Your Best/Worst Relationships

This topic was created in the Virgo forum by CLCNY30 on Tuesday, April 19, 2011 and has 37 replies.
I thought it'd be interesting to share your best and worst relationship stories.
So, if you don't mind--what is your sign?
What was your best/worth relationship partner's sign?
Pros? Cons?
If you could have changed anything, what would it have been?
re (if applicable) Worst: Who or what do you think was at fault for why it didn't work?
Feel free to give more info if you're comfortable enough sharing.
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Best relationship:
Me - Virgo
Him - Either an Aqua or a Cap (his bday was in January)
Pros: He was a fantastic lover. The foreplay was...weird (he asked me to do something weird, concerning fellatio...and it was a wrap from there. Truth be told, I was asked to give like a sandpaper bj, and it was horrible. Lips all chapped and chaffed. He never got a bj from me again, lmfao) but the sex itself? Mmmmmmm. He was always ready to go too -- two thumbs up! I could see how he felt about me in his eyes. They were a (to be honest) scary light blue, but when he focused on me, they warmed up nicely, and it was an absolute turn on.
Cons: He seemed clingy. Didn't understand that I needed to be alone, and seemed to want to control my life (whereabouts, etc). His tongue was always cold! I swear! I'd watch him to see if his mouth was open when he was breathing, and it wasn't, but kissing him was like sucking on an ice cube! It was disturbing!
Bottomline, we started out in agreement that we would not get serious (we had both just come out of long relationships, and weren't looking for another anytime soon). I kept my end of the bargain, he fell in love. He broke the pact, lol. I was flattered, but really craving a break to work on myself. Like I said, he was clingy so finding myself wasn't going to happen in that relationship. The reason this relationship was my favorite was because I didn't give a sh1t. Plain and simple. If it worked it worked, if it didn't it didn't, I wasn't anxious or nervous or excited or analytical (or over analytical), I just relaxed and enjoyed it, and it was wonderful not to care about the outcome (SO unVirgolike...)
He ended up buying a house in another state, intended for me to follow, but I was preparing to enter back into school and had just taken on a new job. I wasn't going anywhere. End of relationship.
If I could have changed anything...hmmmm...nah, I liked it the way it was. Maybe with him being less clingy?
As far as who was to blame for the end of the relationship, his ass. We said "nothing serious" and he broke the promise. If he was looking for something serious in the beginning, he should have been truthful with me. Who knows, I might have taken him up on it anyway, and things might have turned out differently...
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Best and Worst LOL
Me:Virgo
HimTongueisces
Pros-He was in love with me (could tell it by his eyes) funny as hell, smart, etc. Sex was amazing at the beginning....he was a lot more kinkier than me at the time. He was my best friend smile
Cons-very unstable...always leaving and coming back, secretive and sneaky, lied a lot, never could hold down a job
We were both young when we got together and I think we were drifting apart little by little, both wanted different things but also the same thing. We just couldn't stay away from each other.
I wouldn't of changed a thing....despite the cons, I will always love him and I miss him everyday!
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^^ he is a Pisces not Tongueisces LOL
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Posted by LostinmyMind11
^^ he is a Pisces not Tongueisces LOL


