Leo/Virgo Cusps- Cusp of Exposure!

Hey lets talk about the Leo/Virgo cusp born August 19-25 Leo/Virgo August 19 to August 25 Leo is the fifth sig...

This topic was created in the Zodiac Cusps forum by Starblue on Thursday, February 1, 2007 and has 115 replies.
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But he'll be on a business trip for a month in 2 days time.will it be a bad idea if my friend were to help me sound him out?
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He brought forth his flight so my friend didn't have the chance to step in.and I said those things out of the blue but its was over a situation between us he did apologise over it but whatever I've said I could have done better it was harsh and really hurtful and I regret all that I've said so much
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In fact the situation is that I felt that we were moving on too fast that made me question his true intentions. Starting on our 2nd date he hugged me and kissed me and was kind of asking for sex or a blow job in a way.He told me he couldn't control himself because he has feelings for me.this was making me uncomfortable because it makes me wonder if its passion or purely lust?so one day out of the blue I blurted out to him and said that maybe he should learn to respect me a little more and a bunch of hurtful stuff.
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Yes definitely I do have doubts in his intentions that was why I said all those things and in my opinion if he is true he would have find ways to make things right but all he did was to apologise and disappear.reason for disappearing is that he felt awkward and don't know what to say to me.he only contacted me once after that and when I was joking talking about some other guys he ignored me totally.I wanted to give us one last chance but maybe he does really likes me does he?
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i must say i was harsh but asking him to give me some respect i deserve was an insult? and he was really interested he should have tried to say something explain or do something to prove me wrong.isn't that the way? but all he did was to disappear?even when i took initiative to text and ask him out and even apologised for what i have said yet he thinks nothing of it and gave cold replies like it didn't matter.How do you think i should think of his intentions to me?tell me if i'm wrong.
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Posted by shakti
hello! I just found out about the cusp thing: female 21 aug. Rising, moon and mars in sag. Mercury in virgo and Sad venus in cancer..??_its great to know there are people out there sharing personality traits! I can identify with 90% of starblues 2nd post. Creepy.


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I'm a Leo/Cusper (Aug 21, 1970)!
I hate this the most: "They rely on logic rather than emotion to make their decisions."
I probably WALK away from some great potential relationships when I think logically! This drives me crazy and the person I'm waving goodbye to even crazier and confused. I think to d@mn much sometimes! It's a curse that I wish I could get rid of at times.
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Well I am a Leo/Virgo cusper as well (Aug 22) right on the spot with the Sun at 29 degrees exactly. I believe I am almost 90% Leo and maybe that is because I have Leo in my Mid-heaven aswell which is my public standing. As for my passionate side (I have Virgo moon) I am logical about my emotions but sometimes I am too emotional due to my Leo Sun and Scorpio Ascendant traits. One thing in common with most of you: I am inexplicable! [Nobody can understand me but I understand almost everyone!]
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Posted by SirGeorge
Well I am a Leo/Virgo cusper as well (Aug 22) right on the spot with the Sun at 29 degrees exactly. I believe I am almost 90% Leo and maybe that is because I have Leo in my Mid-heaven aswell which is my public standing. As for my passionate side (I have Virgo moon) I am logical about my emotions but sometimes I am too emotional due to my Leo Sun and Scorpio Ascendant traits. One thing in common with most of you: I am inexplicable! [Nobody can understand me but I understand almost everyone!]


