19virgo76 joined June 04, 2015
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I hope you don't mind one more! =)
What do you see coming for me regarding love?
What do you see coming for me regarding love?
Thank you, i'll read up on it.
So is this a case of him going back and forth in his head, indecisive abt getting back together with me...or is it just an ego boost for him, stringing me along? What do you think?
So is this a case of him going back and forth in his head, indecisive abt getting back together with me...or is it just an ego boost for him, stringing me along? What do you think?
Lol I don't know much abt astrology... but heres his chart..
Sun Aquarius 8.47 Ascendant Virgo 29.52
Moon Libra 21.06 II Libra 25.55
Mercury Capricorn 15.02 III Scorpio 26.19
Venus Aquarius 9.49 IV Sagittarius 29.50
Mars Aries 3.07 V Aquarius 3.23
Jupiter Scorpio 5.14 VI Pisces 3.47
Saturn Taurus 2.39 VII Pisces 29.52
Uranus Libra 8.40 R VIII Aries 25.55
Neptune Sagittarius 0.35 IX Taurus 26.19
Pluto Virgo 27.10 R Midheaven Gemini 29.50
Lilith Leo 5.47 XI Leo 3.23
Asc node Pisces 12.21 XII Virgo 3.47
Sun Aquarius 8.47 Ascendant Virgo 29.52
Moon Libra 21.06 II Libra 25.55
Mercury Capricorn 15.02 III Scorpio 26.19
Venus Aquarius 9.49 IV Sagittarius 29.50
Mars Aries 3.07 V Aquarius 3.23
Jupiter Scorpio 5.14 VI Pisces 3.47
Saturn Taurus 2.39 VII Pisces 29.52
Uranus Libra 8.40 R VIII Aries 25.55
Neptune Sagittarius 0.35 IX Taurus 26.19
Pluto Virgo 27.10 R Midheaven Gemini 29.50
Lilith Leo 5.47 XI Leo 3.23
Asc node Pisces 12.21 XII Virgo 3.47
My ex aqua and I had been broken up abt 4 years when I started dating his best friend, and my ex aqua is the one that gave his friend my cell phone number and initated everything, I don't think he thought his friend and I would end up dating however. He knew his friend liked me, and it took me a while to warm up to him, I felt guilty, and I still feel bad abt it. It wasn't right.
He stopped talking to his friend during the 2 years we dated, once we broke up my aqua ex reestablished communication and his friendship with him. Just 3 months ago my aqua ex had told me he hated me, but then the other night showed up at my house professing love. He is still silent, I sent him one last message and wished him well. I wanna make another go at a relationship with him, but hes being so detached that I don't feel he was truly genuine in his feelings towards me.
During his visit he told me that he was gonna start coming around whenever he could, and even asked if he could come just sleep with me someday after he gets off work (he works midnights.)
I don't understand the front, what does he want from me?
During his visit he also kept talking abt his friend (my most recent ex) and the new girl he is seeing, and how happy they are, and talked abt their sex life, and other things I really didn't care to hear.
My aqua ex came to me, I don't even know how he knew where I lived, and I just wonder what his purpose and his intentions were in coming?
His moon is in libra if that helps.
He stopped talking to his friend during the 2 years we dated, once we broke up my aqua ex reestablished communication and his friendship with him. Just 3 months ago my aqua ex had told me he hated me, but then the other night showed up at my house professing love. He is still silent, I sent him one last message and wished him well. I wanna make another go at a relationship with him, but hes being so detached that I don't feel he was truly genuine in his feelings towards me.
During his visit he told me that he was gonna start coming around whenever he could, and even asked if he could come just sleep with me someday after he gets off work (he works midnights.)
I don't understand the front, what does he want from me?
During his visit he also kept talking abt his friend (my most recent ex) and the new girl he is seeing, and how happy they are, and talked abt their sex life, and other things I really didn't care to hear.
My aqua ex came to me, I don't even know how he knew where I lived, and I just wonder what his purpose and his intentions were in coming?
His moon is in libra if that helps.
I recently reconnected with an aquarius ex, he came to see me and seemed to have a good time. He is upset though because I dated one of his best friends for 2 years which I just recently broke up with. He still seems very hurt over it, but said he's trying to forgive me. My ex aquarius and I were together for 8 years in the past and were each others first loves, during his visit he told me he loved me, that I was his true love. I told him that I have always loved him and felt a special connection/bond with him that I haven't felt with anyone else ive dated and that i'd like to work out our issues and get back together. He said he wanted to take things real slow.
