Taurus bf looking for fwb

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by pureperspective on Wednesday, October 7, 2020 and has 30 replies.
I (25f cancer) met my Taurus bf (32m) of 5 months on a dating app. On our first date we really hit it off and he was contacting me practically every day to FaceTime or hangout. The day he asked me out he told me he only wanted one person which was me and mentioned he was going to have to talk to girls whether it be through work or school but it would never mean anything because he’s loyal and to trust him. We then both deleted the dating app we met on in front of one another.

About a month later he told me he loved me and I was ecstatic. He understands me without me having to tell him and I give him everything and take care of him. He has no car so I drive him where he needs and buy him food and drinks whenever he’s hungry. I even do his laundry sometimes (although he has gotten upset at me for doing it wrong but I either fix the clothing or buy him new ones). He always says he’s thankful and appreciates me and tells me to text him when I get home but doesn’t always say goodnight. Especially as of lately. I know he’s going through depression and family issues and I always listen as I know telling a Taurus what they should do or that they are wrong will upset them and distance themselves from you.

After two months I noticed he was getting upset over my breathe smelling (I do brush my teeth every morning but this was after a nap and apparently you have to brush your teeth after a nap?). He’d mention wanting a routine when he didn’t necessarily have one himself. When he’d ask to do something he’d have a few ideas but it’s always be up to me and when I’d come up with one he’d change his mind to a different idea. On our first date I cuddled with him and said sorry if I’m being clingy and he said it’s okay I need love. But as of lately I try to cuddle with him or kiss him he pushes me away and says he needs space which I proceed to give him but I never know when it’s okay to be affectionate again. Sex at the beginning was great but lately all he wants is head and I get nothing in return. It sucks but I love unconditionally all that I want is for him to truly love me back.

Two weeks ago he mentioned to me again that he’d have to talk to girls and I told him I trusted him. Last week he had to go to the ER and I had to get his belongings from his house but couldn’t find his keys so I used his phone to get his room mates phone # to text him. When I unlocked his phone I saw he had the dating app downloaded again and was shocked. I trusted him and it hurt after all I gave him. I looked through it and saw he had been messaging girls since the end of august up until last Friday asking for a friends with benefits and flirting with girls and complimenting them and sending them pics of himself. He even told them he wasn’t looking for a relationship just a friends with benefits because he’s too busy for a relationship. He would tell them he’s been trying to hook up with a bunch of girls to keeps his options open to find the one. I tracked the times he’d message them and they were during times Id be with friends or family or when I would text him at night and he wouldn’t reply then proceed to tell me he fell asleep the next morning. I however see he’s talking to girls up until 6 or 8 am on the app and then he tells me he’s tired and busy with school. I try to respect his time alone by not contacting him so he has his space because he says he needs it but this hurt so much.

When he came back from the ER I acted a bit distant but he was appreciative of me being there and said he hasn’t been himself lately. I’ve asked him if there’s anything I can do for him or work on and he always says nothing and he would tell me if there was. When I asked if he’s gotten bored of me he says no his thoughts are just very complex which I proceeded to say I admired his beautiful mind and always loved to listen. He’s told me I’m his best friend and the he loves me and that I’m beautiful. I tell him he’s handsome and intelligent and that I’m always here for him and support him. But I’m so confused as of what to do next. He hasn’t talked to any girls since but I am still so insecure and paranoid. I know if I bring it up he’ll throw the whole you looked through my phone argument at me but how would he feel if I was talking and flirting with other guys? Fellow Taurus men please help.
Even if he wasn’t cheating and lying, this relationship is still doomed because your a doormat bending over backward for someone who isn’t giving even a fraction of that effort back.

5 months in and he can’t be faithful, writing is on the wall.
Why the hell are you taking care of a grown ass man? Who taught you to do this? Washing his clothes? Buying food? Giving him head with nothing in return? Are you crazy? Why are you putting this man before you? Stop this behavior today Lil sis. These things will never bring you closer to a man. The Taurus doesn’t love you, hell he doesn’t even value you nor respect you, it sounds like he barely likes you. You don’t need A Taurus man to tell you this. Abort mission and block him today. He’s a liar and a user. Never ever do “everything” for a man.