P.S.:
I attract a lot of female Scorpios (which I dont like because they dont get me, but I understand them completely - they share everything with me)
I hate Capricorns (although I love women that are Sag/Cap cusps)
I also feel magnetism with all the other cusps and especially Cancer/Leo.
I like Geminis and they like me (hopefully) because I make them feel comfortable and we have a lot of fun! (My best friend is a gemini)
I had two very good friends that were virgos but now we are not talking because they became too critical on the way I am living my life (to the fullest - whereas they stayed at home all day/all night and they thought it was better. wtf?)
Taurus women are too complicated
I prefer working with Leo men because we share the same ideals
And Libra women find me attractive (I have like 3-4 "admirers" that are Libras;p)
thats about it..i think
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Posted by Starblue
Apparently - people born on these days are great for marriage for us Leo/Virgo Cuspers
Cancer II - July 3-10
Libra III - October 11-1 8
Sagittarius I - November 25 - Dec 2
Aquarius III - Feburary 8 -15
Pisces II - March 3-10
I have met four people born on these days
but some are family members , love interest and a person I know
the Aqua is the one who I have this very intense attraction to.......we seem to get along very well......but who know who this will end up


Leo/Virgo cusper here too. I have that same intense attraction with Aqua IIIs. They are the sweetest.
Another I've found that isn't on that list is the Sag/Cap cuspers. They are very kind, understanding. I get along with them really well too.
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Hahha funny you should say that!....my very good friend is a Sag/Cap Cusper and we get along like two peas in a pod smile
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Something else I find very eerie is the whole thing about Leo-Virgo being alternatively secretive and open. I couldn't identify more to this. I'm usually very aware of the fact that I'm being secretive, I just don't see why I should share certain things and this can drive people crazy sometimes trying to figure me out. On the other hand I can be open to a fault and will be freely discussing the most taboo and personal subjects and even make people blush. I've also been told by friends that I often appear as a social butterfly but that deep down I'm a very complex individual and that somehow it's hard to put a finger on the kind of person I really am, sort of like a chameleon type of personality.
Last, the freedom thing..I totally agree with starblues. I also love my freedom and don't like feeling confined by social expectations. This is something that can be tough to live with if you have a SO.
Waow, not easy being a Leo-Virgo but what a ride!



""I'm a very complex individual and that somehow it's hard to put a finger on the kind of person I really am, sort of like a chameleon type of personality.""
Yup this hit the nail on the head for me!!, I'm def this way....I feel sorry for my future partner....cause I don't even know what I want sometimes....they are going to have lots of patience lol...I also have Neptune Conjunct ASC..so people project on me....so they perceive me a certain way....and that is not the case, so they are shocked when they see a new part of my personality emerge. I also feel my inner world is quite different from what people see or what is expressed outwardly, since I don't share everything with everyone. Actually people see me as not experienced in life ...if they only knew...what I have seen/lived.
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Yes! def what you see is not what you get! .....like night and day!
Have you seen this site
http://mindlinkr.com/w/
this place is really good for birthdate and then you choose your year as well
very nice site!
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OK! I'm not crazy...thanks guys! Cause I too look in the mirror sometimes and say "what the heck"! I call my chart the garbage chart: Fire Sun-Leo/Virgo(This can change from day today), Earth Moon-Taur, Earth Merc-Virgo, Air Venus-Libra, Fire Mars-Leo.