After he left I sent him a message on facebook telling him what a nice time I had and how I enjoyed seeing/being with him again....he never replied. I sent another message hours later and still no reply. My question is..is he being sincere about his feelings towards me, and why the silence now? What do you all make of this and how should I approach this situation? He was never this distant when I dated him years ago.
After he left I sent him a message on facebook telling him what a nice time I had and how I enjoyed seeing/being with him again....he never replied. I sent another message hours later and still no reply. My question is..is he being sincere about his feelings towards me, and why the silence now? What do you all make of this and how should I approach this situation? He was never this distant when I dated him years ago.
Thank you for your reply =)
May I ask another?
Do you see my ex libra and I getting back together?
May I ask another?
Do you see my ex libra and I getting back together?
Hello =)
Do you see an ex returning to me during this venus retrograde?
Do you see an ex returning to me during this venus retrograde?
Just an update everyone. I found out last night my libra ex has been seeing someone and had an interest in her for months. He kept me hanging on until he was sure of his decision to be with her.
Its heartbreaking to know after 2 yrs together that I became nothing, just a back up plan.
He moved on so easily, just cut off all emotions, went completely cold towards me. My virgo mind cant stop analyzing the situation, im a bundle of emotions and hes calm happy and content.
Do libras ever come back to the one who at one time meant everything to them?
Its heartbreaking to know after 2 yrs together that I became nothing, just a back up plan.
He moved on so easily, just cut off all emotions, went completely cold towards me. My virgo mind cant stop analyzing the situation, im a bundle of emotions and hes calm happy and content.
Do libras ever come back to the one who at one time meant everything to them?
Been a rough retrograde for me, curious if any other virgos had the same experience.
How has it affected all you virgos out there?
How has it affected all you virgos out there?
Thanks for the help and support everyone.
I heard from him again and he said it was just the booze talking last night that he didn't mean anything he said, he doesn't want to be with me, we're done, and hes going out again tonight. I tried one last time to express my feelings to him and he shut me out completely told me to leave him alone or he would go to police if I ever decided to text him.
I told him I just wanted to understand what it is hes going through and help him if I can, I explained that if he still loved me one night stands and drinking wont change what he feels in his heart and will only leave him feeling empty in the end.
He pretty much ignored everything I said to him I've tried everything I know to do, I love him but maybe the best thing is to set him free for the sake of both of us. I know I cannot take anymore mentally or emotionally, as I am drained and shattered. And I only seem to be making things worse the harder I try.
I agree that if he really did want to be with me he would find a way, and if he ever did come back after this "phase" or him trying to "negate his feelings" I don't know if I could ever forgive him for sleeping around and the coldness he has shown me.
Theres so much I don't understand, yet he holds all the answers and wont answer or explain much. I wanna hang on so bad but just don't know if its the right thing to do and if I have the strength to go through everything hes doing.
Every day im a bundle of nerves wondering whats coming next, how will he hurt me today. Its difficult when he never done anything before to ever hurt me, this is a side of him I've never experienced and don't like at all. I love him so much, so very much. But if he truly wanted me he would find a way and not be doing this to us.
Thanks again everyone I'm gonna need all the support I can get to get over this and over him.
I heard from him again and he said it was just the booze talking last night that he didn't mean anything he said, he doesn't want to be with me, we're done, and hes going out again tonight. I tried one last time to express my feelings to him and he shut me out completely told me to leave him alone or he would go to police if I ever decided to text him.
I told him I just wanted to understand what it is hes going through and help him if I can, I explained that if he still loved me one night stands and drinking wont change what he feels in his heart and will only leave him feeling empty in the end.
He pretty much ignored everything I said to him I've tried everything I know to do, I love him but maybe the best thing is to set him free for the sake of both of us. I know I cannot take anymore mentally or emotionally, as I am drained and shattered. And I only seem to be making things worse the harder I try.
I agree that if he really did want to be with me he would find a way, and if he ever did come back after this "phase" or him trying to "negate his feelings" I don't know if I could ever forgive him for sleeping around and the coldness he has shown me.
Theres so much I don't understand, yet he holds all the answers and wont answer or explain much. I wanna hang on so bad but just don't know if its the right thing to do and if I have the strength to go through everything hes doing.
Every day im a bundle of nerves wondering whats coming next, how will he hurt me today. Its difficult when he never done anything before to ever hurt me, this is a side of him I've never experienced and don't like at all. I love him so much, so very much. But if he truly wanted me he would find a way and not be doing this to us.
Thanks again everyone I'm gonna need all the support I can get to get over this and over him.
Delia no he is not Asian, just an only child and his parents pride and joy.
His mother once told me she never liked any of his past gf's, and the longest relationship he ever had only lasted 2 months, it makes me wonder why..was it because of his parents or because of him.
