Well I heard about them to be straightforward and honest. Although they can be such a player, so it is said about them.
Now my particular man I'm interested in (we have not met yet because of a great distance ) seemed to be very interested in me too, it was even like that thing we call too good to be true. Planning on meeting and spending time together then he disappears for a long time, and then come back apologising for his behavior saying that he didn't know what to say or wasn't fair promising anything because now his return is delayed ...
Also many people say they experienced the same behavior from time to time and they tend to come back
Do they mass around with people and their head for fun or they really mean what they say when they say it, as it is also said about them
Thank you for your answer
I know. And I appreciate your answers. I just feel like I can't give up on it before actually giving it a chance.
Hello everyone!
I'll try to make it short because it is quite complicated.
So I met a guy online and we were having a great time. He kept telling me how much he wants to meet me and spend as much time together as possible. He is from US, I am from Europe so it is not making it any easier. He was supposed to come back so we thought we were going to have a few months together. He even started talking about a possible future together and me moving to the states. Then suddenly he vanished, for almost 2 months I had no words about him. A few days ago I texted him, but I didn't really expected an answer but he did text me back so at least I had to opportunity to ask why did he disappear like that. He said he found out he is not coming back for quite a while and it wasn't fair promising me all those things and he didn't know what to say. He apologized for that and he said he still wants to be with me and he told me he didn't really get why am I still so nice to him because he doesn't deserve it after how he treated me.
Anyway long story short. I'm having a trip with my family in the US to visit some relatives and we agreed that I am going to fly to the city he is deployed now and we gonna spend a weekend together.
With having the tickets in my hand it all become real and honestly I am a little anxious about it.
I like him very much and against the odds I would be really happy if we could figure things out. So if you have any suggestions or advice I'm happy to hear them.
Thanks ?
Hey. Sorry. It was me. Still new here, didn't know you have to create a new topic all the time. I hid the message so it won't screw yours up any more. Sorry again
Hope everything is gonna be fine with you and your guy!
Hello again.
So the guy I told you about now reappeared after almost 2 months. I wasn't expecting it at all. He said he found out he was not coming back until December and he didn't know what to say, and he was thinking that it was unfair to me that he promised all those things.
I told him that it hurt me, and he could've just told me what's going on. He apologized and said he still wants to be with me and asked if I'm sure that I still want to make an effort for all this. He was kind of amazed that why I was talking so nice to him after what he did.
Anyway long story short, I'm going to the states for a family trip and we agreed that I will fly to the city where he is working now.
Suddenly it all got real, having the tickets in my hand, but can't help being a little anxious about it.
Any Aries guy/girl or anyone who could just give me some advice would be very much appreciated.