Nope, you had it right--they're all Tongueisces
LMFAO
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WORST relationship:
Me - Virgo
Him - Cancer
Pros: That man...was never soft in the pants. Ever. Did I mention "ever"? Jesus the sex went on for DAYS. It was glorious. Was very cuddly, and adoring. Very emotional in a good way, in that he wasn't afraid to cry or talk about his feelings.
Cons: Another clingy ass. CLING-Y!!! Oh Lord, I always think back to that date where we came back to my place, were relaxing in the living room, and I tried to excuse myself to go to the bathroom--HE TRIED TO FOLLOW ME IN! I was like, "DUDE! CAN I PEE?!" He looked soooo hurt after I said it, even though I kinda laughed when it was said. He looked like I had slapped him. (-_-) He was very emotion in a BAD way as well. He cried too dang much for my liking, and made everything about him. He could hurt you real bad, and before you could talk about how badly you felt, he'd start crying and tell you how badly it made HIM feel that HE hurt YOU. You were left basically consoling HIM for hurting YOU. Bullshat, I tell you. Pure bullshat.
We were okay together, until I found out a little secret fetish/wish/fantasy/desire of his. I could not meet said fetish/wish/fantasy/desire. He loved Asian women. I mean loved them so much that, as he put it, "they could be the ugliest females to walk the earth, but as long as they're Asian, I'd find them beautiful."
So...after hearing him say he loved me so much, was so into me, thought I was so cute...but wished I was his "Little Asian Princess" bout fitty-leven times too many, I finally sat him down and we had "the talk". He cried, I consoled, and I also assured him we could be friends...but I wanted him to go out there and find the Asian Princess of his dreams. I wouldn't want someone standing in the way of MY dreams, so I won't do the same to someone else.
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I was little Ms. Supportive, cheering him on during his quest. He was the opposite. Once I started dating again a few months later, he did everything he could to sabotage my relationships by f'n with my mind (telling me a guy wasn't really interested, or he'd want an Asian girl too). One day, I had enough and screamed like a f'n banshee and cursed him out, and boy did he cry.
He admitted that he wanted me to be happy...he just wanted to be the man who'd be the source of that happiness.
He then (selfish ass) asked me to wait for him until he found his Asian Princess, and if he didn't, he'd marry me.
Me: "Oh joy of joys--would you REALLY settle for little ole me?????!"
Him: *bursts into tears at my sarcasm*
LOL.
No. I was not waiting for him.
A few years later he supposedly met the Asian woman of his dreams. Told me about her for half-an-hour, and I was genuinely happy for him--really and truly. He then asked if we could make love again. Yeah...no. I knew what I had to do, and my heart was more than ready to do it. He was insatiable. I was glad I'd stayed around long enough to see that he would still be a d1ck when he met The Asian One.
The day I decided to leave him in my past...I actually sighed. Like PHSYICALLY, and AUDIBLY let out a sigh of relief. He was seriously like his sign--a Cancer, but a cancer of my soul, just eating away at it and leaving nothing for anyone else.
Ugh.
What I would have changed? Never having met him. Besides the sex, it was a heartbreaking experience.
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Posted by CLCNY30
Posted by LostinmyMind11
^^ he is a Pisces not Tongueisces LOL


Nope, you had it right--they're all Tongueisces
LMFAO
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Hehehe....your right, should of just left it like that
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Posted by CLCNY30
WORST relationship:
Me - Virgo
Him - Cancer
Pros: That man...was never soft in the pants. Ever. Did I mention "ever"? Jesus the sex went on for DAYS. It was glorious. Was very cuddly, and adoring. Very emotional in a good way, in that he wasn't afraid to cry or talk about his feelings.
Cons: Another clingy ass. CLING-Y!!! Oh Lord, I always think back to that date where we came back to my place, were relaxing in the living room, and I tried to excuse myself to go to the bathroom--HE TRIED TO FOLLOW ME IN! I was like, "DUDE! CAN I PEE?!" He looked soooo hurt after I said it, even though I kinda laughed when it was said. He looked like I had slapped him. (-_-) He was very emotion in a BAD way as well. He cried too dang much for my liking, and made everything about him. He could hurt you real bad, and before you could talk about how badly you felt, he'd start crying and tell you how badly it made HIM feel that HE hurt YOU. You were left basically consoling HIM for hurting YOU. Bullshat, I tell you. Pure bullshat.
We were okay together, until I found out a little secret fetish/wish/fantasy/desire of his. I could not meet said fetish/wish/fantasy/desire. He loved Asian women. I mean loved them so much that, as he put it, "they could be the ugliest females to walk the earth, but as long as they're Asian, I'd find them beautiful."
So...after hearing him say he loved me so much, was so into me, thought I was so cute...but wished I was his "Little Asian Princess" bout fitty-leven times too many, I finally sat him down and we had "the talk". He cried, I consoled, and I also assured him we could be friends...but I wanted him to go out there and find the Asian Princess of his dreams. I wouldn't want someone standing in the way of MY dreams, so I won't do the same to someone else.



