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Posted by pisceswoman123
Learning from my mistakes... I would just wait for him.

That is were I am now. Backing up and trying to be very patient until he comes back again.

It is frustrating like hell. I'm not that kind of woman who can lay back and wait, but that's what I did for 2 months then I don't know why he decided to answer to a text I sent after that time and we agreed to meet.

I have the feeling that he is a player, but I'm gonna see it for myself and gonna have a good time in those days.

Try video chat and arranging a meeting so you can see who you are dealing with. Through texts and even video chat can make you look different, but by meeting him you get a little help from your gut feeling. That's what I'm hoping for too. So far it seems like gonna be 3 days sex : )))
If I really care for someone I don't give up and move on until I know I did everything I could.

Even if it doesn't work out the way I wanted at least I know I did my best. And if I know there is nothing left I may be a mess for a few days then I get tired of myself wining and move on smile)

Although it is true that sometimes memories hit me and that can give me a hard time
Posted by IndependentArtisticLady
Chart at the bottom:

We met 3 years ago on a social media and we've been replying to each other very rarely. We exchanged phone numbers about 2 years ago, we've been texting, but not everyday. Every once in a while.

We had this thing going on where we send memes and it became a competition to find the best one. We had a kick out of it. But we would text once every 2-3 weeks.

Last week, he told me he had just broken up with his lady friend. After telling me he was single when I asked months ago. He made it seem like it wasn't serious. They only had sex once in 8 months. They hung out more than anything.

We started talking about why once in 8 months and the discussion turned to sex. The next day, he texted me really early in the morning to tell me he had furiously masturbated after I turned him on.

We kept talking, and talking for the next couple days after. From the moment we both woke up to we went to bed. It's like he couldn't live without me. Telling me everything he was doing. Keeping me updated on everything. We made plans to meet, we talked about seeing movies together, activities, sexual plans. I'm pretty wild, he told me he wanted to learn and try new things.

I told him I was busy a few times due to work but I replied very often that's it. I played it cool after reading they love to chase. Not responding right away to keep him on his toes. But never in a cold way. I showed interests.

2 days ago, we sexted again and afterward, we talked for 2 hours about a show he was watching that I really like.

Then, next day, yesterday. Nothing.

So around dinner I texted him asking. Hey haven't heard from you today, what's up with that? He apologized saying what he had done that day, we talked a little but nothing more. He just answered rather than keeping the talk alive.

Today, nothing so far.

I really like this guy. I have for a while, but during these 3 years, I didn't chase him. I staying on his rhythm. But the past days were really fun and he told me he was into it. I just don't understans his silence now. What should I do?

He is an Aries man, with moon in Aquarius, mercury in Pisces, Venus in Taurus.

I'm a Capricorn, ascendant Gemini, moon in Pisces, mercury in sag, Venus in Cap.

What does he need? Me to talk to him or wait for him?
I am in a similar situation with an Aries guy. Just can't seem to figure out what does he want from me. He is going hot and cold. Now cold again smile) the longest period without any contact was 2 months. It's becoming kinda amusing already.

I decided not to stress about it. We agreed to meet and spend a weekend together so I guess I will see from there.

So I guess we both just have to play it cool and see where it leads. This back and forth game should be working, so they say.

Just stay confident I'm sure he will come to you.

Good luck with him!
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Posted by Amethyst27
Well I heard about them to be straightforward and honest. Although they can be such a player, so it is said about them.

Now my particular man I'm interested in (we have not met yet because of a great distance ) seemed to be very interested in me too, it was even like that thing we call too good to be true. Planning on meeting and spending time together then he disappears for a long time, and then come back apologising for his behavior saying that he didn't know what to say or wasn't fair promising anything because now his return is delayed ...

Also many people say they experienced the same behavior from time to time and they tend to come back

Do they mass around with people and their head for fun or they really mean what they say when they say it, as it is also said about them

Thank you for your answer
Aries men do love to play, they really do.. he probably was being honest with u , u guys are far away from each other .. Aries men can be very direct
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We scheduled a meeting so we gonna spend a weekend together. I'll see for myself if he is playing, it's difficult to tell through texts and Skype but hopefully I'll sense it in person. People really can pretend to be anyone so I choose to be skeptical but still optimistic. They say a lot of good things about Aries men so I guess soon I'm gonna find out.

