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Posted by Arielle83He was married, but not anymore. I wanted to talk to understand why he can not tell me before I found out..Posted by RH01112019Posted by Southerness_Posted by RH01112019Posted by Southerness_Posted by AL4813
Ahhhh you're a scorpio..... it makes total sense now... Let me tell you this, I am a freshly divorced Leo man who divorced a scorpio woman. It was a disgusting breakup full of anger and hate... I'm not a going to bore you with the details but these two signs are simply not meant to be.. I did everything I could to please that woman, but her negative toxic nature was simply too much.
If I didn't have a child with her I would have zero contact with her..... in the end these signs just love differently.
We actually got along great. But when I would catch him in lies and doing other things he knew didn’t help our relationship that’s when things would go south. I told him all I want is his honesty because I’m a straightforward person and an honest person especially to someone I love so I expect that in return. All I wanted was to be happy and I tried my damn hardest to make him happy I even started changing myself to become someone else that I felt would benefit our relationship which anyone that knows me know that I’m very comfortable with who I am. I almost lost myself in the midst of it all. When we broke up he even tried making me stay. A lot of the times he would take me on extravagant trips or go the extra mile to do things that I like in bed to fix things. So this time after the break up he wanted to take me on a cruise to Costa Rica, a place that I always wanted to go. I had tears in my eyes and told him taking me to Costa Rica will not fix things. It’s kind of like covering up what needs to be fixed but not actually fixing the problem. He even had plans to buy a Catamaran (a type of boat) and wanted us to go live on a boat together. Said that he can’t wait to do that with me. But there are just too many things that he put me through that continued to break my heart over and over again. I just couldn’t take it anymore and the pain is too agonizing.
I had been more than forgiving towards him. My friends thought I was stupid for constantly taking him back but I kept making excuses for him. Never thought I would be that woman. There were messed up things he did that he didn’t know that I knew but I chose not to bring it up to keep our relationship above water. I will not put on here what he has done because I don’t think it matters. Like I said I know nice Leos my best friend/cousin is a Leo but I think I have had the bad one out of the bunch.
Just really want to know do Leo men acknowledge their wrongs? But I guess some one that’s selfish would never.
What did he lie about?
Omg everything. Smh I even told him he doesn’t have to do that. Just say it like it is you will not hurt my feelings I would have more respect for you if you just tell me what it is and how it’s gonna be. And he’s so predictable too I even knew when he was lying to me in my face. So everytime he lied I would let him know and catch him in the lie so he could know I wasn’t dumb.
I just won’t go and name off any of the things because I don’t feel like it’s relevant.
I have just found out my Leo were married and he didn't tell me. When I asked him, he started to blame me trying to digging information to sabotage our relationship. I asked him how could he hide that information if he wants to have a good relationship; and, how could he blame it on me. I'm shock and speechless. Now he ignored me back.
Well why would you care if he ignores you now that you know he’s married?
Wouldn’t you be wasting your time?click to expand
Posted by Southerness_I have just found out my Leo were married and he didn't tell me. When I asked him, he started to blame me trying to digging information to sabotage our relationship. I asked him how could he hide that information if he wants to have a good relationship; and, how could he blame it on me. I'm shock and speechless. Now he ignored me back.Posted by RH01112019Posted by Southerness_Posted by AL4813
Ahhhh you're a scorpio..... it makes total sense now... Let me tell you this, I am a freshly divorced Leo man who divorced a scorpio woman. It was a disgusting breakup full of anger and hate... I'm not a going to bore you with the details but these two signs are simply not meant to be.. I did everything I could to please that woman, but her negative toxic nature was simply too much.
If I didn't have a child with her I would have zero contact with her..... in the end these signs just love differently.
We actually got along great. But when I would catch him in lies and doing other things he knew didn’t help our relationship that’s when things would go south. I told him all I want is his honesty because I’m a straightforward person and an honest person especially to someone I love so I expect that in return. All I wanted was to be happy and I tried my damn hardest to make him happy I even started changing myself to become someone else that I felt would benefit our relationship which anyone that knows me know that I’m very comfortable with who I am. I almost lost myself in the midst of it all. When we broke up he even tried making me stay. A lot of the times he would take me on extravagant trips or go the extra mile to do things that I like in bed to fix things. So this time after the break up he wanted to take me on a cruise to Costa Rica, a place that I always wanted to go. I had tears in my eyes and told him taking me to Costa Rica will not fix things. It’s kind of like covering up what needs to be fixed but not actually fixing the problem. He even had plans to buy a Catamaran (a type of boat) and wanted us to go live on a boat together. Said that he can’t wait to do that with me. But there are just too many things that he put me through that continued to break my heart over and over again. I just couldn’t take it anymore and the pain is too agonizing.