This is so true, but will only admit it here. I pulled this from SplitConfused post above http://mindlinkr.com/w/
 AUG21st
"Often people born on this day impress one as somewhat withdrawn, and indeed are not so easy to relate to, since they rarely take the first step or speak the first word; furthermore they do not bend over backwards to please and therefore can give an impression of being stand-offish. Often the reason for this behavior is that they would prefer to remain unattached, perhaps even uninvolved."
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im so attrated to a leo-virgo casp. im aquarius III!
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I just had to join so i could respond on this ongoing 4 yr thread! i only a week ago realized im a cusp, aug 21st! Ive always been very intrigued by astrology so i can't believe i missed this. i began looking into cusps because i am prego and my baby will either come on her own as a cancer or be induced as a cusp next week, or they could let me go to 41 weeks and she'd be a leo!crazy! so basically i was investigating who i'd get along with best-as crazy as that sounds. Maybe you guys have some ideas?? typically cancers are an awful match for me, but a dear friend is june 22 and he's more leo to me than cancer... Anywho, i met, and fell head over heals for my now husband who is a feb 9th aqua! it's nuts how well suited we are, and i have quite a resume of unsuccessful monogamous relationships prior to know the difference!
Every mom wants a daughter they can be best friends with too right? My mom and i have traveled all over europe together and she is so important to me-of course i want the same thing!
thanks so much for all the insightful posts, i feel like i've just found my hood! the minute i read the virgo influences on me, so much of my personality made more sense-i am meticulous and industrious-i had a roomie that was a full blown leo-always out always ON-that has never been me, inspite of adoring everyone's attention Winking
all the best!
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I am a Leo-Cusp Aug 21st as well, I have two Cancer II Boys...They are so loving and endearing and loyal, one is outspoken and the other is mild in tone (2 years and 1 day apart). I also have 2 dear girlfriends born on Cancer/Leo Cusp and both are great friends of over 10+ and 20+ years. I think you'll do fine...WE tend to get along with everyone.
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I'm also a leo virgo cusp with libra rising... i was born on august 25th and I agree with the guy who said that if we meet an aries we will probably end up naked. haha.
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Happy Birthday!! to the Leo/Virgo Cusp!!
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LeoGal4Real
"WE tend to get along with everyone."
I have to agree with this....I can get along with just about anyone
I feel I could possibly learn something important from someone, not matter who they are. So I have no reason to try to relate and get to know them
then again I also have an Aqua Moon and Sag Rising
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Never been in this forum but that's a cool combo!!Big Grin
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I have a question
Do you find Leo/Virgo Cusp to be humble people?
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I was born august 23 so I'm in the "cusp of exposure" but I just can't make out what the combination of my sun/moon/rising signs means for me. Maybe someone can help.
Sun Sign: 00 Degrees Virgo
Rising Sign: 12 Degrees Virgo
Moon: 27 Degrees Taurus
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The guy I just started seeing is a cusp, now I FINALLY understand why sometimes he will spill his guts out to me, and others he's as quiet as a mouse about other things.
It's all starting to make sense.
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I??m an Aries married to a Leo/Virgo Cusp - been together 17 years minus a 4 year divorce. I fine cusp very intriguing and I find my hubby intriguing as hell. He's "The Day of Lively Precision" and that's exactly how sex is lively and precise.
I love the contrast of the sunny Leo and the dark Virgo meticulous.
Everything is all hide and seek with him. you can tell he's always contemplating what to reveal or hold onto. He's and introvert.
My brother is a Leo/Virgo Cusp as well and he's married to an Aries.
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I??m an Aries married to a Leo/Virgo Cusp - been together 17 years minus a 4 year divorce. I fine cusp very intriguing and I find my hubby intriguing as hell. He's "The Day of Lively Precision" and that's exactly how sex is lively and precise.
I love the contrast of the sunny Leo and the dark Virgo meticulous.
Everything is all hide and seek with him. you can tell he's always contemplating what to reveal or hold onto. He's and introvert.
My brother is a Leo/Virgo Cusp as well and he's married to an Aries.