This thread made me upset lol I hate to hear people getting taken advantage of. This is so wrong on his part.
I’m so glad we’re in unison here too everyone’s advice is on the same page, DXP is giving me hope today lol
Ehm why are you still with him? You found out all you needed to know. He's a cheat and a liar. You should have disappeared from his life the moment you found out.
So, this reminds me of a story that I heard on the radio today. This girl meets a dude on a dating app. They decide to meet up. Go to dinner. Go dancing after. And "she never usually does this on the first date", she and he get wasted and go back to her apartment and get down with the get down.

They wake up the next day, hung over. He offers to get her breakfast, but since they uber'ed back to her place, he needs to borrow her car. Three hours pass, and he doesn't answer any calls or texts. Then the 4th hour, she calls, and he picks up and tells her. "I have a really good reason, trust me, I will fill you in later."

Nothing the rest of the day into the next, and that is when she calls the radio station for a "Second date update". She wants them to call to see if he picks up, or she is finally calling the cops after 48 hours of him with her car and no answer.

Moral of the story, stop trusting dudes or girls off a dating app that you barely know with important shit. Be it your car, your money, or your heart.

If by chance you aren't a troll, and you did all this "fixing" shit thinking it will tie him to you, think again. You receive what you give off, and you come off as desperate. No man or woman, should ever think this type of bullshit is excusable.
Posted by dillweed
Posted by nikkistar

So, this reminds me of a story that I heard on the radio today. This girl meets a dude on a dating app. They decide to meet up. Go to dinner. Go dancing after. And "she never usually does this on the first date", she and he get wasted and go back to her apartment and get down with the get down.

They wake up the next day, hung over. He offers to get her breakfast, but since they uber'ed back to her place, he needs to borrow her car. Three hours pass, and he doesn't answer any calls or texts. Then the 4th hour, she calls, and he picks up and tells her. "I have a really good reason, trust me, I will fill you in later."

Nothing the rest of the day into the next, and that is when she calls the radio station for a "Second date update". She wants them to call to see if he picks up, or she is finally calling the cops after 48 hours of him with her car and no answer.

Moral of the story, stop trusting dudes or girls off a dating app that you barely know with important shit. Be it your car, your money, or your heart.

If by chance you aren't a troll, and you did all this "fixing" shit thinking it will tie him to you, think again. You receive what you give off, and you come off as desperate. No man or woman, should ever think this type of bullshit is excusable.


this is a psychotic story lmao

i cant believe she let him leave with her car lmaoooo
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Right? Like bitch, why you giving some dude your car after 12 hours of knowing him? Fuck, why you even letting him know your address. Eff that.
Posted by dillweed
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by dillweed
Posted by nikkistar

So, this reminds me of a story that I heard on the radio today. This girl meets a dude on a dating app. They decide to meet up. Go to dinner. Go dancing after. And "she never usually does this on the first date", she and he get wasted and go back to her apartment and get down with the get down.

They wake up the next day, hung over. He offers to get her breakfast, but since they uber'ed back to her place, he needs to borrow her car. Three hours pass, and he doesn't answer any calls or texts. Then the 4th hour, she calls, and he picks up and tells her. "I have a really good reason, trust me, I will fill you in later."

Nothing the rest of the day into the next, and that is when she calls the radio station for a "Second date update". She wants them to call to see if he picks up, or she is finally calling the cops after 48 hours of him with her car and no answer.

Moral of the story, stop trusting dudes or girls off a dating app that you barely know with important shit. Be it your car, your money, or your heart.

If by chance you aren't a troll, and you did all this "fixing" shit thinking it will tie him to you, think again. You receive what you give off, and you come off as desperate. No man or woman, should ever think this type of bullshit is excusable.


this is a psychotic story lmao

i cant believe she let him leave with her car lmaoooo


Right? Like bitch, why you giving some dude your car after 12 hours of knowing him? Fuck, why you even letting him know your address. Eff that.


what happened to the days of fucking strangers in an alley??

ppl too desperate to bone nowadays
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Or even better, the park public bathroom. lol
Posted by pureperspective

I (25f cancer) met my Taurus bf (32m) of 5 months on a dating app. On our first date we really hit it off and he was contacting me practically every day to FaceTime or hangout. The day he asked me out he told me he only wanted one person which was me and mentioned he was going to have to talk to girls whether it be through work or school but it would never mean anything because he’s loyal and to trust him. We then both deleted the dating app we met on in front of one another.

