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Posted by ConqueredVirgo
Onward with my "Psychology of the Taurus Mind" research, I'm brought to other scenarios which are very interesting to dissect. Here's am example of how a Taurus may maneuver plans to obtain the object they desire. Most people make decisions to either a) avoid pain or b) experience pleasure. Many also value one of the following more than the others.
1- Significance
2- Certainty
3- Uncertainty/Variety
4- Connection and Love
5- Growth
6- Contribution
A Taurus woman or man may develop an attachment to someone, due to needing #1 & #2 most in their life. Realizing the excitement of having someone to become consumed by, who is "permanent" and makes them feel important completes their wish list, and they thus have found "the target" of their love.
In the natural progression of emotion, he/she speaks of making plans with the pursued individual, discussing the future while imagining themselves together. They meet finally, after some length of building the attachment through verbal means. Taurus experiences intimacy with the person. Typically the emotion of fear/risk can override the senses and cause the Taurus to retreat back to a safe space. They may feel flooded with emotion, so they panic and pull away. He or she may use the line, "I don't love you", or "You feel more for me than I do for you", or, "I love you but not enough", in order to apply the brakes and mask the overwhelming emotion (also common). They may even make the person feel unjustified in having special, deep emotion. They may cause the person to question their judgement, or make them feel imbalanced.
The Taurus may feel that the loss of emotional control causes them severe distress. In order to proceed, they may apply tactics to keep the other person hanging on so as not to lose them, while they balance emotion. Simultaneously they realize, the object of their affection may leave, increasing anxiety and instability.
If you are in love and the intensity of a sexual experience has caused you to retreat, what would the expectation be? Would you EXPECT or presume that the other person will pursue you? Would you prepare for a severing of the relationship, knowing that you are perhaps going to do damage by retreating to handle your emotions? What is the best method you've used to push a person away (sabotage) in order to maintain self preservation and protection from pain?
Thanks for any who are willing to contribute.
You are only going to send yourself mad girl!.
Stop trying to psychoanalyse your taurus as you are just working out ways to try and get him to commit to you. Likewise, forget gameplaying like manipulating him into a chase after you type of thing.
If he has feelings...give him time to process them. He will then come to you. Live your life...forget about worrying about what he is thinking. All this deep analysis will turn you into something he wont recognise. You CANNOT force a taurus and any kind of manipulation will backfire on you BADLY (even if it is only...analysing the situation to make it work in your favour).
Sit back, breathe, focus on your own road and be insanely phenomenally patient..... and hopefully he will realise you are what he needs. One year in every other signs time is a day in taurus time.
Posted by ParkourlerI think we can count very busty in the ultra feminine quality 😂👍
I forgot: My girlfriend must be VERY busty. like Christina Hendricks.
Bull men - What are the 3 top qualities or characteristics do you want to be known to possess. And, what are the top 3 qualities/characteristics you want in your ideal woman?
Posted by jeaneNowt wrong with that... why @jeane...you are English! Yorkshire?
i think you were just being honest. nowt wrong with that.
Posted by jeane
i think you were just being honest. nowt wrong with that.
With a taurus.... say what you mean and mean what you say. Then accept the fact that what may take any other sign a short time to think about and act (or not).... will take a taurus a millennium to ponder, ruminate, consider and then they decide. .. time works differently for them and once they make a decision. ..they stick to it. Do not rush a taurus or demand they change their mind...they will only dig their hoofs in deeper.
Oh the pain i feel in this post.... with a taurus in this situation you need EXTREME patience and need to accept he simply has not made up his mind yet. Go on with your life, if it is meant to be...he will come for you. If he doesn't (which is still a possibility) you have at least been living your life. Don't sit around waiting for him .... you have said your piece and a taurus man doesn't find a doormat attractive. If you still hover after giving him that message he will simply think you didn't actually mean what you said.....whereas if you do go on with your life...he will see you a women with strength of character (and he may need to win your trust back). Your story could have been written by me....
Aquarius woman here...who is close to a Taurus man. For the record..i am older with a grown child and he is younger with small children (your story in reverse). Now I can't emphasise this enough.... @TaurusBull1977 is right and so on the money it is mind blowing. She is NOT the one.... walk away. Aquarius/Taurus relationships are tricky at the best of times ... for it to work you have to sync...you guys don't...not even remotely. Find someone else.... and stop putting up with your exes piscean bullbutter..... she needs a slapping too (for the sake of your kids)
Thanks everyone 😊. .. I have done the good wine/food gift idea to death so i was fishing for new ideas. The candles are a great idea... Taurus are all about the senses arent they? @greylatern he is taurus venus.
I am after some gift ideas for a 49 yr old male Bull (Virgo moon). If you look up a description of Taurus, there would be a photo of him, he is very very Taurus 😊. He really likes nature and animals (from comfortable surrounds...not actual camping 😂) and very very good wine/food etc. He gets all that in abundance so I would like a different idea for a gift.
Any ideas from actual Bulls on here would be very appreciated.... Thanks 😊
Posted by EvatheDivaAha! The process bit definitely confused me... thanks
Y'all are NOT reading between the lines; not even the OP. He VALUES the friendship like he VALUES eating a nutritious meal (to give him energy, sustain for the next meal, etc); EVEN the body "processes" the food differently; that's how he SEES this friendship. If he doesn't understand her; he accepts that and vice versa. If he asks for elaboration; then his question (puzzlement) was answered.
DUH!
And I'm NOT Taurean; but this is my 3rd strongest sign.cyber hugs!
Love,
Eva
PS: BTW as Piscean I pick up 11 of the "other" zodiac signs to empathize, sympathize, as I am NOT puzzled.
Posted by Astrology101Very very long story...(the VERY summarised version) he has had health issues and is still suffering the side effects (i.e a huge impact on his sex life) ... we live in different States and while we text daily this time i was giving him a little chin up support text and i suggested he should open up a bit more..trust others and the universe (hey I am a flaky aqua ?) try being a bit vulnerable and everything will come good...and i said i wished i could give him some big hugs ...
He's not making sense. Because he is being vague. Unless there is more before or after that sentence.. which might throw some light on it.
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