Posted by HandsomeCheckIn
I think all parties should just practice social distancing
Posted by HandsomeCheckIni dont think so because taurus guy already unfollowed me out of the blue without any reason three months back....and his frnd is initiating from past week that too not in a flirty way but yeah show off type just trying to post my pictures through those dare challenges.Posted by sequinPosted by HandsomeCheckIn
I think all parties should just practice social distancing
LOL we are practicing that...but i couldnt comprehend what is going on the frnd is not openly chatting or flirting with me but doing some show off shits like adding my pictures to his stories during those dare games and replying all the dare games that he is obvious includes pictures posting.
Maybe they had a bet with each other who could idk post your picture moreclick to expand
Posted by HandsomeCheckIn
Or maybe they had a blow out
Taurus was like man stop living in my shadow
BFF was like I can get girls too I will show you
Posted by PhantumNO No this is not the case let me explain the whole scenario so the taurus guy got intrested in me 2 years ago but i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze... but he went ahead and started to appear at every place where i am in the college everytime tries to be around me showing off seems more happier and his bff is a south indian who already have serious relationship with a south indian girl...so the taurus guy tried harder and harder to woo and eventually i got bewitched because he left his few habits...but i nver expressd verbally and same with him we were on each others social media but he never expressd directly but always posting stuuffs about our weird love story so until then he never tolerated anything for me from his fellow arabic friends as well as south indian bff...
Possible scenario: Taurus's BFF likes you. Taurus tries to speak to you on his behalf. Whoops, you start liking Taurus. Taurus backs way off and tells his friend to get in there.
Posted by HandsomeCheckIni know that...but writing poetry dedicating them to one person...trying to touch u always...Posted by sequinPosted by HandsomeCheckIn
Or maybe they had a blow out
Taurus was like man stop living in my shadow
BFF was like I can get girls too I will show you
well thats not the case either because both re my seniors in college and when the taurus guy used to stare me like hell his frndz never dare to give a glance at me in his presence...so wt i am thinking is his frnd is posting my pictures so ofcourse he is gonna see them but if he is not asking him to stop being frndly with me...then is that indicates he is over me?
Stares mean nothing
It’s just looking at someone for a really long timeclick to expand
Posted by Phantumyes we did and that was a one night convo only he said he needs time to commit and he will come on the right time after that we never had any conversation i thought i need to be patient with him if he needs time i should give himm...but out of the blue he unfollowed and now his frndz picture posting thing ahhh cudnt understnd...Posted by sequinPosted by Phantum
Possible scenario: Taurus's BFF likes you. Taurus tries to speak to you on his behalf. Whoops, you start liking Taurus. Taurus backs way off and tells his friend to get in there.
NO No this is not the case let me explain the whole scenario so the taurus guy got intrested in me 2 years ago but i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze... but he went ahead and started to appear at every place where i am in the college everytime tries to be around me showing off seems more happier and his bff is a south indian who already have serious relationship with a south indian girl...so the taurus guy tried harder and harder to woo and eventually i got bewitched because he left his few habits...but i nver expressd verbally and same with him we were on each others social media but he never expressd directly but always posting stuuffs about our weird love story so until then he never tolerated anything for me from his fellow arabic friends as well as south indian bff...
but three months back out of the blue he unfllwd me i was shocked but i thought maybe he doesnt want anything and he lost interst as he got the hunt because even i expressd my liking towards him through quotes and change of my behaviour...so i thought everything is over but now his bffs antics i cnt understand
Have either of you verbally expressed anything directly?click to expand
Posted by dilettantePosted by sequin
i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze.
uhm escuse moiclick to expand
Posted by sequinPerhaps the Taurus sensed or discovered your prejudice against his culture and decided to stop investing in someone who despises who he is at his core. Hence the block.
i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze.
Posted by jeane
Oh so you played with him?
Posted by sequinBut you said you never expressed how you felt.Posted by jeane
Oh so you played with him?
NO i was waiting for him to come forward and confess but he never did so i asked him about this and he said he likes me and loves me too but he needs time to build his career nd bla blaclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by sequin
i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze.
Perhaps the Taurus sensed or discovered your prejudice against his culture and decided to stop investing in someone who despises who he is at his core. Hence the block.
As far as his friend posting your pic in dare games on sm, yeah people are stuck at home and engaging in those games is a fun harmless way to interact with others.
It doesn't mean he wants to date you. Calm down.click to expand
Posted by Phantumi initiated with a general conversation like hws lyf nd ol...but after chat turned into this direction i asked him do you like someone he said i love that someone the one who i used to chase all along...then i said why didnt u say this earlier he said he had some reasons that he didnt tell me ofcourse but said he will surely say when the time will be rightPosted by sequinPosted by PhantumPosted by sequinPosted by Phantum
Possible scenario: Taurus's BFF likes you. Taurus tries to speak to you on his behalf. Whoops, you start liking Taurus. Taurus backs way off and tells his friend to get in there.
