aqua-baby joined November 14, 2005
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Hey, just after a bit of feedback really..just broken up with my boyfriend after 5 years and although it was my choice I am unable to detach myself as quickly as I would like, I'm finding it very difficult. We have been through a lot but last week I decided I had enough.. Quickly changed my number hopin I would just be okay and now I'm struggling.. He's a libra and won't accept it but although it was a relief at the time I miss him badyly and find myself in tears a lot. Just want to know what you experiences were and if you had difficulties layin the past to rest
Thank you P-angle for all your replies they mean alot, believe me. I will take on board everything you have said talk with him and see how things go x x
so confused right now lol!!!
Hi Ashleysagstar - hope you are well. I know I cut him very deeply, we have briefly spoken about it he has said that I broke his heart so I can imagine that he is very wary now. I am extreamly guarded too especially after what I have been through in the last couple of months (see your inbox!!!). I thought that I would never ever want to be with anyone again! but with him I am willing to take that risk.
Im just going to talk to him when the time is right I will have a talk with him.
Im just going to talk to him when the time is right I will have a talk with him.
Thank you for for all your replies. I really do like this guy a lot.. even though its been 10 years he has always been in my heart and when I see if my heart and knees just go. I haven't expressed to him how I feel, so your proabably right he doesn't know. If I was to get with him I wouldn't want it to be based on just sex because that is not for me, although he does always bring it up Im not too sure thats all he wants from me. I will speak and meet up with him and see how it goes. I will come back with an update x x x x
Okay I will x Thanx
Sorry I didn't put that right... my brothers girlfriend has just become a mum and we were discussing it and he said that when will I be making my brother an uncle, so I said that when the time is right and with the right person, he said he totally agrees and would like to become a father too but he would like to be married as he see that as the only the right way. Sorry about that!
Thanx for the advice X I dont want it to be just about that as I have never been in anything like that before and I know it just wont work for me. I would also never go through what I went through when I was 18.... he asked me when do I want to become a mum and I just said when it is the right time and with the right person. I'll let you know how I get on x x
Thanks Gemgal... He asked me round to watch a dvd and just to chill, I said I know this is stupid but im nervous! He just laughed and said around me? but said if I change my mind just let him know... haven't heard from him and im climbing the walls! I will talk to him and see what happens x
I was just after a lil help and I was wondering if you could help me out!
Okay I was with this Pisces guy about 10 years ago, I was 18 and he was 21 at the time. Everything was great and and sweet until I fell pregnant, unfortunately at the time due to family pressure I did not go through with the pregnancy. My Pisces guy was very very hurt as he wanted us to have the child but at the time I just couldn't! A month later he ended the relationship because of my actions I was devastated and it took me about a year to get over him fully.
Okay rewind to 9 years later and I Bumped into him. I was with someone at the time, but my heart was racing when I saw him.. I just about managed to say hello lol!!!
Anyway I ended my last relationship due to multiple reasons and in between this time my ex (Pisces) guy got in touch. We still get on really well, however he keeps refering to the sex life that we had and he would like to have that again! The thing is I would like a relationship along with this, but I am finding it very hard to read him at the moment.. I told him that if we do go back then I know for a fact that old feeling will pop up... he says he fully understands that. We speak all the time and I can feel myself starting to full for him again. We have the same wants out of life and I know we would be great together but the messages I get is that he maybe emotionally unavailable at the moment..... do I be honest with him or just wait for him to mention something. I know I have been really honest in this post but it would be nice to get straight opinions from people Thanks xx
Okay I was with this Pisces guy about 10 years ago, I was 18 and he was 21 at the time. Everything was great and and sweet until I fell pregnant, unfortunately at the time due to family pressure I did not go through with the pregnancy. My Pisces guy was very very hurt as he wanted us to have the child but at the time I just couldn't! A month later he ended the relationship because of my actions I was devastated and it took me about a year to get over him fully.
Okay rewind to 9 years later and I Bumped into him. I was with someone at the time, but my heart was racing when I saw him.. I just about managed to say hello lol!!!
Anyway I ended my last relationship due to multiple reasons and in between this time my ex (Pisces) guy got in touch. We still get on really well, however he keeps refering to the sex life that we had and he would like to have that again! The thing is I would like a relationship along with this, but I am finding it very hard to read him at the moment.. I told him that if we do go back then I know for a fact that old feeling will pop up... he says he fully understands that. We speak all the time and I can feel myself starting to full for him again. We have the same wants out of life and I know we would be great together but the messages I get is that he maybe emotionally unavailable at the moment..... do I be honest with him or just wait for him to mention something. I know I have been really honest in this post but it would be nice to get straight opinions from people Thanks xx
Thank you ashleysagstar for your kind words - it means so much to me.
Thanks so much ashleysagstar for your message and kind words, I really appreciate it... I will read it over and over as the words are so inspirational. I keep thinking about the time they shared and you are right it is tearing me apart... I really would love it to work and if it makes us stronger then that would be a bonus but there will be a lot of work...
I just need to work on myself and try and become stong again before I even begin to think about forgiving him and taking him back. Thanks again babe x
I just need to work on myself and try and become stong again before I even begin to think about forgiving him and taking him back. Thanks again babe x
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