I'm an Aries too, this gives me hope!
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my birthday is august 20th. i have a lot of leo traits in me but im very secretive and because of that i have to pretend sometimes. it is all about me though. im quite extrovert with my close friends smile i like expensive luxurious things but do love simple normal thing and stuff occasionally. basically, im more like a leo/virgo cusp than a leo. really like it!
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Hi cusps,
Female Leo/Virgo August 22 1969. Married a male Scorpio Oct 24 1970. 22 years. Alot of love and respect, but sometimes I long for something else. More fun, more conversations, romance, just different, can't explain. Any other legos feel similiar emotions. I have fun with Gemini and felt close to a Sagittarius, and yes I was crazy for Aquarius, but very short lived fire. I sometime feel, I have my hand on the self destruct button. No matter how great everything is, I always want more and better.
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Leo virgo cusp here ( aug 24 1991).This is from personal experience cause im the only one i know. I tend to think highly of myself. Rarely am i not the smartest person in the room. Im not arrogant at all tho, im very quiet and reserved , but ask my opinion and ill give it to you. The cold truth is better than a warn fuzzy lie. My best friend is a cap sun taurus moon (go figure) and i hate aries lol. We can be alot more emotional than pure virgos, with the leo influence ( cancer rising helps). If your in a bad mood, so am i. We are very generous,. If your happy im happy. Can go from extremely optomistic to incredibly cynical. I cant stand free loaders. Also i thrive more in 1 on 1 interactions than in a group setting. We care ALOT!!! About everything!!! I hate how many times i just used the word i...
Just realized im a leo (fire) virgo (earth) cusp with cancer (water) rising and aquarius (air) moon. I gotta check this out O_o
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Oh i forgot one thing. We are so fucking funny!!!!
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I know this is an old post, but I found it very interesting and trueWinking I am a leo-virgo cusp born August 24th, 1979. Depending on which site or book dates vary 1 or 2 days. I definetly am a leo-virgo although I lend more towards leo. I love my horoscope sign I believe we have the best of two worldsWinking
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I agree with you smile except for my emotions ..
Lol *^^^
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My friend. Two years younger than myself. August 23rd.
Naturally smart in both the classroom and in life. I see more Leo in her but I also get the sense of Virgo lurking from time to time. She's sweet, very real, very understanding, she questions many things but isn't one to judge others on wrong doings. She goes after what she wants. It's funny and just about the best person to talk to about anything. Lovely brown locks also which she is trying to grown to her butt right now haha.
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^^sounds like your friend is pretty... smile
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Can't believe I just saw this now....would have saved me a lot of trouble.
I'm a December 5th Sag, and out of all the relationships I've ever been in, the only one I ever truly loved (and still love) is a leo/virgo cusp born 8/24. She honestly was the perfect woman. Strikingly beautiful, razor sharp wit, very loud and outgoing when the situation called for it but yet socially adept. Could light up a room but never had to try to do so...it just happened naturally. Great sense of style , liked nice things but was probably the most down-to-earth person I've ever met. Such a great combination, I loved it. Also the only girl I've ever literally met in my entire damn life that didn't like country music. She was perfect. Certainly knew how to handle herself in bed too. Sharp temper, but would give you the shirt off her back, she'd do anything for anybody, regardless of if she knew them or not. She is definitely one of those people that you meet every once in a while and think, my god, what are the chances that someone so perfect actually exists.
Its about 2.5 years since we broke it off...or should I say since she broke it off with me. Lots of time (and a few others) have passed since then, and still she is the only one that still gives me chills when I see or speak with her. I've tried hard to force myself to move on, but if anything all the time and all the relationships I've had since have only forced me to see how wonderful she really was. Not like there was ever any doubt in my mind, even for a second.
Anybody have any experience with this match? I'd love to know more. Also, any advice as to the state of mind when one of you decides to break it off? Done for good? Seems many of you are very knowledgable here, I've been looking for a thread like this for a while. Thanks so much in advance.
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Had no idea I was a cusper (the 19th of august) I can see Virgo "thangs" in me but I don't think I think or function like a Virgo, but I do know I just have a little bit of a virgo vibe to me because they alway flock to me.
And I think just like Leo's love to be around Capricorns, Aries to taurus and Sag people to Virgo's. Sag and Virgo can totally work I have a friend who's been with her sag bf for awhile, but I've seen it turn sour a lot.
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^Funny you say that. That's been my exact experience. Good for a while, then it just goes to s**t after a while.
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Posted by JustaSag
^Funny you say that. That's been my exact experience. Good for a while, then it just goes to s**t after a while.

