anotherpisceswoman joined January 07, 2006
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as other people have said, mine is very accurate, and when i ignore it i find out i'm right usually by the consequences i face...very painful really, but usually right on the mark..
Your True Sign Is Cancer
Cozy
Moody
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Traditional
Ultra-Sensitive
Unable to Let Go
The Most Loving Ever
Intuitive and Imaginative
Cozy
Moody
Romantic
Traditional
Ultra-Sensitive
Unable to Let Go
The Most Loving Ever
Intuitive and Imaginative
i;m laughing out loud in work reading P-angels post. where do you live?
i live in new Jersey, (and by the way, no one i know here says "Joisey" and we do not all know or act like Tony Soprano...I've been mostly to the tropics(hell we're fish aren't we?) puerto rico, st maarten(MY FAVORITE) the Bahamas, St Thomas, Antiqa...if i ever strike it rich all i will do is travel all around the world on cruise ships...love cruising, love the ocean, guess i'm a true pisces
i live in new Jersey, (and by the way, no one i know here says "Joisey" and we do not all know or act like Tony Soprano...I've been mostly to the tropics(hell we're fish aren't we?) puerto rico, st maarten(MY FAVORITE) the Bahamas, St Thomas, Antiqa...if i ever strike it rich all i will do is travel all around the world on cruise ships...love cruising, love the ocean, guess i'm a true pisces
hey P, i've been ok...going through lots of letting go life changes, you know..the usual dramas and traumas....happy one day, distressed the next...is it just me or is everyone's life a friggin roller coaster? i swear i don't know from one day to the next how i will feel. try to keep a positve spin on things and truly believe i'll get to some kind of spiritual okayness, but just enjoying the good times and getting through and hopefully learning through the tough ones. how are you?
i haven't posted on this in a long time but check in every once in awhile and this caught my eye...my pisces intuition, if you want to call it that,is almost 100% accurate but like P-angel I also chose/choose to ignore it at the time. I was just thinking about this the other day re: someone from years ago who i had no real legitimate reason to distrust, he just took one out of the ordinary turns driving one night going to a restaurant down a street where his old high school girlfriend lived. i didn't know this at the time, but FELT immediately that something was up....i'll never forget that feeling, i even told him about it, i think he was surprised to say the least, and sure enough, very shortly after that, i found out they were emailing, calling each other etc and then he made things so unbearable that we fought all the time thus giving him the reason to break up, pursue the old girlfriend, without any guilt. but that's just one story, i have many many many...it's a gift on one hand, and a curse on the other i feel, because i see things sometimes that i truly truly don't want to see, and know that if i ignore it i will pay the price
at first i was going to ask you heidi if you were dating the aries guy i got rid of over a month ago...that was his MO the 9 months we were together, i grew to despise him truly because of his constant need for reassurance. i couldn't even get my nails done without him being "hurt" that i didn't want to spend the time with him. he was "hurt" about everything that didn't have to do with him being the best, greatest, most wanted/needed and desired guy in the world...oh and also smartest...couldn't even talk about anything that wasn't "intellectual" and if I ever ever ever disagreed with him about anything he would argue for hours how right he was in his opinion until i'd just give up because it got so boring and he'd get so "hurt" i keep using the word hurt because that is what he would inevevitably end up saying he was, somehow everything and everybody all came back to him. Now i'm not assuming every aries is as insecure and needy as this guy is but since i broke up with him over a month ago, i feel soooooooooooooo free, i used to feel so obligated, so guilty, over nothing! Good luck with this guy, i hope he lightens up
mine is March 3rd, my son's is March 9th...every pisces i've met has been a good down to earth and yet spiritual person in many ways
never thought of her that way, do like some of her music though, she's a pretty cool lady...
Happy Rodent?...that's funny..why do you think that?