Wow, what a guy. Don't you just love the honesty? But never soft in the pants? That's a good thing, LoL.
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I have no clue if he was taking something, or WHAT!! He was NEVER SOFT. One day, he asked if I wanted a hotdog, I said sure--he went into the kitchen, and came back with his erect member between a damn hotdog bun.
I mean, it was hot, and I did go to town on it and milk it dry, but still...perv! LOL
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I'm a virgo.
Best:
He was a saggitarius.
Boy oh boy could we talk about everything...I mean EVERYTHING up until 5 in the morning. He wasn't afraid to talk about anything and he was very intellectual and enterprising. We didn't argue at all. We had too much good communication to even have MIScommunication. The thing that I liked about him the most was that we could be talking polotics and then he would just stare at me in a seductive way while I talked. He'd do me right then and there....and then we'd continue where our conversation left off. Very sexually spontaneous. And he was so cuddly. He made me feel so small and feminine.
He's a pisces:
He can be a little pessimistic but I am there to lift him up and he looks at me with such beautiful eyes when I am. He is the warmest, sexiest man that I know. I won't go into detail on the s*% t that he is willing to do sexually but ummmmm....wowsers. Just an sexy motha f& $ #a. So affectionate and spiritual. I can talk about such weird stuff and go off the planet with him. I love that. He takes me as I am.
Worst:
He was an Aries.
Boy oh boy did this guy yearn to please. He wanted to be everything that the whole world needed. Very heroic but clumsy as hell. He didn't think before he jumped. I mean, he was smart as hell but he didn't like for me to be right at all. He never could see my point of view and we argued a lot. He was always thinking that somebody was trying to get with me, just a paranoid man. And the sex was just that.....sex. No loving ease of touch or anything. He was totally hyper all the time. Too much for me. He yelled at me and said, "I AM YOUR MAN, OKAY?" before we even committed. Yea, his fire burned out long before.
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Posted by CLCNY30
Best relationship:
Me - Virgo
Him - Either an Aqua or a Cap (his bday was in January)

Cons: He seemed clingy. Didn't understand that I needed to be alone, and seemed to want to control my life (whereabouts, etc). His tongue was always cold! I swear! I'd watch him to see if his mouth was open when he was breathing, and it wasn't, but kissing him was like sucking on an ice cube! It was disturbing!

ROFLOL!!!, FUNNY CLCNY......

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ugh....*politics* if anyone cares.
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Posted by CLCNY30
One day, he asked if I wanted a hotdog, I said sure--he went into the kitchen, and came back with his erect member between a damn hotdog bun.



What a lucky girl.
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Best/Worst: Virgo.
Runner up: Libra.. DISCLAIMER: This was not your average dude, it was like dating a woman with a kickstand. He had some deep issues. I think his period ceased every 28 days with a week of normalcy in between times. The indecision made me a nutter, and he eventually called halt after my daughter passed saying I "Wasn't as fun as I used to be.." OH rilly now? Can't imagine why...
Can we say..favor?
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Posted by CLCNY30
I have no clue if he was taking something, or WHAT!! He was NEVER SOFT. One day, he asked if I wanted a hotdog, I said sure--he went into the kitchen, and came back with his erect member between a damn hotdog bun.
I mean, it was hot, and I did go to town on it and milk it dry, but still...perv! LOL


OMG.....LMMFAO!!! WOW!!
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I see you're like me, Pmerc! The eyes get me every time. I don't care what color they are (okay, well I'm not really a fan of blue eyes...) but if they hold my gaze steady, sparkle or twinkle mischieviously, and give me that "come hither" message, clothes are coming off.
Or being ripped off.
His choice Winking
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"This was not your average dude, it was like dating a woman with a kickstand"
Hahaha....Love it!!
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Posted by venusianbull
Best/Worst: Virgo.
Runner up: Libra.. DISCLAIMER: This was not your average dude, it was like dating a woman with a kickstand. He had some deep issues. I think his period ceased every 28 days with a week of normalcy in between times. The indecision made me a nutter, and he eventually called halt after my daughter passed saying I "Wasn't as fun as I used to be.." OH rilly now? Can't imagine why...
Can we say..favor?


