2SAGG4U joined December 24, 2007
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Archer, lol. I couldn't of said it better myself. Very true with us Sag's . I adore my Leo the most when he appears helpless so to speak or confident enough to ask for help. Too bad he more often than not shows me the cocky in control side. Only if he knew. That's me always willing to plunge deep into the pool, head first none the less?.. It's funny though I was thinking about what you were saying about work. Same issues on my end? I'm always referring to the Leo male and them having the need to be in control but I should self reflect because if I'm not in control I get disorganized and start to procrastinate. To me the downfall of being a Sag. That's me getting ?Stuck in the moment thing again.? But yeah work is or has been crazier than ever lately. I actually pondered on changing careers for a moment or two and that's not me at all. I love what I do. Don't know maybe the stress of it all is making me view work in a different light??
You asked me ?is he the quiet understated type or the typical shining penny? Actually that's a hard question to answer. I'd have to say both. If he is out, at work, with strangers, with his acquaintances he is the Ultimate shining penny boastful and all?lol but when your trying to get close to him or in his home life or anything personal he becomes the silent understated type. More times than not he is flaunting himself around surfing for that attention he loves so very much.
You asked me ?is he the quiet understated type or the typical shining penny? Actually that's a hard question to answer. I'd have to say both. If he is out, at work, with strangers, with his acquaintances he is the Ultimate shining penny boastful and all?lol but when your trying to get close to him or in his home life or anything personal he becomes the silent understated type. More times than not he is flaunting himself around surfing for that attention he loves so very much.
Hey, Archer glad to see your doing okay?I know that feeling about work?.Wonder if it's universal?.I literally been engulfed in it. They say don't take your work home with you huh cant say that's been the case for me lately. There's a fine line between my work and my home life. Well with my Leo?..Can't say I've ever felt like you have. He's never showed me or my accomplishments off. I don't think it has anything to do with him being a Leo but rather an individual thing he has with his own insecurities? I feel like the center of his attention when it's me and him and if were out it's more like a possessive vibe I get not a proud feeling?.Are Leo's prone to be possessive? Confidence in a man usually rates number one for me and I find it very attractive?.On the surface he tries to act calm, cocky, cool and in control?.I'm not quite sure this is the case though?.Who knows only time will tell? Ttyl..
Hello Archer, Happy New Year's I hope your still out there, Work has been truly hectic for me to say the least . In response to your post as I'm reading this paragraph it was so funny your personality shined right through to me ?.
? It makes no sense to me to stay away from a great sharp witty guy and not to reply back, or to stay away from any mental-competetion Just to show/ prove that I am loyal to my man.... oh please, My man should have more confidence in my 'moral code' or 'inner ethics' to be insecure of such interactions.?
Thank you for giving me feedback Sag's usually don't have a problem with extending themselves. You summarized exactly what answer or rather what opinion I was searching for I should have posted a single comment ?Reason's why a Leo won't take there girlfriend out with his friends? ??. By the way he did take me out and did call me and we did make up, not by establishing an answer to most of our issues but rather by us both turning they other cheek. Not exactly the best way to deal with our problems, but I guess it works for now. I know long term I can only move forward fully from a situation when I have some form of understanding; whether it's the truth or not if I can't grab onto a concept and analyze it I get stuck so to speak. I think everyday that goes by with my Leo we slowly and silently make progress. I see his wheels turning constantly so I'm not quite sure I fit all of his criteria but he's opening up more and like I said were actually out in public (lol) and the little thoughtful gifts are starting to flow in. I don't know what contributed to these milestones but I think maybe patience on my part might have had something to do with it. On the contrary were still both two crazy fire signs together and there is nothing less than constant drama and way too much ego in our relationship but I'm learning day by day what works and what don't with him... Yes, I'm still cautiously figuring out the Leo Male? but in short I've learned he wouldn't be my Leo if he wasn't so dramatic with his moods and behaviors.
? It makes no sense to me to stay away from a great sharp witty guy and not to reply back, or to stay away from any mental-competetion Just to show/ prove that I am loyal to my man.... oh please, My man should have more confidence in my 'moral code' or 'inner ethics' to be insecure of such interactions.?
Thank you for giving me feedback Sag's usually don't have a problem with extending themselves. You summarized exactly what answer or rather what opinion I was searching for I should have posted a single comment ?Reason's why a Leo won't take there girlfriend out with his friends? ??. By the way he did take me out and did call me and we did make up, not by establishing an answer to most of our issues but rather by us both turning they other cheek. Not exactly the best way to deal with our problems, but I guess it works for now. I know long term I can only move forward fully from a situation when I have some form of understanding; whether it's the truth or not if I can't grab onto a concept and analyze it I get stuck so to speak. I think everyday that goes by with my Leo we slowly and silently make progress. I see his wheels turning constantly so I'm not quite sure I fit all of his criteria but he's opening up more and like I said were actually out in public (lol) and the little thoughtful gifts are starting to flow in. I don't know what contributed to these milestones but I think maybe patience on my part might have had something to do with it. On the contrary were still both two crazy fire signs together and there is nothing less than constant drama and way too much ego in our relationship but I'm learning day by day what works and what don't with him... Yes, I'm still cautiously figuring out the Leo Male? but in short I've learned he wouldn't be my Leo if he wasn't so dramatic with his moods and behaviors.
Thank you Proverbs and Archer for your comments back to me. And sry about the CAPS. I found the website listed helpful and I have a better understanding into the Leo Male. To answer your questions I find myself passive with this relationship (Don't know why) and can honestly say I don't nag him. I try and eat the popcorn(lol). The most recent fight we got into (Thurs) I just mirrored his actions and inquired who else he may be talking with. If an issue is really troubling me I will discuss it with him. His mood is affected by mine and others surrounding him so I try not to drag a situation out with negative energy. I express how I feel and move on past it. I'm not so much concerned with his dark moments. I understand that and accept that I can't on the other hand understand how or why he will not let me into his social realm. They say Leo Males like to ?Strut along with their significant other as they are proud of them". Me I feel like I'm in seclusion me, him and his four walls. I do acknowledge that WE both have issues with Possessiveness and Jealousy and like the excerpt says he has commented on my flirtations and this may bother him. I view my flirtations as innocent because I know where my heart belongs that may not exactly sit well with others but it's the Gods honest truth. I am a loyal Sag in all of my relationships but flirting is literally apart of my personality and communicating style it's like second nature to me. I never analyzed why. Asking myself that question would be like asking myself why I have black hair that's how aligned it is with me. Freedom to me is a state of mind. I need to feel as if I can be myself and feel as if I'm not being forced into your train of thought or wants and needs that don't coincide with mine and I don't mean disagreements like what to eat for dinner. I don't need to be away from my Leo for endless day and nights I just need to feel free of his restrictions whatever that may be.
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