About a month later he told me he loved me and I was ecstatic. He understands me without me having to tell him and I give him everything and take care of him. He has no car so I drive him where he needs and buy him food and drinks whenever he’s hungry. I even do his laundry sometimes (although he has gotten upset at me for doing it wrong but I either fix the clothing or buy him new ones). He always says he’s thankful and appreciates me and tells me to text him when I get home but doesn’t always say goodnight. Especially as of lately. I know he’s going through depression and family issues and I always listen as I know telling a Taurus what they should do or that they are wrong will upset them and distance themselves from you.

After two months I noticed he was getting upset over my breathe smelling (I do brush my teeth every morning but this was after a nap and apparently you have to brush your teeth after a nap?). He’d mention wanting a routine when he didn’t necessarily have one himself. When he’d ask to do something he’d have a few ideas but it’s always be up to me and when I’d come up with one he’d change his mind to a different idea. On our first date I cuddled with him and said sorry if I’m being clingy and he said it’s okay I need love. But as of lately I try to cuddle with him or kiss him he pushes me away and says he needs space which I proceed to give him but I never know when it’s okay to be affectionate again. Sex at the beginning was great but lately all he wants is head and I get nothing in return. It sucks but I love unconditionally all that I want is for him to truly love me back.

Two weeks ago he mentioned to me again that he’d have to talk to girls and I told him I trusted him. Last week he had to go to the ER and I had to get his belongings from his house but couldn’t find his keys so I used his phone to get his room mates phone # to text him. When I unlocked his phone I saw he had the dating app downloaded again and was shocked. I trusted him and it hurt after all I gave him. I looked through it and saw he had been messaging girls since the end of august up until last Friday asking for a friends with benefits and flirting with girls and complimenting them and sending them pics of himself. He even told them he wasn’t looking for a relationship just a friends with benefits because he’s too busy for a relationship. He would tell them he’s been trying to hook up with a bunch of girls to keeps his options open to find the one. I tracked the times he’d message them and they were during times Id be with friends or family or when I would text him at night and he wouldn’t reply then proceed to tell me he fell asleep the next morning. I however see he’s talking to girls up until 6 or 8 am on the app and then he tells me he’s tired and busy with school. I try to respect his time alone by not contacting him so he has his space because he says he needs it but this hurt so much.

When he came back from the ER I acted a bit distant but he was appreciative of me being there and said he hasn’t been himself lately. I’ve asked him if there’s anything I can do for him or work on and he always says nothing and he would tell me if there was. When I asked if he’s gotten bored of me he says no his thoughts are just very complex which I proceeded to say I admired his beautiful mind and always loved to listen. He’s told me I’m his best friend and the he loves me and that I’m beautiful. I tell him he’s handsome and intelligent and that I’m always here for him and support him. But I’m so confused as of what to do next. He hasn’t talked to any girls since but I am still so insecure and paranoid. I know if I bring it up he’ll throw the whole you looked through my phone argument at me but how would he feel if I was talking and flirting with other guys? Fellow Taurus men please help.
he sounds like a retarded loser, or an evil genius.
Posted by dillweed
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by dillweed
Posted by nikkistar

So, this reminds me of a story that I heard on the radio today. This girl meets a dude on a dating app. They decide to meet up. Go to dinner. Go dancing after. And "she never usually does this on the first date", she and he get wasted and go back to her apartment and get down with the get down.

They wake up the next day, hung over. He offers to get her breakfast, but since they uber'ed back to her place, he needs to borrow her car. Three hours pass, and he doesn't answer any calls or texts. Then the 4th hour, she calls, and he picks up and tells her. "I have a really good reason, trust me, I will fill you in later."

Nothing the rest of the day into the next, and that is when she calls the radio station for a "Second date update". She wants them to call to see if he picks up, or she is finally calling the cops after 48 hours of him with her car and no answer.

Moral of the story, stop trusting dudes or girls off a dating app that you barely know with important shit. Be it your car, your money, or your heart.