NO No this is not the case let me explain the whole scenario so the taurus guy got intrested in me 2 years ago but i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze... but he went ahead and started to appear at every place where i am in the college everytime tries to be around me showing off seems more happier and his bff is a south indian who already have serious relationship with a south indian girl...so the taurus guy tried harder and harder to woo and eventually i got bewitched because he left his few habits...but i nver expressd verbally and same with him we were on each others social media but he never expressd directly but always posting stuuffs about our weird love story so until then he never tolerated anything for me from his fellow arabic friends as well as south indian bff...
but three months back out of the blue he unfllwd me i was shocked but i thought maybe he doesnt want anything and he lost interst as he got the hunt because even i expressd my liking towards him through quotes and change of my behaviour...so i thought everything is over but now his bffs antics i cnt understand
Have either of you verbally expressed anything directly?
yes we did and that was a one night convo only he said he needs time to commit and he will come on the right time after that we never had any conversation i thought i need to be patient with him if he needs time i should give himm...but out of the blue he unfollowed and now his frndz picture posting thing ahhh cudnt understnd...
What did you say that prompted him to say that he needs time to commit? That's usually a cop-out intended to string you along while he sees other girls.click to expand
Posted by HandsomeCheckIn
Hookah culture
Posted by HandsomeCheckInmaybe...
It’s not gonna last
His wives are probably still in high school
It’s best to catch a Taurus during his Clooney years
Posted by sequinYour focused too much on the friend and what his interactions with you may mean to the Taurus.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by sequin
i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze.
Perhaps the Taurus sensed or discovered your prejudice against his culture and decided to stop investing in someone who despises who he is at his core. Hence the block.
As far as his friend posting your pic in dare games on sm, yeah people are stuck at home and engaging in those games is a fun harmless way to interact with others.
It doesn't mean he wants to date you. Calm down.
NO he never sensed that infact he himself changed for me...when he used to around me he changed his drinking and eating habits smoked less and stopped going to night clubs n ol...
its not that i am exactly against his culture but nobody wants to fell in love with a playboy and that too from a differnt religion and country...
i am not saying that his frnd is flrtng with me or wants to date me i knw he is serious with his girl...and yeah u re ryt maybe we are stuck at home thats y...those games...
but actually earlier when we used to have vacations his frnd never participated in dare games with me infact never used to see my stories at all but used to see and participate with all other frnds and girls of my class...
and earlier i knew the reason that my taurus guy doesnt like his frndz involvement with him...so if he is not having any issues right now with this...that means he moved on right?click to expand
Posted by jeaneits not like that...i was not intrested because hw should i explain this actually it all started when we were going for a college rafting trip he saw me in shorts for the frst time...and his jaw remained opened eyes got popped out...and it all started from there so i thought his intentions are not good...but gradually he changed he stopped focussing on my body and replaced that with face...and acted really cute around me chnged habits and meanwhile i was falling for him
It sounds like you miss the attention this guy gave you and being the object of his affections.
You even said you weren't really into him at the start.
And now its three months later. He gave you the "it's not you, its me" speech. If he hasn't spoken or reached out to you, it's unlikely he is doing it via his friend who is engaging you in online games.
I would move on. You're still young. You're probably right that your cultures would cause issues. You have expectations and standards in regards to his behaviour.
You'll find another guy to fancy you and who will chase you.
Posted by LadyNeptunei wish he had blocked me...but he jst unfllwd and that itself i understood where i stand but again his poetry and quotes flooded my feed signifying i have done something wrong thats y i lost him but then also i didnt react much because i havent done anything wrng...Posted by sequinPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by sequin
i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze.
Perhaps the Taurus sensed or discovered your prejudice against his culture and decided to stop investing in someone who despises who he is at his core. Hence the block.
As far as his friend posting your pic in dare games on sm, yeah people are stuck at home and engaging in those games is a fun harmless way to interact with others.
It doesn't mean he wants to date you. Calm down.
NO he never sensed that infact he himself changed for me...when he used to around me he changed his drinking and eating habits smoked less and stopped going to night clubs n ol...
its not that i am exactly against his culture but nobody wants to fell in love with a playboy and that too from a differnt religion and country...
i am not saying that his frnd is flrtng with me or wants to date me i knw he is serious with his girl...and yeah u re ryt maybe we are stuck at home thats y...those games...
but actually earlier when we used to have vacations his frnd never participated in dare games with me infact never used to see my stories at all but used to see and participate with all other frnds and girls of my class...
and earlier i knew the reason that my taurus guy doesnt like his frndz involvement with him...so if he is not having any issues right now with this...that means he moved on right?
Your focused too much on the friend and what his interactions with you may mean to the Taurus.
The Taurus BLOCKED you. That should tell you where you stand.
If he hasn't moved on he's trying to by removing you from his life.click to expand
Posted by PhantumPosted by sequinPosted by PhantumPosted by sequinPosted by PhantumPosted by sequinPosted by Phantum
Possible scenario: Taurus's BFF likes you. Taurus tries to speak to you on his behalf. Whoops, you start liking Taurus. Taurus backs way off and tells his friend to get in there.