2 of my closest friends, a sag male and Virgo female. It was def. bitter sweet and hard to watch that friendship fall apart. Their communication was off and sag grew to resent the virgo so after they blew up they parted ways and the sag wants nothing to do with her now.
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Posted by JustaSag
^Funny you say that. That's been my exact experience. Good for a while, then it just goes to s**t after a while.

2 of my closest friends, a sag male and Virgo female. It was def. bitter sweet and hard to watch that friendship fall apart. Their communication was off and sag grew to resent the virgo so after they blew up they parted ways and the sag wants nothing to do with her now.
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Definitely can be a fiery ending. My last GF was a Virgo, it was good for a bit, although she seemed to go off the deep end during the breakup. Didn't talk to her for months after, although we're friends again. Don't really talk much though. Things were a lot more inconsistent with the virgo/leo cusp girl, that leo side must have been the reason. We either got along extremely well if we ran into each other, or she'd ignore me completely. No in between. I think this is one of the most interesting personalities, as Virgo and Leo seem to be almost polar opposites in the way they act. There's definitely almost a split personality with someone in this cusp.
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What are the dates of leo-virgo cusp? I am 27 August. Some sites say my birth date goes under the cusp. Some don't.

However, I do have some traits of Leo. I??m very social, very passionate about things. At times, the partier. I??m not organized, and I have a playful and loving nature. But I have this need for approval that can become too important. On the Virgo side, I??m routine, I love spreadsheets, I keep receipts. I can focus my attention on a project. I have this need for perfection that gets in the way of enjoyment sometimes.

I??m also married to a Sag. And she??s GREAT!!!

I??m the nerd of the relationship and she??s the free spirit. But we balance each other very well.
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Well wouldn't you know...my virgo/leo ex has poked her nose back into my life again...this should be fun
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Actually, I want to ask a question of any of you if you happen to read this...this goes way back, I won't bring details in here. Short version, there is someone that I had in my life about two and half years ago, and then left me...and to this day, is the only person that left me instead of it being the other way around. Also the only other person that I can say I ever truly loved. The post-breakup was rough, and I have to say after a few more relationships and life experiences, I would still gladly have her back. She was born the 24th, so lots of Leo. Definitely what drew me in like a magnet in the first place. Anyway, she's always been someone that was never really on social media, never really had an interest, and especially avoided me in that regard. She also has almost a chronic need to erase past relationships from her life, and all evidence of them. Imagine my surprised when she decided to add me on social media a few weeks ago. I have no idea why she would do that. We no longer live in the same town, but when we did, she would usually avoid me at all costs if we were at the same bar at the same time. So I want to know, do you guys always try to keep people out of your life at all costs if there was a past? Do you let them back in? I guess I'm looking for a good reason why she would do this and in any way have me be a part of her "life" so to speak.
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My Leo is on the cusp, august 20th. He doesn't seem like the typical Leo. He thinks lowly of himself and is a very modest, down to earth person. Not very forward, sexual, etc. He has a quirky/interesting side to his personality and was into acting, though. Haha. It's funny because I'm almost on the aqua/Pisces cusp so we would be opposites in the zodiac twice, in a way.
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Wow lots of great comments and insight in this thread!
Do you find it hard for people to understand you?
I know I often give off a muted first impression then when I get to know you, I change and will reveal more about myself. I often get, your are so chill, and have a nice demeanor. Then they say, I thought you different when I first met you. I find it difficult for people to get a grasp on me
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Do you ever feel like you have a wide variety of moods? As in, you can be extremely extroverted sometimes, and then extremely introverted others? Something I've noticed.
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Justsag
"Do you ever feel like you have a wide variety of moods? As in, you can be extremely extroverted sometimes, and then extremely introverted others? Something I've noticed."
Actually yeah, for me I can be confident and social and enjoy meeting new people like it's nothing, then other times I can be quiet and chill and soft spoken. Or sometimes I don't want to be noticed and just want to be alone. I think I can confuse my family, friends, I feel my motivations are hard for people to understand. But generally my disposition is happy and content.
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Starblue, thanks that's very helpful. Sorry didn't see this earlier. I have so many questions about people in this cusp - my virgo/leo (8-24 just like you) ex just came back into my life and I'm trying to figure out what it all means. She's said lots of interesting things in the last few days since we started talking again, and I'd really like to make it work again...but she is quite hard to read and like you said can very between several extremes when it comes to emotions.
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Hey Justsag, don't worry it ok
Well to me the fact she let you back into her life, says something, because once I cut someone off, it's over but maybe she has a soft spot for you. Well just take it slow and don't overwhelm her. Just listen to her and hear what she has to say and let her know you care about her, if she's like me, emotions might not be her strong suit but she'll show you her love instead. just have patience with her, she's still talking to you, so she must be feeling something
but if you want more insight go here, this is a great site
http://www.thesecretlanguageofbirthdays.com/lookup/
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Hey Justsag, don't worry it ok
Well to me the fact she let you back into her life, says something, because once I cut someone off, it's over but maybe she has a soft spot for you. Well just take it slow and don't overwhelm her. Just listen to her and hear what she has to say and let her know you care about her, if she's like me, emotions might not be her strong suit but she'll show you her love instead. just have patience with her, she's still talking to you, so she must be feeling something
but if you want more insight go here, this is a great site
http://www.thesecretlanguageofbirthdays.com/lookup/


