Taurus man playing games with me

We started dating a month ago and he said he still needed to get money and clothes from his “ psycho ex“ I met his family and all of his friends during this month and then last night I FaceTimed him and she answered screaming saying “ tell her that we are getting back together” and I was like hello? What is happening? And he immediately texts me saying she’s “robbing” him and forcing him to call me and say he’s breaking up with me but not to believe it. She ends up leaving and he FaceTimes me begging for me not to end things and that he’s not with her. I wake up this morning ready to go to his house and get to the bottom of the situation and she answers the phone again!!! Screaming saying that they are together while he’s in the background screaming at her to stop acting crazy and give him his phone back. I texted him and said we are done he can have her. He said “ I’m not with her “ “stop” I told him to leave me alone and now he keeps texting me saying it will never happen again and he’s not with her. What is happening?? Do I get back with him and believe it?? Or would you run for the hills

Dont waste any more time on this boy. He cant even stand up for himself.

Buy him a game of snakes and ladders and tell him to play himself

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why is he scared of her? would she beat him up?

Is the ex a Leo by any chance?

Posted by Arielle83

Omg that sounds hilarious to witness.

Lmao...it’s a good show! 😂😂😂

taurus so committed they did it twice

2 birds with a stone

He must be fresh out of this relationship with her (although perhaps not actually out of it at all) and then he decided to jump right into dating with you. To still have an ex floating around, psycho or not, who still has his belongings etc is not a great sign that this man is available to commence dating with another human being. This sounds like a bizarre situation that might be best to close the door on especially as you're only one month in. Nobody needs shit like this at one month in. At one month in I think you'd probably only have at least four dates under your belt and no intimacy yet (although some people jump in for the sex quite quickly). At one month you're still just learning about each other so you're not that attached to each other and certainly not enough to worry about ending it and moving on to date others. At one month, he's showing you how things are and how things will be. I think there might be other options out there for you.

Posted by PVAFDeux

He's playing both of you. He's telling her he's going to dump you. He's telling you he's not dating her. I'm not sure why there is even a question as to what to do.

very probably he is telling the ex tales about how the OP is trying to chat him up and poor him doesnt want to, thats the most frequent excuse

crazy ex - 10 %

ex, who was lied to several times and is in her wits ends (aka "crazy") - 90 %

it still can be the 10 % tho

just its not likely, unfortunately

Posted by DMV

Dont waste any more time on this boy. He cant even stand up for himself.

Bingo! Nothing worst than a weak-ass "man".

Posted by PVAFDeux

He's playing both of you. He's telling her he's going to dump you. He's telling you he's not dating her. I'm not sure why there is even a question as to what to do.

Bingo!

Posted by Marai

He got issues. Run like a mothafacka!

Yep!

Posted by AgentP911

He must be fresh out of this relationship with her (although perhaps not actually out of it at all) and then he decided to jump right into dating with you. To still have an ex floating around, psycho or not, who still has his belongings etc is not a great sign that this man is available to commence dating with another human being. This sounds like a bizarre situation that might be best to close the door on especially as you're only one month in. Nobody needs shit like this at one month in. At one month in I think you'd probably only have at least four dates under your belt and no intimacy yet (although some people jump in for the sex quite quickly). At one month you're still just learning about each other so you're not that attached to each other and certainly not enough to worry about ending it and moving on to date others. At one month, he's showing you how things are and how things will be. I think there might be other options out there for you.

Well stated! I so hope the OP is listening, closely.

Posted by PVAFDeux

Posted by FknMeow

Have a professional sounding girl call him and tell him his name was put into a raffle for free roses and ask who he wants to send them to.

My local radio station used to do this. They would call it dirty work Wednesdays.

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😂😂😂

Idk why people are being so harsh. I know when I’ve gone to an ex’s house to pick up my stuff I’ll stay the night and we get brunch in the morning together. Doesn’t everyone do this??

Update: He’s been begging for me back but I told him to save it for the next gf he gets and that I don’t believe he hasn’t been with his ex. I looked at her Instagram story and she posted getting breakfast with him in the background so this is clearly just a joke to him. I ran into his best friend yesterday and he straight up told me that yes they’re back together and he can’t believe it after everything he said about not wanting her. He showed me my ex texted him saying “ keep telling her I’m not with my ex anymore 😂😂😂😂” so clearly this whole relationship was some kind of funny joke he was saying tell my “girlfriend” I said hi. Literally putting the quotation marks like he would laugh with his friends that I thought I was his girl but it was all a funny joke. I blocked him on everything.

Posted by Marie12345

Update: He’s been begging for me back but I told him to save it for the next gf he gets and that I don’t believe he hasn’t been with his ex. I looked at her Instagram story and she posted getting breakfast with him in the background so this is clearly just a joke to him. I ran into his best friend yesterday and he straight up told me that yes they’re back together and he can’t believe it after everything he said about not wanting her. He showed me my ex texted him saying “ keep telling her I’m not with my ex anymore 😂😂😂😂” so clearly this whole relationship was some kind of funny joke he was saying tell my “girlfriend” I said hi. Literally putting the quotation marks like he would laugh with his friends that I thought I was his girl but it was all a funny joke. I blocked him on everything.

Good for you. At least you know and can make the break away. Is his friend single? 😁

Posted by Marie12345

Posted by AgentP911

He must be fresh out of this relationship with her (although perhaps not actually out of it at all) and then he decided to jump right into dating with you. To still have an ex floating around, psycho or not, who still has his belongings etc is not a great sign that this man is available to commence dating with another human being. This sounds like a bizarre situation that might be best to close the door on especially as you're only one month in. Nobody needs shit like this at one month in. At one month in I think you'd probably only have at least four dates under your belt and no intimacy yet (although some people jump in for the sex quite quickly). At one month you're still just learning about each other so you're not that attached to each other and certainly not enough to worry about ending it and moving on to date others. At one month, he's showing you how things are and how things will be. I think there might be other options out there for you.

You’re right. I haven’t spoken to him since Sunday. I just feel so down on myself. She got my number and texted me saying that our whole relationship was a lie and that he’s been begging for her back and he was only with me to use me. And that he would drive to her house to eat her p***y and then come and take me out and kiss me with the same lips, she sent me tons of text conversations showing he was obsessed with her but I refused to read it because I knew it would hurt me too much. I just can’t believe he never apologized to me or reached out to me now that it has been days. Why did he choose her over me if I was “ the love of His life” it’s just sad.

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Let's imagine for a moment that he did reach out to apologise for his behaviour. What then?

I think sometimes people do not reach out or apologise for their behaviour because they do not recognise or accept that they have done anything wrong. In their head, this is normal behaviour. Therefore, if it is normal for them then there is no apology required.

I used to sit winding myself up wondering why they didn't have the decency to apologise or at least acknowledge the hurt and pain they caused but the truth is that they are not able to feel your hurt and pain, only you can feel it.

I think the other truth is that you were not the love of his life. From a rational and logical view point I eould ask 'How could you be?' You'd only known of each other for 30 days. I don't know what the exact criteria is for declaring another person the love of your life but I can safely say it is not done after just 30 days of dating each other.

I think you're probably more angry at yourself for believing his bullshit words. Maybe you wanted to believe them. I don't know. We've all been there and done it so we know what it's like. In my personal situation, it made me more determined to not be taken in so easily in matters of the heart. To date at a slow pace that was comfortable to me. To use more logic and reasoning rather than emotions and feelings. To be patient and wait, to take time in dating and allow the man to show me who he is instead of telling me who he thinks he is.

I really think they both deserve each other. Sometimes people are just toxic cunts.