NO No this is not the case let me explain the whole scenario so the taurus guy got intrested in me 2 years ago but i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze... but he went ahead and started to appear at every place where i am in the college everytime tries to be around me showing off seems more happier and his bff is a south indian who already have serious relationship with a south indian girl...so the taurus guy tried harder and harder to woo and eventually i got bewitched because he left his few habits...but i nver expressd verbally and same with him we were on each others social media but he never expressd directly but always posting stuuffs about our weird love story so until then he never tolerated anything for me from his fellow arabic friends as well as south indian bff...
but three months back out of the blue he unfllwd me i was shocked but i thought maybe he doesnt want anything and he lost interst as he got the hunt because even i expressd my liking towards him through quotes and change of my behaviour...so i thought everything is over but now his bffs antics i cnt understand
Have either of you verbally expressed anything directly?
yes we did and that was a one night convo only he said he needs time to commit and he will come on the right time after that we never had any conversation i thought i need to be patient with him if he needs time i should give himm...but out of the blue he unfollowed and now his frndz picture posting thing ahhh cudnt understnd...
What did you say that prompted him to say that he needs time to commit? That's usually a cop-out intended to string you along while he sees other girls.
i initiated with a general conversation like hws lyf nd ol...but after chat turned into this direction i asked him do you like someone he said i love that someone the one who i used to chase all along...then i said why didnt u say this earlier he said he had some reasons that he didnt tell me ofcourse but said he will surely say when the time will be right
Too much indirectness. Who knows.click to expand
Posted by tizianii am north indian....
What culture are you from?
I’m not bothered by the Arab comments, im just asking.
Overall it sounds to me like you played it too close to the chest. And yeah he’s moving on other things.
Posted by PhantumPosted by sequinPosted by PhantumPosted by sequinPosted by PhantumPosted by sequinPosted by PhantumPosted by sequinPosted by Phantum
Possible scenario: Taurus's BFF likes you. Taurus tries to speak to you on his behalf. Whoops, you start liking Taurus. Taurus backs way off and tells his friend to get in there.
NO No this is not the case let me explain the whole scenario so the taurus guy got intrested in me 2 years ago but i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze... but he went ahead and started to appear at every place where i am in the college everytime tries to be around me showing off seems more happier and his bff is a south indian who already have serious relationship with a south indian girl...so the taurus guy tried harder and harder to woo and eventually i got bewitched because he left his few habits...but i nver expressd verbally and same with him we were on each others social media but he never expressd directly but always posting stuuffs about our weird love story so until then he never tolerated anything for me from his fellow arabic friends as well as south indian bff...
but three months back out of the blue he unfllwd me i was shocked but i thought maybe he doesnt want anything and he lost interst as he got the hunt because even i expressd my liking towards him through quotes and change of my behaviour...so i thought everything is over but now his bffs antics i cnt understand
Have either of you verbally expressed anything directly?
yes we did and that was a one night convo only he said he needs time to commit and he will come on the right time after that we never had any conversation i thought i need to be patient with him if he needs time i should give himm...but out of the blue he unfollowed and now his frndz picture posting thing ahhh cudnt understnd...
What did you say that prompted him to say that he needs time to commit? That's usually a cop-out intended to string you along while he sees other girls.
i initiated with a general conversation like hws lyf nd ol...but after chat turned into this direction i asked him do you like someone he said i love that someone the one who i used to chase all along...then i said why didnt u say this earlier he said he had some reasons that he didnt tell me ofcourse but said he will surely say when the time will be right
Too much indirectness. Who knows.
he said i love u as well and me being foolish said love u too😢
That's not a terrible thing, though it may feel embarrassing. If you did love him, then you just told the truth. If you thought you loved him but didn't really, well, that happens too and you've had some experience with it now. If you just said it because he said it, you'll know not to do that again.click to expand
Posted by tizianiPosted by sequinPosted by tiziani
What culture are you from?
I’m not bothered by the Arab comments, im just asking.
Overall it sounds to me like you played it too close to the chest. And yeah he’s moving on other things.
i am north indian....
yeah even i think i took him too seriously😞😞😞😞💔💔💔
Ah ok.
And yeah I think your instincts are right.
I know it’s tough after all the time spent on it. Sorry I don’t know what to say beyond that.click to expand
Posted by Phantumyeah but i really love him and i dnt knw i just feel like i will not be able to love anyone like this...he shouldnt have taken me this far...💔💔Posted by sequinPosted by PhantumPosted by sequinPosted by PhantumPosted by sequinPosted by PhantumPosted by sequinPosted by PhantumPosted by sequinPosted by Phantum
Possible scenario: Taurus's BFF likes you. Taurus tries to speak to you on his behalf. Whoops, you start liking Taurus. Taurus backs way off and tells his friend to get in there.