See this ish! This is why I just cannot fathom being with another Virgo.
And, why do the men sound more feminine (in a bad way) then the women???!!!
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And I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter, vb Sad
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Me too VB.....I didn't read the rest of it right away Sad
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Posted by CLCNY30
WORST relationship:
Me - Virgo
Him - Cancer
Pros: That man...was never soft in the pants. Ever. Did I mention "ever"? Jesus the sex went on for DAYS. It was glorious. Was very cuddly, and adoring. Very emotional in a good way, in that he wasn't afraid to cry or talk about his feelings.
Cons: Another clingy ass. CLING-Y!!! Oh Lord, I always think back to that date where we came back to my place, were relaxing in the living room, and I tried to excuse myself to go to the bathroom--HE TRIED TO FOLLOW ME IN! I was like, "DUDE! CAN I PEE?!" He looked soooo hurt after I said it, even though I kinda laughed when it was said. He looked like I had slapped him. (-_-) He was very emotion in a BAD way as well. He cried too dang much for my liking, and made everything about him. He could hurt you real bad, and before you could talk about how badly you felt, he'd start crying and tell you how badly it made HIM feel that HE hurt YOU. You were left basically consoling HIM for hurting YOU. Bullshat, I tell you. Pure bullshat.
We were okay together, until I found out a little secret fetish/wish/fantasy/desire of his. I could not meet said fetish/wish/fantasy/desire. He loved Asian women. I mean loved them so much that, as he put it, "they could be the ugliest females to walk the earth, but as long as they're Asian, I'd find them beautiful."
So...after hearing him say he loved me so much, was so into me, thought I was so cute...but wished I was his "Little Asian Princess" bout fitty-leven times too many, I finally sat him down and we had "the talk". He cried, I consoled, and I also assured him we could be friends...but I wanted him to go out there and find the Asian Princess of his dreams. I wouldn't want someone standing in the way of MY dreams, so I won't do the same to someone else.



Cancer men can be so crazy and vindictive. I just hope I don't get a rotten apple.
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Thank you ladies...
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I can't make any comparisons. Sad
Aries: Best & worst Winking
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Posted by venusianbull

and he eventually called halt after my daughter passed saying I "Wasn't as fun as I used to be.."

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That is cold as ice.
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^^^^^^^^^^^That is cold as ice.
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Yes, it was. But truly a favor. I found out quickly ( within a few months ) he wasn't not up to snuff to stand beside me. By his own admission.
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Best: Capricorn (even though he is a real douche bag now lol)
Worst: Scorpio (got into an argument in the car, and he literally put me out on the side of the road. Yeah, we broke up after that lol)
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Posted by CLCNY30
I see you're like me, Pmerc! The eyes get me every time. I don't care what color they are (okay, well I'm not really a fan of blue eyes...) but if they hold my gaze steady, sparkle or twinkle mischieviously, and give me that "come hither" message, clothes are coming off.
Or being ripped off.
His choice Winking


Aaaaah yes....the eyes. It's that knowing look that my lover and I give to one another. We could be somewhere in public, amongst family members. He'd be across the room and someone would be talking and one word in their sentence could give birth to a stare between us. It's that underlying meaning, inside joke or dirty thought.
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Capricorn....
Worst: Leo(s)
Pro: Fun, funny, Good conversation sometimes
Con: Very non-communicative..Liar..Cheater..Not good at their word
Worst: Libra
Con: Argued too damn much! Knew how to push each others buttons!

BEST: Virgo( My very first)
Pro: Where do I start! Attentive, lots to talk about, intuitive, could tell things about me with out me speaking a word! And so much more great things!
Con: Emotionally shut down when something was wrong with him, didn't speak up on his feelings, thinking he knew what was best for the both of us!

Still trying to get this Virgo man back! By far THEE BEST RELATIONSHIP I've had!
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Posted by Virgobeauty
Best: Capricorn (even though he is a real douche bag now lol)
Worst: Scorpio (got into an argument in the car, and he literally put me out on the side of the road. Yeah, we broke up after that lol)


:O !!
I wish a mofo WOULD!
I'd walk all the way to his house, just to set that same car he threw me out of on fire.
Whatchu gonna throw out of it now, boo? Huh? What??!
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Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
Posted by CLCNY30
I see you're like me, Pmerc! The eyes get me every time. I don't care what color they are (okay, well I'm not really a fan of blue eyes...) but if they hold my gaze steady, sparkle or twinkle mischieviously, and give me that "come hither" message, clothes are coming off.
Or being ripped off.
His choice Winking