If by chance you aren't a troll, and you did all this "fixing" shit thinking it will tie him to you, think again. You receive what you give off, and you come off as desperate. No man or woman, should ever think this type of bullshit is excusable.


this is a psychotic story lmao

i cant believe she let him leave with her car lmaoooo


Right? Like bitch, why you giving some dude your car after 12 hours of knowing him? Fuck, why you even letting him know your address. Eff that.


what happened to the days of fucking strangers in an alley??

ppl too desperate to bone nowadays
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i think i've done that b4
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by dillweed
Posted by nikkistar
Posted by dillweed
Posted by nikkistar

So, this reminds me of a story that I heard on the radio today. This girl meets a dude on a dating app. They decide to meet up. Go to dinner. Go dancing after. And "she never usually does this on the first date", she and he get wasted and go back to her apartment and get down with the get down.

They wake up the next day, hung over. He offers to get her breakfast, but since they uber'ed back to her place, he needs to borrow her car. Three hours pass, and he doesn't answer any calls or texts. Then the 4th hour, she calls, and he picks up and tells her. "I have a really good reason, trust me, I will fill you in later."

Nothing the rest of the day into the next, and that is when she calls the radio station for a "Second date update". She wants them to call to see if he picks up, or she is finally calling the cops after 48 hours of him with her car and no answer.

Moral of the story, stop trusting dudes or girls off a dating app that you barely know with important shit. Be it your car, your money, or your heart.

If by chance you aren't a troll, and you did all this "fixing" shit thinking it will tie him to you, think again. You receive what you give off, and you come off as desperate. No man or woman, should ever think this type of bullshit is excusable.


this is a psychotic story lmao

i cant believe she let him leave with her car lmaoooo


Right? Like bitch, why you giving some dude your car after 12 hours of knowing him? Fuck, why you even letting him know your address. Eff that.


what happened to the days of fucking strangers in an alley??

ppl too desperate to bone nowadays


Or even better, the park public bathroom. lol
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i definitely done that b4
Posted by pureperspective

I (25f cancer) met my Taurus bf (32m) of 5 months on a dating app. On our first date we really hit it off and he was contacting me practically every day to FaceTime or hangout. The day he asked me out he told me he only wanted one person which was me and mentioned he was going to have to talk to girls whether it be through work or school but it would never mean anything because he’s loyal and to trust him. We then both deleted the dating app we met on in front of one another.

About a month later he told me he loved me and I was ecstatic. He understands me without me having to tell him and I give him everything and take care of him. He has no car so I drive him where he needs and buy him food and drinks whenever he’s hungry. I even do his laundry sometimes (although he has gotten upset at me for doing it wrong but I either fix the clothing or buy him new ones). He always says he’s thankful and appreciates me and tells me to text him when I get home but doesn’t always say goodnight. Especially as of lately. I know he’s going through depression and family issues and I always listen as I know telling a Taurus what they should do or that they are wrong will upset them and distance themselves from you.

After two months I noticed he was getting upset over my breathe smelling (I do brush my teeth every morning but this was after a nap and apparently you have to brush your teeth after a nap?). He’d mention wanting a routine when he didn’t necessarily have one himself. When he’d ask to do something he’d have a few ideas but it’s always be up to me and when I’d come up with one he’d change his mind to a different idea. On our first date I cuddled with him and said sorry if I’m being clingy and he said it’s okay I need love. But as of lately I try to cuddle with him or kiss him he pushes me away and says he needs space which I proceed to give him but I never know when it’s okay to be affectionate again. Sex at the beginning was great but lately all he wants is head and I get nothing in return. It sucks but I love unconditionally all that I want is for him to truly love me back.

Two weeks ago he mentioned to me again that he’d have to talk to girls and I told him I trusted him. Last week he had to go to the ER and I had to get his belongings from his house but couldn’t find his keys so I used his phone to get his room mates phone # to text him. When I unlocked his phone I saw he had the dating app downloaded again and was shocked. I trusted him and it hurt after all I gave him. I looked through it and saw he had been messaging girls since the end of august up until last Friday asking for a friends with benefits and flirting with girls and complimenting them and sending them pics of himself. He even told them he wasn’t looking for a relationship just a friends with benefits because he’s too busy for a relationship. He would tell them he’s been trying to hook up with a bunch of girls to keeps his options open to find the one. I tracked the times he’d message them and they were during times Id be with friends or family or when I would text him at night and he wouldn’t reply then proceed to tell me he fell asleep the next morning. I however see he’s talking to girls up until 6 or 8 am on the app and then he tells me he’s tired and busy with school. I try to respect his time alone by not contacting him so he has his space because he says he needs it but this hurt so much.