NO No this is not the case let me explain the whole scenario so the taurus guy got intrested in me 2 years ago but i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze... but he went ahead and started to appear at every place where i am in the college everytime tries to be around me showing off seems more happier and his bff is a south indian who already have serious relationship with a south indian girl...so the taurus guy tried harder and harder to woo and eventually i got bewitched because he left his few habits...but i nver expressd verbally and same with him we were on each others social media but he never expressd directly but always posting stuuffs about our weird love story so until then he never tolerated anything for me from his fellow arabic friends as well as south indian bff...
but three months back out of the blue he unfllwd me i was shocked but i thought maybe he doesnt want anything and he lost interst as he got the hunt because even i expressd my liking towards him through quotes and change of my behaviour...so i thought everything is over but now his bffs antics i cnt understand
Have either of you verbally expressed anything directly?
yes we did and that was a one night convo only he said he needs time to commit and he will come on the right time after that we never had any conversation i thought i need to be patient with him if he needs time i should give himm...but out of the blue he unfollowed and now his frndz picture posting thing ahhh cudnt understnd...
What did you say that prompted him to say that he needs time to commit? That's usually a cop-out intended to string you along while he sees other girls.
i initiated with a general conversation like hws lyf nd ol...but after chat turned into this direction i asked him do you like someone he said i love that someone the one who i used to chase all along...then i said why didnt u say this earlier he said he had some reasons that he didnt tell me ofcourse but said he will surely say when the time will be right
Too much indirectness. Who knows.
he said i love u as well and me being foolish said love u too😢
That's not a terrible thing, though it may feel embarrassing. If you did love him, then you just told the truth. If you thought you loved him but didn't really, well, that happens too and you've had some experience with it now. If you just said it because he said it, you'll know not to do that again.
i said because i was crazy in love with him at that time but now when i am sensible in love with him i feel embarrased...because i think he was chasing me bcz he was enjoying that but when i said yes i love u too he got his purpose and lost intrest 😞
I'm sorry. It hurts to have your emotions toyed with, whether the person does it intentionally or is just careless, but unfortunately, it happens to most of us at least once.click to expand
Posted by sequinFirstly, this started two years ago. You didn’t even like him, his culture or his habits! So what is your problem here. He had decided not invest any more time on you and has backed of. I think you are just simply missing the attention and the thought that the Taurus was attracted to you and giving you attention and now it is no longer there you are missing it. Let it go. He can do what he likes.Posted by dilettantePosted by sequin
i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze.
uhm escuse moi
i am sorry if i sounded like a racist but actually i am not fling type of person i needed something serious and their image in my college is of palyboy so i thought he jst wants to use me or something or maybe we wont last longclick to expand
Posted by LadymaraladePosted by sequinPosted by dilettantePosted by sequin
i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze.
uhm escuse moi
i am sorry if i sounded like a racist but actually i am not fling type of person i needed something serious and their image in my college is of palyboy so i thought he jst wants to use me or something or maybe we wont last long
Firstly, this started two years ago. You didn’t even like him, his culture or his habits! So what is your problem here. He had decided not invest any more time on you and has backed of. I think you are just simply missing the attention and the thought that the Taurus was attracted to you and giving you attention and now it is no longer there you are missing it. Let it go. He can do what he likes.
The Taurus probably realised it would not work with you in the long term as you didn’t like him to begin with any way. Why should he hang around just to stroke your ego.
Taurus don’t like being second best or a back up plan.
What sun sign are you? Are you an air sign? Not Gemini perhapsclick to expand
Posted by LadymaraladeAnd he was never a backup plan for me infact he kept me as a backup asked me to wait for the right time and i was waiting...i pity myself😒Posted by sequinPosted by dilettantePosted by sequin
i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze.
uhm escuse moi
i am sorry if i sounded like a racist but actually i am not fling type of person i needed something serious and their image in my college is of palyboy so i thought he jst wants to use me or something or maybe we wont last long
Firstly, this started two years ago. You didn’t even like him, his culture or his habits! So what is your problem here. He had decided not invest any more time on you and has backed of. I think you are just simply missing the attention and the thought that the Taurus was attracted to you and giving you attention and now it is no longer there you are missing it. Let it go. He can do what he likes.
The Taurus probably realised it would not work with you in the long term as you didn’t like him to begin with any way. Why should he hang around just to stroke your ego.
Taurus don’t like being second best or a back up plan.
What sun sign are you? Are you an air sign? Not Gemini perhapsclick to expand
Posted by sequinWell, it looks like he has “moved on”, so I suggest you do the same.Posted by LadymaraladePosted by sequinPosted by dilettantePosted by sequin
i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze.
uhm escuse moi
i am sorry if i sounded like a racist but actually i am not fling type of person i needed something serious and their image in my college is of palyboy so i thought he jst wants to use me or something or maybe we wont last long
Firstly, this started two years ago. You didn’t even like him, his culture or his habits! So what is your problem here. He had decided not invest any more time on you and has backed of. I think you are just simply missing the attention and the thought that the Taurus was attracted to you and giving you attention and now it is no longer there you are missing it. Let it go. He can do what he likes.
