AquaGirlBelara77 joined August 09, 2017
Aqua Girl
Sun: Aqua
Ascendant: Virgo
Moon: Saggitarius
Venus: Aries
Ascendant: Virgo
Moon: Saggitarius
Venus: Aries
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Hiya Zodiac friends :-)
Nobody has a clue or a thought..?
Im not desperate but quite unsure how to act etc.
Would really appreciate your help here
Many many thanks!!
AquaGirl
Nobody has a clue or a thought..?
Im not desperate but quite unsure how to act etc.
Would really appreciate your help here
Many many thanks!!
AquaGirl
Hi MissGemmi,
i had a few similar situations with my cancer guy..
he was steady online but didn,t write me or haven,t read my text.
the total opposite of the beginning..
i think (hopefully not only to make myself feel better...
) the crabs don,t know how to handle the situation.
cause they kind of feel deep but don,t know how to handle and test us..
that is only my thought!!
i haven,t had the balls to ask him why etc. even though i,m quite direct but friendly/gently then..
i am scared of being rejected... i don,t know why..
what you think about my consideration?
aqua girl
i had a few similar situations with my cancer guy..
he was steady online but didn,t write me or haven,t read my text.
the total opposite of the beginning..
i think (hopefully not only to make myself feel better...
) the crabs don,t know how to handle the situation. cause they kind of feel deep but don,t know how to handle and test us..
that is only my thought!!
i haven,t had the balls to ask him why etc. even though i,m quite direct but friendly/gently then..
i am scared of being rejected... i don,t know why..
what you think about my consideration?
aqua girl
Sun: Aqua
Ascendant: Virgo
Moon: Saggitarius
Venus: Aries
depends on: if it,s a good friend or family member it,s okay, sweet. but i cannot say much more than thank you.. i often blush.
as long as it,s honest. i don,t like being overwhelmed with compliments by anyone - i feel as so is kidding me..
same in the office with my boos.. i say thank you and try to explain what i could have done more or better.
if my love/crush is complementing me i often do not know how to reply..i get shy and blushed..
i am not good at giving compliments although i think a lot about all the things i,d like to say about him.
i am better in showing or express than speaking them out.
i like deep compliments more than kind of superficial.. as i give more deep compliments;
"i like the sound of your voice" "waking up next to you made my day" etc.
Ascendant: Virgo
Moon: Saggitarius
Venus: Aries
depends on: if it,s a good friend or family member it,s okay, sweet. but i cannot say much more than thank you.. i often blush.
as long as it,s honest. i don,t like being overwhelmed with compliments by anyone - i feel as so is kidding me..
same in the office with my boos.. i say thank you and try to explain what i could have done more or better.
if my love/crush is complementing me i often do not know how to reply..i get shy and blushed..
i am not good at giving compliments although i think a lot about all the things i,d like to say about him.
i am better in showing or express than speaking them out.
i like deep compliments more than kind of superficial.. as i give more deep compliments;
"i like the sound of your voice" "waking up next to you made my day" etc.
Posted by aquarius_manmy male best friend is cancer (very sensitive couldn,t end his relationship over 2 years even he was soooo unhappy but she has suffered too much) and i had a long crush on a cancer years ago - but i pulled off because he was in a relationship and wanted to break up his relationship. that was too much for me as i felt responsible for this step - he should have done this before and not use "us" as reason .
but hey leo lady never underestimate the sexual chemistry between cancer and aquarius
I am currently experience a wonderful but complicated thing with a cancer guy and the all over chemistry was perfect from the very beginning (i have just posted something about this in the cancer forum).
in your opinion: is this chemistry only on sexual basis?
and what makes you think or know that?
thanks
aqua girl
Posted by quirkycrabbygirlAre you guys emotional at all?
Okay this thread is for aquarius sun & moon, men & women. I want to know things about you in general. Yes or no answers along with a bit of explanation would be highly appreciated
Are you guys emotional at all?
Do you never get attached to anyone?
Do you like chasing more or like to be chased more?
Do you like attention on a regular basis?
Do you act distant with your close friends and relatives?
Definitely! But more with others than with "myself-topics". I get angry (could be in front of others) or could start crying (not in front of others but objective-emotional, not hysterical) because of unfairness, injustice in the world or when i see one of my family members is suffering due to sickness or being treated bad.
When I suffer a heartache e.g. I withdraw into even more work, being home watching tv series all weekend long or go out with male friends where i don,t have to talk about feelings.
I overthink the situation a lot and reflect myself a lot then.
Do you never get attached to anyone?
I do but I hardly show it to the other one.
When i am worried about my mum (she is sick) i barely show her that i am sad seeing her this way but i do as much as i can to make her feel comfy, good etc.