When he came back from the ER I acted a bit distant but he was appreciative of me being there and said he hasn’t been himself lately. I’ve asked him if there’s anything I can do for him or work on and he always says nothing and he would tell me if there was. When I asked if he’s gotten bored of me he says no his thoughts are just very complex which I proceeded to say I admired his beautiful mind and always loved to listen. He’s told me I’m his best friend and the he loves me and that I’m beautiful. I tell him he’s handsome and intelligent and that I’m always here for him and support him. But I’m so confused as of what to do next. He hasn’t talked to any girls since but I am still so insecure and paranoid. I know if I bring it up he’ll throw the whole you looked through my phone argument at me but how would he feel if I was talking and flirting with other guys? Fellow Taurus men please help.


This doesn’t sound like a real story but if it is, what is he specialising in with his studies at that age?
alright, i'm about to give you all the down lows on the twinkletoes.

i am, indeed a taurus. and although i am a jokester with fiery rising and moon signs, i can honestly say that my values are of taurusey origin.

that being said. i have known some other tauruses that are married or in an existing relationship and will blatantly flirt with and appear to initiate completely sexually only relationships with women. one of them works for me, and i call him out on it constantly. everytime a big boobed or donkey butted lady walks by, i have to slap him on the back of the dome and tell him to but his eyeballs back in his head and start focusing on work. and then i realize that this motherfucker is already married, and i'm like "dude, aren't you fucking married anyway??"

so there's that. now from my perspective, i think a more normal and mature taurus will pretty much have eyes on one person at a time, at least that's what i note about myself. when i develop interest in more than one person at a time, i get confused and depressed, and ultimately in the past this has left me alone and burnt. my own damn sister suggested i try tinder and other apps. i don't get anything out of it though, because i'm not interested in meeting or dating multiple people. and when i write and ask questions they give me these stupid 2 word answers. i'm always left thinking to myself "wtf."

people fucking suck. IDK, that might just be a "me" thing and not an overall taurus thing.

i try to be self sufficient as fuck though, and it's driven me into a lonely-ass existence. but the rest of that's probably best left for a sad, self-pitying thread that i will create sometime in the near future.



Posted by CreamyPVcup

One post and no responses. Either an idiot or a troll.
Definitely troll vibes 😂
Posted by CreamyPVcup
Posted by Isolde
Posted by CreamyPVcup

One post and no responses. Either an idiot or a troll.


Definitely troll vibes 😂


This troll post is straight out of the lethalfantasia play book lol.
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I’m all for elaborate stories with details 👏
Hence why I don't care a serious reponse to this thread.
Why are you surprised? It's a taurus. What do you mean you don't know what to do? Leave his dumb ass. So what you went thru the phone. It was the only way you'd find out because he never would have been honest. Stop being weak, kick his ass, ditch him, and move on.

You found out all you needed to know. Stop babying and pampering that clown and have some love, dignity, and respect for yourself. Unless you liked being a used like a doormat. Dont take upon yourself the blame for his shit behavior. What does HE need to change about himself? While he figures that out one day, you leave and find your real love. It's not him. Remember, taurus is only loyal to itself.
He'd have been right the fuck back in that damn ER, tire marks all over his bastard using ass. Whole time, texts printed out and stapled to his head. Everytime he looked in the mirror he would know why he got what he got. He'd have learnt that damn day.
@virgoOPPP This one's all you.
Posted by _Dazed

@virgoOPPP This one's all you.
that was one time

and i'm too lazy to drive
Taurus are nothing if not consistent in their actions (If they like you, don't like you, blah blah). This man's actions have nothing to do with him being a taurus he's just a whore and an ass