The Taurus probably realised it would not work with you in the long term as you didn’t like him to begin with any way. Why should he hang around just to stroke your ego.
Taurus don’t like being second best or a back up plan.
What sun sign are you? Are you an air sign? Not Gemini perhaps
please dont make ur own assumptions...i didnt reciprocated initially...it doesnt mean i never liked or loved him afterwards and even he got to know that i like him as i started holding eye contacts with started laughing upon his cute antics instead of getting irritated...and he used to joke with me indrctly so ofcourse it was obvious for him...and the reason is exactly not culture the reason is hw it started he saw me some sexy clothes and then started getting intrested in me and fr the initial days he used to stare lustly with the ego that said i am staring openly do whatever u can u cant stop that...but when he changed my heart also chnged...
and btw i am not missing any attention infact i was the one to ask him directly about this he said he needs time i agreed because at that he graduated from the medical college and went back to his country and i was still in med school as i was his 2 years junior so i acceptd his decision maturely that yes he needs time to establish his career and i need time to concentrate upon studies...
but when after getting job also he didnt message me or asked me anything i thought he jst dont want too or maybe he moved on..then 3 months suddenly he deleted those pictures of him which i liked , followed by unfollng me then also i understood maybe he doesnt want anything further and then started posting quotes and videos indicating that its because of me he came to this conclusion but as i havent done anything i didnt bother...and actually his two frndz are still not graduated and they are here in the universty and obviously they dont like me frm the 1st year i dnt knw the reason bt they dont so i thought maybe they said smthng wrng abt me thats y he got trigged and decided to cut off me from his life...and i was fine with that also...
but when his BFF came to initiate then i started focussing upon all these things again and as we all are stucked in our homes these thoughts linger a lot...but maybe u all are right that his frnd his genuinely being frndly with me and if he is not getting bothered then definetly he moved on and this was the basic question of mine thats it...
i am not missing his attention or chase or anything i just wanted to make sure that if he moved on completly or not...because he is working in this pandemic for his country as a doctor in the quarantine centres so i am bit concerned for him and want to ask him if he is ok or not....but its ok i shouldnt ask i think.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86The OP has quoted “i didnt reciprocate because he is an ARAB and i dont like their culture of hookah show off” ... sorry but these basic things are important when it comes to attraction with another person. It wasn’t that the OP merely “didn’t like him instantly”.. but the fact that she didn’t like the core of him ie he is an Arab and his culture. Those are important factors and it is how it works in real life!
Why are people harping on the fact she didn’t like him instantly? That’s not how real life works anyway. People rarely like each other equally or instantly, that’s not real. Doesn’t mean she was toying with him. She did give him a chance and look what he did with it. OP trust your gut next time, that’s the only thing you did wrong here.
Posted by LadymaraladePosted by bkbella86
Why are people harping on the fact she didn’t like him instantly? That’s not how real life works anyway. People rarely like each other equally or instantly, that’s not real. Doesn’t mean she was toying with him. She did give him a chance and look what he did with it. OP trust your gut next time, that’s the only thing you did wrong here.
The OP has quoted “i didnt reciprocate because he is an ARAB and i dont like their culture of hookah show off” ... sorry but these basic things are important when it comes to attraction with another person. It wasn’t that the OP merely “didn’t like him instantly”.. but the fact that she didn’t like the core of him ie he is an Arab and his culture. Those are important factors and it is how it works in real life!click to expand
Posted by LadymaraladeLook i just mentioned those points it doesnt means i am totally against it even i do clubbing and booze but its like once a week or thrice month now plz dont make it at as a issue that its his wish he can party everyday...yes he can party everyday but shouldnt go broke so that he used his fees money to party and getting notified frm the college for paying bt again thats his personal issue...but how can i explain wt was the turn off initialy i cnt put into words maybe that was my gut feeling only i think...but look nobody wants to date guy that started showing intrest in me lustily....and despite of my prejudice what u ppl are calling it i gave him a chance and i nver mentioned this to anyone wt was stopping me initialy...and more thing was i suppose to throw myself at him when he approached wt could have changed he would have used me...and then disappear..so i am glad for the fact i didnt reciprocated initialyPosted by bkbella86
Why are people harping on the fact she didn’t like him instantly? That’s not how real life works anyway. People rarely like each other equally or instantly, that’s not real. Doesn’t mean she was toying with him. She did give him a chance and look what he did with it. OP trust your gut next time, that’s the only thing you did wrong here.
The OP has quoted “i didnt reciprocate because he is an ARAB and i dont like their culture of hookah show off” ... sorry but these basic things are important when it comes to attraction with another person. It wasn’t that the OP merely “didn’t like him instantly”.. but the fact that she didn’t like the core of him ie he is an Arab and his culture. Those are important factors and it is how it works in real life!click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Posted by LadymaraladePosted by bkbella86
Why are people harping on the fact she didn’t like him instantly? That’s not how real life works anyway. People rarely like each other equally or instantly, that’s not real. Doesn’t mean she was toying with him. She did give him a chance and look what he did with it. OP trust your gut next time, that’s the only thing you did wrong here.
