I’m doomed! I’m Taurus woman and confused by Cappy man
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by holy_moo on Sunday, March 7, 2021 and has 1 replies.
Hi all... Please be honest be brutal or what have you so I can make my mind up? Here goes...
Long story short, met this cap man online things were going r ally well (long distance btw and I made it clear to him that I’m not dating as my divorce is not finalised won’t be fair on new guy and myself). He asked a lot about me etc. First 3 weeks was good until Chinese New Year he already told me he’ll be mega busy as it’s most important thing for them. He still text when he has a minute as he promised which was nice. Last couple of weeks he has been initiated conversation on daily basis even though it was just brief ones but some days can be an hour long. Anyhow up til Friday he still sending morning text apologising didn’t get back to me the reason etc. Suddenly nothing on Saturday and today...he’s been online frequently but nothing. I had initiated contact in the last I meant it was flowing smoothly.
He knew I will be in his country once lockdown lifted in the UK as before I met I already planned to relocate to his country for work and start new life. My question is, I dont know if it was something I said? The way I was or what caused him suddenly quiet? I’m pooping myself here as we both really liking forward meeting each other plus I understand we are not dating at all. He is not obliged to text me everyday but he did. He told me since he separated from his ex wife for 4 years and divorced a year now he hasn’t slept with any one just him and his ermm...right hand he said. My gut Hi all Cappies hope you’re all well. I have read half of the forum upto page 164 and finally decided to post a question. Please be honest be brutal or what have you so I can make my mind up?
Long story short, met this cap man online things were going r ally well (long distance btw and I made it clear to him that I’m not dating as my divorce is not finalised won’t be fair on new guy and myself). He asked a lot about me etc. First 3 weeks was good until Chinese New Year he already told me he’ll be mega busy as it’s most important thing for them. He still text when he has a minute as he promised which was nice. Last couple of weeks he has been initiated conversation on daily basis even though it was just brief ones but some days can be an hour long. Anyhow up til Friday he still sending morning text apologising didn’t get back to me the reason etc. Suddenly nothing on Saturday and today...he’s been online frequently but nothing. I had initiated contact in the last I meant it was flowing smoothly.
He knew I will be in his country once lockdown lifted in the UK as before I met I already planned to relocate to his country for work and start new life. My question is, I do t know if it was something I said? The way I was or what caused him suddenly quiet? I’m pooping myself here as we both really liking forward meeting each other plus I understand we are not dating at all. He is not obliged to text me everyday but he did. He told me since he separated from his ex wife for 4 years and divorced a year now he hasn’t slept with any one just him and his ermm...right hand he said. My gut is telling me he met someone already. Please tell me whether I should live me life leave that door open and let him comes back whenever it would be while I get in with my life? Or wait another few days to see if I should send him a lighthearted message to see if he’s okay?
Please guide me with your Cappy point of view and since I had been ghosted almost 2 months ago by another Leo who came back not long I met this Cappy he apologised but I told him it’s too late.
If there’s anything you need to know feel free to ask as I just don’t know how to condense the whole story. Sorry this is too long now. Thank you in advance and I think I embraced myself for all the replies gonna hit me 👍🏻 is telling me he met someone already. Please tell me whether I should live me life leave that door open and let him comes back whenever it would be while I get in with my life? Or wait another few days to see if I should send him a lighthearted message to see if he’s okay?
Please guide me with your point of view and since I had been ghosted almost 2 months ago by another Leo who came back not long I met this Cappy he apologised but I told him it’s too late.
If there’s anything you need to know feel free to ask as I just don’t know how to condense the whole story. Sorry this is too long now. Thank you in advance and I think I embraced myself for all the replies gonna hit me 👍🏻
Long story short, met this cap man online things were going r ally well (long distance btw and I made it clear to him that I’m not dating as my divorce is not finalised won’t be fair on new guy and myself). He asked a lot about me etc. First 3 weeks was good until Chinese New Year he already told me he’ll be mega busy as it’s most important thing for them. He still text when he has a minute as he promised which was nice. Last couple of weeks he has been initiated conversation on daily basis even though it was just brief ones but some days can be an hour long. Anyhow up til Friday he still sending morning text apologising didn’t get back to me the reason etc. Suddenly nothing on Saturday and today...he’s been online frequently but nothing. I had initiated contact in the last I meant it was flowing smoothly.
He knew I will be in his country once lockdown lifted in the UK as before I met I already planned to relocate to his country for work and start new life. My question is, I dont know if it was something I said? The way I was or what caused him suddenly quiet? I’m pooping myself here as we both really liking forward meeting each other plus I understand we are not dating at all. He is not obliged to text me everyday but he did. He told me since he separated from his ex wife for 4 years and divorced a year now he hasn’t slept with any one just him and his ermm...right hand he said. My gut Hi all Cappies hope you’re all well. I have read half of the forum upto page 164 and finally decided to post a question. Please be honest be brutal or what have you so I can make my mind up?
Long story short, met this cap man online things were going r ally well (long distance btw and I made it clear to him that I’m not dating as my divorce is not finalised won’t be fair on new guy and myself). He asked a lot about me etc. First 3 weeks was good until Chinese New Year he already told me he’ll be mega busy as it’s most important thing for them. He still text when he has a minute as he promised which was nice. Last couple of weeks he has been initiated conversation on daily basis even though it was just brief ones but some days can be an hour long. Anyhow up til Friday he still sending morning text apologising didn’t get back to me the reason etc. Suddenly nothing on Saturday and today...he’s been online frequently but nothing. I had initiated contact in the last I meant it was flowing smoothly.
He knew I will be in his country once lockdown lifted in the UK as before I met I already planned to relocate to his country for work and start new life. My question is, I do t know if it was something I said? The way I was or what caused him suddenly quiet? I’m pooping myself here as we both really liking forward meeting each other plus I understand we are not dating at all. He is not obliged to text me everyday but he did. He told me since he separated from his ex wife for 4 years and divorced a year now he hasn’t slept with any one just him and his ermm...right hand he said. My gut is telling me he met someone already. Please tell me whether I should live me life leave that door open and let him comes back whenever it would be while I get in with my life? Or wait another few days to see if I should send him a lighthearted message to see if he’s okay?
Please guide me with your Cappy point of view and since I had been ghosted almost 2 months ago by another Leo who came back not long I met this Cappy he apologised but I told him it’s too late.
If there’s anything you need to know feel free to ask as I just don’t know how to condense the whole story. Sorry this is too long now. Thank you in advance and I think I embraced myself for all the replies gonna hit me 👍🏻 is telling me he met someone already. Please tell me whether I should live me life leave that door open and let him comes back whenever it would be while I get in with my life? Or wait another few days to see if I should send him a lighthearted message to see if he’s okay?
Please guide me with your point of view and since I had been ghosted almost 2 months ago by another Leo who came back not long I met this Cappy he apologised but I told him it’s too late.
If there’s anything you need to know feel free to ask as I just don’t know how to condense the whole story. Sorry this is too long now. Thank you in advance and I think I embraced myself for all the replies gonna hit me 👍🏻
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