The outcome of criticizing a Taurus woman being impolite and selfish ?

Hmm, are you so sure she wouldn’t describe you as overbearing, controlling, entitled and creepy?

She was honest and told you that YOU make her feel uncomfortable and now you’re the one who feels slighted?

Maybe she don’t like you as much as you think she should.

Earth signs do their own thing. Some don’t require a babysitter or second parent when they go through challenges.

The outcome may be a restraining order.

Posted by DMV

Hmm, are you so sure she wouldn’t describe you as overbearing, controlling, entitled and creepy?

She was honest and told you that YOU make her feel uncomfortable and now you’re the one who feels slighted?

The outcome may be a restraining order.

I think I'm not overbearing, controlling, entitled and creepy.

It is very common kind-hearted care messages, I almost sent to everyone who are sick. Usually I got positive responses from other people, except this Taurus woman.

The outcome may be a restraining order ？ What do you mean ?

Posted by -Capriquarius

Tbh it was your choice to be nice to her, you didn't meet with reaction you expected so criticizing her is impropriet at this point.

It's pretty naive to expect people being nice to you and feeling obligated because you expect them to be

I didn't expect people to be obligated nice to me. I think it is just politeness.

Posted by attonie

Posted by DMV

Hmm, are you so sure she wouldn’t describe you as overbearing, controlling, entitled and creepy?

She was honest and told you that YOU make her feel uncomfortable and now you’re the one who feels slighted?

The outcome may be a restraining order.

I think I'm not overbearing, controlling, entitled and creepy.

It is very common kind-hearted care messages, I almost sent to everyone who are sick. Usually I got positive responses from other people, except this Taurus woman.

The outcome may be a restraining order ？ What do you mean ?

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What's your relationship to her and why do you feel you need to send "almost everyone who are sick" kind-hearted messeges? I have a feeling that it's more about you than about them being sick, whoever "they" are.

What sort of relationship is that ? What did you write in your “care messages ”?

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What sort of relationship is that ? What did you write in your “care messages ”?

It is very dramatic. She suddenly leave bec of sick. I first sent the first message "are you sick? can you go back home by yourself ?". Initially, her response is to say thanks and she can go back by yourself, and she marked a LIKE on the first message.

Then about two hours later. I sent another message say " Tell me if you need help, particularly if you need antibiotics".

Then, After another 2 hours , She suddenly turned to say my message made her feel uncomfortable and quarreled with me on texting.

Posted by attonie

Posted by Undine

What sort of relationship is that ? What did you write in your “care messages ”?

It is very dramatic. She suddenly leave bec of sick. I first sent the first message "are you sick? can you go back home by yourself ?". Initially, her response is to say thanks and she can go back by yourself, and she marked a LIKE on the first message.

Then about two hours later. I sent another message say " Tell me if you need help, particularly if you need antibiotics".

Then, After another 2 hours , She suddenly turned to say my message made her feel uncomfortable and quarreled with me on texting.

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Is she a work colleague or fellow student of yours? She probably would have appreciated your concerns better if she was really sick.

Posted by Undine

Is she a work colleague or fellow student of yours? She probably would have appreciated your concerns better if she was really sick.

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We are in a same group.

Maybe she didn't want you inquiring about her sickness or whatver she disappeared for. Just apologize to save face and move on.

You’re not her mom.

Relax and eat something

Posted by attonie

Posted by DMV

Hmm, are you so sure she wouldn’t describe you as overbearing, controlling, entitled and creepy?

She was honest and told you that YOU make her feel uncomfortable and now you’re the one who feels slighted?

The outcome may be a restraining order.

I think I'm not overbearing, controlling, entitled and creepy.

It is very common kind-hearted care messages, I almost sent to everyone who are sick. Usually I got positive responses from other people, except this Taurus woman.

The outcome may be a restraining order ？ What do you mean ?

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And she doesn’t think that she is impolite. Stalemate

You send her several messages while she is sick.

She coulda been sleep but instead she got you blowing up her phone trying to be her savior.

Maybe try getting a puppy or having a baby.

Is this typical characteristics of immature Taurus woman ?

It looks there is inconsistency between her heart (feel) and her head (conscious). Her heart feels it is good. But her head commands her behavior to another way.

Look for someone who appreciates your affection. Just move on.

Posted by Hypnotoad

You didn't eat yet did you?

What is the best way to make the relationship back to normal at this stage ?

Posted by bmoon8

I think you are reading into this too much and analyzing everything according to your perception of things. This is not based on reality or what she has said… it is just what you think.

What is your sign?

I'm a cap. What is the best way to make the relationship back to normal at this stage ?

Posted by attonie

Posted by DMV

Hmm, are you so sure she wouldn’t describe you as overbearing, controlling, entitled and creepy?

She was honest and told you that YOU make her feel uncomfortable and now you’re the one who feels slighted?

The outcome may be a restraining order.

I think I'm not overbearing, controlling, entitled and creepy.

It is very common kind-hearted care messages, I almost sent to everyone who are sick. Usually I got positive responses from other people, except this Taurus woman.

The outcome may be a restraining order ？ What do you mean ?

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they're pretty good about cutting through the bullshit, and not playing dumb games. like whatever you are doing.

I wouldn't like, she doesn't like it.

Posted by Astrobyn Posted by attonie

they're pretty good about cutting through the bullshit, and not playing dumb games. like whatever you are doing.

I wouldn't like, she doesn't like it.

What do you mean ? What I did is bullshit ? I don't understand, please elaborate on it ?

Posted by DMV

Hmm, are you so sure she wouldn’t describe you as overbearing, controlling, entitled and creepy?

She was honest and told you that YOU make her feel uncomfortable and now you’re the one who feels slighted?

Maybe she don’t like you as much as you think she should.

Earth signs do their own thing. Some don’t require a babysitter or second parent when they go through challenges.

The outcome may be a restraining order.

What if he’s/she is the boss. Her leaving early n not responding is a big issue

Posted by Truemara

Posted by DMV

Hmm, are you so sure she wouldn’t describe you as overbearing, controlling, entitled and creepy?

She was honest and told you that YOU make her feel uncomfortable and now you’re the one who feels slighted?

Maybe she don’t like you as much as you think she should.

Earth signs do their own thing. Some don’t require a babysitter or second parent when they go through challenges.

The outcome may be a restraining order.

What if he’s/she is the boss. Her leaving early n not responding is a big issue

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Doesn’t matter.

She said that he was making her feel uncomfortable.

That’s an HR discussion right there.

Probably, I found the answer. I suspect the uncomfortable thing she said is the emotion of love. Usually, Taurus tries to keep head clear, so uses head (conscious) to press feelings. This is the typical case like that to expel (press) emotion of love to keep her head clear.

This is common problem of Taurus who don't know how to express emotion. As a result, one (controllable) outcome is no emotional at all, this is the so-called poker face. Another (uncontrollable) outcome is this disturbed feeling .

How about this explanation ?

See reference: https://themagicofsoul.com/why-is-taurus-so-emotionless/