The OP has quoted “i didnt reciprocate because he is an ARAB and i dont like their culture of hookah show off” ... sorry but these basic things are important when it comes to attraction with another person. It wasn’t that the OP merely “didn’t like him instantly”.. but the fact that she didn’t like the core of him ie he is an Arab and his culture. Those are important factors and it is how it works in real life!
Ummm but that’s not the issue here. And his core is partying and hookah? No. That’s not what makes a person. You’re hyping it up for whatever reason. You must be a Taurus or you’re dating one.
Despite her preconceived notions on his culture she still went ahead and got to know him as a person and she decided she liked him. The issue is that this dude disappeared on her.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86Well to be fair she is omitting that she had a gemini boyfriend during this time as well.Posted by LadymaraladePosted by bkbella86
Why are people harping on the fact she didn’t like him instantly? That’s not how real life works anyway. People rarely like each other equally or instantly, that’s not real. Doesn’t mean she was toying with him. She did give him a chance and look what he did with it. OP trust your gut next time, that’s the only thing you did wrong here.
The OP has quoted “i didnt reciprocate because he is an ARAB and i dont like their culture of hookah show off” ... sorry but these basic things are important when it comes to attraction with another person. It wasn’t that the OP merely “didn’t like him instantly”.. but the fact that she didn’t like the core of him ie he is an Arab and his culture. Those are important factors and it is how it works in real life!
Ummm but that’s not the issue here. And his core is partying and hookah? No. That’s not what makes a person. You’re hyping it up for whatever reason. You must be a Taurus or you’re dating one.
Despite her preconceived notions on his culture she still went ahead and got to know him as a person and she decided she liked him. The issue is that this dude disappeared on her.click to expand
Posted by LadymaraladePosted by sequinPosted by LadymaraladePosted by sequinPosted by dilettantePosted by sequin
i didnt reciprocate because he is an arab and i dont like their culture of hookah show off and partying with booze.
uhm escuse moi
i am sorry if i sounded like a racist but actually i am not fling type of person i needed something serious and their image in my college is of palyboy so i thought he jst wants to use me or something or maybe we wont last long
Firstly, this started two years ago. You didn’t even like him, his culture or his habits! So what is your problem here. He had decided not invest any more time on you and has backed of. I think you are just simply missing the attention and the thought that the Taurus was attracted to you and giving you attention and now it is no longer there you are missing it. Let it go. He can do what he likes.
The Taurus probably realised it would not work with you in the long term as you didn’t like him to begin with any way. Why should he hang around just to stroke your ego.
Taurus don’t like being second best or a back up plan.
What sun sign are you? Are you an air sign? Not Gemini perhaps
please dont make ur own assumptions...i didnt reciprocated initially...it doesnt mean i never liked or loved him afterwards and even he got to know that i like him as i started holding eye contacts with started laughing upon his cute antics instead of getting irritated...and he used to joke with me indrctly so ofcourse it was obvious for him...and the reason is exactly not culture the reason is hw it started he saw me some sexy clothes and then started getting intrested in me and fr the initial days he used to stare lustly with the ego that said i am staring openly do whatever u can u cant stop that...but when he changed my heart also chnged...
and btw i am not missing any attention infact i was the one to ask him directly about this he said he needs time i agreed because at that he graduated from the medical college and went back to his country and i was still in med school as i was his 2 years junior so i acceptd his decision maturely that yes he needs time to establish his career and i need time to concentrate upon studies...
but when after getting job also he didnt message me or asked me anything i thought he jst dont want too or maybe he moved on..then 3 months suddenly he deleted those pictures of him which i liked , followed by unfollng me then also i understood maybe he doesnt want anything further and then started posting quotes and videos indicating that its because of me he came to this conclusion but as i havent done anything i didnt bother...and actually his two frndz are still not graduated and they are here in the universty and obviously they dont like me frm the 1st year i dnt knw the reason bt they dont so i thought maybe they said smthng wrng abt me thats y he got trigged and decided to cut off me from his life...and i was fine with that also...
but when his BFF came to initiate then i started focussing upon all these things again and as we all are stucked in our homes these thoughts linger a lot...but maybe u all are right that his frnd his genuinely being frndly with me and if he is not getting bothered then definetly he moved on and this was the basic question of mine thats it...
i am not missing his attention or chase or anything i just wanted to make sure that if he moved on completly or not...because he is working in this pandemic for his country as a doctor in the quarantine centres so i am bit concerned for him and want to ask him if he is ok or not....but its ok i shouldnt ask i think.
Well, it looks like he has “moved on”, so I suggest you do the same.click to expand
Posted by jeanePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadymaraladePosted by bkbella86
Why are people harping on the fact she didn’t like him instantly? That’s not how real life works anyway. People rarely like each other equally or instantly, that’s not real. Doesn’t mean she was toying with him. She did give him a chance and look what he did with it. OP trust your gut next time, that’s the only thing you did wrong here.
