playswitfire83 joined October 29, 2009
41 years old
Sun Libra 7.03 Ascendant Taurus 0.39 Moon Cancer 19.30 II Gemini 0.57 Mercury Virgo 19.13 III Gemini 28.07 Venus Leo 27.13 IV Cancer 24.47 Mars Virgo 0.30
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I never got along with Cancer males growing up. They were too damn sensitive for me. And I attracted them a lot (possibly my cancer moon)
I finally became friends with a Cancer guy and we clicked. It took time for us to warm up to one another, but once we did were definitely kindred spirits. We both come off a lot more serious than we actually are. Once we got to know each other we would talk sh*t, crack jokes, etc. all the time. We even dated for several months last year. but we were never a "official" couple so that may have played a part in him not being too sensitive. Maybe once their hearts are fully in, that's when the other side comes out. Also, he has an Aquarius moon. They're pretty good at hiding or detaching from feelings. *I'm surrounded by Aquarius mooners*
The most difficult thing for me was just the moodiness. And he was always stressed out...usually over work or money. I always tried to remain playful and lighthearted and it would help sometimes. And sometimes I just had to let him be.
I finally became friends with a Cancer guy and we clicked. It took time for us to warm up to one another, but once we did were definitely kindred spirits. We both come off a lot more serious than we actually are. Once we got to know each other we would talk sh*t, crack jokes, etc. all the time. We even dated for several months last year. but we were never a "official" couple so that may have played a part in him not being too sensitive. Maybe once their hearts are fully in, that's when the other side comes out. Also, he has an Aquarius moon. They're pretty good at hiding or detaching from feelings. *I'm surrounded by Aquarius mooners*
The most difficult thing for me was just the moodiness. And he was always stressed out...usually over work or money. I always tried to remain playful and lighthearted and it would help sometimes. And sometimes I just had to let him be.
If I'm with him all day, two days top. Then I need a break. If its just several hours (like you come over after work) I can do that all week
I doubt anybody here can tell you why he's not texting you but what difference does it make? You told him you're done. Mean what say and say what you mean.
YOU KNOW IT'S GOOD WHEN you have to pull over on your way back to work after a lunchtime quickie because your leg won't stop shaking
*memories*
*memories*
What part of the relationship do you want to move faster? Being claimed and known as his official girlfriend sounds like a pretty good deal after 6 months. If your talking about the "love" word I wouldn't sweat it too tough at the moment. It's still pretty early on and him not saying it doesn't mean that he isn't in love. It could simply mean he isn't ready to say it.
I can so relate and completely agree
Lol well you should always listen to mama! But yes. He would definately do a lot of round about indirect things to express himself (ie fb statues) but honestly I wouldn't read into them to much because you'll drive yourself crazy trying to read between the lines. Let him vent however he needs to and let him contact you when he's ready. You'll have a much more effective Congo once he feels like his head is clear
*may not be that easy
I'm not sure if your a cancer sun but I had the same thing happen between me and this cancer guy I was friends with. We had a strong connection. It was like we were the same person except I was the female version and he was the male. After awhile the relationship got intimate, then we fell out. We avoided each other for months. We never resolved the issue but I guess our friendship was so strong we were able to maintain it, but kept a healthy distance at the same time. After doing this for a couple of years circumstances last year caused us to be around each other like everyday and boom! Feelings got the best of us.
Its still a roller coaster but I said all that to say that it may not be that was to jump back into a friendship as you may think. Just flow with it. If the bond is that strong he isn't going too far
Its still a roller coaster but I said all that to say that it may not be that was to jump back into a friendship as you may think. Just flow with it. If the bond is that strong he isn't going too far
You got a lot of good advice but just to throw my view on it we can be flaky. Sometimes it's out of spite and sometimes its just simply detachment. If he's having a hard time being your friend because he has feelings for don't expect that to admit that anytime soon. Especially if you can do it with no problem. Translating emotions into words is not our forte...at least not until we've matured a little. The best way to get to through to us when we show this type of behavior is to totally dismiss us. Lol I feel like a trader to my people but its real. Once it occurs to him that you haven't reached out in a awhile (and this may take awhile) he'll prob reach out and be more open to a friendship of some sort or at least express what was going through his head at the time.
cancer moon
I didn't start to have cancer friends until my early 20's but at the time they seemed like complete push overs and I couldn't stand it. Then I realized that that was only because they reminded me of my soft, emotional side that my Libra sun totally wanted to reject
Now I love them. I have a few female cancer friends, who can be a bit wishy washy but very sweet people. As for the men, don't have a lot of them in my life as friends, but I attract them like the plague.
I didn't start to have cancer friends until my early 20's but at the time they seemed like complete push overs and I couldn't stand it. Then I realized that that was only because they reminded me of my soft, emotional side that my Libra sun totally wanted to reject
Now I love them. I have a few female cancer friends, who can be a bit wishy washy but very sweet people. As for the men, don't have a lot of them in my life as friends, but I attract them like the plague.
Posted by Tabrizi
Libra Sun + Venus, Aquarius Moon + Mars, Leo Rising...
Optimistic Ulster man, lately rejected by long-time fianc?e of three weeks, seeks a blonde 20 year old double-jointed supermodel for wining and dining, good conversation, dancing and romantic walks, who owns her own brewery and has an open-minded twin sister - also seeks alibi for the night of October 27 between 8 PM and 11:30 PM.
LMAO!
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