My heart gets attached to a special SO, i keep up contact, convos etc. but i avoid massively to show that my heart is beating for him e.g.- i am scared of being rejected and always be funny-cool.
Do you like chasing more or like to be chased more?
i don,t like to be chased at all when i am not in the mood to talk or text etc.
when i get called or receive a text by family, friends and i don,t reply within like 3 hours or a day and they chase for an answer, call again, text again i get so annoyed - i turn my phone silent. all of them know if there is an emergency i am available and jump into the car always but when i need time for myself, cause i am stressed out or overthinking things i want to be left alone (could be days, just write my family i am okay, nothing else or in case of emergency).
I reply to my SO special definitely when i am in love or have a crush on but i might tell him i am tired and not in the mood cause i don,t feel well this day. i wouldn,t ignore his text or call at all.
if someone has a crush on me but i don,t feel the same (like just being friends for me) i get annoyed when he is chasing me and doesn,t understand that i don,t want more than a friendship i disappear.
i also lost some female-friends cause i have often made the expierence that they do not understand that i need my alone-time (they said they understand but they didn,t at all) and chased me for calls, texts, catch-ups etc. when i definitely was not in the mood for a couple of days [i was realyl busy with a 14 hrs office day over a long time and dealing with a break up and need to refurel myself at the weekends instead of meeting, party etc..
i withdrew from them cause i felt so forced that made me feel unbelievable uncomfy that they did not respect my needs and they did not stop chasing me.
i don,t really chase my special one. i make effort to see him, i make effort to have steady contact, surprises, texting, cooking etc. even if i do not speak my feelings out loud.
in case he does not reply my feelings and doesn,t tell me i do effort but i don,t chase.
when i realise or he is telling me he is not into me, i kind of immediately stop making effort. mostly forever.
Do you like attention on a regular basis?
yes i do but not too much.
Do you act distant with your close friends and relatives?
see my answer regarding "being chased" - there is everything described in detail :-)
Sun: Aqua
Ascendant: Virgo
Moon: Saggitarius
Venus: Aries
Hope this helps
Posted by aquarius_manI partially agree (as an aqua girl) but i must say i know when i "want" someone (even when i am scared of my feelings), i make an effort even i don,t speak my feelings out loud.
play it cool
take it easy, don't go all over him
he s not waiting for you to make the first step, he likes it as it is for now
the moment you become mutually exclusive should be his decision
if i am not interested and just see this man as friend i don,t show up often, i barely respond, i make no effort, i don,t go on dates with him etc. i only see this man as friend then and make it quite clear when he doesn,t understand.
i don,t know if aqua men and women are so different in that
??? would be interesting haha Hello everyone!
I am really, really, really in need of your help understanding “my” cancer man (40yo, I am Aqua and 32) or just how to cope with the things.
I know everybody says Aquas are cold and distant – that is not true at all (at least for myself) I only get distant when I am scared SO could probably hurt my feelings..
I can better write or physically express my feelings, like tickling and holding hands and cuddling etc. than speak them out lout – I am always scared of that.
I think Cancers and Aquas could be a good combination.
Just a few information about “us”:
- long distance 5500 miles
- got to know each other 1 year ago and developed a kind of friendship over a long time but felt attraction from the very beginning (but did not tell each other for months) (we are workmates in
the same company)
- daily texting and voice messages (although 8 hrs time difference), often phone calls, photos, gifts via usps etc.
- met for a couple of days in June 2017
- both in difficult circumstances at home (about we talked a lot as we were only friends) and know what to do (not for us, but for him and myself, we don,t want to mix up this with our feelings)
- the steady connection broke up last year months later, initiated by him but we had contact from time to time and he always was asking if we really see each other this year. I have never asked
why he broke up the contact –
- he planned vacation and spent his 40th birthday with me
- he told me the reason why he pulled off, because of the long distance and last year we haven,t even met and he was so touched and confused and was scared of his feelings
So we met in June and everything was perfect. I was so scared to fall head over heels.. and it happened.. but I was cool of course I was tender also etc.
But I am always so scared of my feelings and rejection I was funny-cool also.
At our last evening he looked at me and looked away and I was like “mi amado, everything okay?” and he answered and was a bit stammering and said “last night as I woke up
And you were still there and you were not upset when I didn,t feel well and wanted to sleep early last night, I don,t know that – I was just happy waking up in the middle of the night,
turning around and seeing you.” I answered that he is so cute and of course I only want him to recover and feel good and that I was just happy laying next to him.
He often wrote me he misses me, sends me Mexican love songs to listen and to learn Spanish (I could speak it before we met a bit) and I have to promise we meet again – but the contact is getting lower
and lower now. He initiates contact from time to time but not as much as in the beginning. Also he is still sweet but more restrained subconsciously.
