A few possibilities that come to mind at the moment (good and bad):
You or your family/parents have notoriety.
You come from/have a heavy creative/artistic/musical background (parents/family, and now you); this was home.
Parent(s) were into escapism, were disabled in some fashion, or were otherwise unavailable; addictions, health issues. Situations that would lead to feeling alone, abandoned/separated, isolated. Situations where you were forced to take on adult responsibilities at a young age (such as having to look after self and/or sick/disabled parents/family and perhaps siblings, if you remained with them...).
Parents(s) also could have been in the healing arts.
Situations that left you vulnerable to abuse; serious violation of boundaries...
Moved around a lot...Or having that feeling that home is everywhere and nowhere at the same time, or that you are not of this world; that you don't feel at home on this planet. From feeling rootless/lost, to having truly connected to the Divine, and knowing where your real Home is...
Finding solace and support in those souls now residing on the higher planes. Having/maintaining those strong connections; dreams, visitations, astral travels, etc.
Connecting with those incarnated in this fashion as well.
Mediumship abilities, can be used to assist others (part of the healing arts).
Being an Empath with boundary issues...
You don't just feel things (and you pick up on everything), you can see it too...
Misunderstood by others (real and perceived).
Trouble defining and expressing these feelings/experiences (which could lead to further misunderstandings from others, and fuel a desire for unhealthy escapism or emotional disconnection altogether).
Suffer from chronic ailments, difficult to diagnose/treat (fibromyalgia, chronic fatigue, autoimmune, etc.) addictions/mental illness (depression). If not you, then you likely attract others like this to you.
Work in the healing arts as well, could include working in medicine (surgery/surgery related, ICU, CCU, ER, hospice), handling drugs (including anesthesia). Psychology and Metaphysics too.
Work or strong interest being in/around water. Things dealing with the atmosphere (including sensitivities); fluids (as in fluid dynamics), weather, etc. You might have an interest, or keen understanding of it, and perhaps unique abilities/gifts associated with this.
A real natural, but quiet charm, and beauty. You do attract attention, good and bad...Likely to attract all kinds of people to you, but particularly looking out for the wounded ones that feel like they can dump their emotional/psychological baggage on you. People feel comfortable around you; close to you, like they know you; like they can open up to you, or like they can relate to you.
Easy for others to project on to you.
Need a lot of alone time.
Have to watch out for unhealthy attachments and users (ties into boundary issues)...
Leave it at just friends, no benefits....
I can tell what I've been watching/listening to on youtube lately (besides music); the breakdown and discussion of Cluster B personality disorders (and how to deal with these people), boating, fishing, veterinary medicine, brain surgeries, astrology, fossil collecting, and other career related stuff.
You could take some reading material with you; science, sci-fi, psycho thrillers, metaphysics/spirituality, philosophy, finances...
Or hell, take up painting/drawing/some form of art.
Or you could take up a musical instrument, or have some vocal lessons...
Or you could design and build your own furnishings...
Or you could go work out, get into some sports...
Or you could go volunteer at your local animal sanctuary, then start your own...
Or you could go volunteer at your local hospital...
Or you could go back to school and obtain another degree/certification...
Or you could go get a second or third job (if you don't already have one), then start your own business...
So many "Taurusy" type activities you could get into.
Or if you feel like doing nothing, you can look up all of the above on youtube.
Go outside and explore the world...enjoy the outdoors...
He's emotionally unavailable.
The End.