ANRivas joined June 11, 2013
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"Sun libra, Moon cancer, Venus virgo"
"Sun libra, Moon cancer, Venus virgo"
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^everything said here. And by non-libras at that! lol
Well not all libras have a problem with straight forward- i really appreciate it in fact- but i cannot tolerate rudeness, cruelty, and harsh criticisms of people who do not deserve them. I also dislike insincerity, so as Tiziani said, be yourself at all times, and if you still can't connect, there are plenty of other friend-fish in the sea!
Like someone else said, everyone's got their own issues (many that we won't even acknowledge) so if you think you will find someone without any baggage you're in for a life of either fooling yourself about your partner or total solitude.
In my opinion, relationships are for growing and learning from and with another person...not for us to be heroes, but for us to realize that we all have room for improvement and wounds to be healed. I think it's wrong to even see others as "damaged" people who need to be rescued or fixed; they are just people with issues like everyone in the world.
People with problems that need professional help like addictions, serious anger issues, being physically abusive, mental disorders etc. should not be in relationships at all until they've gotten help, but other than that, it's a case-by-case thing for me.
In my opinion, relationships are for growing and learning from and with another person...not for us to be heroes, but for us to realize that we all have room for improvement and wounds to be healed. I think it's wrong to even see others as "damaged" people who need to be rescued or fixed; they are just people with issues like everyone in the world.
People with problems that need professional help like addictions, serious anger issues, being physically abusive, mental disorders etc. should not be in relationships at all until they've gotten help, but other than that, it's a case-by-case thing for me.
Posted by ellessque
some self-proclaimed nice guys aren't nice guys at all.
Yup.
Many self-proclaimed "nice guys" tend to be more asshole-ish because they believe they deserve more attention/love from women and can be bitter and angry when they don't get it. They'll usually think/say something along the lines of "i'm a nice guy and women still don't fall at my feet therefore they're all shallow bitches and want to be mistreated"...not always that harsh but you get the point. It's usually this attitude(and whatever about them that actually made them undesirable in the first place) that scares women away. Sometimes, though, women do have those too-good-to-be-true issues or that idea that relationship drama=passion and love. It just depends on the two people.
But really, what does "nice guy" even mean?
Posted by narbilPosted by Hails26
Update; So I hit all issues on the head and now he wants to move out and leave, claiming he's damaged, that I'll never accept his children (I will if they weren't so emotionally manpulative) and that it's best we go out separate ways.
So he wants to run because I know the truth? or he got caught out. He plays the victim card really well actually.
So is it too brazen of me to ask for him to pay half of this months rent as he has been living there and half of the utility bill as again he has been living there?
I don't want him to leave, but his bullbutter is utter bullbutter, do I let him go or stroke his ego and tell him I really want him to stay so we can work it all out
Is he really the victim if you've mentioned to him this disdain you have for his children?
No wonder he kept a lid on it.
Choose whatever path you desire. No one here will have a better answer than you 2.click to expand
Completely agree.
Aside from the financial issues, i don't believe any single parent should stay with someone who doesn't like/accept their kids.
If he lived there for only half the month and is already out, he should pay less than half of the bills, but if he stays for the rest of the month, it would be fair to ask him for what he usually contributes.
Posted by Shescomeundone
I am a libra woman, in love with a Virgo man.. Looking for I sights... It seems all the threads here are about Libra men... Lets here from Libra woman! Who do you find yourself attracted to and why? Are you jealous like me? Possessive? Airhead? I wanna know I'm not alone!!!
Like someone else said, women just complain more lol. But to answer your questions...
I find myself most attracted to taurean men. I sometimes find virgo men attractive but they are usually not my type. I can have feelings of jealousy sometimes, but ultimately i know it's the most useless emotion to have. I am most certainly not an airhead! Lol! I can have my moments like everyone else though.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by ANRivas
seriously.
Given you're a Libra female, your input and commentary on the subject of the males is invalid. The men and women are like night and day and some of you ladies do nothing but perpetuate dating myths and it's getting really old. I may be mean and bitchy, but at least I'm looking out for their overall well being and not being a shit stirrer.
Your silly ass may not like what I have to say, but I'll be the last one to feed anyone ANY sort of delusion when it comes to the behavior of males and the extremes that it can go to when it comes to dating and relating. This chick is already showing typical signs of a female falling into the usual bullshit. So far, she's yet to give examples of ACTIONS that show he's truly interested, which is what her primary concern is. She loves the attention and is now allowing herself to fall for a guy who doesn't seem to be genuinely interested.
Now shoo. The adults are talking. Your little, immature digs are getting to be old meme.click to expand
lolllll ok so let's break down all the nonsense here.