Leave him babe
Posted by CoffeeAndCream

😂🤣😂😂


and they say we're soulmate. Taurus will eat a crab alive and discard the shell like itz nothing
Yeah...unless they have a soft spot for you.....earth signs can be really fucking brutal
Also if a taurus man is into you, you will be the one begging for some space.
Also not just for taurus men, but don't do wifey shit for any man without a ring on your finger and a prenup smile

Posted by pureperspective

I (25f cancer) met my Taurus bf (32m) of 5 months on a dating app. On our first date we really hit it off and he was contacting me practically every day to FaceTime or hangout. The day he asked me out he told me he only wanted one person which was me and mentioned he was going to have to talk to girls whether it be through work or school but it would never mean anything because he’s loyal and to trust him. We then both deleted the dating app we met on in front of one another.

About a month later he told me he loved me and I was ecstatic. He understands me without me having to tell him and I give him everything and take care of him. He has no car so I drive him where he needs and buy him food and drinks whenever he’s hungry. I even do his laundry sometimes (although he has gotten upset at me for doing it wrong but I either fix the clothing or buy him new ones). He always says he’s thankful and appreciates me and tells me to text him when I get home but doesn’t always say goodnight. Especially as of lately. I know he’s going through depression and family issues and I always listen as I know telling a Taurus what they should do or that they are wrong will upset them and distance themselves from you.

After two months I noticed he was getting upset over my breathe smelling (I do brush my teeth every morning but this was after a nap and apparently you have to brush your teeth after a nap?). He’d mention wanting a routine when he didn’t necessarily have one himself. When he’d ask to do something he’d have a few ideas but it’s always be up to me and when I’d come up with one he’d change his mind to a different idea. On our first date I cuddled with him and said sorry if I’m being clingy and he said it’s okay I need love. But as of lately I try to cuddle with him or kiss him he pushes me away and says he needs space which I proceed to give him but I never know when it’s okay to be affectionate again. Sex at the beginning was great but lately all he wants is head and I get nothing in return. It sucks but I love unconditionally all that I want is for him to truly love me back.

Two weeks ago he mentioned to me again that he’d have to talk to girls and I told him I trusted him. Last week he had to go to the ER and I had to get his belongings from his house but couldn’t find his keys so I used his phone to get his room mates phone # to text him. When I unlocked his phone I saw he had the dating app downloaded again and was shocked. I trusted him and it hurt after all I gave him. I looked through it and saw he had been messaging girls since the end of august up until last Friday asking for a friends with benefits and flirting with girls and complimenting them and sending them pics of himself. He even told them he wasn’t looking for a relationship just a friends with benefits because he’s too busy for a relationship. He would tell them he’s been trying to hook up with a bunch of girls to keeps his options open to find the one. I tracked the times he’d message them and they were during times Id be with friends or family or when I would text him at night and he wouldn’t reply then proceed to tell me he fell asleep the next morning. I however see he’s talking to girls up until 6 or 8 am on the app and then he tells me he’s tired and busy with school. I try to respect his time alone by not contacting him so he has his space because he says he needs it but this hurt so much.

When he came back from the ER I acted a bit distant but he was appreciative of me being there and said he hasn’t been himself lately. I’ve asked him if there’s anything I can do for him or work on and he always says nothing and he would tell me if there was. When I asked if he’s gotten bored of me he says no his thoughts are just very complex which I proceeded to say I admired his beautiful mind and always loved to listen. He’s told me I’m his best friend and the he loves me and that I’m beautiful. I tell him he’s handsome and intelligent and that I’m always here for him and support him. But I’m so confused as of what to do next. He hasn’t talked to any girls since but I am still so insecure and paranoid. I know if I bring it up he’ll throw the whole you looked through my phone argument at me but how would he feel if I was talking and flirting with other guys? Fellow Taurus men please help.
I would say..

You are his mom
Posted by pureperspective

I (25f cancer) met my Taurus bf (32m) of 5 months on a dating app. On our first date we really hit it off and he was contacting me practically every day to FaceTime or hangout. The day he asked me out he told me he only wanted one person which was me and mentioned he was going to have to talk to girls whether it be through work or school but it would never mean anything because he’s loyal and to trust him. We then both deleted the dating app we met on in front of one another.

