AquaLuv joined November 26, 2012
female from Houston, Tx, USA
Sun Aqua+Asc Virgo+Moon Scorp+Cap Venus
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I find the one I am with craves affection more than sex. I.am thinking about withholding hugs because he can go without sex but gets really pissy if I don't want to be near him.or hug himStrange....but I like affection too much too to be depriving myself but I do not know what else to do with this lazy bull and his scaling back on sex.
Posted by princesscharmingxPosted by AquaLuv
Similar chart to my guy except mine has a Leo rising. Ksaquayve could have described mine perfectly.
Perfect guy in the beginning. He was very persistent in the beginning. Seemed to do everything right. He had a lot of patience and understanding and loved to please. He had a calming effect on me and always said the right things. He seemed too good to be true and yes things died down very quickly. Then came the lying, the mind games, empty promises, and hot and cold behaviour. Now he is a mixture of what he was in the beginning and the person he has now become. What keeps me hanging on is when we are good it is a relationship to be envied but it does not last long. After a week or two he shuts down and becomes moody, withdrawn, critical, argumentative.....I cannot figure it out whatsoever. He develops these bad habits that are hard to break out of and he is soo selfish. I agree can be passive at times. He has stopped initiating sex most times when he is always horny. He cant keep his hands off of himself. He has conversations with me but they are played out in his head. He has convinced himself that I dont want sex or whatever random excuse he makes up with himself not to come to me. He holds all the cards and does not care one bit if something he does hurts me. His answer is always that he has a problem or lying telling me he is going to start doing etc. but never does smh... but it goes in circles after awhile we are back good again. I have been tired of this merry go round that is taurus but I get hopping back on the ride! But there are soo many good things about him I could name too. He is like my best friend but he frustrates me with the back and forthness. Just when I think we on track BAM he changes up.
i think that's how mines will act ...click to expand
Put on your seatbelt girlie because it is going to be a long ride before you see the rainbow again.
Posted by ksaquayvePosted by AquaLuv
Similar chart to my guy except mine has a Leo rising. Ksaquayve could have described mine perfectly.
Perfect guy in the beginning. He was very persistent in the beginning. Seemed to do everything right. He had a lot of patience and understanding and loved to please. He had a calming effect on me and always said the right things. He seemed too good to be true and yes things died down very quickly. Then came the lying, the mind games, empty promises, and hot and cold behaviour. Now he is a mixture of what he was in the beginning and the person he has now become. What keeps me hanging on is when we are good it is a relationship to be envied but it does not last long. After a week or two he shuts down and becomes moody, withdrawn, critical, argumentative.....I cannot figure it out whatsoever. He develops these bad habits that are hard to break out of and he is soo selfish. I agree can be passive at times. He has stopped initiating sex most times when he is always horny. He cant keep his hands off of himself. He has conversations with me but they are played out in his head. He has convinced himself that I dont want sex or whatever random excuse he makes up with himself not to come to me. He holds all the cards and does not care one bit if something he does hurts me. His answer is always that he has a problem or lying telling me he is going to start doing etc. but never does smh... but it goes in circles after awhile we are back good again. I have been tired of this merry go round that is taurus but I get hopping back on the ride! But there are soo many good things about him I could name too. He is like my best friend but he frustrates me with the back and forthness. Just when I think we on track BAM he changes up.
How long have you been with your taurus?click to expand
Over 6 years.
Similar chart to my guy except mine has a Leo rising. Ksaquayve could have described mine perfectly.
Perfect guy in the beginning. He was very persistent in the beginning. Seemed to do everything right. He had a lot of patience and understanding and loved to please. He had a calming effect on me and always said the right things. He seemed too good to be true and yes things died down very quickly. Then came the lying, the mind games, empty promises, and hot and cold behaviour. Now he is a mixture of what he was in the beginning and the person he has now become. What keeps me hanging on is when we are good it is a relationship to be envied but it does not last long. After a week or two he shuts down and becomes moody, withdrawn, critical, argumentative.....I cannot figure it out whatsoever. He develops these bad habits that are hard to break out of and he is soo selfish. I agree can be passive at times. He has stopped initiating sex most times when he is always horny. He cant keep his hands off of himself. He has conversations with me but they are played out in his head. He has convinced himself that I dont want sex or whatever random excuse he makes up with himself not to come to me. He holds all the cards and does not care one bit if something he does hurts me. His answer is always that he has a problem or lying telling me he is going to start doing etc. but never does smh... but it goes in circles after awhile we are back good again. I have been tired of this merry go round that is taurus but I get hopping back on the ride! But there are soo many good things about him I could name too. He is like my best friend but he frustrates me with the back and forthness. Just when I think we on track BAM he changes up.
Perfect guy in the beginning. He was very persistent in the beginning. Seemed to do everything right. He had a lot of patience and understanding and loved to please. He had a calming effect on me and always said the right things. He seemed too good to be true and yes things died down very quickly. Then came the lying, the mind games, empty promises, and hot and cold behaviour. Now he is a mixture of what he was in the beginning and the person he has now become. What keeps me hanging on is when we are good it is a relationship to be envied but it does not last long. After a week or two he shuts down and becomes moody, withdrawn, critical, argumentative.....I cannot figure it out whatsoever. He develops these bad habits that are hard to break out of and he is soo selfish. I agree can be passive at times. He has stopped initiating sex most times when he is always horny. He cant keep his hands off of himself. He has conversations with me but they are played out in his head. He has convinced himself that I dont want sex or whatever random excuse he makes up with himself not to come to me. He holds all the cards and does not care one bit if something he does hurts me. His answer is always that he has a problem or lying telling me he is going to start doing etc. but never does smh... but it goes in circles after awhile we are back good again. I have been tired of this merry go round that is taurus but I get hopping back on the ride! But there are soo many good things about him I could name too. He is like my best friend but he frustrates me with the back and forthness. Just when I think we on track BAM he changes up.
My bull, and I have read many others, are pretty shady in the beginning. I don't know why that is though. I don't want to give you false hope and tell you it gets better but for me we are here 6 years later and now in a much better place. I had to keep laying down the law until he got it and it takes awhile for them to get that you really not for their games. I read up on bulls and it seems once you get past the hump it is beautiful but right now I know it doesn't seem like he is worth all of the aggravation and lies so I would tell you to leave because it is a lot of game playing and mind tricks before you get to the promise land I tell you. Is he worth all of that to you and do you want to continue going through it. I would say keep your options open because I kinda wish I did while I was going through the merry go round of bull.
As an aquarian I tend to open up to some more freely than with others. I don't wait for a specific time to open up. I llike to express myself but I like people to express interest in what I have to say. I don't feel comfortable in speaking about myself unless you inquire and depending on my comfort level with you I can sing like a bird or give one word answers. In relationships I tend to open up too much with the first random thought or impulse my boyfriend will know about it. He is not that emotional and he rarely ask about me but he still gets an earful of all my randomnes. We have to trust you and it depends on the tone you set whether we feel free enough to be ourselves.
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