The OP has quoted “i didnt reciprocate because he is an ARAB and i dont like their culture of hookah show off” ... sorry but these basic things are important when it comes to attraction with another person. It wasn’t that the OP merely “didn’t like him instantly”.. but the fact that she didn’t like the core of him ie he is an Arab and his culture. Those are important factors and it is how it works in real life!
Ummm but that’s not the issue here. And his core is partying and hookah? No. That’s not what makes a person. You’re hyping it up for whatever reason. You must be a Taurus or you’re dating one.
Despite her preconceived notions on his culture she still went ahead and got to know him as a person and she decided she liked him. The issue is that this dude disappeared on her.
Well to be fair she is omitting that she had a gemini boyfriend during this time as well.click to expand
Posted by sequin"That wasnt my story and this is not my account ? i borrowed the password of this account from my friend serene and i have no clue wat she has posted earlier..?? yeah but this is true that she has a gemini boyfrnd and they really love each other then why she would post something like this thats strange"Posted by jeanePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadymaraladePosted by bkbella86
Why are people harping on the fact she didn’t like him instantly? That’s not how real life works anyway. People rarely like each other equally or instantly, that’s not real. Doesn’t mean she was toying with him. She did give him a chance and look what he did with it. OP trust your gut next time, that’s the only thing you did wrong here.
The OP has quoted “i didnt reciprocate because he is an ARAB and i dont like their culture of hookah show off” ... sorry but these basic things are important when it comes to attraction with another person. It wasn’t that the OP merely “didn’t like him instantly”.. but the fact that she didn’t like the core of him ie he is an Arab and his culture. Those are important factors and it is how it works in real life!
Ummm but that’s not the issue here. And his core is partying and hookah? No. That’s not what makes a person. You’re hyping it up for whatever reason. You must be a Taurus or you’re dating one.
Despite her preconceived notions on his culture she still went ahead and got to know him as a person and she decided she liked him. The issue is that this dude disappeared on her.
Well to be fair she is omitting that she had a gemini boyfriend during this time as well.
NO i dont have any gemini boyfrndclick to expand
Posted by jeanei dleted that message bcz you all would say i am blaming everything on my frnd but yeah seriously i havent posted or deleted anything here before...i wonder why she posted that kind of thing i really dnt knw but yeah i accept i always used to discuss my feelings regarding that taurus and she did asked me to get a boyfrnd which i refused and she has witnessed wtever the taurus was doing to me as she is my best frnd but she is libra and her presnt is gemini and she had a ex who happens to be leo but as far as i knw no taurus in her life i really dont have any idea wt hppnd here previouslyPosted by sequinPosted by jeanePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadymaraladePosted by bkbella86
Why are people harping on the fact she didn’t like him instantly? That’s not how real life works anyway. People rarely like each other equally or instantly, that’s not real. Doesn’t mean she was toying with him. She did give him a chance and look what he did with it. OP trust your gut next time, that’s the only thing you did wrong here.
The OP has quoted “i didnt reciprocate because he is an ARAB and i dont like their culture of hookah show off” ... sorry but these basic things are important when it comes to attraction with another person. It wasn’t that the OP merely “didn’t like him instantly”.. but the fact that she didn’t like the core of him ie he is an Arab and his culture. Those are important factors and it is how it works in real life!
Ummm but that’s not the issue here. And his core is partying and hookah? No. That’s not what makes a person. You’re hyping it up for whatever reason. You must be a Taurus or you’re dating one.
Despite her preconceived notions on his culture she still went ahead and got to know him as a person and she decided she liked him. The issue is that this dude disappeared on her.
Well to be fair she is omitting that she had a gemini boyfriend during this time as well.
NO i dont have any gemini boyfrnd
"That wasnt my story and this is not my account ? i borrowed the password of this account from my friend serene and i have no clue wat she has posted earlier..?? yeah but this is true that she has a gemini boyfrnd and they really love each other then why she would post something like this thats strange"click to expand
Posted by sequinwhat tiziani said...Posted by tiziani
What culture are you from?
I’m not bothered by the Arab comments, im just asking.
Overall it sounds to me like you played it too close to the chest. And yeah he’s moving on other things.
i am north indian....
yeah even i think i took him too seriously😞😞😞😞💔💔💔click to expand
Posted by sequinSo she wrote everything exactly in your case, responded exactly like you do, said she was a cancer, but pretended to be you while also saying that you had a Gemini boyfriend.Posted by jeanePosted by sequinPosted by jeanePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadymaraladePosted by bkbella86
Why are people harping on the fact she didn’t like him instantly? That’s not how real life works anyway. People rarely like each other equally or instantly, that’s not real. Doesn’t mean she was toying with him. She did give him a chance and look what he did with it. OP trust your gut next time, that’s the only thing you did wrong here.
The OP has quoted “i didnt reciprocate because he is an ARAB and i dont like their culture of hookah show off” ... sorry but these basic things are important when it comes to attraction with another person. It wasn’t that the OP merely “didn’t like him instantly”.. but the fact that she didn’t like the core of him ie he is an Arab and his culture. Those are important factors and it is how it works in real life!
