Been dating this person for half year. He has a lot of problems he's working out and his life just went downhill. He then told me that he likes me just a friend. He stared treating me like it was in beggining ... Sweet ... Caring ... Now we turned into friends with benefits. Except we hang out and cuddle and do all those things that friends with benefits don't do. He also seems more possessive now.
Anyone had experience with friends with benefits that turned into more ?
I know there are many against this type of thing and I was too, but something keeping me there
Yeah it's a constant battle with him. He is scared to grow dependent on me being there for him. Silly boy, if he realized what he had in front of him ... He would realize that I am not going anywhere unless he really makes me.
He even told me that he is scared to grow dependent on me. He also does not understand why I would not want anything in return. He keeps questioning.
Yeps. But I also found that me accepting his harsh truth without criticism does well for me. He comes around always super nice and sweet after his time to think and then if I still need to talk. He'll talk genuailly.
I found that scorpios tend to get harsh when dealing with emotional territory especially if caught off guard or approached in appropriate time. Anyone else ?
It doesn't help that he is more caring and possessive now that he told me that I am just a friend. Confusing much ?
Yes you do ? Sorry. I am a bit of a mess currently :/
Looks like we both have plenty of water in or signs
Are you in aqua/scorpio relationship ?
Yeah ... I am sucker for those who need support and love too ... He's going through a lot too currently so I feel like I can't even let go now even if I wanted to.
Part of me thinks that the problem was that we were pressured to know what we were and then he had other issues in his life and it became too much.
I think I wanna stick around for couple months. See how things progress and then figure out what to do.
How do I find out chart ?
How would I be able to tell if he's fiery one ? Water one ? His birthday is on nov 18th.
Omg! You just summed up my last half a year !! Those pictures.. Everything !! Is that from experience ???