Taurus' and Pulling Away
This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Shayboog11 on Wednesday, January 8, 2020 and has 13 replies.
Why do Taurus' pull away when they admit they have feelings? We have been dating a little over a month, and he asked me to be his GF, only to pull away and act distant whenever we spend time and the connection keeps getting stronger? I am a Scorpio, so I want to confront his bc this is the second time I text and get no response from him - He never goes days without ignoring me, but he does get distant when I need the connection to remain consistent? Is there something about the Taurus I am missing? I would appreciate some insight before I go in lol
Taurus gets scared if things move too fast for them, so they need to slow down and re-adjust. I experienced this after proposing and when she started getting thoughts about us having children.
I agree, it is rough on us water signs because we want someone to be consistent and sometimes earth signs need to be alone/distant.
I agree, it is rough on us water signs because we want someone to be consistent and sometimes earth signs need to be alone/distant.
Posted by piscesman707Interesting insight... I was starting to get in my own head but I couldn’t come up with anything I did directly or accidentally. How do you deal with that inconsistency as a water sign bc I want to go off lol. Is it something to bring to their attention, or will they just appreciate that I’m giving them their space?
Taurus gets scared if things move too fast for them, so they need to slow down and re-adjust. I experienced this after proposing and when she started getting thoughts about us having children.
I agree, it is rough on us water signs because we want someone to be consistent and sometimes earth signs need to be alone/distant.
I find the distancing is very annoying, actually. Taurus also seems to become distant if they are stressed out, which seems to be happening at lot to the Taurus I was/am seeing. She hates her job and her 'best friend' got so angry in the last week that she removed her from Facebook and told me to stop talking to her because she isn't friends with her anymore.
Sometimes they are also confused and are not sure if they want to stay the course or branch off into (scary) new territory.
Sometimes they are also confused and are not sure if they want to stay the course or branch off into (scary) new territory.
This is typical Taurus behavior. Nothing you did. This how they are even with their wives and live In girlfriends. Just give him some space and time to miss you. Not good for scorpios because y’all need a looot attention. If it gets really bad just give him a friendly reminder that you have needs.
Posted by piscesman707You are so right; I ended up confronting him in a non confrontation way, and admitted that he had a lot going on, and deals on his own. It is very annoying for me, but I have to respect what he needs.
I find the distancing is very annoying, actually. Taurus also seems to become distant if they are stressed out, which seems to be happening at lot to the Taurus I was/am seeing. She hates her job and her 'best friend' got so angry in the last week that she removed her from Facebook and told me to stop talking to her because she isn't friends with her anymore.
Sometimes they are also confused and are not sure if they want to stay the course or branch off into (scary) new territory.
Posted by CreativeCapAwwww, see! that is exactly what I did and it worked, girl. Thank you. As a Scorpio, I definitely need the attention, and I have always been spoiled by family and previous boyfriends; But I put my big girl panties on and let him know that I understood but it does throw me off. He said he would work on it although change won't happen over night, but I am cool with that bc I have some things I can be working on as well. This is something I a DEFINITELY going to have to get use to though lol. He told me to get cute and he was picking me up Friday night at 8pm, so Im guessing he is feeling better 😊💕
This is typical Taurus behavior. Nothing you did. This how they are even with their wives and live In girlfriends. Just give him some space and time to miss you. Not good for scorpios because y’all need a looot attention. If it gets really bad just give him a friendly reminder that you have needs.
Posted by MaddestofHattersI actually can't think of a time I felt "less than"; The pulling away was the only thing that has bothered me about him, but once I confronted him, he has actively made an effort to connect and stay connected. But I will definitely check out that IG profile so I can BOLO (be on the look out)... Thank you! 😊Posted by Metatron
gurrrl...
he came on strong at first, was charming and affectionate, and now things have died down a bit? You've just been love bombed by a covert narcissist...
search your memory....at any point in your conversations do you remember feeling less than? This is a definite sign you've been gaslighted. He is also a sociopath, or possibly a psychopath....
I suggest you steer clear of this man and start following the Holistic Psychologist on Instagram immediately, so you can figure out which personality disorder he has, because one thing is for sure...click to expand
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Posted by Shayboog11He is probably not feeling better but he is interested in making it up to you - he's making effort. Plus he will find that he will be having a good time and be able to relax. All it takes is communication with a smile. Be curious rather than assuming. That's what it's all about.Posted by CreativeCap
This is typical Taurus behavior. Nothing you did. This how they are even with their wives and live In girlfriends. Just give him some space and time to miss you. Not good for scorpios because y’all need a looot attention. If it gets really bad just give him a friendly reminder that you have needs.
Awwww, see! that is exactly what I did and it worked, girl. Thank you. As a Scorpio, I definitely need the attention, and I have always been spoiled by family and previous boyfriends; But I put my big girl panties on and let him know that I understood but it does throw me off. He said he would work on it although change won't happen over night, but I am cool with that bc I have some things I can be working on as well. This is something I a DEFINITELY going to have to get use to though lol. He told me to get cute and he was picking me up Friday night at 8pm, so Im guessing he is feeling better 😊💕click to expand
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Posted by notreally"Curious rather than assuming" - I can apply that to several instances in my life; I adore this advice! I can tell by his tone from out phone call that he isn't feeling better, but Im thankful that he will allow me to brighten his day. But thank YOU, bc this was some dope insight.💖Posted by Shayboog11Posted by CreativeCap
This is typical Taurus behavior. Nothing you did. This how they are even with their wives and live In girlfriends. Just give him some space and time to miss you. Not good for scorpios because y’all need a looot attention. If it gets really bad just give him a friendly reminder that you have needs.
Awwww, see! that is exactly what I did and it worked, girl. Thank you. As a Scorpio, I definitely need the attention, and I have always been spoiled by family and previous boyfriends; But I put my big girl panties on and let him know that I understood but it does throw me off. He said he would work on it although change won't happen over night, but I am cool with that bc I have some things I can be working on as well. This is something I a DEFINITELY going to have to get use to though lol. He told me to get cute and he was picking me up Friday night at 8pm, so Im guessing he is feeling better 😊💕
He is probably not feeling better but he is interested in making it up to you - he's making effort. Plus he will find that he will be having a good time and be able to relax. All it takes is communication with a smile. Be curious rather than assuming. That's what it's all about.click to expand
Posted by PhoenixStormHis venus is in cancer.....
Where is his Venus? I bet either his moon or Venus are in Air lol
Posted by PhoenixStormI think so! lol I totally forgot about the venus chart. is this the emotional piece to the personality?Posted by Shayboog11Posted by PhoenixStorm
Where is his Venus? I bet either his moon or Venus are in Air lol
His venus is in cancer.....
Hmmm maybe he’s just hiding in his little Crabby patty shell lolclick to expand
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