I had been more than forgiving towards him. My friends thought I was stupid for constantly taking him back but I kept making excuses for him. Never thought I would be that woman. There were messed up things he did that he didn’t know that I knew but I chose not to bring it up to keep our relationship above water. I will not put on here what he has done because I don’t think it matters. Like I said I know nice Leos my best friend/cousin is a Leo but I think I have had the bad one out of the bunch.
Just really want to know do Leo men acknowledge their wrongs? But I guess some one that’s selfish would never.
What did he lie about?
Omg everything. Smh I even told him he doesn’t have to do that. Just say it like it is you will not hurt my feelings I would have more respect for you if you just tell me what it is and how it’s gonna be. And he’s so predictable too I even knew when he was lying to me in my face. So everytime he lied I would let him know and catch him in the lie so he could know I wasn’t dumb.
I just won’t go and name off any of the things because I don’t feel like it’s relevant.click to expand
Posted by Southerness_What did he lie about?Posted by AL4813
Ahhhh you're a scorpio..... it makes total sense now... Let me tell you this, I am a freshly divorced Leo man who divorced a scorpio woman. It was a disgusting breakup full of anger and hate... I'm not a going to bore you with the details but these two signs are simply not meant to be.. I did everything I could to please that woman, but her negative toxic nature was simply too much.
If I didn't have a child with her I would have zero contact with her..... in the end these signs just love differently.
We actually got along great. But when I would catch him in lies and doing other things he knew didn’t help our relationship that’s when things would go south. I told him all I want is his honesty because I’m a straightforward person and an honest person especially to someone I love so I expect that in return. All I wanted was to be happy and I tried my damn hardest to make him happy I even started changing myself to become someone else that I felt would benefit our relationship which anyone that knows me know that I’m very comfortable with who I am. I almost lost myself in the midst of it all. When we broke up he even tried making me stay. A lot of the times he would take me on extravagant trips or go the extra mile to do things that I like in bed to fix things. So this time after the break up he wanted to take me on a cruise to Costa Rica, a place that I always wanted to go. I had tears in my eyes and told him taking me to Costa Rica will not fix things. It’s kind of like covering up what needs to be fixed but not actually fixing the problem. He even had plans to buy a Catamaran (a type of boat) and wanted us to go live on a boat together. Said that he can’t wait to do that with me. But there are just too many things that he put me through that continued to break my heart over and over again. I just couldn’t take it anymore and the pain is too agonizing.
I had been more than forgiving towards him. My friends thought I was stupid for constantly taking him back but I kept making excuses for him. Never thought I would be that woman. There were messed up things he did that he didn’t know that I knew but I chose not to bring it up to keep our relationship above water. I will not put on here what he has done because I don’t think it matters. Like I said I know nice Leos my best friend/cousin is a Leo but I think I have had the bad one out of the bunch.
Just really want to know do Leo men acknowledge their wrongs? But I guess some one that’s selfish would never.click to expand
Posted by Black-MambaI'm AriesPosted by Southerness_
@RH01112019 you’ve said a handful. Your relationship with your Leo sounds like me and my Leo. I felt I had to walk on eggshells as well with him. It was exhausting.
Yes I have the same thought as you when you say that “it’s his turn to decide whether or not his love is bigger than his ego” Thanks for confirming because I felt like I’ve literally tried everything. Great wisdom and encouragement.
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Posted by Southerness_Same as me. I totally understand how you feel. For him, I'm never good enough. I have to tip toe walk on eggshell with him all the time. I left him on New Year's Eve. And, he purposely displayed on social media as if he's back to single and he's grateful for that. He just wants to make me hurt because I left him.
How do I move on? I left the state that I was living at with him and moved to another state to move on. But I just keep crying everyday and every night. I started to take sleeping pills so that I don’t have to feel the pain and sleep my sorrows away. Im not saying I’m perfect and everyone has their flaws but I was damn good to him. He would always tell me that I have a good heart. But he just refused to do what it takes to make me happy all while he’s draining me to make him happy.
Leo men do you acknowledge your faults and realize how you’ve hurted someone or are you too selfish to admit you are wrong? And do you fight for a relationship?
Leo man is so selfish, big ego and doesn't take a second to compromise.
After seeing those BS he did, I sent him last message that for him the love he had for me is just the idea he wants. He only like the idea of love and only like idea of a girlfriend, he never loves me for who I am. I told him that I love him but I can't do this anymore and I deleted his contact so that he doesn't have any tool or way to mess with my head. Then, he sent me text telling me he loves me and act as if there was nothing happened, no break-ups, no fighting,... But, I'm not going to fall for that. If Leo are mature enough in love, he needs to learn to put his ego aside and work on the relationship. Otherwise, it will be totally exhausted relationship to have and we will be their victim.
@Southerness_ all I want to say is.. if he does love you, he knows where to find you and how to make things right. If you think you already did your part, then it's his turn to decide whether or not his love is bigger than his ego. I hope you will get through this. You're not alone. And I would recommend that you love yourself first. He will come around, if not, I believe he will never ever find anyone else that loves him more than you. It's his lost.
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