Gemini772 joined April 04, 2013
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Posted by HappyCapper
Is this the same guy you have talked about here before?
Yes...it's been a month and all he does is show me that he is happy (we work in the same place) and today he replied to a member of the group in watsapp that he couldn attend his birthday because he is going to Spain for one week..and he never answer on that group
...so, that was lame because he knew i was going to see that...Busy being a jerk
It's really interesting to see that you all have different views about the ''disappearing'' eheh. Off course I would give the silent treatment to someone that pisses me off, everyone does that (i think, if not, they sould 
) but recently I've experienced weeks of him ignoring me and then after that coming and asking me to give him time...after all that I really dont feel that he regrets...
So I made this so I could know wht you feel when you just disappear just because...
) but recently I've experienced weeks of him ignoring me and then after that coming and asking me to give him time...after all that I really dont feel that he regrets...So I made this so I could know wht you feel when you just disappear just because...
Do you feel bad for your lover when you give the silent treatment/disappear? Do you put yourselves in her/his shoes? *
*I don't know what he is doing right now but when we talked he said that he doesnt want to be with another women, he wants some time to himself and dating others is not his mind. But he is single now and he can do whatever he wants, i will pretend that I dont care . Time heals
And please @everything and @truecap dont get mad at each other for this, you both are great people
. Time heals And please @everything and @truecap dont get mad at each other for this, you both are great people
I'm really happy that all of you took some time to answer my questions , thank you. Well today I've been thinking a lot about this because its starting to affect me a lot and i have so much more to take care in my life, i just cant sit and wait for someone that shows me that doesnt want me. I really thought that he wanted to break up althought he said that needed time..maybe to not hurt me, I dont know..but inside i tried to make a beautiful story that he really need time and after that he will come back to me...i put the blame on disney movies :p lol
Well i do think that I deserve better and slowly i'm starting to realize that, it's difficult but I'm going to do that. I want to feel loved too, and i will be
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, thank you. Well today I've been thinking a lot about this because its starting to affect me a lot and i have so much more to take care in my life, i just cant sit and wait for someone that shows me that doesnt want me. I really thought that he wanted to break up althought he said that needed time..maybe to not hurt me, I dont know..but inside i tried to make a beautiful story that he really need time and after that he will come back to me...i put the blame on disney movies :p lolWell i do think that I deserve better and slowly i'm starting to realize that
, it's difficult but I'm going to do that. I want to feel loved too, and i will be **
Posted by EverythingPosted by Gemini772
Oh wow thank you for all the responses. I really love him and i wanted to gire a second chance to our love.. And i miss him a lot..my moon is in scorpio and my rising is Taurus (17 june 1989). His rising is in scorpio if im not misturem. I Just dont know if i should try talk with him or Just wait. We really had good moments that tells me that he loved me.. I don't know about now..
Doesn't matter if you want to give it another shot. He has dumped you. He wants to be your friend. That's not love to me. That's running away from someone as fast as you can.
Yes your venus is opposite his sun and your moon is sextile his sun. Scorpios and Caps often look very much alike. So you can't just guess he's scorpio ascendant, that could just be his cap sun shining through. Scorp is even on your decendant. Which means you really love this guy, need him and want him in every way. You find him beautiful. But the question is what he thinks of you. He hasn't acted like he needs or loves you, in my opinion.click to expand
Well i know that he's ascendant is scorpio because he was born at 2 am. And he told me that he doesn't want to be my enemie..i thought that i could somehow get back to him. Its dificult for me to realize that he doesn't feel nothing after all that i did for him and all the good moments that he gave me.. But well, we cant have everything.. I really thought that he simply needed some time to think..
Do you think (based on his chart) that we could be together again?...
Thank you once again for the replies . Yes i have been thinking a lot about us and i truly see my mistakes.. We, apart of all that i complaint, get along s?_ well. He introduced me to his Mother as his girlfriend (wich was the first time he has done that), i spent Christmas with his family, i slept over his House s?_ many times, he has a chinchila that i love btw lol. And s?_ much more and i Just didnt want to give up for something s?_ small that we could solve together. I love him, that's all i know now..
. Yes i have been thinking a lot about us and i truly see my mistakes.. We, apart of all that i complaint, get along s?_ well. He introduced me to his Mother as his girlfriend (wich was the first time he has done that), i spent Christmas with his family, i slept over his House s?_ many times, he has a chinchila that i love btw lol. And s?_ much more and i Just didnt want to give up for something s?_ small that we could solve together. I love him, that's all i know now..I understand what you are saying and in some points i think you are right. I know that we are different but i honestly think that we could Work together. I think that what happened was that we both were selfish by not trying to figure out each other personalities. I see now that i could make things better because i can see that i failed in some points in our relationship. I dont know now how to deal with the breakup and how to start again with him. Thank you and i wish you the best too
Oh wow thank you for all the responses. I really love him and i wanted to gire a second chance to our love.. And i miss him a lot..my moon is in scorpio and my rising is Taurus (17 june 1989). His rising is in scorpio if im not misturem. I Just dont know if i should try talk with him or Just wait. We really had good moments that tells me that he loved me.. I dont know about now..
When he passes beside my place where i Work he always speaks very loud as if he wants me to notice him.. I dont know. I wish i had all the answers
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Hello :),
First of all sorry for my English.
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