Thanks so much for the link, looked up the day and felt like I was reading all about her haha. Very helpful.
I'm hoping you're right. We've been talking this whole week now, some days have been very good and some have felt like she barely wanted to talk...but she almost always initiates the contact. In addition, she has said she would maybe like to hang out sometime, or go out together. So, I'm hoping that's a good sign. Emotions are definitely not her strong suit at all - the most common ones for her are happiness and frustration, externally at least. She is very good at hiding her feelings inside. She is hard to read - so occasionally I get worried that I misread her - but like you said, she must be feeling something. I really appreciate your insight on this.
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Hey Justsag,
that's a good sign she's intiating contact, that a hard thing to do lol! if you don't mind me asking what is her moon sign?, because moon sign in a female is big on how she handles emotions. But with the Leo/Virgo Cusps it's hard to show emotions but I def find it difficult for Aug 24th people in general but once you get in ours hearts, we are very loyal and will show you we care.
I had a ex break up with me and me with him , because he didn't think I loved him ( which was the opposite) I would think of him often, call him, buy him clothes but I guess the me not saying it often but showing it was making him feel insecure/unloved. Apparently he's still thinks of me (so I was told), this was about 12 years ago! guess I made an impression! I don't like drama, it's a big no no! I will be running for the exit quick, I like chill, honest,funny people.
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Hey sorry didn't check back for a bit - was traveling the last few days.
Moon sign is Gemini - description I read of that seems apt, however she definitely does have trouble talking about her feelings. When we were together that was a huge thing. We both sucked at it, although I tried to make the effort.
One thing I really came to realize in the years since we broke up is that I tended to say what I was feeling quite a bit - I always told her I loved her, how great I thought she was, everything. But I don't think she totally bought it. It was a long-distance relationship, which contributed to the feeling I'm sure. But I think maybe I didn't show it enough. My actions didn't maybe appear to be those of someone who loved her. Of course I thought they were, but I was also not as smart as I am now I guess. Definitely actions speak louder than words for someone with her chart I feel, so I perhaps blew it that way.
We haven't had much contact in the last week or so now...just a couple short conversations. Friendly but she always stops responding. Hasn't made an effort really to reach out. Her attitude is hard to read. I was actually in her town visiting some friends this past weekend, we had a short conversation, she then mentioned she was getting a drink with one of her exes, which kind of scared me. I then said that was too bad I was going to ask if she wanted to grab a drink with me later that night. Never responded. So, I don't know. I'm trying to give her space. That's all I can really think to do now.
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