Well I heard about them to be straightforward and honest. Although they can be such a player, so it is said about them.

Now my particular man I'm interested in (we have not met yet because of a great distance ) seemed to be very interested in me too, it was even like that thing we call too good to be true. Planning on meeting and spending time together then he disappears for a long time, and then come back apologising for his behavior saying that he didn't know what to say or wasn't fair promising anything because now his return is delayed ...

Also many people say they experienced the same behavior from time to time and they tend to come back

Do they mass around with people and their head for fun or they really mean what they say when they say it, as it is also said about them

Thank you for your answer
Posted by nikkistar
Seriously? People really put up with this type of behavior from someone?

People need to start having standards for themselves that don't amount to "I'll take whatever I can get".
I see your point and you are right. It's just he seemed honest when he apologized for his behavior. Before all this it all was amazing so I decided to give him a second chance.

We agreed if we wanted to date someone else we would let the other one know.
I know. And I appreciate your answers. I just feel like I can't give up on it before actually giving it a chance.
Hello everyone!

I'll try to make it short because it is quite complicated.

So I met a guy online and we were having a great time. He kept telling me how much he wants to meet me and spend as much time together as possible. He is from US, I am from Europe so it is not making it any easier. He was supposed to come back so we thought we were going to have a few months together. He even started talking about a possible future together and me moving to the states. Then suddenly he vanished, for almost 2 months I had no words about him. A few days ago I texted him, but I didn't really expected an answer but he did text me back so at least I had to opportunity to ask why did he disappear like that. He said he found out he is not coming back for quite a while and it wasn't fair promising me all those things and he didn't know what to say. He apologized for that and he said he still wants to be with me and he told me he didn't really get why am I still so nice to him because he doesn't deserve it after how he treated me.

Anyway long story short. I'm having a trip with my family in the US to visit some relatives and we agreed that I am going to fly to the city he is deployed now and we gonna spend a weekend together.

With having the tickets in my hand it all become real and honestly I am a little anxious about it.

I like him very much and against the odds I would be really happy if we could figure things out. So if you have any suggestions or advice I'm happy to hear them.

Thanks ?
Hey. Sorry. It was me. Still new here, didn't know you have to create a new topic all the time. I hid the message so it won't screw yours up any more. Sorry again

Hope everything is gonna be fine with you and your guy!
Hello again.

So the guy I told you about now reappeared after almost 2 months. I wasn't expecting it at all. He said he found out he was not coming back until December and he didn't know what to say, and he was thinking that it was unfair to me that he promised all those things.

I told him that it hurt me, and he could've just told me what's going on. He apologized and said he still wants to be with me and asked if I'm sure that I still want to make an effort for all this. He was kind of amazed that why I was talking so nice to him after what he did.

Anyway long story short, I'm going to the states for a family trip and we agreed that I will fly to the city where he is working now.

Suddenly it all got real, having the tickets in my hand, but can't help being a little anxious about it.

Any Aries guy/girl or anyone who could just give me some advice would be very much appreciated.
Yes I guess you are right. I just don't get this kind of behavior.

Anyway, he will be back in August and honestly I doubt that he would miss the opportunity to meet me in person even if out of curiosity and then I'm going to knock him off his feet hopefully making him think it was all his idea smile)

The leo is coming out again Big Grin
I am a leo woman and I like having good sex in a relationship. I love spoiling my partner and seeing how much they enjoy the time together. I can't speak for all leo women, but I can say I am open to my partner's desires and I like trying out all kind of positions and moving out of the bedroom surprising him with little naughty acts and quickies Tongue

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Hello everyone! I'll try to make it short because it is quite complicated. So I met a guy online and we were having a great time. He kept telling me how much he wants to meet me and spend as much time together as possible. He is from US, I am from Europ
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