Ummm but that’s not the issue here. And his core is partying and hookah? No. That’s not what makes a person. You’re hyping it up for whatever reason. You must be a Taurus or you’re dating one.
Despite her preconceived notions on his culture she still went ahead and got to know him as a person and she decided she liked him. The issue is that this dude disappeared on her.
Well to be fair she is omitting that she had a gemini boyfriend during this time as well.
NO i dont have any gemini boyfrnd
"That wasnt my story and this is not my account ? i borrowed the password of this account from my friend serene and i have no clue wat she has posted earlier..?? yeah but this is true that she has a gemini boyfrnd and they really love each other then why she would post something like this thats strange"
i dleted that message bcz you all would say i am blaming everything on my frnd but yeah seriously i havent posted or deleted anything here before...i wonder why she posted that kind of thing i really dnt knw but yeah i accept i always used to discuss my feelings regarding that taurus and she did asked me to get a boyfrnd which i refused and she has witnessed wtever the taurus was doing to me as she is my best frnd but she is libra and her presnt is gemini and she had a ex who happens to be leo but as far as i knw no taurus in her life i really dont have any idea wt hppnd here previouslyclick to expand
Posted by sequinYou’re welcome hun. I know it hurts, but all will be well very soon, those bad feelings will subside.Posted by bkbella86Posted by LadymaraladePosted by bkbella86
Why are people harping on the fact she didn’t like him instantly? That’s not how real life works anyway. People rarely like each other equally or instantly, that’s not real. Doesn’t mean she was toying with him. She did give him a chance and look what he did with it. OP trust your gut next time, that’s the only thing you did wrong here.
The OP has quoted “i didnt reciprocate because he is an ARAB and i dont like their culture of hookah show off” ... sorry but these basic things are important when it comes to attraction with another person. It wasn’t that the OP merely “didn’t like him instantly”.. but the fact that she didn’t like the core of him ie he is an Arab and his culture. Those are important factors and it is how it works in real life!
Ummm but that’s not the issue here. And his core is partying and hookah? No. That’s not what makes a person. You’re hyping it up for whatever reason. You must be a Taurus or you’re dating one.
Despite her preconceived notions on his culture she still went ahead and got to know him as a person and she decided she liked him. The issue is that this dude disappeared on her.
Thanks a lot for the understanding this is what i am trying to convey here he disappeared on me despite the fact that he asked me to wait for the right time...actually he toyed with my emotionsclick to expand
Posted by jeaneThat wasn’t in the OP and that wasn’t what you and others harped on. It’s a moot point actually. I responded based on the OP.Posted by bkbella86Posted by LadymaraladePosted by bkbella86
Why are people harping on the fact she didn’t like him instantly? That’s not how real life works anyway. People rarely like each other equally or instantly, that’s not real. Doesn’t mean she was toying with him. She did give him a chance and look what he did with it. OP trust your gut next time, that’s the only thing you did wrong here.
The OP has quoted “i didnt reciprocate because he is an ARAB and i dont like their culture of hookah show off” ... sorry but these basic things are important when it comes to attraction with another person. It wasn’t that the OP merely “didn’t like him instantly”.. but the fact that she didn’t like the core of him ie he is an Arab and his culture. Those are important factors and it is how it works in real life!
Ummm but that’s not the issue here. And his core is partying and hookah? No. That’s not what makes a person. You’re hyping it up for whatever reason. You must be a Taurus or you’re dating one.
Despite her preconceived notions on his culture she still went ahead and got to know him as a person and she decided she liked him. The issue is that this dude disappeared on her.
Well to be fair she is omitting that she had a gemini boyfriend during this time as well.click to expand
Posted by bkbella86It's not moot if it changes the story. She wasn't interested in him to begin with because she was already in a relationship.Posted by jeanePosted by bkbella86Posted by LadymaraladePosted by bkbella86
Why are people harping on the fact she didn’t like him instantly? That’s not how real life works anyway. People rarely like each other equally or instantly, that’s not real. Doesn’t mean she was toying with him. She did give him a chance and look what he did with it. OP trust your gut next time, that’s the only thing you did wrong here.
The OP has quoted “i didnt reciprocate because he is an ARAB and i dont like their culture of hookah show off” ... sorry but these basic things are important when it comes to attraction with another person. It wasn’t that the OP merely “didn’t like him instantly”.. but the fact that she didn’t like the core of him ie he is an Arab and his culture. Those are important factors and it is how it works in real life!
Ummm but that’s not the issue here. And his core is partying and hookah? No. That’s not what makes a person. You’re hyping it up for whatever reason. You must be a Taurus or you’re dating one.
Despite her preconceived notions on his culture she still went ahead and got to know him as a person and she decided she liked him. The issue is that this dude disappeared on her.
Well to be fair she is omitting that she had a gemini boyfriend during this time as well.
That wasn’t in the OP and that wasn’t what you and others harped on. It’s a moot point actually. I responded based on the OP.click to expand