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^^^^ yes, he is very busy guy, and he is amazing, I feel lucky to get what time I do.
I just dont know how I should take it, I mean, will he want to move forward in his life? IDK, well, I guess I will just have to wait and see.
I just dont know how I should take it, I mean, will he want to move forward in his life? IDK, well, I guess I will just have to wait and see.
I had dated a virguy that had an ex that was after him. I asked, would you ever get back together with her, his reply was "No, I can't even see that happening 20 years down the road, shes crazy" a week later, they were back together..lol, well, i laugh now, but i was devastated at the time, cause he really is an amazing person.
Posted by AesmaDaeva
"He is great, but everytime we have a date or hang out, its like he goes mia after, I dont get it."
MIA for a day or longer?
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about a week, but, then again, he works long hours during the week, 60-70 hours heavy equipment operator, so it could just be that he is tired during the week, I usually hear from him on weekends. He has 4 young children as well, I suppose I could just be being selfish about him not keeping in contact.
When I was younger, I had a libra bf. I moved and only seen him a couple times after that. We both got married and had families, etc. Two years ago his wife died. (RIP) LAst year I left my husband. My libra friend found me on facebook. We became friends again and he would call me when he was having a hard time, someone to talk to, and be supportive. We talk about our past and our history. He really is like a best friend. Recently, we started to become romantically envoled agaon. Going on dates, holding hands, kissing, that kind of stuff, not sex. I am beginning to develope stronger feelings for him again. He is great, but everytime we have a date or hang out, its like he goes mia after, I dont get it. This weekend will be 2nd year of his wifes death. I just don't know if i should put a stop to the dating part. He is a libra and I am an aries. How do I do this, and what do i do?
I have a male friend, and when I say friend, I mean just friend, like best friend. He lives across sea. I want to get him something that he will absolutely love, but, I am lost as what to get him. He is 29, Cap. He is really a great guy and I want to show him how much I appreciate his friendship. Any ideas that would be awesome to recieve from a friend.
I don't want to be wiser..lol.. i wish i had all that hope and belief in love I use to, something in me is changing. I am glad that I am wiser. I just wish i had the strength to put myself out there like I use to. The glorious days of love and falling in love and heartbreak.. i felt and in feeling, whether hurt or happiness, you feel a live. just my lil tought. sooo wise..lol
Posted by DatariesgirlPosted by LetltBPosted by araeis2014
we broke up 4 months ago. tragic, really.. anyway, we broke up cuz he so scared of being hurt and had lot sof feelings and he couldnt let his guard down. thats what he told me and i believe him, he never lied to me and I have no reason to not believe him. I told him, thats whatever, we can pretned nmot to care about each othr, or want each other, but I said,whats going to happen when we see each other and those feelings are still there. Any way. I have seen him 3 times since and he can't even look at me, I mean completely goes out of his way to avoid any eye contact. we havent spoken or even been that close to each other. it bothers me that he can't look me in the eye. but why, virgos on dxpnet, would he not look at me?
He broke up with you, and is confirming it by the "out of sight out of mind" action. Move on and find someone else who is man enough to handle a relationship. Why bother?
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FOR SURE I AM MOVING ON, I CAN NEVER EVER GO BACK DOWN THAT ROAD, I KNOW I HAVE TO BE STRONG AND NOT LET IT HAPPEN AGAIN. TWO TIMES OF THIS BULLSHIT IS ENOUGH, BUT IT REALLY HURT, FOR A LONG ASS TIME.
I M GETTING ON WITH MY LIFE, AND YES IT WAS HIM THAT BROKE UP WITH ME. i AM JUST WONDERING, WHAT WOULD BE HIS REASONING FOR NO EYE CONTACT. THAT IS WHY I POSTED IT ON A VIRGO FORUM, TO GET A VIRGOS OPINION. i AM JUST AFFRAID, THAT AT SOME POINT WE WILL BE AT SAME PLACE, SAME TIME. I DON'T KNOW HOW TO REACT, IF I HAVE NO IDEA WHY HES ACTING HOW HE DOES. IT DOES FEEL GOOD TO BE MOVING ON, TG! I JUST DONT WANT TO REVERT BACK TO A PUDDLE OF MUSH AROUND HIM.
we broke up 4 months ago. tragic, really.. anyway, we broke up cuz he so scared of being hurt and had lot sof feelings and he couldnt let his guard down. thats what he told me and i believe him, he never lied to me and I have no reason to not believe him. I told him, thats whatever, we can pretned nmot to care about each othr, or want each other, but I said,whats going to happen when we see each other and those feelings are still there. Any way. I have seen him 3 times since and he can't even look at me, I mean completely goes out of his way to avoid any eye contact. we havent spoken or even been that close to each other. it bothers me that he can't look me in the eye. but why, virgos on dxpnet, would he not look at me?
I feel the same way.. I mean, I know it will happen, and i would like to think that i be strong and allof, but deep down, i am afraid, if i look him in the eye, i will fall apart. geez, these damn virgo/aries things are horrible. i think we are such opposites, and once we let are guards down, wew see how much we really need someone who cares like that. I guess =, that i sthe only thing I can think of, I really loved being cared for the way he did. I never knew I needed it until him, and he gave me such support and care and concern that I never knew before.. Time heals all wounds?? I live a block away from him, so its hard. i need to move!
i am in love with a virgo. we broke up 4 months ago. Its too much to explain right now, but when we were breaking up, i told him, that we can go on all we want, but we will see each other, and those feelings will still be there, we can't pretend the feelings away. well, we live in a very small town. I have seen him 3 times. once at his moms house where he totally avoided any eye contact, looking at floor as he walked by. 2nd time i was walking out of store, he was in parking lot and he put head down and his arm ocross steering wheel, as to advoid me and last time, he was driving past my house and i happen to be out side, he was facing me through his window, but again, cranked his head so far to avoid seeing me. IDK why he can't look at me. I know that there will come a time that we will be face to face, I am soo scared, i am affraid i will break if i have to look at him in the eyes. it is so painful still. i really try hard to move on, i just don't know what to do, how to do it or even what i want to do when i do run in to him. i don't understand why it is that he cant even look at me. any ideas??
i give such good advise. my friends come from near and far to hear my wisdom..lol... jk.. but really, i am always the voice of reason, why the boyfriend is a dog and should be left. blah blah, then occasionally, i tell my friends, go for it, be in love and love and dont let anything get in your way. i generally do or say that becasue that is usually waht i do... even with the assholes that should be left!! so, logiacally, i dont heed my own advise, i am not casusious. i get my heart hurt and broke in to a million pieces. but, why is it that i am such a know it all, and i try so hard to help my friends from being shit on, but cant for myself. Well i am getting older and have a lot harder time putting my self out there. wiser, yes, stronger, no..
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I seen this on fb. If you were to be drunk and walked into a room with all your past loves, which one would you go to?
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When I was younger, I had a libra bf. I moved and only seen him a couple times after that. We both got married and had f
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Capricorn
I have a male friend, and when I say friend, I mean just friend, like best friend. He lives across sea. I want to get
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Aries
i am in love with a virgo. we broke up 4 months ago. Its too much to explain right now, but when we were breaking up, i
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