About a month later he told me he loved me and I was ecstatic. He understands me without me having to tell him and I give him everything and take care of him. He has no car so I drive him where he needs and buy him food and drinks whenever he’s hungry. I even do his laundry sometimes (although he has gotten upset at me for doing it wrong but I either fix the clothing or buy him new ones). He always says he’s thankful and appreciates me and tells me to text him when I get home but doesn’t always say goodnight. Especially as of lately. I know he’s going through depression and family issues and I always listen as I know telling a Taurus what they should do or that they are wrong will upset them and distance themselves from you.

After two months I noticed he was getting upset over my breathe smelling (I do brush my teeth every morning but this was after a nap and apparently you have to brush your teeth after a nap?). He’d mention wanting a routine when he didn’t necessarily have one himself. When he’d ask to do something he’d have a few ideas but it’s always be up to me and when I’d come up with one he’d change his mind to a different idea. On our first date I cuddled with him and said sorry if I’m being clingy and he said it’s okay I need love. But as of lately I try to cuddle with him or kiss him he pushes me away and says he needs space which I proceed to give him but I never know when it’s okay to be affectionate again. Sex at the beginning was great but lately all he wants is head and I get nothing in return. It sucks but I love unconditionally all that I want is for him to truly love me back.

Two weeks ago he mentioned to me again that he’d have to talk to girls and I told him I trusted him. Last week he had to go to the ER and I had to get his belongings from his house but couldn’t find his keys so I used his phone to get his room mates phone # to text him. When I unlocked his phone I saw he had the dating app downloaded again and was shocked. I trusted him and it hurt after all I gave him. I looked through it and saw he had been messaging girls since the end of august up until last Friday asking for a friends with benefits and flirting with girls and complimenting them and sending them pics of himself. He even told them he wasn’t looking for a relationship just a friends with benefits because he’s too busy for a relationship. He would tell them he’s been trying to hook up with a bunch of girls to keeps his options open to find the one. I tracked the times he’d message them and they were during times Id be with friends or family or when I would text him at night and he wouldn’t reply then proceed to tell me he fell asleep the next morning. I however see he’s talking to girls up until 6 or 8 am on the app and then he tells me he’s tired and busy with school. I try to respect his time alone by not contacting him so he has his space because he says he needs it but this hurt so much.

When he came back from the ER I acted a bit distant but he was appreciative of me being there and said he hasn’t been himself lately. I’ve asked him if there’s anything I can do for him or work on and he always says nothing and he would tell me if there was. When I asked if he’s gotten bored of me he says no his thoughts are just very complex which I proceeded to say I admired his beautiful mind and always loved to listen. He’s told me I’m his best friend and the he loves me and that I’m beautiful. I tell him he’s handsome and intelligent and that I’m always here for him and support him. But I’m so confused as of what to do next. He hasn’t talked to any girls since but I am still so insecure and paranoid. I know if I bring it up he’ll throw the whole you looked through my phone argument at me but how would he feel if I was talking and flirting with other guys? Fellow Taurus men please help.
I would say..

You are his mom
He's just keeping you around while he's looking for your replacement. You are basically letting him walk all over you and he's lost respect. When a Taurus is in love with you they pamper you and kiss YOUR ass.
im a cancer woman, and two of my exes have been Taurus so I know a thing or two about them my first was a controlling narcissist and the second loved me but struggled to put in the effort, your guy sounds like a combination of the two

firstly he sounds like he saw your willingness to please and reeled you in real quick !, because he knew he found a girl who would bend over backwards for him, do his washing, give him head with no expectations and just all round baby him, but the grass is always greener ey ?

why give up the girl that's going to baby you when you can mess around with other girls and still have her wash your clothing ....he sounds controlling and narcissistic and he probably thinks he has you wrapped around his finger ...im with everyone else on this thread .. I say run
Posted by DonnaLibra

He's just keeping you around while he's looking for your replacement. You are basically letting him walk all over you and he's lost respect. When a Taurus is in love with you they pamper you and kiss YOUR ass.
Definitely using you for blowjobs and materialistic means
Wow.. Wow

Please have someone read this to you out loud so you hear it.

This is so wrong and not to sound harsh but you shouldn't be dating, someone needs to knock some common sense into you

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