I heard from him last night at 3am, he called after having just left a bar with his friends, he was trashed and asked why I sounded sad and then told me he had fun and told me to come f*ck him. I told him I didn't want to be used for sex and especially not after he was out looking for other girls to hook up with. He said he realized he missed me, I wish that were true but I believe it was just the liquor talking and he just wanted a booty call. My heart broke a little more after that phone call last night, I tried talking to him abt things but he passd out and fell asleep on the phone, I got so upset and not being able to take anymore pain I changed my number, this morning when I woke up I felt I acted prematurely so I texted him numerous texts explaining how he had hurt me so badly and that I love him deeply and cant take anymore of what he is doing. He simply replied "whatever."
Idk what to do, I told him goodbye and that I love him but he has changed so much and I don't recognize the guy he has become. Do you think he meant what he said abt realizing he misses me, or was it just the liquor? All he wants to do now is drink and go to bars, he was never like this before. He started hanging around buddies that make a game of "pulling pussy" as they call it. He has changed so much. But how does a person change so drastically just over a 2 week period of time?
Its like I mean nothing to him now, hes being so selfish and cold, doesn't he understand how much he is hurting me? Where do I go from here, what do I do, I said goodbye to him but its not really want I want, but at the same time I cannot handle the pain he is putting me through. Any advice anyone? I feel like the only thing I can do is let him go. I wonder if he means it abt wanting to hook up with other girls, is this some phase hes going through?.. I just dont get it. Ive been wracking my brain trying to figure out what hes going through but hes cold and distant and wont talk except to tell me hes going out or looking for someone else. He is acting so reckless and irresponsible. I just cant understand why.
His mother once told me she never liked any of his past gf's, and the longest relationship he ever had only lasted 2 months, it makes me wonder why..was it because of his parents or because of him.
I heard from him last night at 3am, he called after having just left a bar with his friends, he was trashed and asked why I sounded sad and then told me he had fun and told me to come f*ck him. I told him I didn't want to be used for sex and especially not after he was out looking for other girls to hook up with. He said he realized he missed me, I wish that were true but I believe it was just the liquor talking and he just wanted a booty call. My heart broke a little more after that phone call last night, I tried talking to him abt things but he passd out and fell asleep on the phone, I got so upset and not being able to take anymore pain I changed my number, this morning when I woke up I felt I acted prematurely so I texted him numerous texts explaining how he had hurt me so badly and that I love him deeply and cant take anymore of what he is doing. He simply replied "whatever."
Idk what to do, I told him goodbye and that I love him but he has changed so much and I don't recognize the guy he has become. Do you think he meant what he said abt realizing he misses me, or was it just the liquor? All he wants to do now is drink and go to bars, he was never like this before. He started hanging around buddies that make a game of "pulling pussy" as they call it. He has changed so much. But how does a person change so drastically just over a 2 week period of time?
Its like I mean nothing to him now, hes being so selfish and cold, doesn't he understand how much he is hurting me? Where do I go from here, what do I do, I said goodbye to him but its not really want I want, but at the same time I cannot handle the pain he is putting me through. Any advice anyone? I feel like the only thing I can do is let him go. I wonder if he means it abt wanting to hook up with other girls, is this some phase hes going through?.. I just dont get it. Ive been wracking my brain trying to figure out what hes going through but hes cold and distant and wont talk except to tell me hes going out or looking for someone else. He is acting so reckless and irresponsible. I just cant understand why.
I agree I don't think hes as mature as he should be, he seems to let his parents run his life. Heck they wont even let him leave the house unless they know who he is with and sure he is not with me. He needs to stand up to them but wont do it.
Hes been telling me recently im not worth it and accusing me of cheating. Just a few wks ago he couldn't live without me and said he would always be there no matter what. Now days go by and I hear nothing from him and when I do hes so cold and unloving. Hes heard me break down on the phone and cry but he remained unemotional, I just don't get it, how do u not shed even a single tear when u break it off with someone u claimed to love so deeply just a few wks prior? We were always so close and so deeply in love despite tensions from his parents, sparks flew the very second we laid eyes on one another and we could never stand to be apart, his behavior now is tearing me to pieces.
Hes been telling me recently im not worth it and accusing me of cheating. Just a few wks ago he couldn't live without me and said he would always be there no matter what. Now days go by and I hear nothing from him and when I do hes so cold and unloving. Hes heard me break down on the phone and cry but he remained unemotional, I just don't get it, how do u not shed even a single tear when u break it off with someone u claimed to love so deeply just a few wks prior? We were always so close and so deeply in love despite tensions from his parents, sparks flew the very second we laid eyes on one another and we could never stand to be apart, his behavior now is tearing me to pieces.
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