I initiate too but I am so scared of annoying him etc. I cannot initiate more. I would love to – but I am scared. I am also scared to ask what happened.
But I am still gentle when he shows up again – I have never made any reproaches; I give him time and
I sent him a package over for his birthday we celebrated together and he opened it and wrote me he is getting so emotional and that it means a lot to him “I love you so much my girl”.
One time he was out with friends and business partners he sent me a voice message saying he is out and where I am and how I feel etc. and looked at my photo and was like “you,re killing me”..
He often writes that these days were so perfect with us and he misses waking up next to me etc.
As he asked me to see me again I ask him not to back off again (in case it,s “just the distance” and not the missing feelings) he told me yes he won,t.
As we phoned one night he told me about his shitty day and that felt so good to hear my voice, talking to me etc.
I do and want to trust him! But is it comprehensible that I am beginning to doubt a bit as the contact is getting lower?
Should I speak clearly or ask him? I don,t want to put him under pressure as I want to respect the reason we both have a workaday life with many responsibility.
I,d be so thankful for your answers, advices etc.!! I really don,t know how to act and behave..
AquaGirl
I am really, really, really in need of your help understanding “my” cancer man (40yo, I am Aqua and 32) or just how to cope with the things.
I know everybody says Aquas are cold and distant – that is not true at all (at least for myself) I only get distant when I am scared SO could probably hurt my feelings..
I can better write or physically express my feelings, like tickling and holding hands and cuddling etc. than speak them out lout – I am always scared of that.
I think Cancers and Aquas could be a good combination.
Just a few information about “us”:
- long distance 5500 miles
- got to know each other 1 year ago and developed a kind of friendship over a long time but felt attraction from the very beginning (but did not tell each other for months) (we are workmates in
the same company)
- daily texting and voice messages (although 8 hrs time difference), often phone calls, photos, gifts via usps etc.
- met for a couple of days in June 2017
- both in difficult circumstances at home (about we talked a lot as we were only friends) and know what to do (not for us, but for him and myself, we don,t want to mix up this with our feelings)
- the steady connection broke up last year months later, initiated by him but we had contact from time to time and he always was asking if we really see each other this year. I have never asked
why he broke up the contact –
- he planned vacation and spent his 40th birthday with me
- he told me the reason why he pulled off, because of the long distance and last year we haven,t even met and he was so touched and confused and was scared of his feelings
So we met in June and everything was perfect. I was so scared to fall head over heels.. and it happened.. but I was cool of course I was tender also etc.
But I am always so scared of my feelings and rejection I was funny-cool also.
At our last evening he looked at me and looked away and I was like “mi amado, everything okay?” and he answered and was a bit stammering and said “last night as I woke up
And you were still there and you were not upset when I didn,t feel well and wanted to sleep early last night, I don,t know that – I was just happy waking up in the middle of the night,
turning around and seeing you.” I answered that he is so cute and of course I only want him to recover and feel good and that I was just happy laying next to him.
He often wrote me he misses me, sends me Mexican love songs to listen and to learn Spanish (I could speak it before we met a bit) and I have to promise we meet again – but the contact is getting lower
and lower now. He initiates contact from time to time but not as much as in the beginning. Also he is still sweet but more restrained subconsciously.
I initiate too but I am so scared of annoying him etc. I cannot initiate more. I would love to – but I am scared. I am also scared to ask what happened.
But I am still gentle when he shows up again – I have never made any reproaches; I give him time and
I sent him a package over for his birthday we celebrated together and he opened it and wrote me he is getting so emotional and that it means a lot to him “I love you so much my girl”.
One time he was out with friends and business partners he sent me a voice message saying he is out and where I am and how I feel etc. and looked at my photo and was like “you,re killing me”..
He often writes that these days were so perfect with us and he misses waking up next to me etc.
As he asked me to see me again I ask him not to back off again (in case it,s “just the distance” and not the missing feelings) he told me yes he won,t.
As we phoned one night he told me about his shitty day and that felt so good to hear my voice, talking to me etc.
I do and want to trust him! But is it comprehensible that I am beginning to doubt a bit as the contact is getting lower?
Should I speak clearly or ask him? I don,t want to put him under pressure as I want to respect the reason we both have a workaday life with many responsibility.
I,d be so thankful for your answers, advices etc.!! I really don,t know how to act and behave..
AquaGirl
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Hello everyone!
I am really, really, really in need of your help understanding “my” cancer man (40yo, I am Aqua and 32) or just how to cope with the things.
I know everybody says Aquas are cold and distant – that is not true at all (at least for mysel
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