thanks for your comments ladies, and yes..i AM doing the smart thing and getting out...it's actually almost comical our conversations now, he's so involved with the paperwork involved with his father and such that he calls and i watch tv while he talks on and on and on and i interject with "uh huh" and "oh yeah?" things like that...a good friend of mine who was married to a guy like this years ago said to me last week that he will hang on as long as i will let him, and i said, no way, he's GOT to see how bad we are together...but..she may be right...you see, he also likes to flaunt his possessions(which aren't many) and brag about what he has, and i think he sees me as a "trophy" I'm not bragging but i am pretty attractive, and intelligent etc so for him to have me as "his" is such an accomplishment for him...I won't go on with this much longer, just through the holidays, He's actually making it quite easy for me, because he goes up to his fathers every weekend which is a few hundred miles away, and all week is so busy with the medicaid matters, (which by the way i offered to help him with a few weeks ago and he just kept saying no UNTIL one night when he knew i had plans and THEN he asked me to help him. See that's how he is, he sets up things where i can disappoint him and then he can get mad. But i swear he was NOT like this in the beginning...he was sweet and kind and fun etc...now he's just an albatross around my neck, and as i said, sorry, I will not be broken. oh did i mention he acts like he's 89 years old? goes to bed at nine, gets up at 3, but SWEARS that he would do something with me every night but its ME who's preventing that...HUH???? ok enough venting, thank you all, I really am doing quite well, in the long run it's been a good experience because it's really opened my eyes to who I am, and that truthfully, I'm really really ok...the old I'd rather have no one than this bullshit applies
samr here, and just recently had the same epiphany truly for the first time ever, i realized that I'm really pretty ok as I am...and what i have to give, either to other people or myself is honest, true, and loving. and I feel wonderful, no longer looking at the world, my future(or the past) and thinking, that whatever is not so great is going to be forever... i ran into a good friend of mine the other day who i haven't seen in a few months who said when he first saw me "you look great, you look so relaxed" and it really is because for the first time I'm accepting who I am, realizing that who I am is not so bad, and if other people want to change that, well tough shit, the line from the I think Bonnie Raitt song says "I will not be broken" and that is exactly how I feel, because for months someone has been trying to do just that, and i was allowing it, until ta da! the ephinany!...maybe there's something in the air for we fishes
"talking is almost impossible isnt it? when they dont wanna hear it.........they just give up listening........and the more you get to the heart of it........the more they back off. mine has this kind of martyr act.........when we discuss things and i mention a negative in relation to his behaviour..........it's always......yeah, it's ALL MY fault....i'm a BAD MAN......blah, blah........"
Roxi I LOVE what you just said, I started with this Aries guy almost nine months ago, at first it was lovely lovely lovely, flowers and romance, i went through a difficult summer with work and he patiently listened, BUT totally disagreed with how i was handling it, he figured i should just up and leave, neither of us are kids mind you, we're both older, grown up kids etc, but i still have two of mine on my medical so i can't just "up and leave" long story short, he has shown his true colors, nothing is EVER his fault, we can NEVER discuss anything because that means "I'm living in the past" he is always right and i should just listen in awe to all his knowledge(by the way, he's a car mechanic and I work in the stock market) i find nothing wrong with being a car mechanic BUT i think he is always trying to prove how intelligent he is because of his insecurities and low self esteem. bottom line, he's totally boring and a drip, he is too "above" just going out and having fun, and as i said, nothing is ever his fault but everything everything everything i say or do is about him, even if i am talking about something totally unrelated to him, somehow if i'm unhappy he says it must be his fault. and we went on a trip together and he got kind've drunk, was totally obnoxious cause "he's just not into the people on the ship" and violently came out onto the balcony, in the middle of the ocean and slammed the door twice on purpose, broke it, scared the shit out of me, and when i confronted him about it after he totally lost his temper, his reaction when i said i was frightened was that "you reacted wrong"
ok thanks, just had to vent...i will be dropping him soon, it's just that his father is dying right now, it's Christmastime(which he hates), but i am just still so amazed that a person could be like him, i have never ever ever been with anyone even romotely like him,he needs someone with no job,(but she'd have to be self-supporting somehow)but then he'd hate her cause she had more money than him, she has to have no kids, no responsibilites, no friends, basically no life so she c
Roxi I LOVE what you just said, I started with this Aries guy almost nine months ago, at first it was lovely lovely lovely, flowers and romance, i went through a difficult summer with work and he patiently listened, BUT totally disagreed with how i was handling it, he figured i should just up and leave, neither of us are kids mind you, we're both older, grown up kids etc, but i still have two of mine on my medical so i can't just "up and leave" long story short, he has shown his true colors, nothing is EVER his fault, we can NEVER discuss anything because that means "I'm living in the past" he is always right and i should just listen in awe to all his knowledge(by the way, he's a car mechanic and I work in the stock market) i find nothing wrong with being a car mechanic BUT i think he is always trying to prove how intelligent he is because of his insecurities and low self esteem. bottom line, he's totally boring and a drip, he is too "above" just going out and having fun, and as i said, nothing is ever his fault but everything everything everything i say or do is about him, even if i am talking about something totally unrelated to him, somehow if i'm unhappy he says it must be his fault. and we went on a trip together and he got kind've drunk, was totally obnoxious cause "he's just not into the people on the ship" and violently came out onto the balcony, in the middle of the ocean and slammed the door twice on purpose, broke it, scared the shit out of me, and when i confronted him about it after he totally lost his temper, his reaction when i said i was frightened was that "you reacted wrong"
ok thanks, just had to vent...i will be dropping him soon, it's just that his father is dying right now, it's Christmastime(which he hates), but i am just still so amazed that a person could be like him, i have never ever ever been with anyone even romotely like him,he needs someone with no job,(but she'd have to be self-supporting somehow)but then he'd hate her cause she had more money than him, she has to have no kids, no responsibilites, no friends, basically no life so she c
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