Aaaaah yes....the eyes. It's that knowing look that my lover and I give to one another. We could be somewhere in public, amongst family members. He'd be across the room and someone would be talking and one word in their sentence could give birth to a stare between us. It's that underlying meaning, inside joke or dirty thought.
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Yes!!! That just happened recently, with work Leo, LMFAO! I thought I was alone in my dirty thoughts, when a co-worker was talking to a bunch of us together, and I looked over at him and he was all *insert bedroom eyes, and dirty little smirk*, LOL. Another co-worker noticed, and nudged me, and I cracked the f up, lmmfao. I wish I remember what was being said...I zoned out Tongue
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Me : - Taurus
Worst : - Sagittarius
Pros -to start it was enjoyable that he romanced me, took me to dinner and seemed so attentive but...
Cons: - He started to want to do so much for me I felt smothered. He even tried to stop me doing my own washing up! And also, if there was the slightest sign of 'an atmosphere', he would either simply go, or he would drink and become unstable and not good for me, basically.
Best : - Virgo
Pros - Lots to talk about, same level intellectually, same interests, same liking of order and cleanliness, same morals and values, have major laughs together, lots of connection between us, learning lots from one another.
cons : - he can get so critical and harsh that I withdraw into silence to deal with my hurt, and that leads to his silence because he picks up the negative energy but doesn't understand why his words caused it.
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I am a Gem. Winking
Best relationship: Pisces
PROS
My first love. I believed in love at first sight when I met him. Lots of poetry, love letters, silent moments drifting into each others heart and soul, always consumed and lost in a world of our own. It was a bizarre, spiritual yet, fantastical experience. Probably one of the most kind persons I've ever met in my life. I've read somewhere that some Pisces if not devoted to loving a person, he will be devoted to charitable work. That's him, if he wasn't busy pursuing dreams, he was engaged in some humanitarian work. After our break up, he spent the next 6 years being single, but married to volunteer work.
CONS
Easily persuaded. If someone gave him a negative thought, he'd dwell and suffer from it, and it would affect our relationship... it eventually became the demise of our relationship in the end.
Worst relationship: Aquarius (only in our dating stages, I ran for my life)
PROS
Really smart guy.
CONS
The minute he started to "love" me he said (after 4 months... wth?), he became a whole 'nother person. Borderline sociopath. When I ended things with him, wow, the guy went nuts. He had the nerve to tell me that, "He realized that I did not have the intention to dump him if it weren't for him pushing me over the edge. Therefore, he was willing to have a civil compromise and give me a second chance to 'prove' to him that I can be better for him." I've never met a more egotistical person in my life. lol
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Posted by MedullaOblongata
I am a Gem. Winking
Best relationship: Pisces
PROS
My first love. I believed in love at first sight when I met him. Lots of poetry, love letters, silent moments drifting into each others heart and soul, always consumed and lost in a world of our own. It was a bizarre, spiritual yet, fantastical experience. Probably one of the most kind persons I've ever met in my life. I've read somewhere that some Pisces if not devoted to loving a person, he will be devoted to charitable work. That's him, if he wasn't busy pursuing dreams, he was engaged in some humanitarian work. After our break up, he spent the next 6 years being single, but married to volunteer work.
CONS
Easily persuaded. If someone gave him a negative thought, he'd dwell and suffer from it, and it would affect our relationship... it eventually became the demise of our relationship in the end.
Worst relationship: Aquarius (only in our dating stages, I ran for my life)
PROS
Really smart guy.
CONS
The minute he started to "love" me he said (after 4 months... wth?), he became a whole 'nother person. Borderline sociopath. When I ended things with him, wow, the guy went nuts. He had the nerve to tell me that, "He realized that I did not have the intention to dump him if it weren't for him pushing me over the edge. Therefore, he was willing to have a civil compromise and give me a second chance to 'prove' to him that I can be better for him." I've never met a more egotistical person in my life. lol



Wow, that aqua....LoL
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Best relationship: with a leo
Worst: with a taurus
I'm a sagi
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Posted by PlanetMercuryGirl
I'm a virgo.
Best:
He was a saggitarius.
Boy oh boy could we talk about everything...I mean EVERYTHING up until 5 in the morning. He wasn't afraid to talk about anything and he was very intellectual and enterprising. We didn't argue at all. We had too much good communication to even have MIScommunication. The thing that I liked about him the most was that we could be talking polotics and then he would just stare at me in a seductive way while I talked. He'd do me right then and there....and then we'd continue where our conversation left off. Very sexually spontaneous. And he was so cuddly. He made me feel so small and feminine.


I have to admit...This sounds very similar to my relationship...This is the BEST I've experienced yet! I can ask and talk to him about everything!!! Honesty and Openness is what I love about him! What you see is what you get!
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