries. Textbook immature moon in Aries behaviour. We all have stuff to do too and need our time for that, however if we all acted as selfishly as you are acting towards your friend..how would there even be relationships? How would people marry or have kids? The human race would be doomed to end.
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Essielove
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I dare say its rather down to your poor control on that slightly selfish/self-serving moon in Aries. Textbook immature moon in Aries behaviour. We all have stuff to do too and need our time for that, however if we all acted as selfishly as you are acting towards your friend..how would there even be relationships? How would people marry or have kids? The human race would be doomed to end.



Well thank you for your kind input here, I do appreciate. But my apology if I have need time alone to get myself and my personal issues sorted out. When she becomes distant and busy wth her own life and I get upset, she tells she's busy. If if the same goes for me, expect i actually call unlike her. I'm not being selfish towards my best friend, I just don't want to be around anyone when I need my space to sort my life out, I can't focus with everyone around me. So don't call me seflish.
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Essielove
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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I dare say its rather down to your poor control on that slightly selfish/self-serving moon in Aries. Textbook immature moon in Aries behaviour. We all have stuff to do too and need our time for that, however if we all acted as selfishly as you are acting towards your friend..how would there even be relationships? How would people marry or have kids? The human race would be doomed to end.



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My dear lovely people,
what is so wrong with being with yourself?
No need to play the game
"what if everybody did as I do?"
because everybody won't.
There will be no shortage of
people wanting to be with each other
and all that comes with that.
What we need is more people in this world
to get inside themselves and
learn about the power source that
comes from within.
Essielove, keep to your own counsel.

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Essielove
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Posted by Sagtastic
@Essielove don't even worry about it. It sounds like you have enough to stress about that a simple "girl"friend who come a dime a dozen. My best friend is a Virgal and we go months with out so much as a "Facebook" like. We both understand that we are trying to get ahead in this world and need time to do so. I love her even more because she doens't get mad at that fact I don't send a merry xmas text. I mean PLEASE!! the last thing I want to do on my day of is feel like I am working to entertain every human being in my life.

I also have the same relationship with my other best friend (I only have two real friends...lol) who is a Gemini! She maybe worse than me...lol But at the end of the day, I know both of them would go tooth and nails for me. And I the same.

Keep your eye on the prize, or else you will end up a bitter old lady with no real "life" accomplishments because you were too busy passifying people.




^_^! Thank you so much for your thoughtful insight sagtastic 🙂!
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Essielove
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Posted by finch
I think it's good that you're trying to sort your life out. If your friend doesn't understand that then what the hell kinda friend is this??

However i do believe you should have at least SOME time to have a chat with your friend. In this day and age of social media there is simply no excuse.




I do text and call her, if she's busy she won't answer and other times she has this bf who answers rudely and hangs up on me.
Which is why I don't call her too often anymore. He's so disrespectful. He's an Aquarius and our other Aquarius gf can't stand him.
He will answer her phone, curse at me when he sees it's me calling her saying ages busy and hangs up. She just laughs it off saying he's joking.