If the fact that i am not a libra man made my opinions on them invalid, what exactly are you posting yours all over this board for since they must also be invalid? You have an opinion on them because you have known libra men, just as i have.
Secondly, you are not just mean and bitchy, you are cynical and jaded, which you confuse for "just looking out for someone" like every other jerk on the planet. Please. I am all for being honest about the male libras- and i WAS here, actually- but the girl posted here about someone flirting and you immediately come in with "he's full of shit and it will never work." We all know libras come off as flirts, but you take it to a level that speaks more to your own pain from a libra than truth about libras.
And that was no "immature dig." i agreed with the person i quoted, so i quoted him, just like everyone else on this site does. Get over it. And get over yourself with this "i get my bitchy opinion and everyone who disagrees is just being dishonest" bullshit.
Posted by tiziani
I wouldn't say Caps are boring but certainly a lot of them have the kind of outward demeanour that makes me think they'd rather be elsewhere. First impressions can be deceptive, however. Caps and Libras operate on the same vibe under the surface on some things. If we went all on appearance (which Libras are known to do) there's a lot of room for misunderstanding.
All of this. Also, libras don't shrug at the problems of their significant others...the ones i know don't, at least. In fact, we often get accused of being too involved and trying to problem solve for others too much, although that may just be the women.
To answer your first questions, libra men like to flirt and have fun like every other healthy and fun-loving person on the planet...but that's often all it is when they are younger, and libras usually don't even see being charming as flirting. Also, we all have this idea that if someone's got lots of positive traits there must be something terribly wrong if they're not in a relationship, when it may just be that they are trying to enjoy their lives and freedom. If you think he does like you though, just show your interest and openness to him and he'll make a move if he's also interested.
Posted by maz777Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by CQ19
and if not how could a relationship between a cap and libra work out?
no negative caps and libras don't match just postive feedbacks please
The fuck?
"I want to hear what I want to hear!"
Seriously, do you really want advice or just lala land words that'll make your lady bits tingle because you can't stand the idea that this guy is a tease and isn't into you. :/
That aside, Libras are cockteases of the zodiac. It's annoying.
And he's single because he wants to be. When they're that charming and remain single, it's because they want to go and play. Either that or it could be a scenario where they're just too caught up in life stresses/job related things that take up a ton of their time and they aren't in the mindset to be in a relationship. ...in the meantime, they play around to get their rocks off.
And if by chance he isn't single and still does this, again, see my point about them being cockteases. It boosts the ego to flirt around. I've known quite a few who do that crap and are in relationships.
Don't fawn over him too much. You're likely one of many.
Did a Libra forget to tickle your clit? Let her have her fun being charmed by a Libra. She could be happy one day.click to expand
seriously.
Not to be rude, but if you think he is a no good liar you can't communicate with, why do you want him to come back? You also more or less answered your own question in another thread...
Posted by Hails26
So still no confessions about said Bond money for ruined property, found out that the debt has been paid out and that Libra man paid it out without letting me know from his wages.
I ask how the outcome is going with child support only to get that it's in the hands of the welfare payment people and they haven't contacted him, which is contry to what I know, they have contacted him plenty.
This is all getting very twisted and un-comfortable now, we live together and I want to ask him politely to tell me everything or move out, but he'll have no where else to move to now because of his job and I know for a fact that his wages has been going to pay off this debt so his ex and child don't have any black marks against their name to rent in the future.
And to top it all off his older children keep asking for money, not small amounts mind you and he doesn't advise me of this?????
If he paid the bond without telling you, he wasn't trying to deceive you necessarily, just handle it on his own and save embarrassment. However, the child support lie is why i said that he needed to be confronted head-on in a way that wouldn't allow him to bullshit you- I have friends going through child support issues so i know that it's absolutely not in the hands of welfare.
Also, although (i assume) you are splitting expenses with him, you knew that he had kids when you moved in with him, and kids need money. His kids are his problem so he might not see a reason to tell you they're asking for it. Honestly, as long as he is keeping up with his obligations I don't see a problem there (or a reason to know where the rest of his money is going), but the lying is an issue...guys with several kids are just complicated to deal with because everyone has to be taken care of. I'm honestly not sure what i would do in your place. It's just a matter of what you can handle- not in an "either you're weak or strong" way, but in a "wow, this is a lot of baggage" way, if that makes sense.
Posted by size zero superheroPosted by tiziani
I can't say I take marriage all that seriously anymore. It's an adventure and there to be enjoyed like anything else, but I'm glad I dodged a couple of bullets when younger.
Vincent Cassel and Monica Bellucci.
Vincent Cassel & Monica Bellucci are getting divorced, according to recent news(allegedly had an open marriage in the first place).click to expand
Even free, "open-marriages" end in divorce...because what the hell was the point of marrying in the first place?
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