well..... my virgo confessed his love. we're finally a committed couple. : )
And I can't believe I actually just lowered myself to your level to even conjure a response.
You have got to be the most ignorant fifty-one year old I have ever conversed with in my life.
- I apologize to myself.
We were FRIENDS at the time. I'm sorry I don't see anything wrong with being friends with someone and not sexually interacting with them.
We were both hooking up with other people whilst this was happening.
It wasn't as if he was a sad wounded puppy waiting around for me while I slept with the town.
One of the main reasons I never looked at him as more than a friend is because of his notorious "player" reputation.
The reason he and my friend broke up is because he cheated on her. Ha, Go figure. I'm totally fucking with his head.
And then a different side came out. Hence the part I'm a bit confused by.
Not every relationship starts with two people being sexually attracted to each other with a motive of being sexually together.
Sometimes friends do end up falling for each other.
I'm just oblivious to the world I suppose.
Because obviously if I sleep with a friend and allow physical interaction of any sort I'm a total manipulating sleeze that likes to fuck with peoples heads.
I hope I get an STD as well so I can keep this epidemic going! : D
it seems so easy... i've never had feelings for someone like this aside from my first love which was a 3 year relationship..
but, alas... you are saying what basically every single one of my other friends who know him in real life are saying as well.
he's an amazing person to hang out with and he has a great heart... but, he isn't worth it.. it's hard.
i don't know how to accept that and walk away.. being a pisces i feel compelled to fix everyone..
i feel like there's so much that goes on between us that noone else sees..
i guess he just plays the game well..
the most important 2 were forgotten..
AMAZING. INTELLIGENT! : )
he couldn't commit to me.. i'm hurt upon hearing this.. i'm confused as well. we've had many discussions about us and he expresses being heartbroken and not wanting to ever put himself in a position to be heartbroken again.. but, if he's ever to settle down i'd be the only person he would settle down with.. and i've told him how it hurts my feelings that he talks to other girls and calls then baby and boo and such names and he says i'm obviously his girl, i'm the one he's with all the time.. and these girls.. "ex's" or "friends" need the recognition.. and i don't... it's confusing to me. i don't get why.. all of a sudden there are these huge gaps in the times he comes to my house when, before he'd never spend a night away from me. why he tells me he loves me and does all of these things and even talks about wanting to move back to my home place with me where his family owns a timeshare... and we talk about marriage and having children.. and he cums inside of me everytime we have sex... and yet.. he tells one of my bestfriends he can't commit to me.. but doesn't tell me that.. sorry this is so long... there's so many aspects to our situation.. so virgo men.. what is this virgo doing? : (
i woke up a few times and he was rubbing my back and i'd look up at him and he was wide awake and he'd smile and kiss me on the forehead and i'd fall back asleep.. finally he woke me up because my mom was coming to get me.. apparantly i'd called her to come and get me at some point.. so i got ready to leave.. he had kept asking me if he could come over later in the day and i was being playful saying no.. he said i'm coming over. whatever. and.. he texted me saying he was coming over after i had left.. so... i don't hear from him for 2 days. we texted a little.. he'd ask what i was doing and then i'd get no response. he called me the day before my birthday and asked what i was doing and if i wanted to hang out.. i said sure.. we ended up going to a friends house and drinking.. he went off in a different room and was doing his own thing.. i walked in and he grabbed me and we kissed and cuddled for a bit.. and he got a little agressive around everyone else and was constantly touching me.. or near me.. and being very affectionate.. and virgos aren't much for PDA.. later his cousin ended up coming and, shit happened. he didn't get along with someone.. he wanted to leave.. my virgo left me... on my birthday and i was drunk and missed him and asked him to please not leave.. he did anyway. the next day was my birthday party.. he called and we talked for a bit. texted a lot. yadda yadda. he showed up later. i ended up getting cuffed and put in a car for a bit.. he left. i didn't see him again until about a week ago. he stayed over for 2 days.. things came out drunken... i was upset with him. at first he felt remorse and apologized. the next day, he tried to turn it around. i stopped talking to him. 3 days go by.. on the 4th, he calls to ask if it's okay if he comes over to hang out.. i say.. i guess. he does... it's awkward with other friends.. with just us it's perfect as usual. he was super affectionate and loving.. and even kept telling me he loved me. and i said i don't love you.. and he wrestled me and was like.. what is that an i love you too!! it was just really.. good energy. happy vibes.. he left to go to some barbeque he invited me to as well. i never went... he said he'd call later, he didn't. he didn't call the next day either. but.. i talked to a friend of mine who hangs out with the 2 of us a lot.. and she said they had a talk about me.. and how he thinks i'm amazing and he loves me and loves everything about me.. but that he couldn't be with me, he c
blah blah, fast forward... we ended up having our first argument. something happened at a party. i ended up getting assaulted by a friend of his. he left me there... i was angry. he called me and yelled at me basically for 30 minutes saying he doesn't care who i hook up with, we're both single, he's tired of everyone thinking we're fucking etc. etc. i hang up after a bit. he calls back, apologizes for yelling and asks if i want to hang out... i say i guess... and, he comes over. we have massive amounts of sex for three days and we both end up with fat hickies everywhere.. i got wasted somewhere inbetween those 3 days and ended up telling him i was in love with him and i was sick of waiting around while he fucked all these other girls and was calling them "boo boo" etc. etc. i don't remember any of it.. my mom told me the next day, ha.. how embarrassing.. he acted completely normal the next morning. as though nothing had happened. he was singing, cheerful, touchy and super happy. i took him home and my mom told me what had happened and i was mortified. i never wanted to talk to him again!.. well.... he kept calling. and he never brought it up ever... although i noticed he started telling me he loved me all the time.. and he still does. and he would make comments and say i know you love me trying to get me to say it. which, i have never said sober..it continued on this note for a while. everything was great. we were still sleeping together everynight. the night that he called me and yelled at me about everything he brought a bunch of extra clothes over and an extra cellphone charger and assigned himself a drawer is my dresser (that is still there)... one night it's him and i and a friend and his virgo best friend comes over.. we end up drinking.. having a good time.. his friend asks if he wants to leave with him, he says nah.. he's gonna stay.. well he ended up leaving. and he didn't come back to my house. he would text me and see what i was doing but... we didn't see each other for 7 days! the 8th day.. i'm at a friends down the street. i had had a long night and was still up.. i called him at 6 am and wanted to see him.. i went over. and we cuddled and watched tv.. he said he was tired so we went and layed down in bed.. we had oral sex.. and i fell asleep..